Do you AGREE with how you're labelled? |
 Oct 10 2004, 10:47 AM
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 Wow it's been a long time!!  Group: Member Posts: 1,672 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,954  |
Does anyone here agree with what they are labelled as at school? For example, I'm labelled as like, super ditsy and like a little kid (cause whenever I eat cupcakes I get it all over my mouth hehe and I like candy too) and people just assume I'm always happy cause I'm always upbeat and talkative. But people who are like losers at my school think I'm a huge bitch and that I talk too much. But see, I don't agree with EITHER of those labels-- a ditz and a bitch. I just feel like I'm...me.
Does anyone just NOT agree with their label? Or is anyone actually happy with their label? Because honestly I'm not a bitch (even though most of you seem to think I am) and I'm definetly not ditsy (which none of you would ever guess that my friends think I am haha). Do you ever feel like no one knows the real you? Because I feel like no one, except my boyfriend, knows the real me. |
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Oct 10 2004, 10:52 AM
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 You got spunk, kid. Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,585 |
I just sometimes feel like that. At school, I get labeled a bitch (I have a reputation for spreading rumor and bothering others, which isn't true). It's like no one knows me and they label me. It's also like why can't people just try to get to know me instead of labeling me and not even knowing who I am.
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Oct 10 2004, 11:07 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
Hrm..I'm labled as many things...To my some of my friends im labled as a class clown. to other friends im labled as a serious guy. And some friends lable me as a guide..come for me for help and advice in w/e. Most people consider me a great friend. Some girls lable me as a Sweet and carring guy. Some think im a jackass. Some think im a SLUT [yes,me a slut lol.] To alot of people im labled as an Idiot. And the list goes on....
But do i agree with my lables? Sure. I can be sweat funny serious helpful sweet super flirty[slut] jack ass...etc... if im in the certain mood. Its like..If your treatin me rite ima treat u rite, if ur a bitch ima return the love ;] .But then yea im labled alot of things so people just consider me "Vinh". haha just to make it simple. |
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Oct 10 2004, 11:09 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
im labeled as the quiet and innocent type. im quiet around people who i dont know really well... when im with my friends i can be loud and talkative like everyone else but they always look on the outside of things. as for being innocent.... sure im a goody goody but i do get in trouble and do things im not suppose to. if i didnt do my homework everyone would gasp and make such a big deal out of it... i dont see the point really.
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Oct 10 2004, 11:10 AM
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Wow it's been a long time!! Group: Member Posts: 1,672 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,954 |
why is there a band aid on elba's nose in the picture in your signature? but anyways, yeah i can see where you're coming from
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Oct 10 2004, 11:11 AM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
I dont really care what Im labelled. Im usually labelled as the hyper smart kid. I dont care about the hyper part x] cause I do act really crazy and stupid as if I were a little kid during lunch and before and after school and stuff. The smartness.. well thats true, so Im not gonna get mad at that. I guess what they labell is true, so I dont really have a problem with it .
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Oct 10 2004, 11:12 AM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
QUOTE(TBoltzbabe @ Oct 10 2004, 8:10 AM) why is there a band aid on elba's nose in the picture in your signature? but anyways, yeah i can see where you're coming from haha elba made the pic ~_~ i think its to hide her nose tape <33 |
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Oct 10 2004, 11:12 AM
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Wow it's been a long time!! Group: Member Posts: 1,672 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,954 |
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Oct 10 2004, 11:09 AM) im labeled as the quiet and innocent type. im quiet around people who i dont know really well... when im with my friends i can be loud and talkative like everyone else but they always look on the outside of things. as for being innocent.... sure im a goody goody but i do get in trouble and do things im not suppose to. if i didnt do my homework everyone would gasp and make such a big deal out of it... i dont see the point really. haha that's so cool, i never do my homework though so no one's surprised. i get A's on my tests though so I do just dandy in school. But I didn't do like, any math homework, and I just found out last week it's worth 10% of my grade (not 2% like my friends had told me) so now I have to jump on it cause I usually get like B's on my math tests. |
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Oct 10 2004, 11:14 AM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
in real life, a lot of people think i'm loud, anonnying, and ditzy. i guess i could agree with the ditzy because i'm totally the type of person who would drop ice cream on my white pants, or on your white pants.
some people see me as a totally happy and go lucky person. i talk a lot and i laugh and some people think i'm always like that. but not, i'm one big regretful emotional mess. not to mention i'm terribly narcissist. i don't want other people to know when i'm upset because most people don't see as the type of person not get upset over a lot of things. so i just dont show it. i hate the feeling how something is always expected from you. i guess i try to be a nice person, and a lot of think that. i have the hardest time saying no to people or telling them how i really feel. i wish people didnt think i'm nice so didnt walk over me. i guess the only people who know that i'm not like that are my friends who read my xanga. i'm rambling. *shuts up* |
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Oct 10 2004, 11:22 AM
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lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
=/ We'd fail, if we never did our homework. whoaaa.
