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post Feb 23 2004, 06:24 PM
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People these days seem to against interracial dating, especially between Asians and whites. Is there something wrong with dating someone with a different skin color or ancestry?
 
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post Feb 23 2004, 06:31 PM
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thats what i say.

my FOB asian friends are like 100percent against white girls.

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hm..im okay with it, maybe because im asian american..

i guess....asians are racist. especially koreans, they dun like whites... -___-
 
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QUOTE(Podomaht @ Feb 23 2004, 6:31 PM)
thats what i say.

my FOB asian friends are like 100percent against white girls.

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hm..im okay with it, maybe because im asian american..

i guess....asians are racist. especially koreans, they dun like whites... -___-

thats not true.

i find asians (of our generation - because we all know about asian parents' phobia of african american people) are the people most likely to speak out against racism.

one thing that is common amongst asians these days is ethnocentrism

"Ethnocentrism" is a commonly used word in circles where ethnicity, inter-ethnic relations, and similar social issues are of concern. The usual definition of the term is "thinking one's own group's ways are superior to others" or "judging other groups as inferior to one's own."

well..not to that extent....
i myself tend to hang out or date asian people more frequently than caucasian people simply because i feel more comfortable around people who have similar customs, traditions, and family backgrounds as me. i dont feel as if i have to act differently around them ( i wouldnt act differently around anyone anyways, but that doesnt mean i dont feel like i should.)

the term "racism" or "racist" is too broadly used nowadays. anything is considered racism to people lately... the definition of racism is "a strong or irrational fear or hatred towards an entire ethnicity or race" i see too many people using it incorrectly, and it just..irks me i guess..

yeah.. i was the president of the cultural awareness club at my old school... i had to learn these things..
 
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post Feb 24 2004, 02:01 AM
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ethnocentrism.. that's a good word.. but nah there's nothing wrong with that.. you can't blame just an specific group coz some people are just plain all prejudice.. they think their race is superior so they do a lot of hate crimes.. also parents play a role too.. i mean they tell you who or not to date as a young kid.. of course is bad to disobey your parents so you end up doing what they tell you to do..
 
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i think that a lot of people are having trouble getting past this...but people need to know that u cant chose who u fall in love with.
 
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QUOTE(k00alah @ Feb 24 2004, 2:01 AM)
ethnocentrism.. that's a good word.. but nah there's nothing wrong with that.. you can't blame just an specific group coz some people are just plain all prejudice.. they think their race is superior so they do a lot of hate crimes.. also parents play a role too.. i mean they tell you who or not to date as a young kid.. of course is bad to disobey your parents so you end up doing what they tell you to do..

i said some are not ethnocentric to that extent... they dont think they're superior persay... they do however generally just stick to their own ethnic group. it doesnt mean their racist it just means they feel more comfortable with their own.

just because you prefer to date one race more than another, doesnt make you racist against the other race.

i know a lot of caucasian guys that prefer asian women.. because they think they're prettier and are generally more "wild" because their parents had protected and sheltered them all their lives...

i kinda think this is true... but the fact that i think asian females are prettier than caucasian females isnt racism ... its an opinion. there is a big difference.
[edit: i'd just like to add that, again, since the definition of racism is 'the strong or irrational fear or hatred towards an entire ethnicity or race," and the sentence above wasnt said with any hate or fear towards people who arent asian, i'm not being racist]

when did hate crimes come in here? there have been examples of hate crimes from every race towards every other race, so dont make it seem like asians are the ones most likely to.... just because some have occured, doesnt make the entire race prejudiced.
 
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post Feb 24 2004, 10:01 AM
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I dont see anything wrong with it... I mean my friends who are asian date white gurlz and my cuzzin has a white bf...

Haha i guess im the only one who go for asian gurlz.
I like going with the same ethnicity because as someone pointed above I feel more welcomed and home with people with the same cultures, heritage, and tradition. No ethnicity is better than the other, but I do like to preserve the tradition and heritage i and my parents have been grown up with.
 
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post Feb 24 2004, 11:42 AM
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There is nothing wrong with dating outside your race. I hope that society eventually learns to accept it. I think it's great when people of two different cultures date because they learn new customs from each other and it allows them not to be so close minded. I think it makes things more interesting and more worthwhile.

I think you can fall in love with anyone of any color. We're really not as different as it seems.

Besides, mixed children are so beautiful. :) I think this is what God intended.

Me & My Boyfriend:
 
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QUOTE(xquizit @ Feb 24 2004, 11:42 AM)
There is nothing wrong with dating outside your race. I hope that society eventually learns to accept it. I think it's great when people of two different cultures date because they learn new customs from each other and it allows them not to be so close minded. I think it makes things more interesting and more worthwhile.

I think you can fall in love with anyone of any color. We're really not as different as it seems.

Besides, mixed children are so beautiful. :) I think this is what God intended.

Me & My Boyfriend:

this is true...there is absolutely nothing wrong with dating outside of your race. there's nothing wrong with dating within your race either.
 
