Interracial Dating Options

[inquisitive_]

I think there was a topic about this but I just want to add more to it.

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
What race do you prefer?
Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?

Me, I've never dated anyone who was Portuguese or Caucasian. I've dated only Black and Hispanic guys. I find nothing wrong with it.
I have this friend who is Indian and he says he will never date anyone who wasn't Indian. And his parents don't allow it either.

[rainnydaiis]

so far ive only dated one person other than korean... she was flip... and the rest might have been just like half half but yeah she was the only pure flip i dated.. i have no problem with it =P its my choice and if someone has a say against it *EFF THEM*

[*RiC3xBoy*]

i would gladly date out of my race, but i have yet to find someone to like me

[LiNHy POO]

i dont see anything wrong with it. i've dated some asian guys but not much. usually i go for white guys.

[*stephinika*]

i see nothing wrong with it at all. only one of my boyfriends was partially my race. (i'm mixed like hell.) and so yeah. my boyfriend right now is caucasion (italian/irish) and i'm mixed like i said (flip, hawaiian, spanish, chinese). a little different eh?

[jnukes]

sometimes i just find it weird, like a white guy going out with an azn.. or a black guy going out with a white chick.. i'm not sayin this offensively i just find it weird sometimes..

[Oreo_bro]

people need to get off this race thing.

we are all one race. we are humans, the human race, we are just different variations. there is no black race, or white race, or asian race, no we are all the same race with variations. the black culture, the white culture, the asian culture..so yeah..get rid of the race stuff

and yes i would date anyone of any culture if i liked them enough.

[xquizit]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race? Why not? I think it can be a really rewarding experience because it forces you to step outside what you're used to: your usual customs, traditions, etc. You gain a deeper insight into things by learning and experiencing someone elses culture and lifestyle.
Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race? Arrrg... I hate this one. People harass me all the time about how I date black men saying I was a disgrace or that I was [insert race here]-washed or trying too hard be someone I'm not. Some people would even go as far to say that I was ashamed of my race. Just read my guestbook at my website. It's horrible.
Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background? Of course, already have and will continue to do so. Love has no boundaries...

[i ami_am]

yeah i do...who cares its up to you

[christiee_nax]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race? Why not?
Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?

yes. dont be racist. .. i dont see whats wrong with going out with another person from another race

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
im filo. ive only gone out with one filo in my whole life. personally, i dont really like filos. lol. not that there's anything wrong with them. most filo guys are just not my type. right now im going out with a guy who has an american dad, korean mom and was born in korea. but he took on the caucasian side more.

[LittleLulu]

ok i WUD date sm1 out of my race...im chinese n i've onli ever liked azn guys but its not that i dislike white guys...theres jus more of an attraction for me towards azns....although there was this guy i liked who was native/chinese ...but he looked reli native...but that ain't the point....*usher*justin.t* hahaha ok now thats hot

um.. if sm1 was to date a diff race.. honestly it looks weird but i've seen alot of it n i dont think its betrayall.. as far as i know.. mixed ppl r usualy smart AND hot...i think it has smthn to do wit the DNA..like if u had a kid wit ur relative.. the closer the 2 ppl r related the stupider n uglier the kid is .. ..but thats jus what my mom said...


and YES i WUD date sm1 who wasn't azn....no problem wit it...all depends on the person.-ality

[Winter]

I don't think there's anything wrong with interracial dating.

Some conservative parents may not allow it though for reasons I am not aware of.

My mom though, doesn't seem to want me to marry a Chinese... She wants a white son-in-law...

I have dated my own race, I have dated white guys and Koreans. I don't really think there's a difference. So long as they're hot.

[XaZnX07]

umm i see that all the time dont know why make a topic bout it but yeah it really doestn matter to me as long as you like the person its cool but so far i have been only going for asian girls lol! oh wells

.:tony:.