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Oct 10 2004, 11:22 AM
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 freedom Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,358 |
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Oct 10 2004, 12:09 PM) im labeled as the quiet and innocent type. im quiet around people who i dont know really well... when im with my friends i can be loud and talkative like everyone else but they always look on the outside of things. as for being innocent.... sure im a goody goody but i do get in trouble and do things im not suppose to. if i didnt do my homework everyone would gasp and make such a big deal out of it... i dont see the point really. Thats exactly how people label me. Innocent and quiet, a good girl. They think I never do anything bad. It bothers me though because thats not really me. I am talkative and outgoing just not with everyone. 
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Oct 10 2004, 11:24 AM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Oct 10 2004, 8:09 AM) im labeled as the quiet and innocent type. im quiet around people who i dont know really well... when im with my friends i can be loud and talkative like everyone else but they always look on the outside of things. as for being innocent.... sure im a goody goody but i do get in trouble and do things im not suppose to. if i didnt do my homework everyone would gasp and make such a big deal out of it... i dont see the point really. haha thats funny ~_~ I dont really choose not to do my homework..just most the time i dont feel like doing it . So when the teacher comes by and collect it and i dont have it...its not a big shock..just "typical vinh" heh. Some people who i argue with alot[who are my friends] ,if i got them "pwned" in trading insults or some shit like that,they just call me a dumbass just for the fact i dont thriive to be the best in school.... sometimes i think friends are just put on earth so u can punch them. |
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Oct 10 2004, 11:30 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
I don't really have any labels, except my "enemy" thinks I'm a total bitch. *shrugs* But that's just her because she doesn't like me. I'm just normal...
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Oct 10 2004, 11:49 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
well, to the popular kids, i'm known as the quiet, little, smart, korean bookworm.
to my friends, i'm known as the quiet, ignorant, talkative, negative, antisocial, korean bitch. but the truth is, i don't know who i really am... what i hated last year, though, was when i spilt my bottle of water on the floor in the cafeteria and yelled out "shit!", all the kids' eyes were wide and they were like "ahh! emily swore! oh my god!"  am i that goody goody?
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Oct 10 2004, 11:50 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,412 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,012 |
im labeled as the "asain", i guess, in my group. :D
and the smart one. -_- |
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Oct 10 2004, 12:13 PM
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 old school member Group: Member Posts: 1,796 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 843 |
labeled: phsyco bitch
[x] agree [ ] disagree |
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Oct 10 2004, 12:28 PM
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 ‹(. .)› Group: Official Member Posts: 2,367 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,089 |
when someone labels me, i'll let you know. until then i am oblivious to what i am "labelled"
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Oct 10 2004, 12:50 PM
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 have u lost ur mind? Group: Member Posts: 512 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,217 |
im labelled as a: "trouble maker", "thief (cuz im azn)", "black", "syco" etc...
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Oct 10 2004, 12:53 PM
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lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
Uck, why would you people agree with what youre labelled. Its what other people think.. so most likely its not what you think of yourself. I dont understand myself x]
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Oct 10 2004, 12:55 PM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
i wish i was smart.
but i'm not.  but yea im the sort of crazy/hyper/mean/random/asian im my "group" even though my other friend is the same exact things. haha. |
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Oct 10 2004, 01:18 PM
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QUOTE Do you ever feel like no one knows the real you? Because I feel like no one, except my boyfriend, knows the real me. exactly how i feel. i'm labelled as plenty, the hyper/happy one, obsessed with love, smartass, tons of things. some of them i can be SOMETIMES but thats not all of me. i hate labels.
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Oct 10 2004, 01:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 937 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,476 |
No....I don't agree with it, but hey, that's just thier opinon so whatever...
I'm ususually labeled as goth/poser/punish type thing....but I HATE labels! Rawr. lol |
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Oct 10 2004, 02:07 PM
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i dont know what im labelled as, so i make up a label for myself i think they see me as. and as i have no self confidence, id have to agree
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Oct 10 2004, 02:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 341 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,338 |
ya i dont agree with mine either.....but its their fault for not getting to know me and just assuming who i am....so it doesnt bother me all that much....they can think what they want
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Oct 10 2004, 02:10 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I agree with mine.
I'm labelled just a nerdy dork with punk/rock edge.. yes, that's what people have told me, and I agree with it. I'm fine with it. I love being labelled that. |
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