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yep.

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my friends are scared of african american people.
 
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post Feb 24 2004, 08:00 PM
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i've always had a thing for asian girls.. i dunno why =X i'd date one in a heart beat, and i'm white.. well.. greek.

and today during lunch i realized i don't even have any white friends, all my friends are either asian, indian, black, or hispanic =X

everyone else thinks i'm hispanic cuz of my name, a few of them know i'm white, but then again people don't consider me as being white, they consider me as being greek, but i still think it's the same thing..? right?
 
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post Feb 25 2004, 10:29 PM
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My ex was white. It started out okay, but he didn't treat me like a princess enough. wacko.gif
 
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hmm...im okay with it... i never really care what race he ish....
 
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I think that people should let other people just do whatever they want. If they don't like whites dating asians then good for them. But it doesn't mean everybody else should think the same.

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post Feb 26 2004, 08:43 PM
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interracial dating is whatever.
some people have jungle fever
and some people dont.
its all a matter of taste and preference.

i dont find anything wrong with it
so as the famous saying goes..

"whatever floats ur boat"
 
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post Feb 27 2004, 07:41 AM
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I'm okay with interracial dating. I'm chink but I've went out with a white guy. It wasn't weird or anything. My current bf is a Korean. I think that your race doesn't matter as long as you 'click'.
 
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post Feb 28 2004, 12:00 AM
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i wouldnt mind datin someone of a different race..
but im attracted to my race mostly.
 
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post Feb 28 2004, 12:03 AM
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QUOTE([2)
Nekked,Feb 23 2004, 11:44 PM] thats not true.

i find asians (of our generation - because we all know about asian parents' phobia of african american people) are the people most likely to speak out against racism.

one thing that is common amongst asians these days is ethnocentrism

"Ethnocentrism" is a commonly used word in circles where ethnicity, inter-ethnic relations, and similar social issues are of concern. The usual definition of the term is "thinking one's own group's ways are superior to others" or "judging other groups as inferior to one's own."

well..not to that extent....
i myself tend to hang out or date asian people more frequently than caucasian people simply because i feel more comfortable around people who have similar customs, traditions, and family backgrounds as me. i dont feel as if i have to act differently around them ( i wouldnt act differently around anyone anyways, but that doesnt mean i dont feel like i should.)

the term "racism" or "racist" is too broadly used nowadays. anything is considered racism to people lately... the definition of racism is "a strong or irrational fear or hatred towards an entire ethnicity or race" i see too many people using it incorrectly, and it just..irks me i guess..

yeah.. i was the president of the cultural awareness club at my old school... i had to learn these things..

ya...wut she said,
no, but like...not many ppl our age care, like....unless they wernt born here...but ya... but i agree, im more comfortable talking to someone who has the same things goin on
 
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post Feb 28 2004, 12:05 AM
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i think its really like...weird how ppl think its racist, its just like how some ppl like taller ppl, or shorter ppl, or like diff personallity ppl
 
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my ex was white and im azn. the race really doesn't matter to me..
 
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hmm... my first bf was white but kind of asian washed... but i think he was really cute _smile.gif and he was a great bf. and my 3rd bf (or was it second? lmao) was indonesian and he was really sweet too... but i think he was white washed? anyways, thing i m trying to prove here is taht it dont matter what race, as long as they treat you right.
 
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post Feb 28 2004, 07:23 PM
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theres nothing wrong withthat. i am mexican and i love being with someone who is "black" its for me like a fetish so yeah. but theres nothing bad about it. its sexy, thats what i think. i think its just the same as someone saying they perfer coke insted of water. it dont matter to me.
 
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i think its really like...weird how ppl think its racist, its just like how some ppl like taller ppl, or shorter ppl, or like diff personallity ppl

exactly
 
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post Feb 29 2004, 01:22 PM
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I personally don't have any problem with it, I was even in one of these relationships for a little while. But everybody has their own beleifs, and some don't approve of them. To answer the question of if there is one thing, right or wrong, it would be impossible, because everybody has thier own beleifs. I suggest that you make this decision for yourself, and try no t to let anybody influence your opinion.
 
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post Mar 1 2004, 09:06 AM
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im korean american and i dont think interracial dating is bad....its good...:D hahah
 
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post Mar 1 2004, 07:34 PM
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there's nothing wrong with interracial dating.. it's just like every other relationship that people have.. like.. they love each other so they go together..
the problem that arises is when some conservative parents come in the way.. they say, "they don't even eat the same food!" it's like they're saying that two cultures can never mix.. i'm totally against that... cuz like.. i'm dating a guatemalan.. and like.. everything is going fine... (only thing is.. our parents don't know about it.. ^^;)
so yea.. back to the point.. interracial dating is cool..
 
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uhh..hey guys..u forgot about !!indians!! in the midst of debating about asian white relationships, cuz we ALL know that indians are kewl..right?
 
