HELP bout ma bestfriend.., .. |
 Oct 5 2004, 12:00 AM
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 cacaboii. [SAN FRAN is where...  Group: Member Posts: 566 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,562  |
omG~! i messe dup..my bestfriend told me a secret.about his brothers friend breaking up w/ his GF..and its a secret ..i forgot and spil it out to his brothe;s friend girlfried..now shes mad @ me and her borther and her brother's friend is blamming it all on me..becuase.. she told me.. now shes mad ! i dont kno what to do..
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Oct 5 2004, 01:41 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
ooooooo.....
thats kinda confusing....but um.. well u told the secret so i guesse u'll pay the price...but seriously..gossip spreads fast these days..n if they're truely ur friends then they'll eventually get over it... if not then thats not ur best friend. n ur best friend DID tell u...so he is partly responsible of the situation... if he didn't say n e thing.. u wudn't know ..which meant nonw of it wud've happened...so blaming everythin on u jus isn't right....split the blame k? |
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Oct 5 2004, 01:57 AM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
well i would just deal with the consequences and just try to build up their trust back piece by piece.... u can break trust in a second but its take years to build it back up
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Oct 5 2004, 01:13 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
thats why ppl shouldn't tell secrets... its a secret for a reason.
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Oct 5 2004, 03:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
just leave them alone for a while just let them think..it takes time
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Oct 5 2004, 04:06 PM
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 aka babiebubblez03 :o) Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,478 |
all you can do is appologize and leave it at that. I mean, it was an accident and if they dont forgive you for a mistake then maybe they werent worth being friends with in the first place... ya know?!
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Oct 5 2004, 06:46 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Apologize, be nice to them..
They'll get over it eventually. Try and keep secrets to yourself from now on. 
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Oct 5 2004, 07:08 PM
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 Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
how is that a best friend? a best friend is one that understands you...
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Oct 5 2004, 09:01 PM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
OK, I'm hearing some people saying that if he was your best friend, he shouldn't be mad at you. I wouldn't agree. He is your best friend, and he trusted you. He trusted you with a secret. When the trust is proved wrong, I'd be mad too. But truly if he is your best friend, he won't be mad forever. =) So no worries there.
Yeah, everyone kinda spills stuff...profusely say sorry to him. He told you to safeguard his slice of cake, and you totally bit off half of the slice. So, buy him another slice of cake. (...wtf did i just say??) that means try giving him a secret of yours, or um, hang out w/ him extra muchos. He'll totally dig the slice of cake you bought him after he's cooled off. (err..) Um, things not to do. If he's mad, and mad for weeks, keep calm and don't start getting angry at his stubborness. Keep nice and keep trying to gain his trust again. He'll come around. (maybe really fast, too) Life is a game of The Sims, unless it's the relalationships, The Sims can't emulate relationships well enough. =) Have a nice day!!! |
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Oct 5 2004, 09:10 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
Why do I always find myself in that situation too..
THeres nothing you can really do now, except to apologize and all.. I mean you did already spill it out.. |
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Oct 5 2004, 09:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Why did you tell anyway? Even if you apologized, I don't really think that would do anything good, but it's better than just sitting here, being worried.
*shrugs* You're paying the price. Suck it up. |
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Oct 5 2004, 10:59 PM
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cacaboii. [SAN FRAN is where... Group: Member Posts: 566 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,562 |
QUOTE Yeah, everyone kinda spills stuff...profusely say sorry to him. He told you to safeguard his slice of cake, and you totally bit off half of the slice. So, buy him another slice of cake. (...wtf did i just say??) that means try giving him a secret of yours, or um, hang out w/ him extra muchos. He'll totally dig the slice of cake you bought him after he's cooled off. (err..) he avoiding me..but were friends agen but his brother told his friends brother to wtach out for him and icant talk to him..his brother dosent want him to talk to me any more |
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Oct 6 2004, 12:42 AM
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白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
Keep trying to get the trust back, and try saying sorry to the other people involved in teh story. (sorry, all those brothers and friends...i couldn't follow even while reading word by word, lol)
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Oct 6 2004, 01:04 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
next time dont open ur mouth, apologize and hope for forgiveness.
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Oct 6 2004, 10:12 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
you really have to be careful about revealing secrets .. when people put trust in you to keep them it can be a huge burden sometimes but they believe in you enough to hold it in .. all you can do is say you`re sorry for telling because you didn`t mean to .. and over time you have to gain that trust back ..
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Oct 6 2004, 02:15 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
yeah it's a little hard to keep secrets but you should've been really careful about that one...you should just tell your friend's brother that you slipped...
 Steph
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Oct 6 2004, 07:10 PM
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cacaboii. [SAN FRAN is where... Group: Member Posts: 566 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,562 |
[SIZE=14]THANK YOU PPPLZ!! we all koo now.. [SIZE=14]
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Oct 6 2004, 10:15 PM
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AsianUniQ Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,713 |
you'll have to live with it, you cant take ur words back. then again, what are they goign to do to you? nothing.......cant stay mad forever. So just wait out, let the fire go down.
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Oct 7 2004, 02:38 AM
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 i make my own destiny Group: Member Posts: 122 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,249 |
Could you repeat that because it makes no sense
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