best friend is a..., :: cough cough :: bitch |
 Oct 5 2004, 11:17 PM
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 cookie?...  Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,080  |
okay me and my best friend were friends ever since 7 grade. me and her got along great. then all of a sudden at the end of the summer after a camp we went to and had a blast at.. she started treating me like shit!! like at volleyball tryouts she would be so mean to me in front of all these new girls we never knew (we are freshman in highschool so meeting alot of new people) and idk she just wouldnt say anything to me.
so i got tired of it and said f**k it and then i started ignoring her.. people were asking me what was wrong and i said flat out "shes being a bitch" and then that went through a "grape vine" process and everybody found out, and then kylie (my best friend) finally heard. she im'd me and we got in a big argument. she basically said over and over she wish i would have told her first. i was nice to her and said sorry a few times but then like after the 20th time shes like "well jsut next time tell me first" and i was like "i understood you the first time" ... grr  then since school started she has basically tried to take my new best friend and she continues to treat me like shit in front of people ...i even wrote her a note saying hows volleyball going (i made the team but i quit.. ) and how is the love life going and everything.. very nice about it.. like trying to say i miss ya and i wanna hang out with you. but she just blew me off.. do you think maybe she just got sick of me at the end of the summer?... |
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Oct 5 2004, 11:25 PM
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 Until the end of time... Group: Member Posts: 456 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 460 |
looks like she's trying to act cool in front of her new friends...highschool stuff. u dont need friends like that, get better friends who would accept u for who u are no matter who they're with
 . friends shouldn't be embarassed by eachother
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Oct 5 2004, 11:30 PM
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 lifes a b.itch. give me yaoi. Group: Member Posts: 307 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,739 |
yea....u dont need a "friend" like her.....i mean im a freashman too.....i have the exact problem as u....cept my "friend" is super bitchy..lol...ur true friends stick by ur side no matter wat.....so dont worry bout it...as long as u got true friends u'll be ok..
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Oct 6 2004, 12:33 AM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
You did the right thing and tried.
She's decided to throw away a good thing. =( Let her be the shallow soul she is. One day, she'll be quite lonely, and think back to you. And why she totally left you. |
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Oct 6 2004, 12:41 AM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
no high school is tough and she just wanna be the popular girls that we always see in the tv shows..... right now she is just busy with all the stuff that she hasta do.... jsut leave her alone and let her do what she wants... she treated u lyk shit and so u do the same to her.... and tell her how u felt bout this when she comes running back to u....
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Oct 6 2004, 12:45 AM
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白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
QUOTE(Too Asian To DIE @ Oct 5 2004, 10:41 PM) no high school is tough and she just wanna be the popular girls that we always see in the tv shows..... right now she is just busy with all the stuff that she hasta do.... jsut leave her alone and let her do what she wants... she treated u lyk shit and so u do the same to her.... and tell her how u felt bout this when she comes running back to u.... Though it's a form of karma, don't have an eye for an eye war. That'll get NOTHING done, except more hate. But I agree that if she comes back running, tell her what she did..and make her earn your friendship after what she did to you. (Personally, I wouldn't ever hang w/ her again) =) Have a nice day!!! |
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Oct 6 2004, 12:52 AM
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yeh i think she is think out her image not her friends...ditch her...
ewwww...atpx are you kissing a guy? |
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Oct 6 2004, 12:57 AM
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I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
OMG i didnt see that.... ahhhhhh mai virgin eyes...... what the hell was that.... is that really u? or just sumthing funny that u found on the interent
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Oct 6 2004, 01:33 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
i say... ditch the b!tch.
she treatin u like sh!t??? u did what u cud..but she has problems so ditch her.u deserve better |
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Oct 6 2004, 01:36 AM
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白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
QUOTE(Too Asian To DIE @ Oct 5 2004, 10:57 PM) OMG i didnt see that.... ahhhhhh mai virgin eyes...... what the hell was that.... is that really u? or just sumthing funny that u found on the interent It was truth or dare. Nothing more! To make this post relevant: DITCH THE GIRL CUZ SHE IS OBVIOUSLY SCARED OF HIGH SCHOOL |
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Oct 6 2004, 05:39 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
you're almost in the exact position i'm in...
one of my best friends in church always ignore me because i "stole her other friends"... i tried talking to them online, but it just doesn't work. sooner or later, you'll learn to deal with "friendships" like those, and move on.... you don't need b*tches like those to make you feel insecure and down... they're just not worth your time. put her in your "betrayal list" and move on. make more friends who are nice to you. |
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Oct 6 2004, 07:19 AM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
Ditch her back, and return the shit x] She'll either start realizing what a biznatch shes being or she;ll dump the friendship, but with someone like that it wouldnt last anyway
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Oct 6 2004, 10:02 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Well...you finally see how she truly is...so best thing to do is leave her be and see if she gets out of this stupid mood.
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Oct 6 2004, 10:07 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
that's not the definition of a best friend .. there was no reason for her to treat you that way in front of people you guys didn't know .. she blew you off when you tried being nice with the letter .. move on and make new friends .. you don't need a 'best friend' persay .. you need to find a few people who truly care about you and are there because they want to be ..
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Oct 6 2004, 02:19 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
i think she maybe just wanted to impress her new friends or something?
 it's good that you talked to her but i think you should just make new friends cuz this one sux Steph
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Oct 6 2004, 02:43 PM
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 aka babiebubblez03 :o) Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,478 |
yep its definently a high school thing. The best you can do is move on and find new friends.. then after your froshy year you two will grow up a lil more ya know in a good way, then maybe be able to patch things up or just get on better talking terms. Dont let her get to you because that is what she wants. She doesnt want you to be happy at all! So, dont let her know that you are upset... and make some friends that are worht being friends with
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Oct 6 2004, 07:20 PM
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cookie?... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,080 |
yeh i agree with all of you
thanks you made me feel better
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Oct 7 2004, 04:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Man..just dump your friend! Get a new one or something because best friends dont do none of that shit.
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