FRIENDS AND BOYFRIENDS Options

[sailornaruru]

IM SOO F-IN PISSED OFF

see...myf riend, she hooked me up with my boifriend and NOW she likes him. <<<thats not why im pissed

See...when she told me she liked Him..i was like..it's ok..its just a lil crush..nothin to worry bout....but then..she started saying she liekd him more and more and more. And she keeps saying that shecries at night because shewants me to be happyand not ruin me and my boyfriends life. If she didn't want to ruin it, then why does she even bother to keep telling me her feelings?

The reason why im soo pissed off is because she said..she wants to forget about her crush on my boifriend...And when she said that, i was like ok..put it in the past or try..so i tried and now, all she says on aim is *sigh* uum...yah.i derno

IT F-IN PISSES ME OFF

I mean..if shes wants to burry it in the sand..she shouldn't kick the sand back off!!!!!

man im juss soooooooooo pissed off

[aznriceboi]

fight! fight! fight!

one thing to do is to never let your friends hook you up, sometimes times it could turn out good and most of the times its usually just goes wrong in couple weeks because of something,

yea thats what friends they do best, steal your gf/bf.

now being serious about it, go tell her that, that you don't like how shes acting and all, and hopefully she'll understand. if she don't

[mouse_3k]

tell her tht. tell her tht ur bf is YOURS and even though she set u two off, tell her to BACK THE F*** OFF. i hate it when ppl just IM me with a *sigh* or somethin bull like tht. shes just being selfish. tell her why ur pissed and if she stills act like tht, then i dont think she is called a friend cause she shouldnt try to ruin NE thing with you..

[xoxspanky569]

tell her tht. tell her tht ur bf is YOURS and even though she set u two off, tell her to BACK THE F*** OFF. i hate it when ppl just IM me with a *sigh* or somethin bull like tht. shes just being selfish. tell her why ur pissed and if she stills act like tht, then i dont think she is called a friend cause she shouldnt try to ruin NE thing with you..

Completely agree. Your friend shouldn't be doing this. Talk to her and if she still acts the same way, drop her. Have a good one.

[ill_lil_girl]

yah. i been through this one too. and yes, i completely feel you.

first of all, think about how much you love your new man, and if you are willing to keep it this seriously. secondly, think about your friend, how much time you spend with her.

then think. pick whichever one you feel you have a better future with. you don't want to live your life with a back-seat driver (ur frind) who can't even make up her mind whether she wants to be your friend or take your man. you also don't want to lose a frind over a man if you're not willing to get serious.

tell your friend how you feel. tell your new man how you feel, and if possible, have all three of you sit down and talk about it. this is the most important step. what if you let your man be with your friend, but he is not willing to go out with her. everybody loses, nobody wins. so have a nice talk with them. unlike what they usually say, dating is not just a game, it's a milestone to your emotional and romantic future.

good luck, and i hope i helped.

[pingping211]

ur fd is selfish........
u nd to talk with her,,,,
dont be afraid

[betrayedbytheduc...]

what a dumbass. especially since she's the one who hoooked you guys up. a girl like her shouldn't get in your way. you have every right to be mad at her. she should know better than to mess with your kool-aid.

[soulovely]

she can always have feelings for your bf. but does your bf has feelings for her? i mean if he's your bf he would like you and even if you break it just so she can get with him well i just think that's not even right because that's like treating this guy as a thing not and human being. anyway... your friend should know what she did and yeah you should tell her what's on your mind and hopefully she will understand. if she's your friend she'll let it go.

[dani41790]

i can c y ur mad. id b mad too but anyways, u should tell her how you feel and that it bothers you alot that she does that.

[xnastyninjagrlx]

You know that tends to happen a lot!! But you need to tell her that it's her lost she did not realize that she liked him sooner and that as a friend she should respect you and be happy that you are in a relationship she created.

[SarahxJoy]

Eh, well..it was her who hooked you two up, so it's not like she can go back and undo that now. Does your boyfriend know? Mm, I think you should try to avoid her for a while. For two reasons: 1. So then you won't have to listen to her telling how she feels about your boyfriend. 2. Give her some time alone to think it out, and put it in the past. I mean..that is a bit messed up..

[mizzinno]

she obviously wants him too, but since he's with you now, that cant be! she just saying that she cries at night and her liking to him growing and her telling you about it alot, just says something, doesnt it?

she doesnt want you to be with him, she wants to be with him.

and if you see my point, i think you should be telling her that-- because since you are friends, she should undersatnd that he's with you, and she cant get ANYWHERE with him as long as you two are together.

and yes, like "soulovely" had said, she can always have feelings for him, but if she wants to be a good friend, she should just stay outta it for now!

x3 just tryin 2 get a say in this, which u should be doin too.