Do u lyke it wen gurls come striaght up nd tell u, that they like u Options

[1azn_kutee]

like ive done it alot of time and i never get a reaction...and it urts..like what ami doin wrong?? am i just plain ugly...or not wanted or what?!?!? like ive told soo many guyz and they never have a reaction so should i stop and wait ...for some one to tell me or just keep trying??

[espionage]

Well, when I first read what you said, I imagined a girl perking up to a guy and sunnily going, "I like you!", and that isn't such a good way to approach.

Otherwise, it depends on the guy... what I do (I'm a guy) when I want to let someone know is by first researching on her on how she reacts to different types of people... Then subtly telling her, like giving her a gift, or talking to her more...

[*RiC3xBoy*]

be better if i knew they were hinting that they like me

[1azn_kutee]

well like gopng..."umm..u no what...i kinda like u"...dat sort of thing..nd like leaving to let him think...

[rainnydaiis]

Yes... i hate it when I have to hear everything from other people or find out by yourself...

[PingPong]

yeai want the gurl to tell me that they like me.. so i can make the second move ya know??

[inFamous06]

Id much rather the girl flirt and not tell me right away. The curiousity between me and the girl of "does she/he like me" thing is something that doesnt really happen that often. It shouldnt really be said in words anyways. It should be shown in actions.

[glow]

I guess so...but tat thought is juz fantasy...i'm ugly, no girls lik/liked me or will like me...i'm more lik juz a friend to them...

[inFamous06]

I know what you mean. Im known as the friend-figure as well. Anytime a move is made, the words "I dont want to mess up our friendship." slips out of their mouths. Atleast it isnt "I just want to be friends."

[eboarder2020]

I would love it if a girl came up to me and told me she liked me or something... It saves all the confusion

[t1MM1k]

oh it would be so much easier if a girl could come up and say that they liked you.. cuz then you wouldnt have to stress over whether or not she really does.. it would be better if i knew somehow.. haha

[someflipguy]

It would be a real change if a girl came up to me and be like "Whats up? You wanna go out?" I would be shocked at first, but I always give people a try before i truly judge and see if I like them.

[aznbabiicutie]

i dont have the guts to even tell a guy that i like him online or in real life..im just so SCARED.

[sweetdreamsx3]

Ehh, I did that before. I went up to him and I'm like "I like you Daniel". And yeah he didn't really talk to me after that. Silence moments.

Anyhoo, it would be better if you knew the guy for a long time and then you tell him that you like him.

[rainnydaiis]

i say we beat up that daniel guy !! lolz T.T

[*corizzle20*]

i agree to some of the other ppl. u should hint that u like them, not just say it.

[TK102]

It would definitely be a lot helpful if the girl comes straight on and tell you that she has a crush on you. I wish some did that to me. But I do understand that is is awkward when the guy doesn't respond well to it, probably cause they're in shock, or that they don't like the girl.

[kpx2u4u]

Yup Prolly or Mostly cuz they are in shock i guess... we guyz have feeling to u kna? ;]

[jnukes]

i vote "yes" but depends on tha girl... y'nkow.?..

cause one time there this one girl that asked me to tha social but.. i didn't really like her.. so i said no... but dang she came up to me honest, then she called me.. ... kinda uncoinedencal [sp] that i'm tha only one with that last name in tha phone book -.-

[XaZnX07]

yeah it depends on the girl i guess you can keep what your doing but the guy might be kinda surpise so yeah i dont know lol sorry i wasnt a help



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[*wind&fire*]

yeh it really hurts like i have prib told 3 guys that ive liked them and nuthin has happened and now imtoo scared to tell anyone else cos it hurt too much

[faze_O]

yeah.... but it depends on how you say it....and not too many girls say this to me but ok...id rather hear it from you than any one else...

[pnoy_illuzion]

i would rather have the girl that likes me say it to my face, then one of her friends say it to me b/c they can be lyen. but yea, the way i found out my currect gf liked me was like we was conversating in class and i was like "so, who do u like"and she sed " i like u"......den it just carried on from there

[misoshiru]

yeh it really hurts like i have prib told 3 guys that ive liked them and nuthin has happened and now imtoo scared to tell anyone else cos it hurt too much

yeah i agree w/ you. i've told abt 2 that i've liked them and then after that, they basically just ignored me. ohwell...thats all in the past.

