who introduces the toungue when kissing?, the boy or the girl? Options

[xXYuKnowItXx]

i think it should be the girl cuz if the boy does then the girl will think hes a pervert but if the girl licks the lips he'll catch on and start.

SORRY IF U THINK IM THIKING PERVERTEDLY. I DIDNT MEAN TO OFFEND ANNNY OF YOU OR EVEN SOUND PERVERTED I JUST WANTED TO KNOW WHO GOES FIRST...

[fallen_angel1137]

Well, my bf introduced tounge first and i liked it...;-) So, i guess that the guy should.

[MeanBastard]

Don't matter.....

[*RiC3xBoy*]

shouldnt matter

[thesecretmodel]

Well, it goes back and forth for me. I remember with one of my boyfriends that he wouldn't make a freakin' move on me so I leaned in and gave him a quick frenchie.

He asked me out 5 minutes later.

Just depends on your mood and the person you're with really.

[xXYuKnowItXx]

a quick frenchie? doesnt frenchie last rly rly long?

[dani41790]

i realli dont knoe but i prefer if the guy did it...

[LiLaZnGirL122]

i mean does it matter?!??

[cutielilsuga]

it doesn't matter at all??

[Heathasm]

well if your kissing each other purposely it shouldnt matter
youre not gonna get slapped for doing it

[inthemudhole]

I don't think it should matter who starts.
But then again, I've never kissed anyone in that way. >_>
Eh. I don't think it should matter.
My guess is whoever starts the kiss should start with the tongue.

[islandkiss]

I don't think that it matters..


and why is this thread in the girls locker room?

[yellowcardrox22]

er i dont think it really matters.... but usually the boy introduces first....

[mouse_3k]

doesnt matter as long as it existing now lol

[xnastyninjagrlx]

umm I think maybe both of the parties juss start together..like when my b/f and i kissed, our tounges juss both ended up going at the same time...but yah I prefer guys to do it first tho..

[sugarcultluver]

I don't think it should matter who starts.
But then again, I've never kissed anyone in that way. >_>
Eh. I don't think it should matter.
My guess is whoever starts the kiss should start with the tongue.

i agree with ya, brie!

[Mick3Y]

I dun think it matters

- Tran -

[amyxhartman]

i kno wut u meant about the whole grl starting it first thing..... my last boyfriend i started it, because he was kinda not sure he should.... he was afraid id get mad lol.... but in the end, it doesnt realy matter now does it lol

[xsweetdreams12x]

I honestly don't know... but I'm not sure if it matters.

[lilJdawg]

err .. i don`t really no. haven`t had my first kiss yet. but i preferr the boy start it first.

[casssy]

It doesnt matter...

[Perfection]

Why do the boys gotta do it first?! I'm shy a-and i don't wanna make the first move!! Its scary..y'know you never know what the girl will do to you.

[thesecretmodel]

AWWWW YOU'RE SHY? Awwwwww that's so cute! Lol

[*thesweetescape*]

It doesn't really matter. With some of my boyfriends I started it but Brie is right, whoever kisses usually does (or should) initiate tongue lol.

[sophie_007]

[midnite]

doesn't matter. i frenched my bf first he js went along with it.

[StarryEyedSurpri...]

I dont know.. i guess whoever feels like starting it lol

[slurp]

my ex started it and i went along with it

[elmogurly]

um..i dk..haha. i guess the person who wants to first?

[captured_serenit...]

i wouldnt know...we just do...i guess...

[mzteriouzme007]

don't realy, know, but i prefer guy start///

[angel-roh]

heehee justin perhaps yumm hehe

[fallenang3l211]

ahh french kissing is so sexy. the right mix of tongue and lips makes it even better. i dont care who does it first, as long as the first thing he does ISNT shoving his tongue down my throat.

[rOckThISshYt]

i don't think it's the duty of anyone. i think that when someone wants to they should go for it. and if the other person isn't ready, then so be it.