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ok, if no one is going to answer then i might as well confirm this myself

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interracial dating ... depends on how in depth their culture is. I'm asian (Chinese) ... but i'm an ABC. BUT THEN AGAIN ... my parents made sure that I knew all the holidays and traditions and what-nots. Now if i were to date a white guy ... we might have proeblems bc of different values. BUT < wacko.gif i know ... a lot of buts BUTTS> if he's culturally diversed ... there would be less probelms. u know what i'm trying to get at? plus ... we all know that mutts look HOT *wink wink* tongue.gif
 
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QUOTE([2)
Nekked,Feb 24 2004, 5:57 AM] i kinda think this is true... but the fact that i think asian females are prettier than caucasian females isnt racism ... its an opinion. there is a big difference.
[edit: i'd just like to add that, again, since the definition of racism is 'the strong or irrational fear or hatred towards an entire ethnicity or race," and the sentence above wasnt said with any hate or fear towards people who arent asian, i'm not being racist]

I think it's pretty wrong that you said that asian females are prettier than caucasian females... Do you have something against all caucasian females? I mean, come on... I know it's your opinion... but I just want you to realize that you're categorizing all caucasian females and saying that all asian females are prettier than them... I mean, there are a LOT of caucasian females that are very beautiful... But, apparently, you don't see this... and I'm thinking that it's just because they're asian that makes them prettier... but, I'm not sure... but that's just how I read into it, you know?... and also, you might just think that because this is the United States (I'm assuming you live here, as well) and that the majority is caucasian... So, anyway... You shouldn't say that asian females are prettier than caucasian females because you should be open to what all races have to offer... (i'm not sure if this all makes sense... but hopefully you get my drift)...Anyway, sure it's your opinion... but in my opinion... your opinion is a bit skewed...

As for interracial dating... My ex boyfriend is black... and I'm hispanic... My family is against it, but they didn't know I was dating him... We were together for 2 years and we're still friends... My mom is fine with me hanging out with him, but I'm not sure how she would have taken it if she knew we were a couple... (if someone is planning to have an 'interracial relationship', I'm not telling you to keep it from your parents, if they don't accept it...) but it's also the safest way.... Because I know that if a parent is totally against it, they're going to try to separate you (I had a friend in this situation and she was black and asian and her boyfriend was from india and his parents went so far that they disenrolled him from school and were on the verge of sending him back to his country)... So, things like this can get extremely serious... but I say that two people can't help who they fall in love with or even who they like or just love them (there's a difference with people in love and just loving a person)... Dating outside of your race is a way for you to 'explore' other races... To see things the way another race sees things... for example, if you date someone who is black you see what they have to deal with from society... like racism or prejudice -- at least I learned from my ex boyfriend... To me, it's a beautiful thing... and being as open as possible makes you even a better person....


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post Mar 2 2004, 08:26 PM
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QUOTE(AznHyperGirl @ Mar 2 2004, 10:09 AM)
interracial dating ... depends on how in depth their culture is. I'm asian (Chinese) ... but i'm an ABC. BUT THEN AGAIN ... my parents made sure that I knew all the holidays and traditions and what-nots. Now if i were to date a white guy ... we might have proeblems bc of different values.

Oh yea, I'm an ABC too. I don't actually have anything against interracial dating, but I was just wondering what others thought about this.
 
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QUOTE(Idyll @ Mar 2 2004, 8:26 PM)
Oh yea, I'm an ABC too. I don't actually have anything against interracial dating, but I was just wondering what others thought about this.

happy.gif as the years go by ... interracial dating is going to grow like wild fire. eventually everybody's going to be one race. what do you think? if that's so ... then there should be no objections and funny look-eyes blink.gif at interracial dating tongue.gif
 
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im korean and i wouldnt mind dating other races...
 
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I think it's pretty wrong that you said that asian females are prettier than caucasian females... Do you have something against all caucasian females? I mean, come on... I know it's your opinion... but I just want you to realize that you're categorizing all caucasian females and saying that all asian females are prettier than them... I mean, there are a LOT of caucasian females that are very beautiful... But, apparently, you don't see this... and I'm thinking that it's just because they're asian that makes them prettier... but, I'm not sure... but that's just how I read into it, you know?... and also, you might just think that because this is the United States (I'm assuming you live here, as well) and that the majority is caucasian... So, anyway... You shouldn't say that asian females are prettier than caucasian females because you should be open to what all races have to offer... (i'm not sure if this all makes sense... but hopefully you get my drift)...Anyway, sure it's your opinion... but in my opinion... your opinion is a bit skewed...

