popularity, important? Options

[pixiedust309]

well in a way it is to me. cuz like it would be cool if u had all these people who knew u and u knew them and everyone likes u and nobody despises u. i like to be center of attention sometimes tho. so yea. im not all that popular anyway. semi-popular...but slutty popular isnt what im talking about so yea. what bout u guys.

[waccoon]

<~ Loner.
Popularity's cool, but what if you do something embarassing?
Everybody would know.

[nyctophiliac]

well i'm "well known" around my school but popularity isn't that important, just as long as i have my friends

[mony0407]

popularity in what way? like im known by people, mainly cause my name. but yaah most people now-a-days are popular for being sluts or "bad-asses" aka FAKES.. sooo popularity isnt something i'd ever wanna be.. cause its not really a good thing ever

[beambitious]

well its nice that u have a lot of friends and a lot of ppl know u
personally i dont really care

[nlgrl]

no cuz popular people are looked down on alot of people... like only the popular people think there popular.... eh it doesnt make sense... popular people r only popular withen them selfs and there surrondings.

[whywasisostupid]

i dont realy give wut people say. if they dont like me, then thats toooooo bad

all i need is me and my boyfriend and im happy

[LiNHy POO]

i dont really care about if im popular or not. i juss want respect from everyone, if they give it to me then ill give the same back.

[kpgrl4eva]

i'm.....normal? ionno....well like everyone knows me.......but i'm not popular..i'm...normal............

[LatinaLady]

i dont know why soem girls are into being popular. so what if you are it aint getting you nowhere. just as long as your happy with yuorself its all good. popularity isnt important to me.

[chikken_curry]

i suppose you could call me 'well known' too...i have many friends and im in clubs and sports...but its not like i strive everyday to surround myself with people who ill never see after high school...soo yeah..

[sweetdreamsx3]

Popularity doesn't matter that much to me. I could really care less. I'm just well known by a lot of people, but I don't consider myself popular. Ehh, who cares. You have friends already. Some people have a hard time making friends.

Stop caring about things like this.

[mouse_3k]

i dont care..i dont want to be popular..

I like being the normal girl..

[*lolita kitty*]

im popular
well.. not popular
but im one of those people who is friends with everyone

[Froshy]

the only thing i have to say is......popularity is overrated.

[xbernaa]

iono i dont really care

[EddieV]

i like to be popular but in a good way not those people that look down on the other groups, thats just plain mean, cuz im pretty popular in my skool, and most people like me...

[pbear]

If you mean popular as in having a lot of friends, sure, that can be nice.
If not, then no thanks. I don't want a whole bunch of rumors going around about me.

[sunissed14127]

in a way it is because if ur not popular u usually get picked on & stuff....im pretty popular i guess....im not a prep..gah i hate preps.........i guess u can call me the "groupie?" i dunno lol ive just got a ton of friends...some r popular n some arent..but its all good lol

[dani41790]

its not important to me cuz i dont care about popularity

[muffin dude 292]

Its not important to me... At least i got friends.

[caramel_apple]

I really dont know

[x0143637x0]

being popular is fun sometimes. but sometimes its not fun at all. it doesnt matter to me. as long as i got friends.

[Falon]

I suppose I'm lucky... Because I go to a public 'Acadmey' where people from all over the city are broght together with the students who also go there as part of their homeschool, everything is so... unique. Just because you're popular with one group of peole doesn't mean that you're popular with anyone else. So am I popular? Kinda. I'm friends with a lot of people in a lot of groups.

But remember... Sometimes you're lonliest when surrounded by a group of people.

[weirdness]

lolz im not popular but i dont care :PP

<lonerr too

i have like two close friends now but two really good friends and once a while i see old friends and some just regular friends

[xox Qt LuVZ xox]

Might be nice in the beginning... but I bet you it'd start sucking after a while.

[*stephinika*]

hmm in the beginning of high school i used to care a lot. now i honestly don't give a shiznit. i do/wear/say what i want and don't care if its the "cool" thing to do. doing that just makes you a conformist/follower and i hate being either of the two.

[SarahxJoy]

Okay, yes, sometimes I do feel self-counscious around girls who are thought to be popular. But I'm slowly becoming more comfortable with myself and it'll all be for the better. I don't want to be popular. I just want to have a great time in highschool and have tons of laughs with my friends.

