he's ignoring me, best friend gotta gf....wut now? |
 Aug 27 2004, 11:26 PM
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my best friend (a guy) recently got a girlfriend and now he duz everything with her.
 it's been almost 2 months since he's been going out w/ her. we dont do anything 2gether nemore and he wants 2 do everything we used 2 do 2gether with his gf instead of me. do i hav a case of jealousy? am i being selfish? i definitely still want him as a friend...so wut shuld i do???
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Aug 28 2004, 12:36 AM
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 Linny the dork. Group: Member Posts: 178 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,258 |
if you're a girl, it sounds like you might like him.
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Aug 28 2004, 12:53 AM
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 anti-friendly Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,973 |
break them up by black mailing. that'll teach him.
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Aug 28 2004, 12:56 AM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Whenever your girlfriend goes on a date with him, tell her some dark secret of his. Like, "Did you know he dreams of having sex with you all the time?" and she will lose interest sooner or later.
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Aug 28 2004, 01:03 AM
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 MyZz NoTtYz Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,780 |
I know how that feels....like you lost him in a way...and at the same time he's there but not with you. I think it's normal for him to drift off a bit from you but eventually, it'll all fall down....i think you should talk to him about it...he is ur best friend. you want him to be happy right?
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Aug 28 2004, 01:10 AM
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just call me bitch Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,176 |
QUOTE(anger_is_my_friend @ Aug 28 2004, 12:36 AM) if you're a girl, it sounds like you might like him. i agree with wat she said...jealousy sometimes just cover our heads 
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Aug 28 2004, 04:15 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
nah its ok to feel that way. jus tell your fren how ya feel
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Aug 28 2004, 12:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Yeah, I think you might like your best friend... =\ Talk to him?
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Aug 28 2004, 12:30 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,339 |
yeah i am a grl, but i dun hav a crush on my best friend and i definitelly want him 2 b happy, but now IM not happy.
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Aug 28 2004, 02:05 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Confront him. Bring it to his attention that you are feeling left out, and if he were a true friend, the he wouldn't be treating you lyke he has. I know it's better said than done, but it can help. I hope it all works out.
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Aug 28 2004, 02:23 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
yeh you shound like u like him.....trust me....i kno what ur going thru...maybe you can go out with them...like a group date & bring a couple of friends along
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Aug 28 2004, 03:39 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
eh well thats normal... i know when i date someone that person is my #1 priority, friends 2nd .... yea thats how it works ... um... just tell him u feel like your both drifting apart and want to spend some time with each other.... maybe now ur realizing some hidden feelings u feel towards him
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Aug 28 2004, 06:50 PM
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 have u lost ur mind? Group: Member Posts: 512 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,217 |
sumtin like this has happened b4... its not that he doesnt want to spend time wit u... its juss that hes gettin caught up wit his gf n hasnt really taken the time to notice u... talk to him n ask him if he wants to do stuff wit him or talk to him more
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Aug 28 2004, 09:44 PM
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 hardcore procrastinator =] Group: Member Posts: 186 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,340 |
Happened to me to with one of my guy friends. We just stopped talking...stopped asking each other to do things...later he broke up with her, but it just wasn't the same anymore, lol.
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Aug 28 2004, 10:29 PM
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Cjkpop.net Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,362 |
For me, I think if he's really your best friend, he wouldnt do that to u.
- Tran - |
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Aug 28 2004, 10:47 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
girl i think u like him =x witout knowing it lols but eithe way jus tell him how u feel cuz thats what best firends do rite?
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Aug 28 2004, 11:02 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,339 |
so wut im getting here is that i shuld talk 2 him. ok...i will. wait, wut shuld i say?
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