[Falon]

I unno... I told this guy that I liked him after 3 months of pretty obvious flirting, but he told me that he "had a lot on his plate" and iggyed me until he asked out one of my closest friends later. -.-'

Of course, with my current bf, I kinda just went up to him and kissed him - we'd only shared, perhaps, 3 sentences with each other beforehand... Like; (Hi, how are you? Just really basic things..)

[Maddie]

I unno... I told this guy that I liked him after 3 months of pretty obvious flirting, but he told me that he "had a lot on his plate" and iggyed me until he asked out one of my closest friends later. -.-'

His loss is my gain

[rainnydaiis]

??? I got lost on that post =P

[abercrombiekid]

i would feel awkward.. for a couple of instances..

my friends... that used to like me.. go up to me and tell me that.. and i go like..okay.. nice lol

[agonzo69]

yeah it depend though....like id rather there be flirting or talking b4 her/or me decide to break the ice and come out with the truth bout each other...so i guess so...but i would them 2 have gutz and tell me themselves

[tooeffingcrazy]

like ive done it alot of time and i never get a reaction...and it urts..like what ami doin wrong?? am i just plain ugly...or not wanted or what?!?!? like ive told soo many guyz and they never have a reaction so should i stop and wait ...for some one to tell me or just keep trying??

well its kinda suprising if you jut go POP "i like you" the guy would not know what to say honestly =P So i think you should just drop some signals

[ashesinthefall]

oh yes its a big turn on

[xpressionist04]

yea... makes my life a lil bit easier.

[Rayj]

Yes and no. I think its cool unless the gurl springs it on you at the most random time.

[ApoKa]

I'd enjoy having the liberty of making the second move. But I'm going to say no because I might not like the girl and I hate thinking on my feet.

[*Expresseggroll*]

yeah, tell me straight out. But don't expect me to say ok or yay right away. i wanna take it slow and easy first. No rushes~

[limabeanzryummy]

nowadays im starting to think multiple times before doing anything x]

[Oreo_bro]

Yes.

Mainly because now a lot of girls will flirt with a guy. and flirting has seemed to change with the times. Before, if a girl flirted with u a lot it ment she liked u, if she huged u or kissed u on the cheek, it USUALLY ment she liked u, but now its just another damn form of flirting


come on girls..make it easy on us guys..quit making us run around with broken hearts

[unicocira]

I'm wondering ~ sort of question for u guys ~ since a few of u said like u wouldn't want a girl to tell u at a random time.....when is it a good time to tell a guy?

[Perfection]

I would love it if a girl came up to me and told me she liked me or something... It saves all the confusion

I agree.

[gothicvengeance]

Of course, with my current bf, I kinda just went up to him and kissed him - we'd only shared, perhaps, 3 sentences with each other beforehand... Like; (Hi, how are you? Just really basic things..)

Wow...that must take guts. Anyway, I agree with some people ^^, I think it's better if a girl hints that she likes a guy because that way, both the guy and the girl can get a little bit of an idea about how they feel about each other without saying it outright and risking getting hurt feelings.

[Levy2k6]

i don't really care but its all good either way... it takes away from the part that makes you think "no, i wont ask her out cuz i think she doesnt like me" and stuff.

[jambaJUICE]

Ehh, I did that before. I went up to him and I'm like "I like you Daniel". And yeah he didn't really talk to me after that. Silence moments.

Anyhoo, it would be better if you knew the guy for a long time and then you tell him that you like him.

*replaces name with Josh*

There ya go. Now u got me ! YAY !!!

--

But.. dont do that. why? because why the hell would you tell him, when you could have fun flirting with him?

Then again.. u mite end up confusing him, and get into the habit of flirting and do that to every other guy, and then u mite end up liking a lot of guys and yadda yadda yadda..


SOO.. BASICALLY.. its ur choice
Hehehe..

[mzteriouzme007]

i told once and he just was like.. mad or something... i feel mad now... >:[ i did it onlyne and he was like.. who do u like... ? and i wa like... um... ***** and he was like... um... is that... me? and i wa slike..um... yeah.. it's you and he was like.. OMFG! and i was like.. - __ -

[Dzhang2110]

well lol kinda as you can see i answered

[sheepy]

maybe the guy just doesnt like you? dunt worry u got ur whole life !

