other girls, saying i love you to my bf.. |
 Aug 20 2004, 12:48 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION!  Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769  |
ok well i had this problem before like 3 weeks ago. i trust my bf and all but a few girls on my bf's xanga continue to say "I love you so much" and stuff. I know its his friends, maybe best friend, but at times it goes overboard.
when i confront him he always argue saying *why dont u trust me, im tired of being loyal to you, u should know the friends i make arnt gunna try to steal me from you, etc.* I found another *I love you so much* from a girl on his xanga which has been saying tht for quite some time and its really starting to piss me off. yah ok, she can say it like idk, maybe twice or so, but everytime he post, does she HAVE to freakin say tht?! ugh...i dont know wht to do NE more. I know he been friends with her for a while but every time i see the comments of his xanga is ALWAYS a freakin n*oh i love you* etc. gosh, at least do a Luv instead of Love. jeez, i hate acting like this but i really want them to STEP THE F*** OFF! I would confront him bout it but then again we would have another fight and this whole korean drama jinx starts again  Honestly, i really wanna trust his friend but I dont know them, like i dont even think my bf even know if the girls likes him or not *in tht special like way*  mother...fruitbuckets, NE advice on this bullpoop? (((PS. Im tryin so hard not to curse rite now so please ignore my...2nd grade vocab))) |
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Aug 20 2004, 12:53 PM
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 wishing for SIMPLE LOVE with Jay Group: Member Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,601 |
I think if you really love him and trust them, then juss believe that he is telling you the truth and that the girls are only friends. To me, it sounds like that psycho girl likes him?? Cuz I know I don't say I love you to just anyone..even if it is my close guy friend. So I suggest just telling your b/f nicely that its kewl for him to have female friends of course, but that it really bugs YOU and upsets YOU that another girl is using the words " I LOVE YOU" towards him. Tell him it's not an issue of loyalty and trust..juss say that the girl's behavior is inappropriate towards a guy that's already taken.
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Aug 20 2004, 01:20 PM
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yes, i go with pyscho girl thing nastyninja said cause saying "i love u" a lot is a bit....creepy?
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| *liquidize* |
Aug 20 2004, 01:23 PM
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violence is always the answer.....
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Aug 20 2004, 01:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 693 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,017 |
QUOTE(liquidize @ Aug 20 2004, 1:23 PM) violence is always the answer..... yes i believe that too  . this one old lady found out that her husband was cheating on her, then she took a bat in one hand and and a spray paint in the other. then she started to wreck a car thinking that it was her husband's and spray paint it with "cheater etc..." but it turned out to another persons car. it was a cops carfeel sorry for her... ---- @mouse_3k, yea don't try to be so up front with asking him. i mean like don't say it out of nowhere. assuming things is where all the problems starts happening. don't worry about it and relax. or you could find out where they live and beat the sh*t out of them. <----that could always be an open option |
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Aug 20 2004, 01:43 PM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE I think if you really love him and trust them, then juss believe that he is telling you the truth and that the girls are only friends. To me, it sounds like that psycho girl likes him?? Cuz I know I don't say I love you to just anyone..even if it is my close guy friend. So I suggest just telling your b/f nicely that its kewl for him to have female friends of course, but that it really bugs YOU and upsets YOU that another girl is using the words " I LOVE YOU" towards him. Tell him it's not an issue of loyalty and trust..juss say that the girl's behavior is inappropriate towards a guy that's already taken. yah i told him i didnt like girls telling him tht but he just tells me "well if i tell them to stop, then they stop talking to me all together" and i dont know wht to say to tht cause i really dont wanna be one of those gf's thts like *its either me or ur friends* kinda person.. ill just..ignore it again or somethin ----edit---- lol also i would personally give her a closer look to the curb on the street but it is one of my bf's best friends so like, if i even trash his friends, i know he wouldnt talk to me for like a week. and wow if i smash his best friend's face to the street curb, the relationship is gunna be over for sure. keepin hands to myself for the sake of the relationship...and possible charges lol
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Aug 20 2004, 02:41 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
Hmm... tough. If I was in the same position I'd be a little irked to. Knowing me and my immature nature when it comes to jealousy, I'd probably write an entry about it and tell all the girls to eff off and if they keep flirting and being too affectionate with my man, I will throw down with whoever it is that won't back off.
