My best friends mom hates me..., what should i do? Options

[heyyfrankie]

sorry about the topic title...it should say, "my best friend's MOM hates me..." sorry!



okay. well on saturday, my friend and his mom got in a fight and at the end she was like you can't go over to Frankie's ((me)) house anymore. he was like why. she was like because i don't know what y'all are doing and i don't like him.

she said that i was a bad person and that my family was bad. i don't think my best friend was supposed to tell but we are best friends so what do you expect? What should i do? i mean, should i just let it be and avoid my friend's mom and going over there? or should i confront her? (((it would be really easy to confront her because they live 2 houses down from me! )))

[hatefulxlove]

Well, if I were you.. I'd just be disappointed and leave my friend alone for a few days [but of course still hang out with her in school and stuff].. Hopefully things with your friend and the mom will cool down, and you guys can start talking and stuff again. But... I'd say the best thing to do is just leave it alone. I mean, she IS your friend's mom.. but that doesn't mean your friendship has to break because she can't go to your house anymore. Good luck.

[inthemudhole]

I might tell my parents about that and have them confront her.

[Just_Dream]

FIND a way to prove to your best friend's mother that you aren't a bad person. And if she doesn't like you for dumb reasons, she's being very judgemental. Yea you should ask your parents to help confront your best friend's mother.

[Too Asian To DIE]

what she^ said.

[casssy]

I changed the topic name for you

and damn that sucks maybe you should confront her.. it might make things better

[pikimoo]

My best friend's mom called my family white trash and said I'm a bad influence.

Not a lot I have been able to do about it. I just see her at school.

[sweetdreamsx3]

Well, in your other post, you did write about stuff like how your mom lets you do drugs. That's probably why she doesn't approve of you. Like Just_Dream said, just find a way to prove yourself that you're a good person or sneak around. What she doesn't know won't hurt, right? Right. :D haha

[slurp]

hmm you should find some ways to impress your friends mom? and prove to her..youre not a bad person and if she still wont accept it then fcuk her

[heyyfrankie]

Well, in your other post, you did write about stuff like how your mom lets you do drugs. That's probably why she doesn't approve of you. Like Just_Dream said, just find a way to prove yourself that you're a good person or sneak around. What she doesn't know won't hurt, right? Right. :D haha

well, my best friend's mom doesn't know about that. (((and i said she let me try a cigarette, and drank that one time. just so y'all know )))


and thank y'all for your help! i will try to make her think that i am not bad. i hope it works! *crosses fingers*

[dragyn]

try talking to her.

seriously. tell her that you really do appreciate your friendship with her son, and that you're sorry if she's gotten a bad impression of you, and that you really aren't a bad kid, and you don't get her son into any trouble.

doesn't really matter if it's all true, just as long as it seems that way.

[ichiban]

Well, if you ever go to your best friend's house again, try to be reallly polite around his mom ... help out .. be nice .. stuff like that

[dani41790]

you should probably confront her and if that dont work, get ur parents to confront her, its kinda mean saying that ur family is bad like that

[Levy2k6]

just keep being good around ur friend and then eventually they will see ur a good kid after all and like you..

[conster]

sounds like ur willing to confront her, i think u should reason with her lols like... what makes u think my family is bad? so if my family is bad that means im bad? what makes my family worst tahn urs? u once had bad friends and good friends.. and me and ur son are best friends and we're gonna be best friends forever and u cant do anything about that ha-ha-ha


nah jk lol she'll probably kick u out, but its worth a try

[betrayedbytheduc...]

shouldn't really bother with the old ones, they'll just make it harder. screw her and just hang out with your friend.

[*tyedyefroggy*]

I think that you should confront your buddies mom and ask why she thinks that you're bad news..

[ryfitaDF]

My best friend's mom called my family white trash and said I'm a bad influence.

Not a lot I have been able to do about it. I just see her at school.

i <3 it when my friends' moms say i'm a bad influence. it just goes to show that all they know is what i look like. otherwise they would love me.

i'd say just hang out with him anyway. he should be, all, "mom, no. we're friends."

[sunissed14127]

i would try to prove that i am a good person....and maybe tell my parents about it and they can confront your friends mother...because if u do it that might make her think that u are even worse that she thought.

[aznsorpor]

you should definitely not confront her.. parents would find that disrespectful.. and no point you would just make life harder for your friend.. and that may cause them to fight more.. jus try to avoid her as much as you can.. save the trouble..

[F1R3B4T]

lmfao. u must've done something pretty dumb to get ur best friend's MOM to hate u. excuse me while i go into the next room and laugh my ass off.

[iced__cappucino]

How do you know she HATES you? neways..dont let that break your friendship. maybe you can let him/her come over to your house

[xBitterxSweetx]

i think you should confront her in a nice polite way. and if she doesn't change her mind, be determined. say something like "i WILL prove to you that we are doing nothing bad, because your son IS my best friend and i don't want to stop being friends with him just because you THINK we're doing something bad when we're not." and then say thank you for your time and leave.