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Kagome
post Aug 20 2004, 02:37 PM
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do you think its inappropriate for a guy to reject a girl because they are "fat" or "overweight" stubborn.gif

i do..

PS: this didnt happen to me.. lol

EDIT: oopz there was a typo there. so i changed it. sry ppl lol
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 02:43 PM
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It's never okay to reject a person solely on their looks.
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 02:43 PM
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i agree too many guy care to much of thier appearance. Even if sum are wierd or wacko sumtimes. But in reality it matters but most important is the PERSONALITY ALL THE WAY. tongue.gif
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 02:52 PM
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Well, I think it's rude. It'll ruin the girl's self-esteem and make them feel less as good a person. If the guy rejects her because of her weight, then he's an ass. stubborn.gif
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 02:54 PM
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i think its not right to do that. A guy that does that for me is a jerk.
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 03:10 PM
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any guy that rejects a girl because of her looks is a jerk. end of story.
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 03:12 PM
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i agree with everyone, a guy rejecting a girl because of her looks is purely wrong. jerk, shallow, and selfish.
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 03:16 PM
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QUOTE(xsweetdreams12x @ Aug 20 2004, 2:52 PM)
Well, I think it's rude. It'll ruin the girl's self-esteem and make them feel less as good a person. If the guy rejects her because of her weight, then he's an ass. stubborn.gif

i def. AGREE! that is so tru i am somewhat over wieght and i have low-self-esteem b.c. of most guys ... they r rly rude and dont wanna get to know the girls personality ... its all bout the looks ... n that aint right
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 03:58 PM
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QUOTE(Thradrien_Blake @ Aug 20 2004, 1:43 PM)
It's never okay to reject a person solely on their looks.

=) you said it. if you dont liek them cuz of body, then shame on you
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 04:23 PM
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i think its wrong to reject some1 jus cuz of their looks
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 04:38 PM
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yeah thats definitely wrong. anything like that based only on looks, is bad. looks aren't the most important thing. its personality.
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 04:56 PM
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yehh thats sooo shallow!!! please sometimes the hottest girls can be total losers! yet they dont know that...
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 05:58 PM
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That is sooooo not nice. It makes a girl feel bad about herself. It should be about her personality & the way she treats people. NEVER about her looks.
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 08:09 PM
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Of course not. Those guys are shallow bastards. Uggh.
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 08:16 PM
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that is soo messed up for any guy do to that...EVER
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 08:17 PM
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i think it's wrong.that person could be really great but u don't like them how they look. that's shallow.
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 08:19 PM
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tht is really...cold..

i would kick the dude in the weiner if he didnt go out with me because i was *overweight*
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 09:18 PM
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that's not right. it's really shallow, judging someone purely on their looks. bleh- sometimes overweight girls have better personalities than really skinny girls.
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 09:35 PM
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Hate it wen it happen cuz she could be the one but he wouldn't noe cuz he didn't to noe her cuz of the way she looks n its just wrong... stubborn.gif
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 09:51 PM
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that must means lots of guys are jerks. i think it is wrong and that its messed up. _dry.gif
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 11:04 PM
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It wouldn't be 'wrong', just shallow.
 
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post Aug 21 2004, 04:43 AM
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that sucks. people base so much on looks these days.
 
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post Aug 21 2004, 04:57 AM
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honestly i dont really see "wrong" about it, i just find it kinda shallow.....
 
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post Aug 21 2004, 05:43 AM
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well it's their loss to reject someone who might be a little chubby or whatevers..but a great person. good for them. they don't deserve it. blink.gif
 
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post Aug 21 2004, 08:48 AM
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it is VERY inappropriate for guys to reject a girl just because of their physical appearance... it's whats inside that matters not the outside!!!!! apprently, guys are too stupid to understand that... grr..
 
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post Aug 22 2004, 09:53 PM
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i dont think its rite because gurls come in all shapes and sizes and every guy cant have the barbie look so they should adjust
 
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post Aug 22 2004, 10:01 PM
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that`s tru.. sometimes guys can be so shallow.. and all they care about is the girls apperance well mostly some of the guys no offense hehe =P ..
 
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its wrong, and its shallow, but there will always be guys like that.....
 
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post Aug 22 2004, 11:58 PM
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you all said it!! lol shallow, it is.

dayumm.. if u dont like a girl, it shudnt be about the way she looks. how can that even get in the way, really?
 
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post Aug 22 2004, 11:59 PM
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yup i think thats one of the lowest things a guy could do
 
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post Sep 21 2004, 06:06 PM
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yeah it is...it's better to judge people on their inner beauty
 
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post Sep 21 2004, 06:14 PM
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Not only does it ruin a girl's self-esteem, it ruins her whole view of herself. That's why so many girls make themselves puke after they eat or don't eat at all these days. It's incredibly unhealthy, and so many people don't realize these effects. I know I used to get made fun of for being fat or chubby, but now I've lost weight and been healthier. I'm not stick thin, but I know I look and feel healthy but sometimes I do feel like I'm still fat. It's because of that past of being made fun of and rejected because of my size.
 
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post Sep 21 2004, 08:36 PM
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It's wrong and all, yes. It's also cruel and shallow...
But girls can be just as mean- sometimes meaner.
 
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post Sep 21 2004, 10:04 PM
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its wrong. its wuts inside that matters
 
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post Oct 21 2004, 05:07 PM
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QUOTE(sheepy @ Sep 21 2004, 10:04 PM)
its wrong. its wuts inside that matters

i agree...inside matter the most
 
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post Oct 21 2004, 05:10 PM
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yeah it is very inapproiate for us guys to reject a girl cause of overweight or anything even looks to me looks are just a bonus im really looking for a personality and (P.S My weiner is very sensitive please don't kick me in da weiner ) biggrin.gif
 
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post Oct 21 2004, 05:12 PM
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It IS wrong to base a relationship on the physical appearances. It brings down a girl's self confidence especially right after she worked up the confidence TO ask them out in the first place.

However.. if the girl never actually talk to the guy or got to know the guy first before asking him out, then isn't she being quite shallow too? I mean, she's liking the guy based on looks and what she SEES is his personality, when she's never actually got to know that personality herself.

There's two ways to look at everything I guess and Im one of those annoying people who just like to point them out..
 
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post Oct 21 2004, 06:40 PM
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i think it is wrong but who knows they're guys
 
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post Oct 21 2004, 06:41 PM
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of course it's wrong. not just for guys but for girls, too. let's face it, we all do it. most relationships are started with a PHYSICAL attraction, which is just as important as an emotional connection in the beginning.


we're all guilty. don't blame it on the guys.
 
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post Oct 21 2004, 06:45 PM
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Well, yes I think it's very inappropriate! I mean, looks isn't everything and the guy might make the girl becoming anerexic and stuff. It's really wrong when that kind of stuff happens. Sometimes, the people that are not as pretty as others have the most beautiful personality. And some of the prettiest people have the ugliest personality.
 
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post Oct 21 2004, 06:50 PM
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shallow ...but okay....damn I'm mean
 
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post Oct 21 2004, 07:13 PM
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I hate that. When boys think you're overweight and they just don't like you, despite that you just mite be a perfect inner person. If they don't like you because of your physical appearence, he's so not worth it. A guy should like you for who you are, not what you are.
 
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post Nov 11 2004, 01:16 PM
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well not exactly inappropriate... y'know... everyone has perferences
 
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post Nov 11 2004, 07:40 PM
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i think that's wrong. whoever does that are bastards.
 
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post Nov 12 2004, 07:13 PM
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i hate it when taht happens, it shouldnt be about looks..
 
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