A Confusing "Relationship", anyone that can help plz do |
 Oct 14 2004, 10:16 AM
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Okay so I've known this guy for almost four months. Basically what we've been doing is having a relationship, but it's labeled as just being friends.
 Anyway we've had sex regularly and I've said I love you, and he's said it too but he says he means it only as a friend. After having a great time hanging out or whatever, he'll nit pick and FIND something to argue about. Recently it was because I got mad at him for something in a car ride on the way back to my house and wouldn't tell him what was wrong. He got mad at me 'cause I "always do that". We haven't really talked to each other since Sunday (10/10). Yesterday however, he told me that he feels fine if he doesn't talk to me, and when he does it upsets him and drives him crazy. So I told him to not talk to me then if it makes him feel better and he got mad and said I must not care...This is the millionth time he's said we shouldn't talk...but a week later we're talking and two weeks later hanging out. I don't get it....What should I do??? 
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Oct 14 2004, 10:50 AM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
don't worry, all couples fight. Just make him realize what he's doing.
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Oct 14 2004, 11:19 AM
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 Maggot Rocker Group: Member Posts: 396 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,016 |
Its nothing you need to worry about....it seems like it will just work it self out sooner or later.
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Oct 14 2004, 04:13 PM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
leave him if u dont want to deal with him anymore cause its just hurting u
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Oct 14 2004, 04:16 PM
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 Saap!? Group: Member Posts: 568 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,151 |
i think you guys shouldn`t see each other anymore...how can you have a strong relationship when both of you fight¬ talk to each other?
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Oct 14 2004, 04:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Well I'd say that if he keeps doing that, you need to dump him! Ok it may sound a little harsh, but let him know that he can't expect you to forgive his little fits everytime, and he may cherish you more!
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Oct 14 2004, 06:54 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,858 |
heh dont worry just tell him whats he doing and yea
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Oct 14 2004, 07:51 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
To me, it sounds like he thinks of you as a friend with benefits.
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Oct 14 2004, 08:02 PM
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QUOTE(th5418 @ Oct 14 2004, 7:51 PM) To me, it sounds like he thinks of you as a friend with benefits. uhm thats kinda true..i agree with him |
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Oct 14 2004, 08:08 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Oct 14 2004, 7:51 PM) To me, it sounds like he thinks of you as a friend with benefits. yup, why is it labeled as friends if its really a relationship lol nothin to hide rite? |
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