[chellibabe124]

.... lol

yeh honestly it depends on the person.. all the hispanics here arent that attractive cuz all of them try to act gangster (gagnsta??) and then the black people that go to my school are completely racist..

its kinda complicated for where i live but in general i would date somebody other than my race.. even tho my parents want me to marry a white guy.. they understand that there are possibilities i might fall in love with someone thats not white..

confused .. yeh i am.. lol

[silver-rain]

i dont see anything wrong with it. i've dated some asian guys but not much. usually i go for white guys.

haha, me too. i prefer white guys. i see nothing wrong with interracial dating. in fact, i've dated a white guy before- and i prefer them over asian guys. eh, my mom would like me to date and marry a chinese guy, but it's really my decision. the race doesn't matter- its really their personality and if they're hot, haha

[inquisitive_]

people need to get off this race thing.

we are all one race. we are humans, the human race, we are just different variations. there is no black race, or white race, or asian race, no we are all the same race with variations. the black culture, the white culture, the asian culture..so yeah..get rid of the race stuff

and yes i would date anyone of any culture if i liked them enough.

I know that and I agree with you but not all humans think alike so thats why I made the topic.

[whywasisostupid]

uh i dont realy care. but all ive gone out with is mexican and black and white. ive never dated an asian bc...maybe bc i dont kno ne here..

i agree with the whole not dating ur race is okay thing. they arent doing anything wrong and people who dont agree with it..i mean come on. we're all humans. we all have feelings, all the same stuff, and we all live under on nation. so come on. think about it

[PinkTrash]

Im asian.. and Ive dated all white and hispanic guys. I think that people that are strictly dating their own race, are really insecure about themself :/I heard/read somewhere that being comfortable with youself= dating people that are different..

[latin mak oh roh...]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?

-sure i see nothin wrong w/ it

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?

-no but i know in some cultures it is.

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?

-yea but ive dated mostly latinas.

i dont really think it matters.

[pink_tootsie]

i dont care for who i date. it shouldnt matter, adn what if your soul mate was a different race? would you date him then?

[avsugarhigh09]

i think you should be able to date whoever you wanna date. race sex age... whatever.

[TinkerBabi3]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
Yeah, I don't know why it really matters what skin color the person that you date is..

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
No I don't think so.I think it's good that we are (for the most part) moving past the whole race thing...

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
Yeah, I would. I'm white and I've never dated a white person so yeah

[kalyps0]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
I don't have anything against it..
Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
No
Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
Nope...I like sticking with my race...it's alright for other people just not me.

[iheartsimba]

i think its completely fine. i dont prefer any race at all. i know hot white guys, hot black guys, hot asian, i even know a few hot mexicans. and i love those columbians <3


oh yah and this


First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
yah

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
nope

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
sure, race doesnt define your personallity, and if it makes you happy to be with them why not

[*wind&fire*]

sometimes i dont...i know its a stoopid background thing but hey... im trying to stop...

[adnilamila_fe]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?

yes, of course. i think that the race of ppl doesn't really matter or it shouldn't really matter.

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?

Nope, not at all. They have the choice of who ever they want to date and it doesn't even have to include their own race.

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?

Yup, of course. in fact, i'm Azn and my boyfriend is half white and half Mexican. and all of my past crushes have been mostly white. i've like 2 or 3 Azns before and that's it. lol. i think that the race of ppl doesn't really reflect their personalities because no matter wat race u r, we're all humans and we're all different. the thing that pretty much matters on who to date is their personality and how he/she treats u, and etc.

[bellpepper]

Its completly fine to me! Cause I dated two guys out of my race. It was alright. We were both cool about it.It doesnt matter what color you are if you hot im looking

[dani41790]

yea i think interracial dating is ok. and no i dont think they r betraying their race by doing so. and yea i would do interracial dating. in fact i have b4 already

[luckyxi3]

i`m filipino and i`ve only dated hispanic and korean guys. i really didn`t see the difference. *shrug*

[Redhdchic]

i dont see anything wrong with dating outside your race.....and no its not betraying anything......i myself have never dated anybody outside my own race...but thats cause the opportunity has not come up....and if it did....i would totally do it

[Scandalous_angel]

I dont thinki ppl should find out some1's race before liking them. Race shouldnt matter AT ALL.

