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my best friend and i have feelings for each other, i need ur advice!
jazzydancer9
post Sep 5 2004, 05:22 PM
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my best friend chris and i have known each other since 1st grade. we've laughed together, cried together, everything. hes like my brother, but i think we're starting to develop feelings for each other. we kissed once, but it just felt weird.. it just felt like kissing my brother. but we do like each other and he just broke up with his girlfriend.. should i give our love life a second chance? ermm.gif
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 05:32 PM
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post Sep 5 2004, 05:33 PM
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QUOTE(xbaybee @ Sep 5 2004, 5:32 PM)
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Don't spam..aha.. tongue.gif

err..woah...Chris is a boy and ur a girl?
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 05:34 PM
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Boy! lol.. i'm no lesbo! biggrin.gif
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 05:35 PM
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QUOTE(jazzydancer9 @ Sep 5 2004, 5:34 PM)
Boy! lol.. i'm no lesbo! biggrin.gif

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post Sep 5 2004, 05:36 PM
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wow, maybe you should give your love life a chance. take a chace, it won`t hurt anything.
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 06:50 PM
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yeah take the chance lol as long as u guys knoe that u'll still be friends in case it wont work out then yea take it! happy.gif happy.gif happy.gif
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 07:05 PM
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*cough* wrong forum.

but i don't think its a good idea, i mean if you kissed once but it felt weird then no. i'd be better if you two stayed friends
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 07:10 PM
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Yes, you should, but then again, make surehe doesn't still ahve feelings for his ex. But then again, if he really doesn't like-like you, you both can destroy a wonderful friendship-relationship.

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post Sep 5 2004, 07:28 PM
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Please don't spam, kthnxbi.

Err.
Ask him what you want to do about this..
It could ruin your friendship, I hope you know that.. but it could also be a positive experience. =D
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 07:39 PM
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long lasting relationships usually develop from friendships... it just strengthens the bond between you... that is, if you guys are ready for the next step.
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 07:41 PM
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maybe you both should just stay very close friends, becuase if you both start a love life then maybe the friendship bond will unravel.
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 08:36 PM
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take a chance.. you wont know anything until you take a chance right?
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 09:17 PM
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i would say not to go for it because it gets really awkward around close close buddies. ive already been there.
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 09:28 PM
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well, if you both like each other, then go for it.
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 09:37 PM
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go for it. me and my ex were best friends for a while before we started going out. it was great while it lasted but then we broke up, but it wasnt because it was akward. he just started having feelings for other girls..we're still friends but just not near as close as we used to be.
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 10:08 PM
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happy.gif i think you should go for it!
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 10:10 PM
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how do u have a second chance if u didnt have a first? go out with him or her... its not like u guys are getting married, just enjoy it while it last
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 10:40 PM
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=T i went out with my best friend. we had super strong feelings for each other that we couldn't hide or fight. we ended up breaking up after 6 months..it was really hard
 
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post Sep 5 2004, 10:55 PM
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YES TAKE HIM. thats like the perfect person you'd want to be with. your best friend
 
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post Sep 6 2004, 12:47 AM
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YES! of course...take a chance happy.gif
 
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post Sep 6 2004, 01:19 AM
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Don't take a chance. There is too much at stake. What if you fudge up and he leaves you forever.
 
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post Sep 6 2004, 12:55 PM
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take the chance u dont want to regret anything
 
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post Sep 6 2004, 11:18 PM
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go for it duh
 
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post Sep 7 2004, 01:02 AM
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how did it end the first time?
 
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post Sep 7 2004, 03:01 AM
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i dink that you should give him time to cool down and get over his last relationship be4 u try to start nething cuz u dont want him to make a wrong decision during his rebound period which would ruin your long term friendship...
 
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post Sep 7 2004, 09:35 AM
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i've never wanted anything rationale.
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^and i think you need to learn how to spell
 
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post Sep 8 2004, 01:24 PM
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go out with him
 
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post Sep 8 2004, 02:15 PM
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I think he deserves a chance. _smile.gif Maybe you guys will end up being happier than ever.
 
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post Oct 3 2004, 07:41 PM
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if you really like him and you think it is going to work out go for it..no one is stopping u
 
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post Oct 3 2004, 08:05 PM
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i think you should give him a second change...it seems like you two would be great together!
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post Oct 3 2004, 08:13 PM
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Hook up
 
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post Oct 3 2004, 08:42 PM
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yup i think u should :D heheh
 
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post Oct 3 2004, 08:50 PM
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Hm, make sure he's over his ex. And make sure you really DO like himm, or maybe you just wanna know wut COULD become of you guys rather wanting soething to become. Er.. that was confusing. I'd say go for it. Advice: If things don't work out, DONT be afraid to become friends again. Dont let things get weird or you'll regret it forever
 
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post Oct 4 2004, 12:25 AM
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GO FOR IT! Me and my boyfriend were best friends before we got together. We are extremely happy, and we've promised each other if things don't end up love-wise, to still be frineds.
 
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post Oct 4 2004, 01:26 AM
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you should take the chance! because if you dont, you'll nevr know what could've happened.
 
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post Oct 4 2004, 03:27 AM
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well then freakin go out wit them... a little obvious innit??????
 
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post Oct 4 2004, 04:22 AM
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yea i think u should
 
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post Oct 4 2004, 09:58 AM
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Whats that famous saying? [Better to have loved than never have loved at all]...thats the way I think of it...
 
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I say go for it, but be careful becuase if it turns into a bad relationship you guys may not even be friends anymore
 
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post Oct 4 2004, 11:45 PM
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i say if your that close even if it doesnt work out you wont let that get in the way of your friendship SOOO give it a try because having a relationship with someone whos also your bestfriend will work out for the best haha.
 
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post Oct 4 2004, 11:58 PM
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[QUOTE]wow, maybe you should give your love life a chance. take a chace, it won`t hurt anything.

i disagree . it might affect your friendship /=
 
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post Oct 6 2004, 04:54 PM
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Take the chance... it won't affect your relationship if you don't let it. If you do happen to break up... you just have to call each other daily, say hi, and talk like best friends. If you shy off and LET the relationship go away... then who's to blame? Work hard to keep the relationship together if that's what you really want. I guarentee you that the relationship will be one you will cherish forever if you do.
 
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