As for interracial dating... My ex boyfriend is black... and I'm hispanic... My family is against it, but they didn't know I was dating him... We were together for 2 years and we're still friends... My mom is fine with me hanging out with him, but I'm not sure how she would have taken it if she knew we were a couple... (if someone is planning to have an 'interracial relationship', I'm not telling you to keep it from your parents, if they don't accept it...) but it's also the safest way.... Because I know that if a parent is totally against it, they're going to try to separate you (I had a friend in this situation and she was black and asian and her boyfriend was from india and his parents went so far that they disenrolled him from school and were on the verge of sending him back to his country)... So, things like this can get extremely serious... but I say that two people can't help who they fall in love with or even who they like or just love them (there's a difference with people in love and just loving a person)... Dating outside of your race is a way for you to 'explore' other races... To see things the way another race sees things... for example, if you date someone who is black you see what they have to deal with from society... like racism or prejudice -- at least I learned from my ex boyfriend... To me, it's a beautiful thing... and being as open as possible makes you even a better person....


err, sorry so long...  pinch.gif

whoa whoa whoa

thats right. its my opinion. i didnt say it was commonly known that asians are prettier than caucasians. i didnt say it was a fact. i said thats what i thought. and im certainly not bragging about it either.

i'm perfectly aware that there are beautiful caucasians in the world. but i still think that asians are prettier. as a race. not every individual person. i did not say that every single asian person out there is prettier than every single caucasian person. i think that the most commonly shared asian features are prettier than those of caucasians. Because asians look more... exotic to me... and in my opinion, that's what makes them more attractive to me. And I'm bisexual. So I can judge pretty well... I mean why do you think some white men look at asian porn all the time?

so...
1. yes. this is my opinion. again. i never said that there arent any pretty white people in the world.
2. yes. i do live in the US. that has nothing to do with my opinion.
3. yes. you are correct in thinking that what you've said makes no sense. because you're twisting my words and my intent.



so shut the hell up.


P.S. I'm 50% french and russian.
 
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Hahaha! Then, if you're going to say something like that, maybe you should be more specific, eh? Don't generalize, because some may get offended... your being bisexual has nothing to do with this and neither does the fact that you judge well... and I'm sorry that you feel like I may have been "twisting" your words around, because I certainly wasn't... I guess you just lack empathy, thank you for repeating that it was your opinion, I think I already stated that so no need to try to cram that fact into my head... because I already KNEW that... but you know, thanks anyway... and sorry for making it seem like I was trying to 'tell you off' or something, because I most certainly was not... I was just suggesting that you be a bit more open-minded.

The 'shut the hell up' comment, was not necessary... but I'm choosing to drop this situation between us... Sorry ermm.gif

mhmm, sorry for the assumption, and sorry to anyone else who had to read this off topic conflict...
 
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isnt it hispanic??
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really?

im just 14, never met..nm.
 
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nahh... the majority of the minority is hispanic...
 
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theres nothing wrong with interracial dating ppl are just scared of change and some are just assholes who dont want anyone to be happy but eitherway i will dat who ever i damn well please i dont care what people think
 
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im happy with asians, white, black,hispanic, any female human species.

tell me if i am missing anyone.

its just that i PREFERR asians, but they are all good.^^
 
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im tha product of an interracial relationship...im 1/2 pinay, 1/2 black
i dont find it a problem, as long as they are happy, then it shouldnt matter what others say.
 
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Hahaha! Then, if you're going to say something like that, maybe you should be more specific, eh? Don't generalize, because some may get offended... your being bisexual has nothing to do with this and neither does the fact that you judge well... and I'm sorry that you feel like I may have been "twisting" your words around, because I certainly wasn't... I guess you just lack empathy, thank you for repeating that it was your opinion, I think I already stated that so no need to try to cram that fact into my head... because I already KNEW that... but you know, thanks anyway... and sorry for making it seem like I was trying to 'tell you off' or something, because I most certainly was not... I was just suggesting that you be a bit more open-minded.

The 'shut the hell up' comment, was not necessary... but I'm choosing to drop this situation between us... Sorry  ermm.gif

mhmm, sorry for the assumption, and sorry to anyone else who had to read this off topic conflict...

omg.. lol... i meant i can judge pretty well FOR MYSELF. Im not being onesided sayin that asian people are and always will be prettier, im sayin their features are more attractive to me. so im not being close minded either. like how some people prefer blondes to brunettes... and im sorry. i didnt think it was any of your business what i thought.

im defending myself because you said that me saying what i thought was "wrong"

how is it "wrong" to simply share my opinion with others?



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anyways.. by the way... i have no problem with interratial dating... i mean.. if i was attracted to someone who wasnt asian, and had feelings for them, then of course i'd go for it...

im a total mutt, so theres no reason for me to be against interratial dating... im viet/chinese/french/russian/and jamaican...
 
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Ok, I'm not against interracial dating, I'm all for it. I'm chinese and i'm going out with a white guy, and its fine with us even though my parents would rather prefer that I date an asian.
 
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QUOTE(linke3 @ Mar 6 2004, 4:01 PM)
Ok, I'm not against interracial dating, I'm all for it. I'm chinese and i'm going out with a white guy, and its fine with us even though my parents would rather prefer that I date an asian.

my parents are like that too...><, aren't most chinese parents like that?
 
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no way.. mixed kids from white/asian parents are really good looking!
 