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Aug 20 2004, 03:13 PM
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 Losers rule =D Group: Member Posts: 407 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,592 |
wow..this is a tough one. I would get pissed off if this happened to me too. Id just try to ignore it as best as I could, and if it really started bugging me to the point that I couldnt stand it Id tell my bf to ask them to stop. if theyre really his friends they should stop, hopefully.
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Aug 20 2004, 03:55 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
well u should trust your bf. but if it realli bothers u that much just tell him how u feel about it and try not to get into a fight. jus tell him it kinda bothers you but u still trust ect.
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Aug 20 2004, 04:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Hmm..just read that if you asked your boyfriend to get his friends to stop, they would stop talking to him altogether..ERrr....Retard!!! If they were close friends, it wouldn't be that much of a problem! >.<
And how long have you guys been together? Just try to trust him because well I read your other posts to people and you seem pretty violent. :D I'm sure you can kick anyone's ass. Hahah. :D Well yeah, just trust him. =\ Hope you figure out what to do because I'm just repeating myself. >.< hah |
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Aug 20 2004, 06:37 PM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE Hmm... tough. If I was in the same position I'd be a little irked to. Knowing me and my immature nature when it comes to jealousy, I'd probably write an entry about it and tell all the girls to eff off and if they keep flirting and being too affectionate with my man, I will throw down with whoever it is that won't back off. i would.. BUT my dad reads my xanga sooo i keep everythin on the DL when it comes to my xangaQUOTE And how long have you guys been together? Just try to trust him because well I read your other posts to people and you seem pretty violent. :D I'm sure you can kick anyone's ass. Hahah. :D Well yeah, just trust him. =\ Hope you figure out what to do because I'm just repeating myself. >.< hah me and my bf been together for 5 months and a few days. ahahaha yaaaah im a twisted girl...I play rainbow six and tell my father i love blowing the guys head's off  I really want to meet this miss *I love you so much* chick...but then again it would probably be a bad idea. imma just ignore it for now. if it continue's to happen, i swear imma tell my bf and if he tried to start a fight, hell imma just get myself over there *i live 20 minutes away* and just freakin nut check him..i did it before, i can do it again
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Aug 21 2004, 01:16 AM
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man.. i would be pissed if a girl did that to my boyfriend. plus i'm the jealous type, so all hell would break lose. ahahah maybe not that bad, but you get the idea. i think it kind of goes over the line if another girl says "i love you"
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Aug 21 2004, 01:36 AM
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fOreVer YoURs Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,341 |
yea im a jealous type. i think i would kinda flip if some girl said she loved my bf...ok u said that u told ur bf that it bothers u that she says things like that to ur bf..n he says if he tells her to stop then, they'll stop talking to him altogether..if they were really tight frenz...why would they just stop talking to him....i have guy frenz..n i dont go up telling pplz i love them...unless i really mean it
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Aug 21 2004, 02:34 AM
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well for me i'll get realli jealous but just hang in there u'll b fine
 just tell him that u realli love him and u don't want ne thing to happen to the both of u 
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Aug 21 2004, 04:39 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
tell him to let u post a entry in his xanga and when the girls see that u even got access to his xanga..they'll step off.... thats what happened to me but i idnt want it to happen
...accidently....haha but i hope it helps in ur case
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Aug 21 2004, 10:06 AM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
lol i mentioned it to my bf last nite on the fone. I was walking to him and another of my guyfriend's on a mic on AIM or something so basically talking to 2 ppl at once.
on the fone bf: who r u talking to me: a guy friend bf: well now who is this guy?! (in a joking tone) me: just a friend bf: surrrrre... me: at least he doesnt tell me I LOVE YOU every time he gets a chance -silence- bf: never talk to me again (joking tone) me: ok -silence for 3 minutes- bf: steph? me: what?! bf: dont give me tht tone lil missy yaaaaah he jokes around alot. hopefully he at least got a idea i have a problem with it 
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Aug 21 2004, 10:43 AM
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 KATHY WiTH A "K" Group: Member Posts: 441 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,184 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Aug 20 2004, 2:41 PM) Hmm... tough. If I was in the same position I'd be a little irked to. Knowing me and my immature nature when it comes to jealousy, I'd probably write an entry about it and tell all the girls to eff off and if they keep flirting and being too affectionate with my man, I will throw down with whoever it is that won't back off. YUP, i`M WiT HER! |
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Aug 21 2004, 11:39 PM
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 Mmm..Meat :D Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,086 |
Rawr! Well, I'm a hot-tempered person so I would of course start a catfight! :3. But you should really talk to your boyfriend about how you feel.
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