I Kind of Have a Problem..., Please Help. |
 Oct 4 2004, 06:08 PM
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[FONT=Arial][SIZE=1][COLOR=gray]Umm...my name is Faith and I have a question. I like this guy I met at church but he's a year and five months younger than me. I'm 16. But he's really nice. Nicer than any guy I've ever met before. If I tell him i like him I'm kind of afraid he'll freak out and I'm already freaking out by the thought that I like a guy that's younger than me since I've been grown up to think that men should always be older. So..what should I do?
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Oct 4 2004, 06:15 PM
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 Bubble Group: Member Posts: 341 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,405 |
Get to know him first. Hang out with him... feel him out. When you guys are friends, you should know by then how you feel for him. And if he responds to you the same way... you should know by then how he feels about you... or you should at least have a feeling about it. Just be yourself. And def. get to know him better before you do anything. Good Luck! Hope that helped!
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Oct 4 2004, 06:17 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,483 |
Yea. I've known him since July though and we are pretty good friends, but sometimes with guys it's hard to tell if they like you. I hate that...
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Oct 4 2004, 06:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
It doesn't matter if they are one year older than you..at least, it wouldn't bother me that much unless they are like two/three youngers than me...
Anyhoo, I guess you can get a friend to ask if he likes you back. *shrugs* |
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Oct 4 2004, 06:40 PM
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Bubble Group: Member Posts: 341 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,405 |
Be patient... if he really is all that... then he's worth waiting for. Just have a good time with him and enjoy every minute of it!
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Oct 4 2004, 07:18 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
QUOTE(somechinkgirl @ Oct 4 2004, 3:32 PM) It doesn't matter if they are one year older than you..at least, it wouldn't bother me that much unless they are like two/three youngers than me... Anyhoo, I guess you can get a friend to ask if he likes you back. *shrugs* i would go with what she said.. |
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Oct 4 2004, 07:35 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Get to know him better.
Be his friend. Age doesn't matter.. especially when it's only a matter of 5 months. ;] |
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Oct 4 2004, 07:51 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
do u have his number and like talk to him on the fone? or just see him at church?
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Oct 4 2004, 08:35 PM
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 it's what i believe in. Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,523 |
i say.. age is just a number. if we`re all worried if someone is younger than us or any other things wrong with that person.. then it`s just another way of saying "we`re missing out on the great things in life" `cause you NEVER know.. he might be just worth the age
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Oct 4 2004, 09:19 PM
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Stalking Createblog... Group: Member Posts: 155 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,300 |
Age definitely doesn't matter. I skipped a grade, so I'm younger than all my classmates. I still make friends fine.
As mud says, get to know him better. If you do, then you would know if he likes you or not. You have to be that close to him. |
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Oct 4 2004, 10:12 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
yup get to kno him better and take things from there
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Oct 4 2004, 10:19 PM
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 badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
age shouldnt be an issue. if you really like this older guy, get to know him better. if you like this younger guy, then get to know him better. Love, in my honest opinion, is undefinable (although those bastards from merriam-webster define it) so you just have to live each day to the fullest, cherishing every moment. and hey, since you're the girl, all you have to do is just wait till us guys make the first move (to ask you out) eh yea... if you have anymore relationship questions, you can always im me. I'm good at relationships because I've gone through so many (haha)
so eh yea, if you've got relationship problems, hit me up on aim sometime. until then, i hope I helped and peace ¤ ¤ ¤
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Oct 4 2004, 11:15 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
eh ima make this simple and clean. get to know him. date him. see how it goes.
dont care wut others say, its what u think and want that matters. |
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