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 Sep 22 2004, 06:20 PM
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ok so i have this one so-called friend. weve been friends since 1st grade til this summer. she started changing in 8th grade, but it wasnt really big or anything. but now shes like, gone krazee. i hav a feelin shes...jealous? or wants attention or wants to be better then other people because she always puts people down by saying bad stuff about them. an example is when she was taking my other friend home, amy. and then right in front of everyone she said to her *do u remember in 7th grade when everyone used to hate u?* and she wouldve said something also but she was giving her a ride home. i would just stop being friends with her, but i have to carpool with her since my parents cant pick me up. so yea. i try to ignore her, but she just tags along with me an says horrible stuff. it really sucks.
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Sep 22 2004, 06:23 PM
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I'd ignore it or try to be her friend...lyke say this.."uhhh no ever 1 was kool wit meh." or if she keeps going on make new friends drift apart. or give her a taste of her own medicine......I'll come back to help you some more.....I have excperinced this too.
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Sep 22 2004, 06:25 PM
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ok so i can tell u've been friend for a long time.. so then u can talk to her abt it..n tell her ur opinion.. in a non-harsh sorta way... u cud say smthn like" umm.. u kno what?? ..u kinda changed lately.....i mean like.. u diss ppl alot u knoe that??..."...or smthn... if she's toostuborn.. then ditch her.
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Sep 22 2004, 06:47 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
snap ur fingers and say OH NO U DID ENT! lol jk... anyways... just tell her that she needs to think b4 she talks,straighten her ass out
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| *stephinika* |
Sep 22 2004, 07:31 PM
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QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Sep 22 2004, 4:47 PM) snap ur fingers and say OH NO U DID ENT! lol lol haha yeaaa do that!  but seriously, i agree with the rest of what he said too, just talk to her. if you've been friends that long you should be able to just talk to her about it.
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Sep 22 2004, 09:45 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
like everyone said, talk to her.. before its too late... a person changes over time and if its a bad change before they cant turn back... and ur not gonna say anythin cuz of the rides??
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Sep 22 2004, 09:50 PM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
Me thinks she craves attention. Maybe she's in a hard stage of her life...so she puts other people down so she'll fit right in with them or she puts people down so she'll feel more special...otherwise...she's just down right mean.
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Sep 22 2004, 11:12 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
me, i would just dump that loser. she likes to cause trouble, sooner or later she will be that 8th grade loner.
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Sep 22 2004, 11:19 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,271 |
thanks for the advice/comments. some are helpful and OTHERS *cough dreamguy2k1 cough* are funny. lol. and im not in 8th grade. im a freshie! lol neway thanks. im going to try to sort it out
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Sep 22 2004, 11:35 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Er.
Talk to her.. |
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Sep 23 2004, 05:03 PM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
just deal with it and ignore.... she will realize latr that she has changed and affected people around her when she got no more friends....
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Sep 23 2004, 05:41 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Just ignore her .. she's a freakin b!tch.
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Sep 23 2004, 05:59 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
i agree with mostly everyone except the shes a freakin B * T C H part
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Sep 23 2004, 08:21 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
most of these cases should be talked to, to TAHT person... instead of asking us what to do... when obviously we don't know half of it...
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Sep 23 2004, 08:36 PM
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talk to her while you still have the chance to i guess?
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Sep 23 2004, 08:43 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Sep 22 2004, 7:47 PM) snap ur fingers and say OH NO U DID ENT! lol jk... anyways... just tell her that she needs to think b4 she talks,straighten her ass out LMAO the Shanae-nae act! I agreee though (not with teh shanae-nae-ness xD) |
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Sep 23 2004, 08:59 PM
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 Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
QUOTE(royalfreshness @ Sep 23 2004, 8:43 PM) LMAO the Shanae-nae act! I agreee though (not with teh shanae-nae-ness xD) Man, Martin was the shizzle. But as for your friend, you never know people until they grow up. Let her make the decision to change the way she's behaving (which is extremely RUDE, btw). You can alert her to how she's alienating others but if she doesn't change, then whatever. I'm not saying to break ties with her, but you may want to distance yourself from her...  That kinda sounds mean... |
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Sep 23 2004, 09:01 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
IGNORE HER !!! or just try to work it?
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Sep 24 2004, 04:46 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
when she finally gets you fed up, b*tch slap her all the way back to 1st grade.
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Sep 24 2004, 09:17 AM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
sey....."do you remember that one time at school when i punched you in tha face fer being such a bizatch?"(you have to sey it really fast or it wont sound right) and then...guess wutchu do buddy?!?!yu friggen deck her in tha face....x] that's only an alternate....first thing you should try doing is talking to her like most ppl sed...haha x] just tell her what she's doing that gets on yur nerves or bothers you...dont str8 up ignore her. she has to kno wut she's doing wrong...she might not realize she's being a bizatch nah mean?x]
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Sep 24 2004, 03:43 PM
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I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
QUOTE Me thinks she craves attention. Maybe she's in a hard stage of her life...so she puts other people down so she'll fit right in with them or she puts people down so she'll feel more special...otherwise...she's just down right mean. that could be it too... maybe she just going through a hard part of her lyf maybe sumthing to do with her family or other things..... |
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| *Kathleen* |
Sep 24 2004, 06:31 PM
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Mmm...maybe she religiously watches Mean Girls.
 But yeah, you should confront her. When I say, "confront," I don't mean start a fight with her. Just talk to her in a normal matter/tone, and tell her how you feel. Try communicating more. 
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Oct 5 2004, 10:49 PM
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that's easy... tell her to f*ck off!
 well... that's what i would do...
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Oct 6 2004, 10:19 PM
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AsianUniQ Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,713 |
if I were you, I'd rather walk home. eheeh but since im nott.........then yah she craves for attention...if you care for her, just let her know. That is not a good quality for a freind.
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