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 Aug 20 2004, 03:01 PM
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 d0n`t B mean! =/  Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,185  |
i went out with this guy, hes in my class, but were on and off. we aren't together right now but i want to. i like hime because of how he acts, and treats me WHEN WERE NOT TOGETHER. but when were together it all changes, and i dont like it, what should i do?
 please someone give me some advice!
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Aug 20 2004, 03:14 PM
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 Losers rule =D Group: Member Posts: 407 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,592 |
well, it sounds like youre happier when youre just friends and not together. so I think you should just stick to being friends with him.
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Aug 20 2004, 03:15 PM
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 Death is a promise given to us at birth Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,757 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,459 |
i dunno why would he do that. I think he just act different when he "WITH" someone and my best bet is talk to him about it or drop some hints.
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Aug 20 2004, 03:17 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
He is afraid of PDA. Public display o faffection.
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Aug 20 2004, 03:24 PM
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 wishing for SIMPLE LOVE with Jay Group: Member Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,601 |
I think don't rush into anything right now. Just stay friends with him and wait till he starts developing strong feelings for you. THen you can decided to tell him that you wanna be more than friends.
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Aug 20 2004, 03:25 PM
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 aint the world lovely? Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,602 |
yeah..pretty much what everyone else said. that was kinna the way it was with one of mny ex's. we would do more when we werent going out but wen we started going out again, he'd spend more time flirting with other girls
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Aug 20 2004, 05:39 PM
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racegirl24A Posted on Aug 20 2004, 1:14 PM
QUOTE well, it sounds like youre happier when youre just friends and not together. so I think you should just stick to being friends with him. i agree. but talk to him about it. i think that's the best. but it seems to me that he's just one of those guys who changes once in a relationship. |
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Aug 20 2004, 06:45 PM
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d0n`t B mean! =/ Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,185 |
thanks for all the advice guys!
 QUOTE I think don't rush into anything right now. Just stay friends with him and wait till he starts developing strong feelings for you. THen you can decided to tell him that you wanna be more than friends. i think im gonna do that. 
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Aug 20 2004, 08:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 693 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,017 |
throw rocks at him...
or go and tell him that up front, if he cares about you enough he'll do it, but i don't theres always that option i just wrote up at the top |
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Aug 20 2004, 09:14 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
of u like how he acts as a friend rather than a boyfriend , what does that tell u?
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Aug 21 2004, 06:55 PM
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d0n`t B mean! =/ Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,185 |
he`s bf material. i mean...this might sound weird..but i can c myself with him. hes...something else. i really don`t wanna l0se him. so yeah...
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Aug 21 2004, 06:58 PM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
well then i guess u should tell him how he acts and how u dont like it,if he likes u he will try to change his bad ways and if he doesnt leave him ur better off
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Aug 21 2004, 11:53 PM
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 Mmm..Meat :D Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,086 |
It sounds like he has a big ego --;..You're too good for a "pretending" boy. It he really likes you, he'll show it to the world.
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Aug 23 2004, 12:58 PM
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d0n`t B mean! =/ Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,185 |
thanks
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Sep 21 2004, 04:25 PM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
i got the same problem here. i just didnt go out with him....
it all depends cause the guy that i lyk is more intimade when he and i r alone and that turns me on and the way he asks in public turns me on too so it all depends.... if u enjoy the time that u r alone then go 4 it. if not then just be friends
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