Im filipino chinse and spanish. I've never dated filipinos or chinese guys..maybe because im mostly surrounded by hispanic guys. But if i break up with my boy...(which i hope i dont coz i love him )i wouldnt mind dating some1 of a different background.

[pbear]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?: I do. Who says you should be limited to people of your own race?

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?: No.

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?: Of course.

[aznplayaz]

i have a question a azn dating a white thats not interracial is that?

[xquizit]

i have a question a azn dating a white thats not interracial is that?

um... why wouldnt it be?

[Levy2k6]

i'm hispanic but i love me some white and european girls... .. there some hot girls out there..

[lakerfever2476]

Of course I agree. In a country such as America, it's hard not to have an interracial relationship.

[sprezzatura]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?: Yes, why not?

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?: No, unless you are very conservative.

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?: Maybe, it depends if we can get along well or not.

There is nothing wrong about interracial dating, but somehow if I can choose who to date, I would prefer people of my own race because we have the same cultures and easier to get along. People of other races often don't attract me and they are really good to hang out with as friends.

[latinprep12]

I agree with it....but some couples...look weird in public...like it will be a scrawy little dude with a beautiful model looking girl...and i always wonder what in god's name did he do to get her...lol...but yeah theres nothing wrong

[mai_z]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
Yes

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
No

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
Yes, I'm doing it right now, my parents hate it

[lilliannnn]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
Yes.

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
No. That's not betrayal. It's love/lust/like.

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
Yes. I've never dated a white guy (I've hooked up, but no boyfriends, ya know?) and I'm currently with a black guy. It' doesn't matter to me.

[yummy_delight]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
I'm all for it. Interracial dating is great. People should be free to date whomever they choose, regardless of race.

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
Of course not. There are a lot of full Asians, Blacks, Hispanics, etc. out there. You wouldn't be destroying your own race by preferring to date people who aren't the same ethnicity as you are.

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
Yes. I've found myself to be a lot more attracted to white boys than Asians.

[*Programmer*]

nothign wrong with a little jungle fever...lmao...or any face fever for that matter

[*suddenly she*]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
yeah. i don't see anything wrong with it.
my parents want a chinese speaking asian boy though.
Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
not at all.
Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
heck yes. and his dad thinks he's stupid because he's half-white.

[Im So Vain]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
Yes I think that it's wonderful. A lot of my cousins and other people in my fam are bi-racial. So Im cool with it.

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
No, free country, do what you want. Your race should not have to stop you from doing anything you want.

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
Yeah if I liked the person.

[KissMe2408]

I'm Korean and about 90% of the guys i dated were Caucasian. I don't really find asian guys attractive..i don't know why. I find caucasian guys soo much more attractive then any race. That's just me. I dont' feel like i'm betraying my race or background or anything. I've dated or had a crush on a few guys that were half black and half white. But besides that, just caucasian.

[silliepinoi]

omg thats like a severe fat chick kissing a super model i dont agree with you!!!!!

lol jp!

everyone sould be able to love. it a free world isnt it?

[ClaudelGFX]

Doesnt matter what color/race or makeup she/he uses, she/he is a Human too,she/he has a Heart/Soul too.

PS:If your grandpa/grandma/family had this interracial problems,that doesnt mean it has to affect you too,you have your own heart,your own desires,not even your grandpa/grandma nor yer family will date with your BF/GF,so your the only one who needs to take the right decisions in yer life,whateva` will be that.

IMO.

Thank You
Enjoy.

