what if he broke a promise?, what would you do? Options

[x0143637x0]

when me nd my ex was going he promised that he wont go out with anyone for at least 6 months after we break up. so now we broke up nd its onli been almost 2 months. nd he just recently went out with someone. nd im kinda mad cuz even if its not that big of a promise or anything its still a promise. even though if its small or not. a promise is a promise. nd a promise is meant to be kept. so now that he broked it i wanna do something to show that he shouldnt have done what hes done. i dont know how to explain but yea...

if yoh were in my place, what would yoh do if he broke da promise?

[oops sorrie. i think this is kind of in the wrong forum. is it? ]

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

if i were u i'de start dating , wouldnt care about what he does, just be a available person agian oO;

[LittleLulu]

if i were u i'de start dating , wouldnt care about what he does, just be a available person agian oO;

agreed....if he broke the promis.. then he has no right to judge what u do now..

[nlgrl]

if he broke the promise u should too... to get back at him u kno?

[Too Asian To DIE]

well since its ur ex and u already broke up with him, u have no rite to judge him on anything...

[pbear]

So what?
He's not your boyfriend anymore, so you really can't do anything about it.
Which also means you can go out with another guy too.

[lojay]

I think that it really doesn't matter... I guess it depends on the relationship. I really don't know. I think that 6 months is honestly too long anyway. I mean, if you don't love someone anymore why are you waiting 6 months to date someone new? I mean, say that you broke up with him and you found the new love of your life after 2 months... Wouldn't you take the chance? I also think that it depends on if you still love him or have feeling for him etc. I guess I really didn't help but umm I guess you should just like let it go and accept it. Find someone new and make yourself avalible for a new relationship. Try and forget him and focus on some new eye candy, I'm sure you could find someone. ^_^

[mzteriouzme007]

i would lyke... blow him off, and lyke... get mad @ him, and then.... tell him that he's a liar, adn that he's a gayaashhhh

[nyctophiliac]

yeah this is in the wrong forum but he broke the promise so you can too
Steph

[sweetdreamsx3]

It's not okay. Even though it wasn't a big promise, it's still a promise and he shouldn't break it. If he wants to be like that, then you already know you can't trust him for anything else.

If he loves to break promises so much and if he ever dares goes up to you to ask a favor, take the favor and then break it.

[sammi rules you]

personally, i think 6 months is a REALLY long time to wait..i mean...woah..that's too long.

second, you broke up with him. he has the right to do whatever he wants now; there's nothing tying him down.

as do you. go get another boyfriend.

[177emories]

you've already broken up when ppl break up it doens't matter anymore... when me and my ex decided to break up cause he had to move away i said i wouldn't date for another year cause i'll never beable to find someone like him and a month later i dated someone... and he well yeah got pissed... we were in a relationship for much over a year afterall.. and i should moved on...

[silver-rain]

well, i think you should go find someone else to date to take your mind off him. since he's not your boyfriend anymore, you shouldn't worry about him. eh, i kinda know how you feel, if my ex started dating someone else, i'll get pissed.

[x0143637x0]

personally, i think 6 months is a REALLY long time to wait..i mean...woah..that's too long.

second, you broke up with him. he has the right to do whatever he wants now; there's nothing tying him down.

as do you. go get another boyfriend.

hes been single for 8 months before so 6 months shouldnt seem that long to him. nd second i did not break up with him. he did.

[mouse_3k]

boys are like tht..

then again, girls are like tht too..

move on..thts wht im trying to do..

[x0143637x0]

boys are like tht..

then again, girls are like tht too..

move on..thts wht im trying to do..

its easier to say than to do

[LiNHy POO]

i would confront him about it. at least tell him what im feeling that he broke that promise.

[AsianUniQ]

simple..........the promise that you two make, doesnt have any real purpose........so its alreay an indication that, thers no flaws, no goal and its bound to be broken.....so if you already broke up, yo both are goign separate ways.. and live your own lives......why wait the six months? please explain..

and seemingly if its an official break up, he's not gona wait for you.......however, nonetheless, a promise is a promise, even if he doesnt have you as his gf anymore, the amouont of trust invested in you , and ur trust invested in him as you were bf/gf, would still be proportional to the amount of trust in a friendship.........even if you're not going out anymore, you should still be able to trust him as a freind.........so if hne breaks his promise, he's not worthy of being a freind..........doesnt seem like he cared, and seems like u still cared for him....so what can you do...........solution.......NOTHING. no rebellions, only makes things worst. Walk proud,chin up, if he wants you back, keep walking, dont turn aruond, chins up.

[lookitskim]

Promises are meant to be broken they just say that so u won't whine about it. What can u do? My ex boyfriend promised me ALOT OF THINGS. He didn't keep ONE of them. Oh wells life goes on.

[Cynthee]

I'd still keep the promise. It'll show your ex that while HE might go on and break a promise, you won't.

[babyxtc626]

"promises are made so that they could be brokeN" it aint right but is true..i've had a lot of things broken....when ur with a guy..dont believe anything the said (kinda lost faith in them)

[conster]

i think if ppl cant keep the promise then they shouldnt have said it lol well u guys arent together anymore so it wont make a difference

[s18maurier]

you aren't happy that he broke the promise, but think about it, if you just go ahead and start to date with other people, then aren't you breaking the promise as well? you may think it's ok to break it snce he broke it frist, but if you don't like the fact that he broke it, wouldn't it be contradictory to break it yourself as well?

it's hard to repress the anger aroused by a broken promise, but what rights do you have to control what he does now that you guys aren't together anymore? just let it go and maybe stay in touch with him so you guys can still be friends..

[sheepy]

well.. i would go up to him and tell him how i feel and stuff. and just try to start dating too since he broke it already.

[PinkTrash]

Yeah I agree.. It doesnt matter anyway, its not like hes still commited to you

[AsianUniQ]

you should still keep the promise......that shows that you have morals that you follow and those morals later on in life will pay back big time.......you follow morals you give yourself the self respect and that means being a strong GIRL. dont rebel and go out with another guy just to make him jealous, then u'd only know that you broke your promise to get him back. Thats just obvious that you still miss him. Do whats best for yourself, dont do anythign to prove anyting to him, because thatws just useless......he's not gona come back or be mad.

[avsugarhigh09]

umm yeah you guys broke up so why wouldn't he date someone else?

[hellzlilkit]

just start dating again. who cares if he's going out with someone else. that just means he has no respect.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Eh... oh well, what are ya gonna do??

Me and my ex prmised eachother no matter what happened we were gonna be eachother's dates for each of our senior proms... I didn't end up going to his, and I dunno if he'll be going to mine.