[whywasisostupid]

i told one guy i liked him and we went out. 9 months.

this one guy asked me who i liked and i was like hmmm... i duno, who do u like?
and he was like. you. kinda weird at first

whoops i didnt answer ur question.
did u talk to him ever before hand? u kno flirted? then maybe he wuld have said sumthing

[Levy2k6]

this freshman girl came up to me and told me she liked me.. i was like okay and she was like... what about you? and im like.... i'll talk to you later.....

i dont like it.. its probaly happened to me like 3 times this year...

[cleec]

You shouldn't be too forward. You should only tell someone you like them when you are pretty sure that they have feelings for you too, otherwise there is nothing to expect but hurt from it.

[Sumiaki]

I like it better when girls hint at it rather than tell you bluntly. There's no fun in that.

[misoshiru]

i've done that before, because i knew that he liked me and so i told him, "you know, if you do like me, i want you to know that the feeling is mutual". and afterwards we stopped talking.

[kaka1204]

[SIZE=1][FONT=Impact] ionno about guys but i like it when guyz tell me dat dey like me cuz its klidna embarassing for gurls to espress deir feelins


n i guess boiz dunno like to humiliat themselves if the gurl dun like e

so i guess that's why even tho its so hard to noe both da gurl n boi like eachotha



i noe cuz thats wut happened to me n da person i like....he likes me too .
we both know that we like eacother but then none of us has the guts to tell da other person so i got tired of this n liked nother boy

so then my advice would b that if you like sum1 tell them bcuz broken hearts are often broken by words left unspoken

[omega_cc]

for me, a girl that tells you what they're feeling should b commended, cuz for them, and sometimes us, the guys, its kinda scary...lol and its shows they have courage...and even if you don't like them...give it a try....hu noes....it could work out for the better...! lol

[Flip-o-Matic]

like ive done it alot of time and i never get a reaction...and it urts..like what ami doin wrong?? am i just plain ugly...or not wanted or what?!?!? like ive told soo many guyz and they never have a reaction so should i stop and wait ...for some one to tell me or just keep trying??

both is good. it juss depends on the quality of the guy. i like when girls come to me n tell me they like me. it's just that sometimes they leave me in tight spots and i don't always like the outcome of it all...

[pympgangsta4real]

Yes.

Mainly because now a lot of girls will flirt with a guy. and flirting has seemed to change with the times. Before, if a girl flirted with u a lot it ment she liked u, if she huged u or kissed u on the cheek, it USUALLY ment she liked u, but now its just another damn form of flirting


come on girls..make it easy on us guys..quit making us run around with broken hearts

Amen to that.

[misoka]

yeah i agree w/ you.  i've told abt 2 that i've liked them and then after that, they basically just ignored me.  ohwell...thats all in the past.

I've told guys that I liked them...

Even to this guy that I've known for a LOOONG time...who's been a good friend of mine.


Then they just go and ignore me.

*sigh* see...guys like that make it so that the girl loses their confidence.

My confidence was thrown out the window a while ago. So I don't even try now I always think that it's because of how I look...

[Tung]

i'm pretty sure the guys you been telling that u like them, probalbly didnt react beacuse they were too flattered and shocked to say anything. beacuse a nice looking girl like u likes them. =)

[misoka]

i'm pretty sure the guys you been telling that u like them, probalbly didnt react beacuse they were too flattered and shocked to say anything. beacuse a nice looking girl like u likes them. =)

that's directed to the other girls that posted right?

I almost choked on the water I was drinking after I read that.

[LiLrEbL365]

i always do that...cuz i dont trust my friends, if i dont do something theyll do something worse lol

anyways the last time i did it the guys was just like uh huh ok and then he told me the girl he liked...so it was like the guy i liked wasnt even HIM it was just some guy he knew...it was ok cuz i dont think i could've gone out with him anyways. but even tho i dont like him anymore we still hella flirt lol

[Ataryu]

I like to make the first move, but if a girl's got the balls then I say go for it.
I've always liked it when the girls on top.

[audory]

i'm a girl. i always flirt, and i've never told a guy straight up that i liked him. i just make it kind of obvious.

