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 Sep 17 2004, 11:51 PM
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Omgsh My ex. said that she wants to have sex with someone...shes only 12...Yesh... very young... I've known her for 3 years? yeah and I just figured this out..
lilpNoiboi450: she wants to F*** wit patrick lilpNoiboi450: she told me Chaoming666: yeah i know shes told me so yeah and she wants to do it with another guy.... and I wanna help her but wat shud i do  and shes only 12....And i mean i tried to talk to her. All mah friends tried to convince her not to but she just wont listen so please help...[reason im ashamed is becuz i cant help her] -Kevin |
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Sep 17 2004, 11:55 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
if she wont listen to u thats all u can do... unless u wanna go buy her a chasity belt lol...
well .... shes 12 i doubt shes gonna be ready for it, and if thos guys are 12 ish too... i laff hahahahahahaha..... kids... funny. dont worry , they wont have a clue what they are doing and if they do, shell regret it later ~_~ |
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Sep 17 2004, 11:58 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Damn. I'm 12 and I don't even think about that crap. She's not ready ... yeah shes not gonna kno how tod o it xD
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Sep 18 2004, 12:17 AM
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 Kids.Have.All.The.Fun Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,943 |
remind her of the consequences. and that whatever she's trying to prove by f**king some guy when she's 12.. she's just gonna be known as a whore. her reputation will be ruined and she will get worse and worse. plus she could get pregnent or a disease not to mention sex ties in SOOO many emotions and shes 12 she won't be able to understand her feelings and she'll think shes "in love" shes 12 years old.. thats lust. remind her how old she is. over and over agian
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Sep 18 2004, 12:55 AM
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 -:- Nothen But Dreams -:- Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,146 |
QUOTE remind her of the consequences. and that whatever she's trying to prove by f**king some guy when she's 12.. she's just gonna be known as a whore. her reputation will be ruined and she will get worse and worse. plus she could get pregnent or a disease not to mention sex ties in SOOO many emotions and shes 12 she won't be able to understand her feelings and she'll think shes "in love" shes 12 years old.. thats lust. remind her how old she is. over and over agian ditto jus keep talking to her i doubt she will go thru with it |
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Sep 18 2004, 01:52 AM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
show her examples of how ppl are and what happen to them after they lost it at an early age
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Sep 18 2004, 02:16 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 329 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,536 |
Um... remind her of all the things that can go horibbly wrong. Like STD's and if she has her period she could get pregnent...
And tell her that it'll be so much better to wait till she got married... |
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Sep 18 2004, 08:27 AM
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 I'm 2 people's favourite CBer. Group: Member Posts: 109 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,514 |
Actually, you can get pregnant before you have your period...
But it REALLY isn't a good idea to even consider having sex until you've had you period for a while... Ideally, people shouldn't have sex until they're married, or at least adults, and able to care for the baby if she does get pregnant. Reality is, that doesn't happen... So she should wait until she finds someone whom she really cares about an who really cares about her. For one, that'll make it better. Two, that probably won't happen until she's more grown up and better suited. 12 year olds having sex... 
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Sep 18 2004, 09:22 AM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
mayb try tellin her about std's n stuff...or get her some pamphlets from the hosp. about pregnancy?
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Sep 18 2004, 09:29 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 242 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,702 |
You can always make up lies. I mean she's 12. She won't know the difference!
Tell her she can get AIDS, pregnant, STDs, and all that other stuff. It's not a fun thing and ask her if that's what she wants to live with for the rest of her life. Dropping out of school with a big belly? Not a pretty picture. Surf up pictures on the internet to show her how horrible a life like that can be if you're really young. -penguin Hope this helps you out. Best of luck of talking her out of it. Oh wait, no luck. She's just not thinking. |
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Sep 18 2004, 12:03 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
y do u want to b friends with a slut. seriously. if she wants to get pregant, let her.
but if u REALLY want to help, tell her about all the bad stuff culd happen if she doesn it. -STD's -get PRegnannt and all that other stuff |
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Sep 18 2004, 03:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,809 |
12! haha...well kids these days are extremely curious or something. Well...if you talked to her and she didn't listen then there is something wrong with her...there's nothing that you can really do. It's all good...she'll learn her lesson. Trust me...she'll regret it at 12.
