Does love know age? |
Does love know age? |
Oct 1 2004, 02:36 PM
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I personally think that the term "love" is something that is defined by the person themself, and not a general standard. Therefore, no. I dont think there is an age.
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Oct 1 2004, 02:41 PM
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just a girl ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 80 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,392 |
there are so many types of love.. you cant just tell someone that they are not in love at the age of 13 when in fact they have puppy love ya know?! you will never experience TRUE love until you are married... and whenever you get to that point.. you'll know.. hehe so, no, no age limit :o)
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Oct 1 2004, 03:28 PM
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![]() Will write poetry for sex! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,110 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 600 |
There are full grown adults who still can't understand love, or at least what love is in society's standards.
Some people grow both emotionally and mentally quicker than others, and also go through a lot more. Some are mature enough for 'love' and some still have a lot to learn until they're really ready. I dunno what I'm babbling about. No, Love knows no age...or race, or gender, etc etc. Does happiness? Grief? Any other emotion? Emotions shouldn't be limited by a set standard. |
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Oct 1 2004, 04:47 PM
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I'm in between. Sometimes there's a yes and a no.
No, because some are too young to actually know what love is, so when they say it and they don't really mean it (They might break up five days later or sooner), so yeah.. Then again, yes because you can't tell what the other person to feel. It's their own feelings and because they are young, it doesn't mean they don't know what love is.. |
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Oct 1 2004, 06:44 PM
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WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
well, they can't be like NINE and in love...but like..you can be any age. probably at least 7th grade or so..otherwise it's kinda like..childish stuff. unless you're mature for your age like julia
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Oct 1 2004, 06:45 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,406 |
no i dont think theres age.. but there might be awkwardness
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Oct 1 2004, 07:15 PM
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some little kids that say they are in love when they are "obviously" not is kinda annoying... but i don't think theres are age for it if they are actually in love...
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Oct 1 2004, 09:38 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
True love knows no limits.
But there is puppy love, which is often mistaken for real love by younger or more immature people. |
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Oct 1 2004, 10:36 PM
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![]() Linny the dork. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 178 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,258 |
depends if you're mature enough to go through the pain i guess..
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Oct 1 2004, 11:11 PM
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Brie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
It doesn't matter about age.
It matters about maturity. |
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Oct 1 2004, 11:13 PM
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![]() Hi! I'm Dani :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
hmm mayb there is an age for certain people cuz i think it matters if they r mature enough. if a 10 year old saes he/she is in love, i wont believe em
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Oct 1 2004, 11:14 PM
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![]() F**k me Beautiful ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
eh i dont think so, but yea sometimes u mite not know what love is really, so i guess .. love can be experienced at any age...just different degrees of love.
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Oct 1 2004, 11:22 PM
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You guys are dumb. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Yes, in a relationship with an intimate person. But I guess you can live in delusional world where those two 2nd graders love each other.
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Oct 2 2004, 07:31 AM
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asian sensation ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 773 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,091 |
personally yes and no
more on the yes side.. InTheMudHole.. i agree with her almost completely maturity is all that counts.. in certain cases there are exceptions though |
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Oct 2 2004, 08:01 AM
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sarcasm hides what you really feel ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
i think a ten year old would have no clue whats happening but a sixteen year old may know what he or she feels.
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Oct 2 2004, 09:19 AM
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stephanie .. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
no not really i think love can happen at any age from a three year old and her puppy to a 21 year old with her boyfriend
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Oct 2 2004, 12:24 PM
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![]() Ah, mon Dieu ! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
depends on what kind of love. *shrug*
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Oct 2 2004, 01:18 PM
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![]() lick me ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
I think its really sick, if say a 18 year old dates a 40 year old.. but maybe they do like each other o.o
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Oct 2 2004, 01:35 PM
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![]() dizzy me up. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
well i dunt think love has a limit. but... im not sure lil kids.. relaly know.. cuz yeahh lols
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Oct 3 2004, 01:31 AM
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QUOTE(MasteRxKiD @ Oct 1 2004, 1:28 PM) There are full grown adults who still can't understand love, or at least what love is in society's standards. Some people grow both emotionally and mentally quicker than others, and also go through a lot more. Some are mature enough for 'love' and some still have a lot to learn until they're really ready. I dunno what I'm babbling about. No, Love knows no age...or race, or gender, etc etc. Does happiness? Grief? Any other emotion? Emotions shouldn't be limited by a set standard. i agree and i love the way you put it. its so true. its not about age but about maturity, as many of you have said. there are also the different levels of love but only one's self can know when one is in true love. |
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Oct 3 2004, 11:18 PM
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AsianUniQ ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,713 |
i think love can be affected by age.......since age is just a number, the number is however equivalent to the years of expereince.........we mature through the years tha expereinces, hence we mature through age...............so if you love someone whose maturity level is higher and urs is lower or vice versa........then love can be affected adn fade away....you could be too imature or the other persojn cuold be too neat or too smart or wutver, or you both cant stand each other....then that woudl affect love.
