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 Sep 30 2004, 11:29 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch.  Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643  |
Yeah so I'm talking to this guy I like. We've been pretty good friends for awhile. And right now I'm kind of doing bad at school. So I was just telling him about it. And i dunno, this summer he was kind of ... making me mad. because everything i told him he'd go like "oh, whatever". and after i complained to him about it, i kind of just went like, okay fine you don't care so ill shut up now. because i thought he wouldn't care.
and that made him mad for some kind of reason. he thought i was giving him a stupid attitude when he was trying to cheer me up!! i mean seriously. i was just basing this on his damn attitude in the summer, whenever i'd tell him something and he'd say "i dont care" or "whatever"! so i just thought i was bugging him by telling him about my life. and now he finally cares when i think he doesn't. he just signed off on me saying "why am i even talking to you?!" and i'm already in a bad enough mood. sorry for venting. you can close this if you want. |
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Sep 30 2004, 11:34 PM
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QUOTE(ichiban @ Sep 30 2004, 11:29 PM) Yeah so I'm talking to this guy I like. We've been pretty good friends for awhile. And right now I'm kind of doing bad at school. So I was just telling him about it. And i dunno, this summer he was kind of ... making me mad. because everything i told him he'd go like "oh, whatever". and after i complained to him about it, i kind of just went like, okay fine you don't care so ill shut up now. because i thought he wouldn't care. and that made him mad for some kind of reason. he thought i was giving him a stupid attitude when he was trying to cheer me up!! i mean seriously. i was just basing this on his damn attitude in the summer, whenever i'd tell him something and he'd say "i dont care" or "whatever"! so i just thought i was bugging him by telling him about my life. and now he finally cares when i think he doesn't. he just signed off on me saying "why am i even talking to you?!" and i'm already in a bad enough mood. sorry for venting. you can close this if you want. ooo thats harsh ok so u TRIED talkin to him ..but he jus bein a jerk abt it...then mebi u cud like talk to one of his friends abt it n let them talk some sense into him??? |
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Sep 30 2004, 11:38 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
naw just leave him.. if he acts like that he'll sooner or later regret and come back.. trust me i know guys cause i am one.. or just ITCH at him and be like why i act like this is because you act like this... just talk to him.. why he does it and why he acts like that to you... and if you talked about guy problems to him and maybe he might've liked you but you talked about other guys... or if all this doesn't work hes not your friend.. just forget him
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Oct 1 2004, 09:56 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,353 |
awww...well if you really do like him, then you shouldn't just ignore him. Talk to him and work things out!<3
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Oct 1 2004, 04:52 PM
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Leave it alone. He'll come back like rainnydaiis said. :P If they guy "listened" to you for that long, he'll eventually come back. haha
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Oct 1 2004, 06:40 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
he probably liked you and didn't wanna show it. he wants you to know he cares, so you saying "you know what, you don't care anyway" is like..insulting.
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Oct 1 2004, 07:20 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
okay thats just his way or responding when he listens to you yap and yap, what you expect man... besides guys are like that...
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Oct 1 2004, 09:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
QUOTE(VaguelyAware @ Oct 1 2004, 7:40 PM) he probably liked you and didn't wanna show it. he wants you to know he cares, so you saying "you know what, you don't care anyway" is like..insulting. I agree. Almost the exact same thing happened to me. He apologized profusely in a few days. |
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Oct 2 2004, 12:33 AM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
actually i think he cares, right now of course. if he doesnt care.. he wouldnt be talking back at u.. lols he knows ur right.. but he doesnt wanna think ur right... i think he does care but doesnt wanna admit he didnt care over the summer. dont worry u did the right thing
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Oct 2 2004, 08:22 AM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
ouch well i was in that situation before or atleast close to it, i dont think your at fault though cuz if you say he said i dont care or w/e then he goes back on his word he needs to realize that his jokes werent taken as jokes and trust may have been broken...you did the right thing and i hope everything works out
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Oct 2 2004, 09:16 AM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
boys are like that...just talk to him in person and tell him how you feel
 Steph
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Oct 2 2004, 11:50 AM
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Just ask him why he's been acting like that and try to work things out with him. If he ignores you and doesn't come back to you, just move on.
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