[kill.t3h.r0cK]

Haha, I have no problem w/ interracial dating. You can kinda say, my parents; mom, would rather have me marry an attractive, successful man, she never mentioned race haha. Umm, plus, I've only dated caucasians and one Indian boy...and currently dating a caucasian. I don't know any cool asian guys worth dating.

Where are there problems w/ interracial dating? Because here, no one really cares.

[Mireh]

I've NEVER dated asian guys. only white guys.

imo, interracial dating is fine. we ARE all humans.

[mouse_3k]

I think its fine. as long as they are happy together then its all good. Hey look at me and my bf.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
Of course, I mean you can't stop them. Or else there wouldn't be any mixed children in the world. And that would suck

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
No I don't, they could date anyone they want. I mean some people may like chinese girls for a certain reason, some may like blondes cause they're. But they have their own reasons.

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
Yeah I have, I dated a latino and a white guy

[loljuliana]

i dont find anything wrong with it. i'm chinese; i dont stick to chinese people. i dated a korean and someone who was from tibet. sometimes i perfer someone who isnt chinese. but my parents wont allow it.

[Krateguy09]

I haven't dated a girl that wasn't caucasian, but I'm not against doing it.

[starlette]

to start, let me point out that I have never found someone who is mixed with the exact same races as me and nothing else, so everyone I date its interracial. Second of all, I'm the product of interracial dating, so if anyone has a problem with it, they have a problem with my existence as a whole, and you can go screw yourself upsidedown. Jerk.


Now! Heres my feeling about everything. I think that being multiracial in a family of german people has really given me a lot of insight on how the world works. My cousins father told her shes not allowed to date black guys. That hurts because once again, I would not exist is it werent for my mother being racially color blind. Thats hypocritical and it makes me feel excluded. I mean, all people have the same equipment, whether black, white, italian, chinese, korean, indian etc. Why does the outside color matter? It all works the same way. I think true love has no color, so why should the color of who you love matter. I say love who you love. I've dated korean, black, white, and a half black half white guy. I've been sttracted to all sorts of guys, italian, african, and hispanic. the lists go on. I have an advantage because I learned from the beginning that skin doesnt matter. Even if I had to learn on my own because the people around me didnt seem to think so. I'm actually really impressed at all the open minded people on cB. yay for y'all.

[crocodilo]

I completely agree with interracial dating, after all we are all humans

I am white but would not want to date the majority of white girl I know because of their culture, their way of life, their norms and values
The white girls in my college, in fact my town all seem to be greedy, selfish, slutty, ignorrant, arrogant, self centered, uncool, indolant drunkards who will screw any jerk. They have no morals and are really horrible and most seem to have an ego problem and think they are too good for most people. They all idolize these pathetic, slutty, good for nothing celebrities such as Paris Hilton and Britney Spears and try to be little slappers like them.I hate everything about these girls mentality and attidudes.

However, in my college I know some very nice, very beautiful, very cool asian girls who are not sluts and do have good morals and who don't mess me aroung and don't treat me like shit. I can have proper conversations with these girls.

So this answers your question, of couse I would date girl of another race, they are my preference

[pinayprincess]

it sounds kinda racist.. but i get you... umm well i know fa sure that im not gonna date anybody whos filipino [my race] i mean, not that i dnt love em lol.. theres just NO filipino dudes i know! so far, ive dated spanish guys [and still dating =) ] but i dont think its wrong.. i mean its cool b/c you get to experience more new thing with another guy thats not the same race as you.. you know?

[PrettyBrownEyez3]

Thats just totally racial. You can't choose who you fall for. And if he only dates his kind, he'll have a smaller option, and probably end up with someone who he doesn't love, and will have a horrible future. It's how he was raised. I've dated outside of my race- there is absolutley nothing wrong with it, to me.
The annoying thing is, they're being racial about who they allow their son to be with, or him himself, with dating only his kind, that when people are racial to them about being Indian, they will be the first to complain. Thats hypocritical. People like that are so ignorant.

[PyroRei]

Well to answer your question...