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Oct 4 2004, 03:24 PM
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QUOTE(MasteRxKiD @ Oct 1 2004, 1:28 PM) There are full grown adults who still can't understand love, or at least what love is in society's standards. Some people grow both emotionally and mentally quicker than others, and also go through a lot more. Some are mature enough for 'love' and some still have a lot to learn until they're really ready. I dunno what I'm babbling about. No, Love knows no age...or race, or gender, etc etc. Does happiness? Grief? Any other emotion? Emotions shouldn't be limited by a set standard. ^^ I couldn't have sais it any better |
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Oct 4 2004, 06:29 PM
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to me true love is when u love the other person more than urself and is willing to be with that person forever and will never fall out of love
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Oct 4 2004, 08:21 PM
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Miss Liz/Roxy(whichever name) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,530 |
no because just recently i heard on the radio and read in the newspaper that a woman that was 31 yrs old had an affair with her 12 yr old student. now shes 42 and and the boy is 21 and shes out of jail because of what happened and they are planning on getting married. she already has 3 kids from him.
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Oct 4 2004, 08:50 PM
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
as they say
"you can love at ANY age" hey, look at Cory and Topanga (Boy Meets World) |
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Oct 4 2004, 09:57 PM
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You guys are dumb. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Can someone possibly fall in love in preschool?
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Oct 14 2004, 05:04 PM
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![]() naners ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,394 |
QUOTE(InTheMudHole @ Oct 1 2004, 11:11 PM) It doesn't matter about age. It matters about maturity. That is very true. And what MasteRxKiD said was also very true about full grown people not knowing what it really is. Love can't really be defined..when you fall in love then you are ready to deal with it. Its all about maturity. My brother-in-law's sister fell in love with her bf when she was 13. And now 12 years later they are married and have 3 kids. It all depends on the person and their experiences. |
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Oct 14 2004, 05:34 PM
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![]() Maggot Rocker ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 396 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,016 |
I don't think it does...unless its like someone over 18+ going out with someone that is 15 and younger.
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Oct 14 2004, 05:39 PM
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![]() Amberific. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
Love knows no age...but the law does...
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Oct 15 2004, 09:25 PM
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![]() Kermit the frog = <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
no, it doesn't
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Oct 21 2004, 08:58 PM
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eh... to some degree it does. not necessarily age, but maturity. it's not very likely to be in love when you're 14 or 15 or whatever, but it can definitely happen, i suppose.
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Oct 24 2004, 07:16 PM
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cB`s Unofficial Sig Whore ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,784 |
Love is just associated with age in the media a lot of the time. If you really think about it, you don't need age to love somebody romantically, you just need the right person.
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Oct 24 2004, 10:12 PM
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It's insulting when people say 11/12 year olds can't be in love. It's like you're saying we're to imature to uinderstand "true love". I believe any one can fall in love
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Oct 24 2004, 10:16 PM
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Yes and no. When you're young and you're living in this fast world... You might you're in love but it could just be something else.. Like infatuation and all. Hormones lol.
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Nov 9 2004, 12:11 AM
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it's 50/50 for me.
i think you can experience some kind of love at any age, but to experience true, genuine love, i can only see such in marriage/real long-term relationships. |
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Nov 9 2004, 11:03 AM
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YES IT DOES!! imagine a 10yr old girl falling for a 25yr old boy,how crazy is that,she isnt in love,...thats infactuation,i think
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Nov 12 2004, 10:35 PM
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nope you can love at any age
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Nov 13 2004, 12:17 PM
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cB`s Unofficial Sig Whore ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,784 |
No. Age doesn't grant comprehesion for love. A lot of the time age is evident, but just because age is present, does not mean it should define a set of rules for when love is applied. As Master put it, no other emotions are defined by a set of rules, so why should love be determined that way?
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Nov 13 2004, 03:20 PM
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![]() LiLaZnGurL ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
QUOTE(babiebubblez03 @ Oct 1 2004, 2:41 PM) there are so many types of love.. you cant just tell someone that they are not in love at the age of 13 when in fact they have puppy love ya know?! you will never experience TRUE love until you are married... and whenever you get to that point.. you'll know.. hehe so, no, no age limit :o) that aint true i can b in love if ur 13 cuz my 2 frds r seriously in love and they would do anything for each other and it aint no puppy love |
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Nov 13 2004, 03:52 PM
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QUOTE(th5418 @ Oct 2 2004, 12:22 AM) But I guess you can live in delusional world where those two 2nd graders love each other. dude there's my life story |
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Nov 13 2004, 05:56 PM
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QUOTE(MasteRxKiD @ Oct 1 2004, 3:28 PM) There are full grown adults who still can't understand love, or at least what love is in society's standards. Some people grow both emotionally and mentally quicker than others, and also go through a lot more. Some are mature enough for 'love' and some still have a lot to learn until they're really ready. I dunno what I'm babbling about. No, Love knows no age...or race, or gender, etc etc. Does happiness? Grief? Any other emotion? Emotions shouldn't be limited by a set standard. i agree. she's completly right u will never realy understand love till u experience it |
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Nov 13 2004, 08:02 PM
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im such a dork.. ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,120 |
no.. anyone can fall in love.
hence, attatched image.
