is it worth dating not-so-close friends? |
 Oct 11 2004, 05:22 AM
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I've been dating this guy for the past few weeks. We've known each other for 3 years but we're not really close.
We've dated a couple of times and he bores me. Yeah, I know, I say that about a lot of guys. But like throughout dinner, he hardly says anything at all! I mean, I thought when I dated him, I'd get to know him better. But it's like when I date him, he becomes a freakin stranger. To me, it's so not worth it. Not only do you get really bored at dinner, you also lose a potential friend. Now we really are like strangers. |
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Oct 11 2004, 10:18 AM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
when i read this i thought," what the hell r u dating him anyway if u dont lyk him..." if he is not really close then dont waste ur time dating him...
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Oct 11 2004, 11:25 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
sometimes its up to u to break the ice, after that things seem to go smoothly, i bet hes just shy and stuff. But yea dating a friend isnt a good idea sometimes because it mite ruin the relationship, And sometimes its a good idea because u know u can bond very well with them (different in ur case lol).
did u dump him? cuz i think u should , cuz if ur not interested in him anymore and he bores u theres no point in continueing seeing him |
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Oct 11 2004, 12:35 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
eh, i don't think its really worth it. that's kinda like my last relationship, but i was the untalkative one, so yeah, it didn't work out. and now, we are kinda like strangers.
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Oct 11 2004, 01:00 PM
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well it depends on the situation, but from yours it seems things aren't really working out. i'd break it off because you don't seem to like him anymore. and you said it yourself, its so not worth it.
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Oct 11 2004, 05:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
If you don't like him anymore because of his quietness, then break up with him. It's time to end it because if you wait too late, he'll end up hurt then and yeah..
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Oct 11 2004, 05:50 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Hm.
It sort of doesn't sound like it's worth it.. but Vinh has a good point, maybe you should "break the ice".. Hmmmmm. I'm not sure, though. =/ |
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Oct 11 2004, 06:39 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
hah. i can relate.
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Oct 11 2004, 06:50 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
maybe he's shy? but yehh i had and ex like that... he was shy thats all.
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Oct 11 2004, 06:53 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
just like linh said.. just try to break into him.. maybe theres something worthwhile once u break through
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Oct 11 2004, 08:23 PM
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since your relationship is going nowhere, it deserves an end.
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