[nlgrl]

the girl... cuz when a guy does it the grl doesnt alwayz wanna do it... eh its hard to explain

[sammi rules you]

well if i was involved, it'd be the guy because i'm much too shy and timid to just start that..

[lovemexnot]

i never made otu with anyone, cuz i dont know how to do it lol. but i guess it doesnt matter..

-- it seems so confusing with the lips and the tongue.. i made do you just put your lips together and get your tongue do the roll? or the lips + tongue gotta do the the making out? lol and what do you do with ur hands?

[LiNHy POO]

haha i dont know, but good question! sometimes it could be the girl or the boy. it juss depends i guess.

[sweetdreamsx3]

The guy! lol :D I don't usually make the first move unless it's to talk to someone.

[Gr33nT3agUrL]

I think itz kinda confusing bcuz if the guy start it then the gurlz mite think he's a pervert, and if the gurl start it then it make her sound so desperate.

I think itz better to ask first which guyz should do cuz itz not rite foe gurlz to ask first....

[*stephinika*]

um it varies from person to person really. when i first did, it was the guy...but now it goes either way heh. so yeah it depends really.

[kewlcherry]

...i honestly don't know...heh

[eli5e]

hmm.. not sure

[sporadic]

It could be either...
Whoever's more daring?

[LatinaLady]

it dont matter as long as it happens ;)

[dfly112]

i wudnt kno... cuz i usually start it anyways... espec if u like the grl n she likes u she wont mind

[apple.]

I don't think it really matters..who ever feels comfortable.. i guess That doesn't help. ah

[dfly112]

I don't think it really matters..who ever feels comfortable.. i guess That doesn't help. ah

or hornier... if u guys get the grl "hot" she'll b all ova u...

[apple.]

or hornier... if u guys get the grl "hot" she'll b all ova u...

aha..yah.. i guess..that's tru

[x0143637x0]

it cOuld be either one. just as long as you feel comfortable. all my exs starts it. i never do

[apple.]

or hornier... if u guys get the grl "hot" she'll b all ova u...

Actually frum my point of view now, it's bitter if the guy "introduces the toungue "
I don't kno why_ bu ti think it gets the girl going usually..aha

[conster]

i really duno but i think the guy should do it first hah

[eli5e]

doesnt matter

[ArtificialBlonde]

well..i personally don't know..everytime i have kissed..um well it just comes naturally..it doesn't matter who starts..it usually just leads up to it..

[nyctophiliac]

i guess the guy?? i dunno...i'm not sure
Steph

[sandra]

i sayy... i dont know... just whoever does it first lol

[SeXyDeZZynSoCaL]

i dont really think it matters..i think you guys will know when..you know..you dont plan it..it just..happens

[whywasisostupid]

the guy. i wana make sure he likes the otngue, then i start

my exboyfriend did that, so i just went with it.

[mony0407]

im not really sure.. it depends? i guess.. lol cause with me and my boyfriend sometimes its him & other times its me.. but yeah iouno!

[kiSHBall]

iono why but i think its better if the bOyz do it first. hahaha *shrugs*

[kalyps0]

Either works.

[bl00dy_inn0cence]

What I know is, if it's the right time, the guy and girl will both agree secretly without saying to each other and when they kiss, whoever is less shy will introduce the french. But maybe that's just my fantasy. Most likely, whoever is less shy and less scared.

[Redhdchic]

i think it just comes naturally in a way....i mean u sort of know when to do it

[xSiLENT_tearsx]

i think .. the guy should make the first move. i mean if you don't like it .. just back away and slap him or something .. but if you do it and he didn't wanna then .. it's gonna be awkward wen he's wants u to stop. haha but .. either way . i duno

[__xxfrappachino...]

hmm...i don't know....it doesn't really matter to me though

[christiee_nax]

i really dont care who starts frenching who. point is that we're doing it

[SilverInandescen...]

