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[redpeony]

ok this is gonna be quite a long rant i'm thinking.

so, there's this guy named jack*. we've been talking for over a year. this summer we actually saw each other quite a bit and 4 weeks ago we made it official. the problem is we can't really carry out much of a conversation now that we know we like each other which is really bothering me since we're starting to get close. yesterday his friend nick* asked my friend tracy* out and they are so cute it's mkaing me sick. they can talk all night and they are really just the sweetest couple ever. i know seeing them like this is gonna drive me insane one day. i know i should be appreciative of what i have. he's reaaaally cute and nice and generous and all of that good stuff but what is that if there's nothing inside? maybe i''m not good at this longterm thing? but i don't just want to dump him right now without giving him much of a chance. not sure if im making a lot of sense here, but what im trying to get at is, how do i take my insecurity and jealousy and shove it up a bum. k thx!



*names may or may not have been changed.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

be more open with your boyfriend, and ask him to do the same haha, and try to be confortable around them...so u can talk or do anythng with each other and not get bored or disgusted ;] .... go on out and catch a movie or something...keep urselfs busy and give urselves something to talk about

[conster]

i dunno.. if u dont really wanna give him a chance then cut it off there dont lead him on anymore, but jus dont regret it

[angel-roh]

oo is he like making ur love life boring? ehh if u dont like that then u should go for a guy who will be there for you a lot and like do a lot of cute/fun stuff together... hehe just to make u happy u know? well u said u got close to each other and knew that u guys like each other...but still i think you should've think 2nd opinion on that before dating hehe but i dont know. watever ur heart tells u to do that you should follow it. if you think you don't want the relationship with him, then dump him. if that's ur feeling u can let it go...dont wry ur not jealous ... it happens to us, girls...and it happened to me many times but then i met the nice guy who and i can share a lot of fun things and we go to cool places hehe...so yeah just a tip -next time if u meet someone. get to know his personality well and see wat kind of person he is.- seems like u like fun-loving guy...you should find that kind of guy^^

-susan

[mouse_3k]

so, there's this guy named jack*. we've been talking for over a year. this summer we actually saw each other quite a bit and 4 weeks ago we made it official. the problem is we can't really carry out much of a conversation now that we know we like each other which is really bothering me since we're starting to get close. yesterday his friend nick* asked my friend tracy* out and they are so cute it's mkaing me sick. they can talk all night and they are really just the sweetest couple ever. i know seeing them like this is gonna drive me insane one day. i know i should be appreciative of what i have. he's reaaaally cute and nice and generous and all of that good stuff but what is that if there's nothing inside? maybe i''m not good at this longterm thing? but i don't just want to dump him right now without giving him much of a chance. not sure if im making a lot of sense here, but what im trying to get at is, how do i take my insecurity and jealousy and shove it up a bum. k thx!

i know wht u mean. me and my bf dont talk much online *unless its webcam lol* and its TOTALLY different when we see each other. but remember, this is wht my bf said:

"not every relationship is like prince charming"

[silver-rain]

yeah, i know what you're talking about. this was the way with my ex and me, and i guess it wasn't really working out so we broke up. eh, i suggest giving it a chance, but if you know it won't work out, break up with him and try to find a guy where it will work out.

[casssy]

I dont think you should end it.. give him a chance.. give the relationship a chance

[aznsorpor]

i think you should talk to him about it.. tell him what is bothering u.. and dont like compare yourselves to others.. everyone is different and everyone's situation is different.. dont envy.. yours can be different but still as wonderful..