how would u react (pregnant) Under Age, if u were a boy / girl Options

[xXYuKnowItXx]

just wondering out of pure curiosity

[tsohg]

How come all the guys are negative.. if i found out i would live up to my responsabilaty

[xXYuKnowItXx]

its hard to live up to a fact u made someone pregnant under aged u know... i mean ud live with ur friend disliking you and ud live with her parents disliking you and ur parent disliking you and all the bad sh!t

[leeeza702]

I would tell my parents and deal with my responsibility...

[inthemudhole]

I'd probably do something drastic.. to myself.. but not suicide.. more along the lines of selt-mutilation. v.v *koff*

I'd keep it a secret.. for a while.

[Rice_on_my_shoe]

I would tell my parents and if I can't raise it I would Put it for adoption.

[shawty_redd]

i would tell my parents cause its not like they can make me give it up
makes no sense hiding it

[*AngelicEyz00*]

I would tell my parents... and wait... actually, if this were back when I was with my bf, and "in love" i would probably tell them, and then like move in with him...

Now, I would just get an abortion... [and i don't care what you pro-life people have to say]

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

boy - other ... hhrm first ide be like... omg wut have a done.... then ide suggest abortion even though im not very fond of the idea,like i said,just suggest not force, if not...i guess ill just have to take responsibility for what ive done

[aznriceboi]

i would take it like a man and take care of that baby i made, won't be like some other people saying like "nah man it ain't my baby"(tv shows) i hate when people be like that, man you choose to have sex, and if you made a mistake doing so, live up to it

[melface]

I guess I'm the only one who would commit suicide.

[ComradeRed]

As a guy, I would suggest abortion (Just say NO to sex with pro-lifers!). Failing that, I would run away to France and join the Foreign Legion.

Eventually, I would desert my unit with a band of loyal followers and topple the governent of Mozambique. Then I can become Supreme Dictator of the country. As the Supreme Dictator of Mozambique, I would draft all the people with AIDS in the country (that's like half of them) into my Glorious Imperial Militia (GIM for short) and invade other countries. This would kill all the people with AIDS, thus stopping AIDS, and I would also then have a great and glorious African empire.

TO CAPE TOWN, MY BRAVE COMRADES!!

[*Kathleen*]

I'd...shoot the father.

[faithin_felix]

i'd go yay! im a daddy =D

[ComradeRed]

What if you didn't know who he was?

[MeanBastard]

Do the old coat hanger method.

[*Kathleen*]

What if you didn't know who he was?

As if genocide doesn't exist?

[ComradeRed]

My militia will stop you.

And even if it didn't you'd just end up killing Mozambiquians with AIDS, so who cares?

[dani41790]

id tell my parents

Do the old coat hanger method.

oh i heard of that method. i wouldnt do that though since you could probably die frm it

[XGhostReconX]

id tell my parents



oh i heard of that method. i wouldnt do that though since you could probably die frm it

ahem whats the coat hanger method? lol

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

stab ur stomache/uterus with a coat hanger oO;

[xXYuKnowItXx]

ewww sick...

[inthemudhole]

ewww sick...

Ermm, how exactly is this "sick"?
It happens..

[silver-rain]

hmm, i would probably tell my parents. but i would have the baby anyways and try to raise it with help from my mom.

[xXYuKnowItXx]

umm ur actually kinda stabbing urself in the eherm... thats sick... it happens only if u tripped over something or ur just plain pyco

[*RiC3xBoy*]

be a man and take responsibilty.....

[angel-roh]

i would highly recommend that i tell my parents rather than not telling them cause then in the future later, something worse will appear into your lives and you will not like it...dun dun dun

[someflipguy]

Learning from my past experiences, I would probably be in denile first! Then face up to the reality that I have to be a good dad and take care of my child! If she didn't want the child I would support her also! It doesn't matter to me...I have matured and now I know how to deal with some problems without taking the easy way out.