Don't confrom.

[xo b0o b0o]

Whatever to all y'll people who lie and say popularity isn't anything. I mean call me shallow ... but I think that everybody secretly wants to be that popular girl. Well is all good though.

[Just_Dream]

No, I don't want to be popular. In fact, I don't think popularity is even an issue at my school. Everyone I know wknows each other and tsuff lol. Yea sure I know alot of people, but I don't really classify anyone as popular. JUST because alot of people know certain people, doesn't make them popular =P

[rueyaroo]

i dont really think its important .. but i care more about my reputation ...

[xxdaydreamer143]

i dont really care..as long as i have TRUE friends..im happy...and oh yea just cuz someone's popular that doesnt mean they DONT have any enemies ...they can be popular for bad reasons too u know

[mellyshelly]

Wow. Popularity, the reason why I dread going to school each day.

I dont really mind popularity. But most of the time, I would rather be friends with a popular person than a non-popular one. THis is shallow of me, but it's the truth.

I'm lucky that the most popular girl at my school is nice to everyone. ^_^

[persongp]

[ShEraBaRoO]

its just better to have your own group of close friends. i mean, yea, sure, alot of people know you and are friends with you but... ARE they really friends with you?

i would rather be popular in my group of friends

popularity can kiss my a$$ becuz it turns some people i used to know, really snobby and think themselves high and mighty

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

if you were to ask people around my school "do you know vinh" or something like that im sure they would be like "yea i know that guy blah blah" i guess im ell known..but i wouldnt go so far as popular. I get along with everyone and i have alot of sides to me i guess that makes me able to be accepted by alot of people / groups . but eh being popular doesnt just mean ur cool or w/e, could have a bad rep .. anywho ...

i dont think popularity is that important , doesnt matter how many friends u got, its the qaulity that counts.

[literemix24]

lols popularity isn't tha important..ehh well i'm not popular..at least i don't think so..lols i mean most of the popular ppl..well they're rele b*tchy XP..'n they dink the whole world revolves around em'..

[Looow]

I don't consider myself popular. To me, it doesn't mater if I'm popular or not. As long as I have a friend beside me.. I'm good =]

[s_parker_luver]

personally i dun care whether i'm popular or not.. as long as i have my friends wif me.

[DixieDaCutie]

im popular with my group of friends...i dunno about overall but a lotta the people that everyone says are so popular and stuff really aren't...they're um well known? but not necesarily liked. i guess popularity is important to me but if you have friends that like you it doesnt seem to matter as much

[laur3nw]

Not really..just as long as I have some friends.
I know a lot of people, but I wouldn't consider myself popular.

[apple.]

I dont care..as long as I have propr frds by my side..

[xquizit]

I never was the popular one in high school. I was more of an outcast and I was pretty cool with that. College I was a lot more "popular" but not in a good way. For some reason, I was the center a lot of the gossip and rumors... so yeah, I'd rather not be popular. I don't need all that attention.

[ichiban]

Yeah ... getting attention is fun. haha

[AznKutie]

Well...I guess I like to be the center of attention..but I don't really care. If im popular, good for me. if im not, good for me. as long as i have good friends (like i do rite now) then im fine.!

[sweetest-emotion]

i really don't care if i'm "popular" at all. no one at my school is popular. its all a matter of who knows who. to me being popular means having lots of friends that you can count on and friends that you can incorporate yourself with. so then with that said, i'm "popular" in my own ways that i can live with.

[[S]wangster]

it could be.
i would rather have more friends than more people to envy me

[ladyxdiscord]

i'm not popular...so what?

at least i have good friends that i can be myself around them. i mean, come on, popularity is just not that important.

[babyxyelloe]

i think some people take popular in the wrong way ya know? it just means like u know a lot of people and a lot of people know u, but some of the poeple i know take it wayyyy of the basics -___-

[dreamerOi]

i dont care about popularity but having friends is an essential

[e[m]]

i dont really care...anyone could be popular. i depends on how oyu look at it.

[e[m]]

i dont care about popularity but having friends is an essential

i totally agree.