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race? Of course I agree, you can't help who you like. You just like them!
Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race? Uh... NOO
Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background? YES, i am!!

I'm dating an Indian guy and I'm filipino. who cares but our parents i don't give a crap. I like him!

[visualfusion]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race? No I do not. I'm not saying don't do it because 1.) I have no control over others and 2.) If the feelings are there... there isn't much to do to stop it.

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race? A slight bit. It's pretty much saying their own race isn't good enough for them so they have to look torwards others.

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background? Date maybe. Marry, no.

[Paradox of Life]

^ I'm not going to preach to you like "OMFG, BUT LOVE IS LOVE!!" I know what you mean. It's kind of complicated. It seems like naturally people feel more comfortable around their own race which is why interracial marriages are so non-mainstream.

Personally, I think interracial marriages and dating are fine. It's up to the person. I think the biggest problem is successfully making a lifelong committment and that shouldn't affect anyone else.

And all my relationships were interracial.. and unsucessful. But you can't really say anything is successful at my age.

[aznplayaz]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race? Yeah getting to know other cultures would be a good thing.
Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race? If they choose to date someone with a different race thats fine. My sister's boyfriends black and my other sisters boyfriend is white and im filipno.
Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background? Yeah i would i am actually getting to know this girl she is white.

[HappyHeart]

There is nothing wrong with interracial dating. I just prefer the same race dating because there are barely any "purebloods" left

[megan_x3]

I think there was a topic about this but I just want to add more to it.

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?

Me, I've never dated anyone who was Portuguese or Caucasian. I've dated only Black and Hispanic guys. I find nothing wrong with it.
I have this friend who is Indian and he says he will never date anyone who wasn't Indian. And his parents don't allow it either.

i have dated some other race beside chinese. i doubt my parent will like it though. so im not planning to tell them until i've met some asians and "pureblood" chinese. as w hat GetMiNE_GetYOURS said. sounds like what malfoy and ppl in h.p will say.

[HappyHeart]

i have dated some other race beside chinese. i doubt my parent will like it though. so im not planning to tell them until i've met some asians and "pureblood" chinese. as w hat GetMiNE_GetYOURS said.  sounds like what malfoy and ppl in h.p will say.

lol yea I couldn't think of any other word

[mwahxd]

i m fine wit it and no i dont feel like i m betraying my race and yes i would date someone who isn t from my background. use my current bf for example he is my first bf btw and he s viet and i m chinese. u cant choose who u fall for. its totally fine

[whomps]

No, I don't think dating out of your race is any form of betrayal. That's a horrible thought.

[xFaith]

Of course. im kinda suprised that theres a topic about this, because i dont think races have anything to do with love. I mean, you fall in love with someones soul, not someones "race" :/

[Aoiro]

Yes, I do agree with people dating outside their race.
I mean, c'mon now, they're in love with each other.
Nothing wrong with their skin colour!

No, I do not think that are at all.
It's their choice.

And yes, definately!
Why would I not?
I have before anyway.

[me1issaaaa]

I think it's fine. My boyfriend's half French, half ... I don't even know. His mom's from the Virgin Islands, so... whatever that ethnicity is called.

That's kind of bad that I don't even know what they're called. Caribbean? Who knows.

[Ington]

Maggie is Vietnamese. I'm Jewish.

I honestly think nothing is wrong with this, and we're fine. My parents however, will literally disown me if I married or even dated outside of my religion. So I go out without telling them.

Sigh, it gets hard after a while.

[starlette]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race? No I do not. I'm not saying don't do it because 1.) I have no control over others and 2.) If the feelings are there... there isn't much to do to stop it.

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?  A slight bit. It's pretty much saying their own race isn't good enough for them so they have to look torwards others.