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Sep 18 2004, 03:50 PM
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 ohBrian Group: Member Posts: 556 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,625 |
uhh.............. DUDE!! shell be in playboy someday!! .....
well ummm tell her parents.. if her parents could not stop her, tell them to bring her in Muary or Jerry springer.. seriously.. |
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Sep 18 2004, 06:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
Woah, 12?
I know some kids who did it at 13, but that was a bad choice. Just remind her of the consequences, etc. You can't control her, remember. |
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Sep 18 2004, 06:19 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,383 |
erm ewww..
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Oct 3 2004, 04:16 PM
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 AzN PrYdE Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,467 |
o god...thas scrwed up..uhg..well if shw wont listen her problem and she can get pregnant at the age of 12
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Oct 3 2004, 04:23 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Keep trying to tell her it will be a big mistake. And that there are so many consequences that could happen. She'll lose her virginity at a young age, she could risk pregnancy, and also the guy might have one of those "one night stands" with her. She shouldn't even be thinking about sex at all.
But if she still chooses to, it's her choice and she'll ahve to live with it for the rest of her life. Plus, it's a known fact that if you had sex at a VERY young age, people with think you are slutty, even if you were raped. That's what people will think, even if she isn't slutty or anything. |
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Oct 3 2004, 05:00 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
let her do it..make her learn from her actions. she sounds like a sl*t to me..
tell her parents? idk, i say make her learn from it. |
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Oct 3 2004, 05:05 PM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
damn wth... she is only 12.... im 13 and i dont think of having sex with anyone at this moment... its disturbing and disgusting....try to persuade her as much as u can even if it doesnt work then u dont hafta regret that u didnt try to help.....
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Oct 3 2004, 07:19 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
wow that's really young...if she wants to screw up her life then it's her choice
 Steph
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Oct 3 2004, 07:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i know this advice doesn't seem mature..........just tell her parents that she wants do "stuff"
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Oct 3 2004, 08:01 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
You guys, horrible advice. The only way teenagers learn to not do something is by first hand experience. Let her have sex, any way she wants it.
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Oct 3 2004, 08:03 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
Generations are getting faster and faster. That is said. Maybe she has those problems at home and will become a ho for "attention". Heh.
No offense <3. |
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Oct 3 2004, 08:22 PM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE You guys, horrible advice. The only way teenagers learn to not do something is by first hand experience. Let her have sex, any way she wants it. thts exactly wht i said lol |
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Oct 3 2004, 08:41 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
umm.. i think you should tell an adult?
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Oct 3 2004, 08:57 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Oct 3 2004, 8:22 PM) thts exactly wht i said lol As if I actually read the thread when I haven't posted in it! |
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Oct 3 2004, 09:17 PM
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^^^ u lazy @ss!!!!! tell ur friend what you feel and the decision she is making is very major...
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Oct 3 2004, 09:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,720 |
help her!! shes only 12!! thats 2 young!! keep trying to help her.. if she doesnt listen at least tell her 2 use protection!
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Oct 3 2004, 10:06 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(xox Qt LuVZ xox @ Sep 18 2004, 2:16 AM) Um... remind her of all the things that can go horibbly wrong. Like STD's and if she has her period she could get pregnent... And tell her that it'll be so much better to wait till she got married... i agree...gosh 12? that's young! but then again...an 8 year old has had a baby  but remind her of what might happen..I hope it goes well 
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Oct 4 2004, 04:30 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
psh my god a 12 year old havin sex. sorry but ur ex is demented. bleh i sae let her have sex and regret it the rest of her life.
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Oct 4 2004, 10:00 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
What you should do is!
Slap her in the face and be like your going to get an STD if you have sex...haha! okay...maybe dont do that...or you can if you want too..hehe |
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Oct 4 2004, 03:40 PM
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Try and talk her out of it, and if that doesn't work, then there's really nothing you can do...
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