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:| Hey I'm an asian buh I aint no racist >.> heck my beau is even an Aussie tongue.gif heeheee ~~ its all fine for me o.o xD
 
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Well, if you date an Asian girl and she's crazy, the reason she's crazy is because of who she is.

I actually think calling it interracial dating is calling more attention to it then it needs.

Its a person. dating another person.
 
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QUOTE(Idyll @ Feb 23 2004, 6:24 PM)
People these days seem to against interracial dating, especially between Asians and whites. Is there something wrong with dating someone with a different skin color or ancestry?

there is certainly n0thing wr0ng whats0ever with interracial dating..it all depends 0n 0ne's preference..y0u sh0uld date s0me0ne that y0u find is interesting f0r y0u regardless 0f skin c0l0r 0r ancestry..in the end minute things like that are c0mpletely irrelevant..what c0unts is h0w c0mpatible y0u find y0u are with any particular pers0n..
 
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I don't think anything AT ALL is wrong with interracial dating. My ex- boyfriend is Chinese and I'm mexican. Although my dad (and brothers) didn't like the fact that I was dating a "Chino" pinch.gif But I didn't care, cuz I loved him _smile.gif
 
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i tink interracial dating is ok ..... but i grew up in Canada. it IS kinda hard tho, because of the cultural differences, especially fo fobbie aznz. Azn girls and non azn guys is hard cuz of the parents, and fobbie azn guys find it hard 2 get girls cuz culturally, aznz are a bit more conservative.

but a lil off topic, i think mixed ppl are reeli pretty! mm....Edison chen, Steven CHeun, Keanu Reeves (yummy!), Michelle Branch.....
 
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does interracial dating matter?

only if you're racist
 
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There is nothing wrong with it... my ex was Mexican and i'm Chinese. I learned alot about the culture. OH yea... i learned how to cook mexican food. YuMmMy!!!
 
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i dun like my dad goes into racism.. i mean vietnamese, chinese, japanese guys... wuts bad about them? i mean they're not bad...they're same as my nationality: korean... nd' he wont let me like any other than korean and american... it's jus not fair. but u kno i have a bf^^;; hes korean...hes great~~ heh so i shuldnt be complainin' huh? lols but jus to let u kno... a lot of korean parents...they want everythin to be perfect... they want us to marry a korean guy...just korean...nd' it's not fair... so not fair. i wish they jus understand us u kno?
 
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The thing is, wish Asian parents, they always go CRAZY over the fact that their daughter or son is interacial dating. I've lived a sheltered life, but I still consider the fact that skin color DOES NOT affect personality. There could be a million asians whom I could be attracted to, but if they have a bad personality and such, then I wouldn't date any of them. I think that its great that people would date others and show that everyone maybe look different on the outside, but deep down, we're all the same on the inside. We all should be treated equally. I think that deep down, I'm still somewhat a racist because the thing is, my parents always say bad things about other races and when I was little, I believed them. I've tried to forget them, but somehow, I still end up remember what my parents said when I was young, and those memories stick to you for life. I feel low =(

also, even the FACT that I'm even dating or talking to boys would DRIVE MY PARENTS CRAZY! If they found out i was even dating a guy, my dad would kill me ermm.gif
 
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does interracial dating matter?
exactly whats wrong wif it???
 
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HEY!!!

I MADE THIS FRIGGIN ISSUE!!!

MINE MINE MINE!!!lol

psh...im against it..

*RACIST*

LOL(AZN PRYDE!!!...i was da one who posted dat azn pryde video..LOL)

and sooner or later you see me wit a white boy..LOL

YEAH RIGHT!..in yur friggin dreams!!!LOL

id like to see my daughter/son more asian thank you very much..than MIXED...like mariah carey..LOL..

but yeah..my opinion..NOT yurs nikkahs!!!LOL
 
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QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Mar 25 2004, 8:09 PM)
HEY!!!

I MADE THIS FRIGGIN ISSUE!!!

MINE MINE MINE!!!lol

psh...im against it..

*RACIST*

LOL(AZN PRYDE!!!...i was da one who posted dat azn pryde video..LOL)

and sooner or later you see me wit a white boy..LOL

YEAH RIGHT!..in yur friggin dreams!!!LOL

id like to see my daughter/son more asian thank you very much..than MIXED...like mariah carey..LOL..

but yeah..my opinion..NOT yurs nikkahs!!!LOL

dude, honestly, thass so sad.
ur asian pride, eh? _smile.gif i was once like that too. that is, until i realized there is no point. being asian sucks in some ways. 1, you cant be involved in politics as much as white people and black people are. cause theres racism up there. whats the point of contributing to racism? seriously. it only makes it harder for people who are against racism. i mean, you probably are against whites discriminating against asains, so why discriminate white and black and other races? i personally find it useless. anyhows.
i think mixed people are absolutely handsome and pretty. i wish i was mixed... ( i am sort of, but i look full korean haha i think i only have like 1/12 chinese blood in me... _dry.gif )

man... dont say nikkuhs... dude thasss so mean. and so racist. its like some black dude calling you pee- colored. (yes, i have experienced that no matter how corny it may seems. hammer.gif )
 