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background? Date maybe. Marry, no.

so since I'm half black, 1/4 chinese. and 1/4 italian you are saying that if I date someone who is not the exact above, that I am betraying my race? thats bullshit. Why is it betrayal? Why isnt it just preference. I mean, the only family I know is white, so should I only date white people? I mean honestley, its not saying you think your own race isnt good anough for you. Its saying, I find this person attractive, or charming, or whatever, and I want to spend the rest of my life with them. Regardless or color. I'm not saying, ugh, I hate my race, I need to find someone thats not like me. thats stupid. And if you think of it that way, then you are stupid. Open your eyes and take a look around you. We all started from the same place. SO what does it matter if we look diffenert now. We only look different because our ancestors moved to different parts of the world, and spent a lot or no time in the sun. Thats it. If you stick us in a fire, we all burn the same way. And if you cut us, we all bleed the same blood. So how is it betrayal? Just think about that. Its doesnt make sense. Are you telling me that if you hit it off with a person, of another race, and fell in love, you would date, them, but marry someone you didnt really love just because they are your same race? You are going to live a miserable life buddy. OH!! and lets say I'm black for a point. I personally don't like guys with big lips. Most black men have big lips. So am I betraying my race because I don't want to wake up every morning staring at a pair of big lips for the rest of my life. uurrrggghhh. I could go on all day.

[lexaa621]

wtf how can you "betray your race"?

sorry i just had to say that.

i'm white. i've liked hispanic, asian/filipino, white, and mixed girls. it doesnt matter. my gf is half chinese half caucasion.

yeah.

[inquisitive_]

so since I'm half black, 1/4 chinese. and 1/4 italian you are saying that if I date someone who is not the exact above, that I am betraying my race?  thats bullshit.  Why is it betrayal?  Why isnt it just preference.  I mean, the only family I know is white, so should I only date white people?  I mean honestley, its not saying you think your own race isnt good anough for you.  Its saying, I find this person attractive, or charming, or whatever, and I want to spend the rest of my life with them.  Regardless or color.  I'm not saying, ugh, I hate my race, I need to find someone thats not like me.  thats stupid.  And if you think of it that way, then you are stupid.  Open your eyes and take a look around you.  We all started from the same place.  SO what does it matter if we look diffenert now.  We only look different because our ancestors moved to different parts of the world, and spent a lot or no time in the sun.  Thats it.  If you stick us in a fire, we all burn the same way.  And if you cut us, we all bleed the same blood.  So how is it betrayal?  Just think about that.  Its doesnt make sense.  Are you telling me that if you hit it off with a person, of another race, and fell in love, you would date, them, but marry someone you didnt really love just because they are your same race?  You are going to live a miserable life buddy.  OH!! and lets say I'm black for a point.  I personally don't like guys with big lips.  Most black men have big lips.  So am I betraying my race because I don't want to wake up every morning staring at a pair of big lips for the rest of my life.  uurrrggghhh. I could go on all day.

I really hope that you are not talking to me in specific. And if you are, then you've got it all wrong. I only asked the questions because there are so many people who do think dating someone from another race is a betrayal. I heard it from a couple of people. I, personally, think its very stupid and it shows how close-minded some people are. I only wanted to ask the people on here. I don't date anyone of my race. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. We're all people, just like you said.

[lexaa621]

^ she wasnt talking to you.
i'm pretty sure her response was directed towards "visualfusion".

[*mzkandi*]

I have always dated who I like, regardless of race. If someone has a problem with it, then its their problem.

[AngryBaby]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race? No I do not. I'm not saying don't do it because 1.) I have no control over others and 2.) If the feelings are there... there isn't much to do to stop it.

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?  A slight bit. It's pretty much saying their own race isn't good enough for them so they have to look torwards others.

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background? Date maybe. Marry, no.

you my friend, are an idiot, congradulations.(haha i sounded like Ariel)

[*nightmare4taki*]

Date freely, date who you like, regardless of race, thats my logic and I'm sticking by it.

[miss barnes]

doesnt really matter but i LOVE black boys..