I doesn't matter who starts it. I'd prefer he guy starting it but if they don't, just kinda lick their lip and they'll catch on.

[*Weird addiction*]

i really dont care who starts frenching who. point is that we're doing it

LOL...that's hilarious!! well said but i think....
the girl should....if the guy does it cool too but its kinda wierd...GO GIRLS!!

[yeseulx3]

just go with the flow.

[royalfreshness]

I don't think that it matters..


and why is this thread in the girls locker room?

Right lol

[chikken_curry]

it doesnt matter to me...boy or girl, what ever feels right..go with the flow

[milky_yumm]

Ohhh, k i s s i n g! =]
well, i think like, it matters.
if the you really like the other person, than you go right in...if they like you like you like them, theyll go with it...=]
but if your not sure if they like you, wait...\\\


[sooo, yeah,...<3]

[miss_asian]

don't really matter i guess

[tresa1992]

I don't think it really matters, though I haven't kissed anyone.

[shinigami300]

i think whoever is more forward should do it. I seriously don't think that gender matters on this

[m.ar.i.a]

idk n im 13 (self-explanatory) but i prefer the guys to.

[HolyMoly]

I think the girl should do it first, because it's rude for a guy just to start jumping in ones mouth. Girls must invite them. Lol. I'm still for the prim and proper ladies being treated with respect.

[*liquidize*]

yeah you must get a invitation!

[*disco infiltrator*]

Well, I'm pretty shy, so usually the guy has to with me.

[xFaith]

Eh.. it doesnt matter. mostly no one has to "introduce", it just goes naturally xD

[*Programmer*]

lmfao.....yeah i usually start it on the girl...guess it's a guys thing.....only been rejected once...cause i had lol a bag of sour cream and onion chips and completely forgot lmfao...

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

For me; its usually the guy.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Doesnt matter. Whoever flickes the lips with the tongue first.

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

dont know!

[anniepiee]

doesnt it just.. start?

[WHOngos144]

It doesn't matter.

[LittleLulu]

the guy.

sadly, its one of the only thing they anitiate. Lazy bums.

[MasonsBaby16]

Well the first time my bf came over to meet my parents i was in my room with him showing him some pics of my friends that were hanging on my wall and i was holding his hand and my mom was calling us so i went to go leave with his hand in mine he pulled me back to him really fast and just layed on on me..toungue and all. Then I just joined in...then when i finally pulled away...he was like wow didnt exspect you to join in. So Some guys like to go first and some girls like to go first.

[MasonsBaby16]

Well the first time my bf came over to meet my parents i was in my room with him showing him some pics of my friends that were hanging on my wall and i was holding his hand and my mom was calling us so i went to go leave with his hand in mine he pulled me back to him really fast and just layed on on me..toungue and all. Then I just joined in...then when i finally pulled away...he was like wow didnt exspect you to join in. So Some guys like to go first and some girls like to go first.

[HybridCountdown5]

i realli dont knoe but i prefer if the guy did it...

yeah same
cant say I've given it any serious thought before

[chocolateaficion...]

I honestly don't know and find it.. blechhkkk.
Even though I've experience it, it's cool, but at the same time.. echk, yeahhh.
I just know that I never joined in... fksfjsafkljafkjelfjlsafjdsafd, BLAHHHH.

[BabiiPeachesx3]

doesn't it just start right away?

[Vaness336]

I think it's mutual.

[psycho_bitch420]

Personally I think its better when the guy makes the move but if sometimes its like the guy gets too nervous and chicken out so I end up makin the move but I agree it shouldn't matter!

[*mzkandi*]

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[EddieV]

Does it really matter?

[lilliannnn]

It depends on the mood, I guess. If I want it, I'll start it. If he does, he will. Ya know?

[Gerifan04]

I say that it doesn't matter.

[FoxBandCutie08]

Definitely my bf. It's always been the guy with me, never me. Oh well.

[SimplicityGirl]

Guy. I'm the type of girl who likes to have the guy make the first moves.