[PinkTrash]

It depends on what type of popularity. if its true popularity, it comes naturally.. but the kind you see modernly, then Id say Who gives a care :)

[royalfreshness]

well its nice that u have a lot of friends and a lot of ppl know u
personally i dont really care

Same here.

[hallucinateimagi...]

no cuz popular people are looked down on alot of people... like only the popular people think there popular.... eh it doesnt make sense... popular people r only popular withen them selfs and there surrondings.

yeah, i know what you mean. They aren't really popular. They just think they're "cool". Popular means get along with everyone, adn they certainly dont.

[SeXyDeZZynSoCaL]

it used to be important to me throughout middle and high school because I was always looked up to..but during senior year i was just like ehh screw it..its not like it really matters..so i could really care less now..but then again im in college annnnd..popularity isnt even an option..i know thats the wrong wording..but i cant think of the word rite now haha

[sheepy]

i dunt really care... i mean , as long i have true friends yeahh

[maia_dc]

i think it's important to have a group of friends and be well-liked, but not to the extreme where you are part of the "popular girls"clique and you snub others... (did that make sense?) um, i guess i mean i would never want to be in the "mean girls" situation... =]

[Suesterrx]

life is too short to be cool

[eli5e]

not REALLY..but i guess it matters

[brooker0che]

i dont have a specific group. i'm a roamer. im friends with alot of different people.

[miss_asian]

i don't really care about popularity...if i'm populer than goood for me...if not god for me too...

[happygoluckyng]

edit: I clicked the wrong topic....lol
yeah I think popularity is important...then you can't get anything else

[racegirl24A]

pssh, Im not all that well-known around my school, and I wouldnt want it any other way. Im neutral with pretty much everyone, and theres a few friends I talk to a lot. I used to be somewhat popular and I really didnt like it. I have no problem with being the loser

[milky_yumm]

im not a loner...that would effing suck!!! =p
i guess, yeah, i am...pouplaur. i know like, everyone! SOOO many people. i only have like, 5 people i dont like, (everywhere, out of school too!) and yeah...=]

<3

[tresa1992]

It's cool if you're popular but being popular isn't always being cool. You don't have to be popular to be someone. All you have to have is friends, to me that's what's important and that's what's popularity.

[dreamerOi]

nope. all i care about is having "real" friends. ones who arent all fake& judgemental& let you down. just yea. plus being popular means you always have to um maintain at a certain level of happiness& beauty& all this other crud. then yea you become some drone to being perfect. so yea i just live.

[jennifish]

duh! ahaha yea its important but my life doesnt like revolve around that concept. its somewhat important.

[*Weird addiction*]

i am popular and i love it but i really dont care as long as i have my friends and family,im happie!!

[mellyshelly]

Truthfully, I would only want to be part of the popular group so I'm looked up to and guys. The thing is, my personality matches the popular group's, but they just dont take the time to get to know me because I'm not blonde, skinny, or as pretty as them..

[sharerol]

Popularity's cool, but then everyone looks up to you and if you embarrass yourself, everyone would talk about it. And it doesn't really matter to me cuz once I'm grown up, I'll see that there was no point in wanting to be popular.

[PinkTrash]

Popularity is stupid sometimes, cause truthfully no one acts like themself infront of everyone, and you dont know the person truthfully, cause they try to play it cool in order to be liked. Rather be with friends who'd love you if you were wierd or whatever. ya this is only for some popular cliques.. you can be popular with your own clique of friends.

[I.Luff.Emo.Boys.]

im popular. Im not conceided, but im not going to lie. Its not hard to be popular at all, you just have to be friends with everyone and basically be nice, then ppl just... like you.



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and lotsa people say:

1.popular people arent real to themselves: They can, and they cant be. You dont know that. You see it on TV thats all. If your superficial and snobby then your not popular because noone likes you.

2.popular people dont have real friends: i know my friends are real, and i can tell them whatever i want to. its TV that you see all that stuff on. None of my friends talk about eachother behind their backs.