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I actually prefer inter-racial dating. i am white but i love asian guys lol. plus, mixed race kids are always soo cute!! most ppl i know did grow up with racist parents yet i think this generation has a better chance of making things right. Racists need to juss chill and realize all that you are missing
 
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ahahhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....

how many times should i say sorry fer what i said??

racism is a joke at our school...

and technically...

usually what i say aint serious...im jus kidding...foolin around..tryna be funny..ya know??..fraid not..

why do ppls jus have to take the internet so seriously..?geez..
 
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QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Mar 25 2004, 11:26 PM)
ahahhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....

how many times should i say sorry fer what i said??

racism is a joke at our school...

and technically...

usually what i say aint serious...im jus kidding...foolin around..tryna be funny..ya know??..fraid not..

why do ppls jus have to take the internet so seriously..?geez..

a joke at your school? i dont think its a very funny matter at all. How is hatred funny? or the promotion of judging people based on what they look like? i think that ppl cant tell if you are "joking" about the hatred of others for the color of their skin. So maybe you should just be mindful of what you say.
 
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QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Mar 25 2004, 11:26 PM)
ahahhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....

how many times should i say sorry fer what i said??

racism is a joke at our school...

and technically...

usually what i say aint serious...im jus kidding...foolin around..tryna be funny..ya know??..fraid not..

why do ppls jus have to take the internet so seriously..?geez..

Just a joke, eh? Well, what if someone made fun of you? Sooner or later, someone who will make fun of you alot because of what you look like or what nationality you are will REALLY hurt you deep down and then they will make you think they are racists, when you were the one who started it first. You better watch yourself because something you might say will REALLY make someone angry. And it's not a laughing matter. Treat onto others by how you would like to be treated.
 
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QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Mar 25 2004, 11:26 PM)
ahahhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....

how many times should i say sorry fer what i said??

racism is a joke at our school...

and technically...

usually what i say aint serious...im jus kidding...foolin around..tryna be funny..ya know??..fraid not..

why do ppls jus have to take the internet so seriously..?geez..

Whoa, what school is this?
Maybe I can go there wearing a KKK costume and start lynching people.
I mean, it's just a joke right?

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HAHAHA LMAO chinkieeyedpnoi!! laugh.gif we can wear those pointy hat thingymajigglers. JUST KIDDING. pinch.gif
 
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QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Mar 25 2004, 8:09 PM)
HEY!!!

I MADE THIS FRIGGIN ISSUE!!!

MINE MINE MINE!!!lol

psh...im against it..

*RACIST*

LOL(AZN PRYDE!!!...i was da one who posted dat azn pryde video..LOL)

and sooner or later you see me wit a white boy..LOL

YEAH RIGHT!..in yur friggin dreams!!!LOL

id like to see my daughter/son more asian thank you very much..than MIXED...like mariah carey..LOL..

but yeah..my opinion..NOT yurs nikkahs!!!LOL

HEY, you're being offensive. LOL
once i thought you were cool, and gave you much respect. LOL
stubborn.gif not anymore. LOL
 
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haha stupid sh*t. so its okay for you to offend people in your xanga which random people can see because you made your xanga available to the public but its not okay for the girl to offend someone??? and she wasn't even being serious. can;t you tell with the LOL's you blind f*ck.

or is it okay to say stuff that is offending as long as we have a disclaimer on the top of whatever we write.

well here's my disclaimer

Dr3aMer Productions just flat out doesn't want Waccoon and some certain mods to read whatever i write because all they will do is complain about how it offends someone. by not skipping over my post and reading what i have to say you agree to not B*tch about what i had to say.

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oh and you damn atheist!! no wonder you thought the girl was being racist, its cause you a dumb person. how can you look at the world and think that there wasn't a God who made everything. you believe in that sh*ty evolution or is it the big bang. even albert einstein was asked wheather he believed in a God or something. you know what he said. he said that he chooses to because once you look at the world it is impossible that all this stuff is just random. not verbatim but you get the picture.
but remember i am not responsible for offending you, damn HYPOCRITE
 
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yeah...if you wore one of those KKK costumes you would be laughed at..(OMFG!!!LOL ermm.gif )

what hap to da AAA?(ANTI ASIAN ASSOCIATION)...thats jus hilarious..

i went up all to da asian 7th graders and was like 'hi asian person!wanna join da AAA?'...how stupid right?..YUP IM ON CRACK SO TALK TO ME..ahaha..

i mean..im only 13 and im a 8th grader...what did you expect?to be uptight and serious at such a young and troubled age?

and bottom line...filipinos aren`t asian!!!(YAY!)der islanders!!!<<<(friend came up wit dat) im an islander like da ppls in da carribbean!ahahaha..
 