[Angelos]

man that almost happened to me once and i freak it was like i saw my dreams crumble in front of my eyes... i never wanted to kill myself but i did not wanna take responsiblity..but i decided that i would have to own up to what happened and face it like a man...but she told me that like it came up false and me and my girlfriend went to the doctor to make sure and it was cool so i learned from that experience

[JasonAkAWolf]

I agree with RiC3xBoy you should just be a man..

[PerFectLie_YouNe...]

my friend dealt w/ a pregnancy, but she was young and her body wuznt ready 4 a baby n she lost it. n if i ever found out i wuz pregnant, i would probably cry and then say it'll be alright becuz thatz all u can do.. what happens happens n u cant change it. n i only believe in abortions if; you got raped and it ruined your life, and the baby is like a sign of that.. i dont know this is a hard subject

[jUz_cAnDy]

i think i'd probably tell my parents and hope that they wont kick me out of the house or worse.. kill me

[SteveObscure]

Old enough to have sex, old enough to take care of the child. Simple as that!

[whywasisostupid]

i would cry my eyes out but then tuff it out and handle it.

[ohBrian]

man theyre a hoe..

[x0143637x0]

ill take the responsibilty. but im gonna search for some help first and support. suicide is just stupid

[Looow]

I'd cry & cry and cry. If i couldn't raise it or had the money I would put it for adoption and still visit it. I would never ever have an abortion.

[mouse_3k]

This isnt on the list but I would throw myself down the stairs -_-

[x_hiccupy_x]

This isnt on the list but I would throw myself down the stairs -_-

that reminds me "riding in cars with boys" starring drew barrymore.

i`d have the baby, and give it up for open adoption and hopefully still be able to see the baby whenever i can and be there for him or her even though legally, im not the mother anymore.

[Jayden84]

i'd support my gf and help her in anyway i can.. i'd take responsiblity and do my best to provide a good life for her and the baby

[sweetdreamsx3]

I would tell my parents... and wait... actually, if this were back when I was with my bf, and "in love" i would probably tell them, and then like move in with him...

Now, I would just get an abortion... [and i don't care what you pro-life people have to say]

Eh, it's the truth. Most people would probably give it up for adoption or keep it. For me, I don't know yet. Haven't thought that deeply into it. At least you're truthful instead of some people that might lie like keeping it.

I'll probably keep it in secret for a while and then eventually have to fess up.

[LittleLulu]

ok even thought im gona save myself for marriage.. ..IF that ever happened..i'd have to be with mah future boyfriend..n..honestly i wud jus go to the doc to get rid of it..n of course i wud tell my parents..cuz im NOT gona have a baby ruin my life..**NERD PRIDE**...n i doubt smthn like that in gona happen n e wayz..i HAVE SELF CONTROLL..n it can over powere the horomones

[*thesweetescape*]

This is a hard subject but I guess I would probably keep it because we all make mistakes and learn from them but we also have to take care of our responsiblities. I definatley wouldn't get an abortion but I would either keep it or give it up for adoption.

[ichiban]

Eh. I'd kill myself. -_-

[whtevergoaway]

if that happened..
1) if i told my parents..dey'd probobly litterally..yes i mean LITERALLY kill me
2) if i ran away..i have NO money whatsoever...i'd end up dieing of starvation

so i'd end up killing myself eitehr way

[177emories]

How come all the guys are negative.. if i found out i would live up to my responsabilaty

yeah why is it all so negative, maybe people have they baby cause they wnate dto. and whats underage? whats considered an age to ahve babies? anyways i'd have it and take care of it, what else?.. ehhh don't need to think about these kinda stuff!

[vivieeeen]

i would smile and wait patiently for 9 frigg'n months







then worry

no.. honestly! if you're old enough to have sex with people without birth controls... you're definately ready for an infant (excluding rape cases)

[inlonelinessidie]

Old enough to have sex, old enough to take care of the child. Simple as that!

Exactly.

