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I dont know whether he likes me, Or is just trying to be nice
babygrl23
post Aug 30 2004, 08:24 PM
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O.K., so there's this guy that I've had a crush on since we were in Kindergarten. We are in 7th grade now. In 5th grade, we became really good friends, and now hes one of my best friends. Well, he calls me ugly and fat and mean, but hes my really good friend, always sits by me and seems like hes flirting with me. I dunno what to do or if this makes sense....but.....any advice is appreciated
 
 
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xLil SweetnezZx
post Aug 30 2004, 08:40 PM
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Hmmm....cud u be more specific? Has this gone on since the beginning or has it juss strtd?
 
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post Aug 30 2004, 08:43 PM
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He's teasing you if he calls you those things. He likes you if he does all those things even though he is ur best BUDDY...best buddies make the best g.f/b.f
 
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post Aug 30 2004, 09:11 PM
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I think you should just be friends for now... what if he doesnt like you and it ruins the friendship? that would suck _dry.gif
 
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post Aug 30 2004, 09:25 PM
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QUOTE(xLil SweetnezZx @ Aug 30 2004, 8:40 PM)
Hmmm....cud u be more specific? Has this gone on since the beginning or has it juss strtd?

well it started a little into 5th grade after we had been really good friends for a few months.
 
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post Aug 30 2004, 09:35 PM
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QUOTE(liquidbluac1d @ Aug 30 2004, 7:11 PM)
I think you should just be friends for now... what if he doesnt like you and it ruins the friendship? that would suck _dry.gif

that's the cowardly way out; life is full of risks with big pay offs..this is one of them ;p
 
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post Aug 30 2004, 09:39 PM
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QUOTE(ikayto @ Aug 30 2004, 8:35 PM)
that's the cowardly way out; life is full of risks with big pay offs..this is one of them ;p

true.. but she should just wait a few days/weeks to see what happens.. eh i dont know so im gonna stop talking tongue.gif
 
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post Aug 30 2004, 09:54 PM
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QUOTE(ikayto @ Aug 30 2004, 8:43 PM)
He's teasing you if he calls you those things. He likes you if he does all those things even though he is ur best BUDDY...best buddies make the best g.f/b.f

yup happy.gif
 
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post Aug 30 2004, 09:56 PM
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QUOTE(ikayto @ Aug 30 2004, 5:43 PM)
He's teasing you if he calls you those things. He likes you if he does all those things even though he is ur best BUDDY...best buddies make the best g.f/b.f

wow thx...haha saved me some time writing ;]
 
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post Aug 30 2004, 11:46 PM
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i DONT THiNK ANYONE CAN REALLY TELL WUT HE`S THiNKiN`. ONLY HiM SO iT COULD BE BOTH WAYS.
 
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post Aug 31 2004, 12:01 AM
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QUOTE(tallaznkate @ Aug 30 2004, 9:46 PM)
i DONT THiNK ANYONE CAN REALLY TELL WUT HE`S THiNKiN`. ONLY HiM SO iT COULD BE BOTH WAYS.

lay off caps; but judging from his actions and the circumstances its highly likely he does....

it's elementary <LITERALLY ahaha....remember back in the day when a guy would hit you and run that meant he liked you...well when we get older it's not as physical more verbal now. And since they are BEST buddies, i think he's just a lil scared to "ruin" his friendship with ehr and not pop the question....

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post Aug 31 2004, 12:07 AM
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Yeah, I'd have to agree with that. As the saying goes, they tease because they like...

......whoa, I think I just discovered about 5 guys that had a crush on me from that phrase....sh*t...
 
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post Aug 31 2004, 12:36 AM
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QUOTE(ikayto @ Aug 30 2004, 8:43 PM)
He's teasing you if he calls you those things. He likes you if he does all those things even though he is ur best BUDDY...best buddies make the best g.f/b.f

That's right happy.gif

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post Aug 31 2004, 12:38 AM
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man im in the same thing. but he has a gf in CA. but iread sumwhere here that long distance realationships last when the guy/girl r willing to be patient. well damnit he is soo patient. soo friking hard to get him annoyed. haha well i think so too cause that is what guys always do. but sumtimes they tease because u r really what they say. so 50/50 chance that he lyks u. thats pretty good. compared in mai situation
 
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post Aug 31 2004, 01:56 PM
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I think he's just teasing u then.... mellow.gif
 
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post Sep 1 2004, 11:34 AM
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i think he's just being mean...and pretending...but i might be wrong...
 
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post Sep 2 2004, 01:56 AM
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this could get complicated...
 
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post Sep 2 2004, 02:49 AM
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why dont u tell him?
 
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post Sep 2 2004, 10:30 AM
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just ask him..?
 
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post Sep 2 2004, 12:15 PM
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well, maybe he is just flirting with you. why don't you ask him?
 
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post Sep 2 2004, 04:54 PM
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The best advice is to just go up to him and ask him what his feelings are. You can sit here and wonder all day long, but you still won't get the answer. Find the courage, tap him on the shoulder, and ask him.
 
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post Sep 2 2004, 06:27 PM
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Ask him about it, jeez.
We can't really tell you what he's doing, because we don't know every little detail of the situation.
So, yeah. Just talk to him about it..
 
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