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Whats with so much hate on VisualFusion? The man simply stated what he had felt about the questions presented before him. He only said that he didn't agree, he never said that it is "WRONG" or that people "SHOULD NOT DO IT". Yet, there are people calling him an "idiot". Are you kidding me?

[*FreeStickers*]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
Yes. There are so many amazing people of different races...Why would you restrict your experiences to only one race of people? If you have feelings for someone, there's no reason why you shouldn't date them. PLUS, I'm the product of an interracial relationship, so naturally, I don't have a problem with it.

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
No. How the hell would they be? It's not like, by dating a white guy, I'm saying "I'm not Black or Thai now. I'm white." A lot of people tell me that I'm ashamed of being what I am, because I'm dating a white guy, which couldn't be farther from the truth. I enjoy being Black. I enjoy being Asian...having feelings for someone who just happens to be white doesn't change that. I've never dated a Black guy or an Asian guy...that doesn't make me less Black or less Asian.

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
Heck yes! I'll date anyone, as long as they have a personality I like.

[Levy2k6]

im hispanic and my gf is white.. all our parents get along and it's pretty good.. we have our low and downs but thats just relationship stuff.. interacial dating is just dating.

[ichiban]

eh, i guess only asian or caucasian (sp?)

[AngryBaby]

Whats with so much hate on VisualFusion? The man simply stated what he had felt about the questions presented before him. He only said that he didn't agree, he never said that it is "WRONG" or that people "SHOULD NOT DO IT". Yet, there are people calling him an "idiot". Are you kidding me?

its more about what he said on the "betraying your own race" bit its just an ignorant way to see things, but i shouldnt have called him an idiot

[jsmooth4ever]

I think there was a topic about this but I just want to add more to it.

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?

Me, I've never dated anyone who was Portuguese or Caucasian. I've dated only Black and Hispanic guys. I find nothing wrong with it.
I have this friend who is Indian and he says he will never date anyone who wasn't Indian. And his parents don't allow it either.

1: I agree with people dating outside thier race always there is nothing wrong with that at all shows unity.

2: Hell no if someone wants to date outside thier race so be it love has no color.

3: Yes I would

I don't discriminate but I am kinda picky I like em caramel complexion or yellow I like the peanut butter and chocolate effect I also go on how people dress and smell.

I can understand if he was a Native American who didn't wanna date outside his race but the but the India Indian its not quite the same now and days you rarely see Natives but the India guys you can find them anywhere lol wel thats my 2cent.

[xTINAA]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race? Yes I do.
Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race? Hell no.
Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background? Of course...and I have several times too.

How could you restrict yourself to only those of the same race? That sounds a lot like racism to me. Maybe not exactly racism but close to it because you are discriminating against all the races unlike your own. There aren't even different races, we are all ONE race, the human race. There is only different ethnicities and it's hard for me especially to only stick to my one ethnicity because I don't have just one ethnicity. I'm not just Korean or just Chinese or just French or just this or that. I'm mixed. Everyone should look past what color skin you have or what type of background you have and look at the real person there. Then that is how you should choose whether or not to date a person. If a reason why you would never date someone is based on their ethnicity I really, really feel sorry for you and in fact I pity you and you disappoint me.

[lilliannnn]

I've posted in here before but I just have to say I'm all for interrcial dating. I'm in love. Yay, black people!

[Julie Ann]

I will date whoever I fall in love with & really cares about me. No matter what race.

[Anonymous82]

nothing should get in the way of love... but I never even dated anyone before so blah

[fameONE]

Listen: Wu-Tang Clan- Ice Cream

The only race is the human race.

[dreamerOi]

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
yes.. i mean the guy im seeing is hispanic and american while i'm korean. X_X. as long as theyre happy i suppose. ^_~

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
how are they betraying their own race? there was never a rule that stated it was wrong for ethnic groups to date outside of their own. !_!

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
of course. im dating someone outside of my background right now. @_@