[kiwi_pryde]

dont scream at them"I f**kING LOVE U!", jst hint it and if they tell u they lyk u, then say u lyk them 2 then get on top of it, gurls r all shy, guys lyk a gurl thats on top!

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[azn_r4pf4n]

sometimes.. it feels scary sometimes, specially when i dont wanna go out with n-e body right now.

[ComradeRed]

That depends on the specific girl.

[tears_of_blood]

i dunnoe why, but most of society thinks that the guys should make the first move...but then why not the girls- auno maybe u kinda got him locked unexpectedly or wrong place/wrong time. and you're not ugly at all =]

[xTINAA]

well a lot of guys have told me it's hotter if a girl comes out and says it because it shows she has not only courage but confidence which is hot they say. but uhm, for me, i like the guy to come and tell me because i'm too shy and scared of rejection i guess haha

[pikimoo]

Well.. I hate the whole hinting/flirting thing. It causes confusion and broken hearts.

Like.. I used to just hint or flirt and they'd think I'm weird or just would ignore me. Even if they liked me too.

Which, by the way, I HATE.

I hate it when everyone tells you a guy likes you and they know you like them.. and they won't do anything. Grrr.. So.. I always end up just flat out saying "I like you" or "I think you're sexy." And they still won't do anything. Rawr. Then I just have to ask them out.

And now, after he said yes, he complains that I should have just let things happen on their own. Which, nothing would have happened, because EVERY FREAKING GIRL IN THE WHOLE SCHOOL BESIDES HIS SISTER LIKED HIM. And they all hung all over him and he wouldn't speak to me.

Okay, gettin carried away with myself.

Anyways, guys should be less confusing. They complain about everything. I'd prefer if guys asked girls out and girls didn't flirt with guys they wouldn't date.

[bad_girl]

i think ur "braveness" is scaring the guys lol. omgg.. i would never go up to a guy and say "i like u". wait and see what happenss.. or else, he might faint.

[lulu424]

=.=" lol

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[klumzy]

i like a girl who waits patiently for the guy to make a move... even if she knows that he likes her

[bad_girl]

i like a girl who waits patiently for the guy to make a move... even if she knows that he likes her

same. (im not lez.. lol) but, yeah. i think guys should make the move. idk why.. it's been like their job to do so. an ugly b*tch once asked a guy out.. everyone thot it was weird. (he said yes) and she was the one to dump him. ahh.. well. we all hated her for some reason.. maybe it's 'cause of her red nail polish. anyway lol yeah. i still think guys shud make the move. im waiting for my crush to.. but he's never gona.. cos he likes someone else

[D4rkf4m3]

yea...i voted yes on this one...i've had some girls come up to me and ask me out...it was kinda awkward since i didnt really like em so i just said no...i kno that killed them a little bit inside

[asiu1990]

i like it... especially the ones i like too

[lilgoldfish64]

urggg...this guy who is totally shy likes me but he wouldn't tell me straight out so then after a month i spare him and i told him i like him...and then everything was awkward...it pissed me so much cuz he started everything ...he was the one who liked me...after that...i don't think i will ever do it again

[klumzy]

that's why girls should wait for the guy to make the first move, because even the most shy guys, if they really like a girl, will overcome his shyness and ask her out!

of course, you should give him hints (in a subtle way) that you like him too! because most men are cowards and won't ask a girl out if he thinks the girl isn't interested in them. thats why its important to let the guy know you're interested!

[xGlovex]

I like it because then you like know ooh this girl likes me, if i ask her out shell probly say yes..

[nevernothere]

I dunno about out and out telling, but I like a little hinting or else how the hell am I supposed to know she's interested? I miss little details often.

[heyisti]

yes, i like when a girl come up to me and say "i like u"
but some girl like to lie, well every lie rite...yea
is easy for girl to say to a guy "I like u" and lie bout it..
for a guy is different...


if a guy say "i like you", it mean that he want to f**ku

[burnoveride]

like ive done it alot of time  and i never get a reaction...and it urts..like what ami doin wrong?? am i just plain ugly...or not wanted or what?!?!? like ive told soo many guyz and they never have a reaction so should i stop and wait ...for some one to tell me or just keep trying??

no your not ugly at all and alot of youger teens dont know how to respong to that type of thing it's kind like woa u threw me off gard and to tell u the truth u have more "ballz" then most guys because most guys wont even go up to a girl and say that nor ask a girl out because most of the time they fear rejection :)

[heyyfrankie]

i don't know. if you don't like them, than things can get weird! but if you like her too, it makes everything good. i guess it could be good or bad.