If it happened to me, I would tell my parents and keep the baby. It's my fault I fell in love and did it. Can't blame the child for that. Now if my father doesn't kill me or kick me out, I'd still have a place to sleep. Either way I know my mom wouldn't let my dad kick me out; now that I think about it . . . don't think he would do such a thing. He'd just yell A LOT. As for school, I am blessed to go to a school that allows you to take your kids there. So if it happened to me, it would be a joyous occasion after all.


Sad to see how many people would want to kill themselves or abort in such drastic matters. Also no offense or anything, and yes I am pro-choice, but I think it is very cowardly for a guy to tell his girl to get an abortion. That should be that girl’s decision and I think she should bring it up. You had sex and now you have a baby. Well too bad, so sad live up to your responsibilities. You could've prevented this but you chose not to.

[*mSz_dOrk_anGeL*]

I think I'm the only one who said kill themselves. Or maybe I would run. Anywhoo, you can't keep it a secrect for long. Read 'Girls in Trouble' by Caroline Leavitt. Great book.

And what do you mean if your old enough to have sex your old enough to raise a child? What if you were raped. Huh? Have you ever been there?! I don't think so.. and besides when is old enough?

Okay I think I should stop before I freak out ..

[jihae526]

a girl at my school is pregnant right now, and shes fine. shes accepted the fact that shes going to have the baby and her parents are now okay with it. shes now 4 months pregnant and the idiot who knocked her up won't take the baby. but i'm glad shes happy about it.

[sporadic]

If I were a boy and I were pregnant, I would be very confused.

[lost_soul]

i would probably scream first and then tell whoever the father is to gimme child support! $$$ It's all about the money! LOL

If that doesn't work then I would tell my parents and try to raise the child myself ^.^ and still stay in school (somehow ) I wouldn't think about abortion, I mean common! The child is innocent! It wasn't his/her fault that I had sex or whateva.

[sunissed14127]

i would tell my parents...but it would b the hardest thing i think i would ever have 2 do

[1--GIRL]

I'd probaly cry alone in my room.. and then tell my Mom but have a hard time facing my dad and family... haha I dunno

If I were a boy and I were pregnant, I would be very confused.

lol

[pbear]

Tell the parents.
Have the baby.
Give it up for adoption.

[nyctophiliac]

i'd slit my wrists and kill myself

[tooeffingcrazy]

1. that would never happen and 2. i would make her get an abortion, i know its cruel and stuff, but i can't raise a child

[LadyXTor]

I would take care of the child...i wouldnt' kill him. Take responsibility for my actions y'know? Getting an abortion is wrong...the poor baby can't defend itself. I value life, might as well teach my kid to too...

[mouse_3k]

that reminds me "riding in cars with boys" starring drew barrymore.

yah thts where i got the idea

[khanhibus]

Suicide? I think there's better ways to deal with the situation than that.

[DaTru KataLYST]

the coat hanger is quite deadly.

It could infect you w/ its uncleanliness.







And cause a lot of red carpet.

[babyxyelloe]

well, i really woudn't get pregnant at an early age, period.

[jambaJUICE]

id go through the pain.
put it up for adoption
go through a stage of depression
live on with my life
regretting each day, and hoping that my baby would live a happy life.

[interwoven.reali...]

boy: tell my dad because he said he would help me. oter people will just make it worse by nagging at us. He wouldn't nag on us.

[LuZz]

omgggg

abortion!!!
immediately!!!!!!!!
i'll try going to get an abortion wifout parents knowing, but dun think the hospital wud let u.

so DAT WHY I WUD NEVER EVER haf sex under age

[sammi rules you]

i'd tell my mom. i know my mom would help me through it. yeah, she'd be mad, but she wouldn't overreact and she'd be supportive.

[waccoon]

"When the hell did I get a womb?"

[sammi rules you]

"When the hell did I get a womb?"

haha..

i think they meant if you got someone else pregnant..but still..that was funny.

[Shattered_Hope]

i'd tell mommy...and ..but i plan to wait till im married///but hmm i'd take total responsiblity. and make that guy take responsibility too /

[Rachel]

I would tell my parents... and wait... actually, if this were back when I was with my bf, and "in love" i would probably tell them, and then like move in with him...