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QUOTE(xdr3amerx @ Mar 26 2004, 2:29 AM)
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haha stupid sh*t. so its okay for you to offend people in your xanga which random people can see because you made your xanga available to the public but its not okay for the girl to offend someone??? and she wasn't even being serious. can;t you tell with the LOL's you blind f*ck.

or is it okay to say stuff that is offending as long as we have a disclaimer on the top of whatever we write.

well here's my disclaimer

Dr3aMer Productions just flat out doesn't want Waccoon and some certain mods to read whatever i write because all they will do is complain about how it offends someone. by not skipping over my post and reading what i have to say you agree to not B*tch about what i had to say.

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oh and you damn atheist!! no wonder you thought the girl was being racist, its cause you a dumb person. how can you look at the world and think that there wasn't a God who made everything. you believe in that sh*ty evolution or is it the big bang. even albert einstein was asked wheather he believed in a God or something. you know what he said. he said that he chooses to because once you look at the world it is impossible that all this stuff is just random. not verbatim but you get the picture.
but remember i am not responsible for offending you, damn HYPOCRITE

i think if i knew you i would most likely punch you in the face.

the end
 
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too me.. it's like.. bleh.. i guess it's alright, my ex was mexican and i'm chinese.. it seemed okay :p but i know my parents would absolutely freak out if i dated an african american, i have nothing against them though :p society will change.. and their will be less talk about this.. oh, and roxanne is right.. interracial children arree beautiful O_O; check out kristin kreuk. dutch and chinese :D haha and theirs a bunch of kids at my school who are mixed and they're hot :D
 
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I've never minded it...my last boyfrined( for four years) was half peurtorican....he's cute too...lol....and I just really dont see anything wrong as longa s you really like the person.
 
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i dont think its wrong. i guess other pplz r against it cuz they r racist.
 
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I do'nt think there's anything wrong with interracial dating....though my parents ( i'm asian) would get all weird if i were to date anyone of the other race...i dunno why they do that..i do'nt see a problem with it.

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yeah...if you wore one of those KKK costumes you would be laughed at..(OMFG!!!LOL  )

what hap to da AAA?(ANTI ASIAN ASSOCIATION)...thats jus hilarious..

i went up all to da asian 7th graders and was like 'hi asian person!wanna join da AAA?'...how stupid right?..YUP IM ON CRACK SO TALK TO ME..ahaha..

i mean..im only 13 and im a 8th grader...what did you expect?to be uptight and serious at such a young and troubled age?

and bottom line...filipinos aren`t asian!!!(YAY!)der islanders!!!<<<(friend came up wit dat) im an islander like da ppls in da carribbean!ahahaha..


that's...not funny. and i'm a 7th grader....i don't go around saying that kind of stuff.....
 
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QUOTE(xdr3amerx @ Mar 26 2004, 2:29 AM)
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haha stupid sh*t. so its okay for you to offend people in your xanga which random people can see because you made your xanga available to the public but its not okay for the girl to offend someone??? and she wasn't even being serious. can;t you tell with the LOL's you blind f*ck.

or is it okay to say stuff that is offending as long as we have a disclaimer on the top of whatever we write.

well here's my disclaimer

Dr3aMer Productions just flat out doesn't want Waccoon and some certain mods to read whatever i write because all they will do is complain about how it offends someone. by not skipping over my post and reading what i have to say you agree to not B*tch about what i had to say.

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oh and you damn atheist!! no wonder you thought the girl was being racist, its cause you a dumb person. how can you look at the world and think that there wasn't a God who made everything. you believe in that sh*ty evolution or is it the big bang. even albert einstein was asked wheather he believed in a God or something. you know what he said. he said that he chooses to because once you look at the world it is impossible that all this stuff is just random. not verbatim but you get the picture.
but remember i am not responsible for offending you, damn HYPOCRITE

oh boy, am i going to have fun with this retaliation.

first of all, that was an inside joke for my friends, you know - the people you wish you had. haha, stupid shit. "and she wasn't even being serious. can;t you tell with the LOL's you blind f*ck." yeah, she was. retard. "or is it okay to say stuff that is offending as long as we have a disclaimer on the top of whatever we write. " once again, it was a joke. and if you are offended by my posts, hey - i didnt tell you to look at my xanga.

