best friend and guy friend, HELP |
 Aug 31 2004, 06:35 PM
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 i luv kyle  Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,135  |
My friend Ke'Alah hooked up with my friend Tommy, and we are very good friends. Tommy calls me almost every night. But the thing is - he is turned onto me more than her, and wants to go out with me. But then again - I have feelings for him too. He is everything I would ever need in a guy. He is thinking of breaking up with her for me. And if she finds out she will hate my guts. I really don't want to be split between them two, but I feel Tommy is what I have been waiting for, for my whole life. help
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Aug 31 2004, 06:42 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Hm.. You shouldn't let love ruin a friendship.. But then our guy friend will end up getting hurt.. THis is a very difficult situation. Tell her how you feel and if she doesn't approve of you two dating, then don't date him soon. IF you just rush into the relationship right after Tommy and Ke'Alah break up, she will hate your guts. But you know what? Tell her that if she was a good friend of yours, she should understand and that you never meant to hurt her. It's better for her to break up with him or else it's going to be really tough on her the longer the relationship lasts. You know what I mean?
MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS. |
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Aug 31 2004, 06:43 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
My signature!
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Aug 31 2004, 07:03 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
Friends over Relationships.
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Aug 31 2004, 07:25 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yep.
Friends before the relationships. |
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Aug 31 2004, 07:51 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
You can always make new friends....
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Aug 31 2004, 08:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
If you don't want to lose your friend, I suggest you not date him...Or at least tell her what's going on.
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Aug 31 2004, 08:46 PM
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again, it all comes downt o what u want mroe, a friend or a boyfriend
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Sep 1 2004, 09:46 AM
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 Im gonna eat you! Group: Member Posts: 371 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,383 |
If you really love him, the love will wait..
If its true he will still be there in a year or two right? |
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Sep 1 2004, 12:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,520 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 200 |
I wouldnt do anything if I was you.. Id wait a while.. or try to talk to her about it.. theres not much you can do without her getting mad
 good luck..
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Sep 1 2004, 12:48 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
well, talk to your friend about it, and talk to the guy about it too.
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Sep 1 2004, 01:42 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
"all is fair in love and war." you should just let it all go. dont worry bout it...it'll come to you when your ready for it. i think that you should just chill...tell your friend...well talk to her atleast...and him...dont worry things should pan out for the best...
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Sep 1 2004, 02:48 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
lol ill let him choose, and if he chooses to break up, i wont go out wit him right after tho lol maybe a little while later, i dont think anythings wrong wit it, ur friend should understand after they break up
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Sep 1 2004, 09:14 PM
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i luv kyle Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,135 |
QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ Aug 31 2004, 8:46 PM) again, it all comes downt o what u want mroe, a friend or a boyfriend Well i forgot to mention that he is moving to georgia, and i may not have time with him that much. because of hurricane frances, he will move up to georgia and stay there a YEAR earlier. Just to let you know, I love him. not some crush. LOVE |
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