[newlyprofound]

I'm just too shy. Sometimes, I wish a girl would just come up to me and be like, "Yeah, your hot. Wanna go out."

I'd be like sure just for her coming up to me and saying that.

That's if she's decent looking though. Don't have to be hot or anything just not like ewwwww get away from me looking.

[ex_multini]

like ive done it alot of time  and i never get a reaction...and it urts..like what ami doin wrong?? am i just plain ugly...or not wanted or what?!?!? like ive told soo many guyz and they never have a reaction so should i stop and wait ...for some one to tell me or just keep trying??

you know why?
exploitation.

most of the time, girls say "i love you" or hugging or watever shit, too ocassionally. most guys got confused with this kinda stuff. they dunno if u're saying the real thing, or just plain good old friend greetings.

[EyeOfTheTiger5]

damn that would be awesome if that happened

[teeners4]

haha i did that before. the guy said he liked me back. but we were like 12 and neither of us were allowed to go out. haha and now he's a good friend ^_^ and in grade 8 + 9 everytime i liked someone it get out. the whole school know. so i go up to the guy and im like "so you hear that crazy rumour that i like you?" and then we just kinda get to know each other. and they turn out better as friends

[sadolakced acid]

well, if the guy doesn't like you it make it really awkward...

[misoshiru]

the conversation should go like this:
girl: (approach boy) hi, you know what?
boy: what?
girl: i like you. so eff me now. (and tackle boy)





hahahah just kidding.

[Mini]

uhmmm, it would be really awkward if girls come up to you and say "I LOVE YOU, I HAVE ALL YOUR PICS" or something like that. alot of my girl friends stalk guys...and its so freaky cus they are SOOO obsessed.

depends on certain guys. but some like a pointer. some can just tell whether a girl likes them or not...

[faze_O]

it kind of freaked me out.. cuz this one girl told me she had a collage of me.. and like shes really pretty but still..

[you suck]

i wish i could go up to a guy and be like " i think ur hott" but i do that sorta thing so the guy wouldnt think i was bein serious...

[*instantmusic*]

you can tell me you like me anytime. i'll be like... whats up? how YOU doin?

[BiGdRaGoN31]

ya sure

[Eryi]

Yes so then you don't have to go around in a BIG CIRCLE to find out..

[soulless727]

So many chicks who like me and who are just afraid to tell me.....its so confusing sometimes......even though i only like one person id have a lot more respect for that one chick who actualy told me how they felt

[ichigofan]

i usually hint to them that i like them but sometimes guys are slow or oblivious so i have to tell them straight out but i only tell the guys that i REALLY like a lot not just some random guy im crushin on

[*RockizLife*]

i'm not sure, i voted not really because girls do it all the time to me and it kinda annoys me because you cant like someone unless you get to know someone. I'd rather them just say i'm hot or something not "I like you!" It'd be better if they just kinda hinted around cause I think thats cute when a girl does that lol. but i don't like when they wait to long to tell you because then you might think they're cute too and then it never goes anywhere.

[malsnave]

depends. if i like her...

[alivenwell]

If it was someone who I'd despised, I'd be thinking "wow, wit a minute here...what the F$$k is going on?...It has to some trap or something, run away now, I know she won't be able to catch up with me." or if it was someone who is really hot and I like, I'd say"So wanna go see a movie tomorrow night?", there! Sweet as a nut!

[bfleenor]

of course! that informs you that u could be with them and you could know what could happen in your future.

[Shahin]

I guess so...but tat thought is juz fantasy...i'm ugly, no girls lik/liked me or will like me...i'm more lik juz a friend to them...

Dude! That is no bad thing seriously. It sucks way more when you wanna get to know a girl JUST to be her friend and she ends up liking you. Happens EVERY time and believe me it aint cool. Specially wen you dont like her back an your like...damn what do i do? You got it good bro.

[cookieskater2]

I'm always the one to tell them.

[ikayto]

it kills the fun when they do that

and sort of weirds you out