Now, I would just get an abortion... [and i don't care what you pro-life people have to say]

hell yes i agree with you


im waaaaay too young for a child and i dont know if i could actually deal with everything of going thru the whole pregnancy then giving the child up for adoption

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

you have to face the reality responsibly .. thinking of suicide is a very selfish act. you take no consideration whatsoever in how your loved ones would feel when you're gone .. let alone it becomes a financial problem for them with insurance but that's besides the point .. taking your life along with another possible one is the least from wise decision. if you feel you aren't ready then talk to your parents and your spouse about it and consider the options .. having the baby, abortion, adoption, etc. but choose wisely. i honestly am for having abortion if you can't financially support your baby and give it the best. when you're ready then keep it. but until then be a young adult about it and think carefully before you act irrationally.

[EddieV]

I would probably ask that girl to marry me, quit school and get a job...

Or..

Let my mom take care of the baby, both continue school and become successfull...

[sheddingtears]

i'd tell my parents eventually. i'd probably raise it. poor aborted babies.


hmm, but sometimes i'd think of suicide if i was pregnant. it'll extremely affect my my goals and dreams.

[nexuskpl]

uhh...i'd get an abortion...is that not an option on this poll?

[Jus2s1mp13]

I would tell my parents and deal with my responsibility... 

Same here,that what i would do. Tell my parents and be responsible and keep the baby. [You know what the outcome so why did you it in the first place? Should of use those protections? ]

[jecissa]

LOL those choices really cracked me up!! Haha. sorry. You SHOULD NOT commit suicide! That is killing the innocent baby too! That is not a wise choice! Interesting that abortion wasn't a choice.. though I think that's wrong too.
I would have the child.

[ComradeRed]

I'd run away to France! No, but seriously, abortion is the way to go. Or donate your babies to the cause of Red Revolution. Just say NO to sex with pro-lifers.

Here's an inspiring song for you to ponder. Sing along with Karaoke!:

Peggy Sue got pregnant
And was addicted to fifteen drugs
She went down to the abortion clinic
And was accosted by gangs of thugs

CHORUS:
Oh, will the fetus be aborted?
By and by Lord, oh by and by
There’s a better home awaiting
In the sky Lord, in the sky

Little Mary was just eleven
And she was raped by her own dad
Danny Quayle said “Have that baby”
But another choice she had

CHORUS

Annie’s pregnancy would kill her
Doctor’s warning gave her strife
Fundamentalists said “Jesus take her”
She said, “I want my right to life”

CHORUS

Kathy had two kids already
And an abortion is what she chose
Christian showed her a bloody fetus
She said “That’s fine, I'll have one of those”

CHORUS

Tanya lived for revolution
Wanted to overthrow the state
She had fifteen Commie babies
Phyllis Schlafly ain't that great?

Or will the fetus
Be aborted…

[*Kathleen*]

I'd blow my brains out.

[ComradeRed]

Kathleen, you are suicidal and need help.

[*Kathleen*]

...so?

[ComradeRed]

The District would be a more boring place if you killed yourself...

We'd turn into the Philadelphia District--all we would have to entertain ourselves would be French hats and Holocaust jokes.

[swtpumkinpie]

why would you kill yourself?? That seems kinda stupid. Ok. Really stupid. I guess if you would kill yourself you probably thought that you wouldn't get pregnant from sex huh??

Tell you parents. Someone will help. There's no need for such drastic measures. Have the baby and give it up for adoption. Or you can even meet people who want babies and choose someone from those people to adopt your baby.

[rockmyx]

4 words
l will marry her

l dont want my child to be a bastard

[ComradeRed]

I WILL BURY HER!

[HikaruTakekawa]

even though abortion isnt my thing i'd do it cuz i know i wouldnt be able to take care of a child underaged and i know i wouldnt be able to give my child the things they need and should have.