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Jan 26 2007, 10:12 PM
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Honestly, this sounds so stupid, but I know most of the middle schoolers I went with thought they were in love and stuff, but they ended up like...breaking up a few months later. I don't think middle schoolers know the TRUE meaning, but yeah. Some might know what it is, if they matured somewhat more.
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Jan 26 2007, 10:32 PM
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Depends what kind of love, babies starts loving their parents at like..a month?
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Jan 26 2007, 10:48 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
Depends on what kind of love you are talking about. Childish love. Sexual love. Commitment love. Enemy love. Friendship love. Parent love. Why-can't-you-take-out-the-garbage love.
Mostly, love should not have an age. Age is just a number. But with sexual love, there should be an age. |
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Jan 27 2007, 03:42 AM
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I personally think that the term "love" is something that is defined by the person themself, and not a general standard. Therefore, no. I dont think there is an age. Indeed. I feel that love is different for everyone cause everyone is different. My view is sacrifice and long suffering. I see true love as if you're willing to die for the person, no matter who they are, even if they are a stranger, then that's love. Yes, I would die for a stranger. At least they would get a chance at life. You know? Children love. They love their parents and whatnot. They don't love in a romantice sense. They don't understand it. Teen agers tend to throw the word around so I'm not going to give most of them the benefit of the doubt. Even older people have a messed up view of love. I mean, look at the divorce rate. That alone should tell you people don't even know what love is. |
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Jan 27 2007, 09:21 AM
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I think the relationship I'm in isn't puppy love, we have our fights and stuff, thats what makes a good relationship, if you both didn't fight at all you'd get sick of the person because their way too perfect. My boyfriend is 19 and I'm 14, and when hes gone for 2 seconds I miss him like crazy that I almost break down and cry, can't say thats not love.
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Jan 27 2007, 10:03 AM
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I think people can fall in love at any age, just don't mistaken it for something else.
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Jan 27 2007, 03:28 PM
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![]() vivacity ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 3,183 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,247 |
I think 'maybe'. There has to be around some age in life where you learn to understand the real definition of love, not just exactly at any age.
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Jan 28 2007, 05:25 PM
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So, I'm kind of changing my answer a bit. I do think you can have feelings of love at any age, but I don't think you can appreciate it and respect it until you've developed an actual brain, so you're mature enough to handle it and everything that comes along with it.
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Jan 28 2007, 09:38 PM
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yes and no EH IM IN BETWEEN!!! i think that age really is just a number that has nothing to do with the person that you fall in love with BUT i dont think its right or legal for a 15 year old to fall in love with a 30 year old or 8 year olds falling in love. that is just GROOOOSSSS.
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Jan 29 2007, 07:18 AM
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my vote was no because you can fall in love at any age...
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Jan 29 2007, 11:43 AM
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I believe you have to be mature enough to know what love is before you can experience it. If not, you may just be falling in "obsession".
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Feb 10 2007, 01:07 PM
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nat-a-tat-tat ![]() ![]() Group: Validating Posts: 28 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,148 |
sometimes you look back and realise you really WEREN'T in love.
things always become clearer the older you get but that's said for anything. love means alot more when you're older. it's more realer than the idea of it. the ideal version of love. i wont encourage my 13 year old sis to get with anyone till she's at least 16! if i had my way it would be a little later than that! |
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Feb 10 2007, 01:23 PM
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i don't think you can fall in love when you're 10.
so love does know SOME age. but i think that once you're mature enough to know what love is, and how it feels, then love can happen to anyone. |
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Feb 14 2007, 05:47 PM
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I think you can fall in love at any age. But I don't think that a 18 can fall in love with 52 year old with out there being a chemical off balance in their brain.
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Feb 14 2007, 09:35 PM
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Love doesn't know age, but it does know maturity. You have to be mature enough to understand the concepts of love. Age and Love are being compared often because many people (not all) become more mature the older they get.
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Feb 15 2007, 10:35 PM
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All depends on the people in my prespective.
To be able to see exactly what love is, I think it's practically impossible to know everything & how it ticks. Since we're all individuals we tick differently even in the slightest way. So I think people can learn love at any age, but not learn the whole view of how love works. :] We're all kids learning. :D |
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Feb 16 2007, 07:47 PM
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it doesent matter what age.
you can be 3 yrs. and fall in love in fact its more easy when your 3 because most 3 year olds dont care about looks and say i like that guy/girl cuz he/she is hott. have you ever heard a 3 year old say that? |
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