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 Oct 9 2004, 11:03 AM
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ah.. when someone says "i just like you as a friend" when YOU like THEM, does that mean you lost like.. all your chances? cause they think of you as 'just a friend'?
 edit: god, no one reads my posts that i post AFTER. this is what i said, a few posts down QUOTE oh, blah, i totally screwed up my question. tha girl that i liked said "you're a really good friend and i dont wanna ruin that relationship between us"
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Oct 9 2004, 11:25 AM
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Yes, pretty much. But their is still the future, where they might like you. :D
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Oct 9 2004, 01:18 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(somechinkgirl @ Oct 9 2004, 12:25 PM) Yes, pretty much. But their is still the future, where they might like you. :D yeah, i agree. but maybe, they might like you in that way in the future. |
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Oct 9 2004, 01:43 PM
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i agree......just be their friend and maybe they'll look at ya'lls relationship differently later
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Oct 9 2004, 01:50 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
you lost your chance with them now, but you never know what might happen in the future... fate might step in.
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Oct 9 2004, 02:13 PM
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*just a friend* means *rEEjeCTed!!!*
but yAH. i agree with all of the abOvez later on maybe they'll like you which is gOOd.. but maybe you'll be already liking someone else already and then they'll be having a hard time.. maybe. haha.. it happens |
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Oct 9 2004, 02:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,172 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,045 |
oh, blah, i totally screwed up my question. tha girl that i liked said "you're a really good friend and i dont wanna ruin that relationship between us"
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Oct 10 2004, 02:38 AM
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Well, maybe. I wouldn't wanna ruin a good friendship. It happens though.
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Oct 10 2004, 02:42 AM
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 ;D* Group: Member Posts: 244 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,940 |
that`s the kinda like the whole, "you`re like a sister/brother to me" type of thing... yeah, it is rejection, but it`s just like being rejected by someone else you like that doesn`t like you.... there`s always a possibility though, so you can`t say it`s a complete loss.
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Oct 10 2004, 02:44 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
They just want to have a good friendship with you and not mess that up with a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.. because when it ends, things will most likely be awkward..
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Oct 10 2004, 02:47 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
to a person with low confidence that means aint gonna happen... to a confident person that just means u gotta find a way to impress me and make me feel the same way..... so no its not like ur never gonna get a chance again.
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Oct 10 2004, 05:34 AM
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 91 Auktane.. Group: Member Posts: 257 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,625 |
just keep on tryin..
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Oct 10 2004, 09:01 PM
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omg i feel stupid...cuz i told this guy i only like him as a friend...n so it was all weird for al while... but then he jus said he didn't like me n e more...n now we're best friends... but i think i like him now
 ...soo weird.....
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Oct 10 2004, 09:13 PM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
QUOTE(LittleLulu @ Oct 10 2004, 6:01 PM) omg i feel stupid...cuz i told this guy i only like him as a friend...n so it was all weird for al while... but then he jus said he didn't like me n e more...n now we're best friends... but i think i like him now ...soo weird.....i bet u anything he still likes u, u 2 should hook up ;] |
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Oct 10 2004, 09:28 PM
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yea he does still like you thats why he stuck around
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Oct 10 2004, 10:16 PM
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It means you should move on.
It happened to me, but hey, I'm happy enough with the friendship that I'm not going to push it further. |
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Oct 10 2004, 10:25 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
id rather become friends than get rejected =P even though getting rejected is a important part of life
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Oct 16 2004, 06:36 PM
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i remember i asked this girl she said i dunno but thats a no riight? i guess it is well anyway me n here are bestfriends and its killing me that she doesn't wanna go out wid me
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Oct 16 2004, 08:41 PM
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QUOTE(aznplayaz @ Oct 16 2004, 4:36 PM) i remember i asked this girl she said i dunno but thats a no riight? i guess it is well anyway me n here are bestfriends and its killing me that she doesn't wanna go out wid me she probably dont wanna ruin that relationship with you, too... hmm .. =/ |
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Oct 16 2004, 10:13 PM
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probably she thinks you and her are better off as friends for now? maybe things will change later on
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| *wind&fire* |
Oct 17 2004, 02:31 AM
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it means she know you like her and shes trying to neutralise it by veto-ing you by saying "i only like you as a friend" cos then anyone could be a friend ...why would she point it out unless she knows you like her
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Oct 17 2004, 02:51 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
hmm u mite still have a chance in the future.
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Oct 17 2004, 08:45 AM
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yup...u've lost all ur chances!!
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Oct 17 2004, 10:35 AM
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 *lurks around* Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,932 |
Well I think friendship is stronger than a relationship..and if they're willing to still be friends with you even though you stated that you liked them more than just a friend..that means therez hope for the future that she might like you or something..
:shrugs: You never know what'll happen tomorrow. |
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Oct 17 2004, 11:17 AM
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its impossible to lose a chance no matter what they say. you just have to hold your head high and just wait for them to come around. after all, there is still a speck of hope left no matter how hopeless a situation seems...
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