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 Oct 5 2004, 05:30 PM
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my boyfriend and i broke up a while ago. he's going out with other girls now, but i haven't since the break-up. i hate to say it, but i'm getting jealous. i thought i'd be over him by now. i just can't though. does anyone have any ideas to help me get over him?
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Oct 5 2004, 05:37 PM
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 Kids.Have.All.The.Fun Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,943 |
think of all the bad things about him, sometimes that helps. otherwise i just think getting over people takes its own course.
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Oct 5 2004, 05:37 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
The most certain way is to just wait. (Time heals all wounds) You can't really force yourself... just think about why the relationship didn't work and all the other guys out there. Maybe you'll meet someone you like better.
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Oct 5 2004, 05:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,735 |
okay thanks. i'll try doing that.
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Oct 5 2004, 05:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
Since he moved on you should too. Date other boys that are much better than him(maybe it will get him jealous)
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Oct 5 2004, 05:39 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,735 |
i hope i find someone i like better tha him. he also said the reason he broke up with me was because the relationship wasn't going anywhere.
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Oct 5 2004, 05:44 PM
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 and they say imitation is flattering Group: Member Posts: 1,337 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,269 |
Wow, that sucks. Well.. you can expect that you'll be sad/jealous when he's dating other people.. Time will heal. Theoretically. Just try to meet new people =P
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Oct 5 2004, 05:59 PM
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 I do it so good, I don't need nobody else! Group: Member Posts: 644 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,752 |
noe that YOU WILL FIND SOMEONW thats BETTER
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Oct 6 2004, 02:04 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
i get jealous over lots of things too...you should just date around and maybe you'll make him feel a little jealous too
 Steph
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Oct 6 2004, 03:46 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, that sucks. i know what you're going through, my bf and i broke up a while ago, but i don't think he's going out with anyone new. but if he was, i'd be crazy jealous. eh, i suggest try finding a new guy to like, or focus on something else.
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Oct 6 2004, 04:26 PM
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 CJ lubber x3 Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,623 |
do something you enjoy and take your mind off him...and agreeing with everyone else..."Time will heal"
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Oct 6 2004, 05:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,735 |
well, today he broke up with his newest girlfriend. i'm not sure who likes anymore.
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Oct 6 2004, 05:51 PM
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 .....eat my booger Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,920 |
... my boyfriend and i broke up too.. well i think we did or
we're just on a break... im not finding myself jealous with all the things i heard what he've done behind my back.. ... its not worth being jealous.. and yes i loved him... but styll.. being jealous cant help anything.. thats right... you should think of all the wrong he ever done to you.... or jux flirt with other guys to take your mind off of him.... he's moving on.. why shouldnt you... be strong girl.. takcarez |
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Oct 6 2004, 06:05 PM
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little dude advanced Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,339 |
try to think of all the bad things he's done to u, sry, im not very experienced wit these kinda stuff
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Oct 6 2004, 06:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,248 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,084 |
lol sorry i dont giv good adviceee... but yea it's normal to feel jealous
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Oct 9 2004, 02:41 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
flirt with some boys like how hes around girls.
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Oct 15 2004, 08:53 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,735 |
well, i like this new guy! and he likes me. my friend said the guy i like is going to ask me out today!
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Oct 15 2004, 09:10 AM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
i hope everything goes well for you
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Oct 15 2004, 02:39 PM
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 aka babiebubblez03 :o) Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,478 |
aw good luck!! but remember.. dont date this guy as a rebound because then you end up hurting yourself and this other guy!
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Oct 15 2004, 03:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,340 |
Wow, I know exactly how you feel. I went out with this guy in 6th grade (I am in 9th grade now) and we had an on and off relationship. Then we just stopped talking altogther for a year and then we started talking again and we started liking each other again.. but then after I told him I liked him again, he admitted he likes me also... but then he didn't IM me anymore, I had to IM him and it made me feel like he didn't like me afterall because he always IMed me first.
So I haven't talked to him since last chistmas. He went out with a girl in my English class, so I heard, and I got REALLY jealous when I heard and I wanted to IM him so bad... but how could IM somone after not talking to them for almost a year? How I got over him: I haven't. I don't know if I ever will. I heard he and the girl in my English class broke up though, apprently he has a sex buddy  Which is such a turn off to me and I really look down upon him for that.. but a part of me still like him.I guess you should focus on his flaws? That way you can remind yourself about the bad things in him so you won't be so focused on his better qualities? I'm not sure. Ahhh so long... |
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Oct 15 2004, 05:16 PM
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 .::sweet on you::. Group: Member Posts: 509 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,753 |
QUOTE(LivinInTheShadows @ Oct 5 2004, 5:30 PM) my boyfriend and i broke up a while ago. he's going out with other girls now, but i haven't since the break-up. i hate to say it, but i'm getting jealous. i thought i'd be over him by now. i just can't though. does anyone have any ideas to help me get over him? that happened to me....but we didn't exactly go out  ...lol...it's over...but I still do get that weird feeling around him....lol 
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Oct 15 2004, 05:18 PM
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 Saap!? Group: Member Posts: 568 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,151 |
i guess its normal to feel jealous. you should see other guys too!
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