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xxdaydreamer143
post Sep 7 2004, 01:43 AM
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how could you tell the difference between love and infatuation? does it feel the same? or for it to be called "love" the other person has to love you back?
 
 
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post Sep 7 2004, 01:47 AM
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infatuation is when you like a person and you dont kno why. thats what i think it is. and yes the person has to feel the same way in order for it to be love. love and infatutaion is a lot different from one another.
 
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post Sep 7 2004, 02:00 AM
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i dont knoe... these are one of those questions that no one knows it but u cuz it can only be felt.. and not described.. it'll take more than the english dictionary to describe what love is pinch.gif
 
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post Sep 7 2004, 02:21 AM
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infatuation is when u are sprung on a person haha,and yea u think u love em,but ur not sure, when ur in love...u dont question it, u just know it
 
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post Sep 7 2004, 02:26 AM
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i thought that love and infatuation is very similar. both of it is just a feeling that you have and can't really explain. i think that love does have to be shared for it to be completely called love but infatuation may be just like one way. if you feel either way i don't think it really matters what the meanings of those two words are as long as you can interpret what you feelings are telling you.
 
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post Sep 7 2004, 02:47 AM
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QUOTE(aznsorpor @ Sep 7 2004, 2:26 AM)
i thought that love and infatuation is very similar. both of it is just a feeling that you have and can't really explain. i think that love does have to be shared for it to be completely called love but infatuation may be just like one way. if you feel either way i don't think it really matters what the meanings of those two words are as long as you can interpret what you feelings are telling you.

whoa. thats deep. lol thanx for u guy's help i appreciate it happy.gif
 
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post Sep 7 2004, 05:43 AM
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I thought people learned this in school.
Anyway
infatuation=puppy love 'fake' love
you know, the kidn of 'love' 15 year olds get all hyped up about.
 
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post Sep 7 2004, 06:09 AM
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once you're in love then you can tell the difference between those two, otherwise, people can't really tell you.
 
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post Sep 7 2004, 12:59 PM
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infatuation is when u wanna go to the mall with them and hold hands and tell ppl yer goin out

love on the other hand is when like a guy shoots yer bf/gf 3 times then u block the next shot anyways to feel pain/ stop the pain
 
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post Sep 7 2004, 10:36 PM
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you can't really tell
well for me i can't
 
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post Sep 7 2004, 11:26 PM
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QUOTE(aznsorpor @ Sep 7 2004, 2:26 AM)
i thought that love and infatuation is very similar. both of it is just a feeling that you have and can't really explain. i think that love does have to be shared for it to be completely called love but infatuation may be just like one way. if you feel either way i don't think it really matters what the meanings of those two words are as long as you can interpret what you feelings are telling you.

Yes, I agree with what you said. I think infatuation is one-sided and basically, yuou're just obsessed with the person, but your significant other doesn't feel the same way back.

I agree, for love to really be considered love, it has to be returned, both ways. Infatuation is not the same as love because it can really hurt you for a very tiny reason. I know people who say they "love" others when the person they like doesn't even really know them nor dated them. And it's sad because infatuation can make you do crazy things. What if you say the person you were infatuated with all over another person? It can make you depressed and alot of things, even when you're not in a relationship.
 

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