[limabeanzryummy]

i feel neutral about it. if you're popular, thats cool. but if youre not, then i guess thats alright too. people trying to be popular is annoying so i guess i can say its overrated. iono whether i am or not, but for me it just depends on who my friends are that i fit in with

[mz_m1ch3113]

well....ppl say im popular...but they call popular like the sterotypical"blond" group with all the jocks...well i dont see them as popular...and my friends dont either. they say im popular cuz alotta ppl know me not just because they know my name but because of mah reputation. yea....alotta ppl know OF me but thats different....

as my friend says...he thinks popularity is based on ppl knowing you and your reputation and i agree

[najae]

It's not that important to me. I have a good group of friends, and I meet more everyday through school and work. I don't mind if I'm not the one who has a huge group of followers everywhere I go.

[Ashyo]

omg!!! no offence
but usually the populare people are sluts.. hoes ect..
and they are always rude !! so i would def. would not wanna be populare
but actually i am in away cause populare mean u have alot of friends
which i do.

[shortiiex]

which kind of popularity are you talking about? The rich and hot ppl or the embrassing thing you did and now everyone knows you?

[sammi rules you]

i've been somewhat unpopular my whole life. it would be really nice to be popular, but it's not my top priority.

[x__jamielynn]

oh who gives a shit...

[eli5e]

not necessarily

[shawty_redd]

oMgGz LikE i hHaVe To Be PoPpUlAr!!!

[/sarcasm]

[captivatedheart]

Popularity is not a big issue to me. You don't have to know everybody, and not everyone has to know you. I don't care much for it.

[swtxcatastrophe]

Popularity is weird. Because, who truly determines it? The people who you think are popular may think that you are. But anyways, I would say that I'm popular, and it's not because I hang out with the popular clique, it's because a lot of people know me and I'm assuming they like me, and it's really because I'm myself 24/7. And some people say, when you're by yourself, you're yourself, but when you're with other people you may be a little changed, but I truly am me wherever I go.

[murderwaltz]

ah, i don't care about popularity. i don't care if im popular or not. it's pretty pathetic. but hey, it's my opinion..

[xj_liana_tx]

i dono wat i m labeld.. i m semi-popular cuz i m a cheerleader and i m frinds with few preps and have a lot of popular aquaintances... maybe i should start to be nice to EVERYONE...

[lilanglbaby418]

popularity isn't important.
you'll learn that in time.

[eli5e]

not necessarily... as long as i hav freiends. ;D

[sw33t_rouge]

i tottaly agree wid eli5e

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[Perfection]

If you're real popular..you can't have any privacy...

[Ladii_D1809]

in middle school not really...but in high school i'll care a lot beacuse the colleges i'm planning to apply to, they really want you to be well known, through students and facaulty

[blonde-wonder]

im not popular...but im one of those girls that you say hi to in the halls...im friends with everyone. as long as i have my own friends and my boy im ok yah

[swim789]

pop·u·lar: commonly liked or approved

(that was from the dictionary)

according to the dictionary, I suppose I am popular. I have plenty of friends (or at least enough). since I'm asian, have "cool" asian friends, smart (lolz..w/e), and dressed well (or at least well enough), people lable me as part of the "cool asian crew" (thats seriously how our group is called). Even though I'm not in the "popular group", nor do I want to be, I could say that I am popular. Actually, at my school, the "popular group" don't mind the "cool asians".

...So I would say that I am popular. In a good way.

[ANG33ZY]

I don't care..

[megan_x3]

i dont really care , my frds likes to be popular though . . . but i dun get y bein popular is so cool .  it just brings more attention to u .  .nothin else. !

[islandkiss]

it isn't.


to me, popularity doesn't make a person any different

[*bright eyes*]

depends on what you mean by popular..

[eli5e]

not necessarily... as long as i dont have friends that arent losers or nething ..lol

[tinababy143]

when i was in middle/high school thats almost all i thought about..now that im older i could care less..it was pointless and now when i see everyone else like my nieces and friends younger sisters/brothers who care about it so much, i think its lame..but whatever..we all go thru that phase at one time or another right??

[MeWooHoo]

alright, well, i am considered popular because of my group. BUT it sucks. they are mean and stupid. they are decieving b*tchs. and i would rather be a 'loner' than with them. and if you think your a loser, your not. if you have nice, kind friends than you are better off than the 'popular' group. im trying to stop hanging out with them without being mean and ditching them.....so just try not to look up to people because you think they look, or act better than you, cause i can gaurantee your better than them.