Dr3aMer Productions just flat out doesn't want Waccoon and some certain mods to read whatever i write because all they will do is complain about how it offends someone. by not skipping over my post and reading what i have to say you agree to not B*tch about what i had to say.

first of all, i really doubt there is a dr3amer productions, because frankly - you suck. it's people like you that make up the ass-kissing, useless pieces of shit in the world.

oh and you damn atheist!! no wonder you thought the girl was being racist, its cause you a dumb person. how can you look at the world and think that there wasn't a God who made everything. you believe in that sh*ty evolution or is it the big bang. even albert einstein was asked wheather he believed in a God or something. you know what he said. he said that he chooses to because once you look at the world it is impossible that all this stuff is just random. not verbatim but you get the picture.
but remember i am not responsible for offending you, damn HYPOCRITE

oh, you damn dense piece of shit. no wonder you can't comprehend what i'm saying right now. i can just picture you, poring over a dictionary, trying to figure out half of what i'm saying. how can you look at atheism and just outright insult it? just because you don't believe in it doesn't give you a right to insult people who do. and you're going to try to turn this against me - hey, i was christian, a very devoted one. you were NEVER an atheist. albert einstein believes in god? so what? he came up with theories. he doesnt decide if there is a god or not. why would i care what he believed in? he came up with theories, great - he contributed to the advancement of the human race. i dont see how i am a hypocrite. and you know what? you can contribute to the advancement of the human race too. you know how? go die.
 
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QUOTE(Idyll @ Feb 23 2004, 6:24 PM)
People these days seem to against interracial dating, especially between Asians and whites. Is there something wrong with dating someone with a different skin color or ancestry?

WAIT, PEOPLE THESE DAYS? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? WHERE THE FREAK DO U LIVE?!!

let me fix that saying, people these days, especially where i live, just don't care anymore!!! hahaha



...even when i had my very first boyfriend which he and i dated for 2 years, and spilt because he had to move. but his race was latino/african american. Now with my 2ndboyfriend, which i've been with for a year, hes dutch and taiwanese. homeboy got green eyes!!!!! and er... i have brown/hazel eyes cause i'm not fully vietnamese.
 
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okay, now settle down. Yes, dr3amer is not making sense, don't let it get to you. Don't cuss so much, pg-13 rating. Settle down or this topic might be close...
 
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QUOTE(Podomaht @ Feb 23 2004, 6:31 PM)
i guess....asians are racist. especially koreans, they dun like whites... -___-

This is so not true. I am Korean. I have no problem with whites. This just ticks me off. Excuse me for ranting about this, but I know plenty of Koreans that have no problem with whites. Please don't say this if you don't know. FYI, ASIANS ARE NOT RACISTS. I admit, some are, but you can't just label them like they're all racists. That's like saying Whites are mean or something. And I know they're not. And you have to know that there are plenty of Koreans that hang out with whites. I don't know where you're from, but you're not being fair. PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU THINK BEFORE YOU SAY SOMETHING. There are plenty of Koreans, and not to mention Asians in this forum.

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ahahhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....

how many times should i say sorry fer what i said??

racism is a joke at our school...

and technically...

usually what i say aint serious...im jus kidding...foolin around..tryna be funny..ya know??..fraid not..

why do ppls jus have to take the internet so seriously..?geez..


Also, ThePrincessofTKD, I've noticed a lot of you posts around here. They aren't very nice, at least to me. Why can't we take the internet seriously? And if you think about it, most of us do not go to your school. We won't know that your "racism" is a joke. I am also 13. I'm in 7th grade. You might think this is wierd coming from a girl younger than you, but think about the others around you. You aren't the only one in this forum.

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dude, honestly, thass so sad.
ur asian pride, eh?  i was once like that too. that is, until i realized there is no point. being asian sucks in some ways. 1, you cant be involved in politics as much as white people and black people are. cause theres racism up there. whats the point of contributing to racism? seriously. it only makes it harder for people who are against racism. i mean, you probably are against whites discriminating against asains, so why discriminate white and black and other races? i personally find it useless. anyhows.
i think mixed people are absolutely handsome and pretty. i wish i was mixed... ( i am sort of, but i look full korean haha i think i only have like 1/12 chinese blood in me...  )

man... dont say nikkuhs... dude thasss so mean. and so racist. its like some black dude calling you pee- colored. (yes, i have experienced that no matter how corny it may seems.  )

I love you xjjajeengx!!

Now, back to the subject. There's no problem with it at all. The love is all that counts. Just.. My parents think that marrying/ going out with a guy the same race/ethnicity as me would help me on the long run. Just because the practices and the cultures are so different from each other. Take Americans and Asians for once. Some Americans [NOTICE THAT I SAID SOME] don't take off their shoes in their house. Asians on the other hand take off their shoes. The food style is also different. But if you think about it, we can all get used to it. This is only what I think.
 
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uhh..hey guys..u forgot about !!indians!! in the midst of debating about asian white relationships, cuz we ALL know that indians are kewl..right?

i suppose indians are alright. i don't know, for some reason, all the indian girls at my school look like they're related.


well, indians are okay. LOL i remember my friend named Atit (ahtee) but i'll just pronounce his name the way its spelled, which is 'A TIT' LOL
 
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i am not gonna speak for all asian ppl sayin if we're racist or not. i can onlie say personal experiences.. . from wut i know, koreans are REALLY against interracial marriages n dating... i can definitely see it in my family n in other korean families. its hard to say exactly why buh i know what my family thinks. my family wants only korean n thas it. my family wants to be able to speak to my bf or spouse in korean cuz their english ish sOOo horrible. also, they want that pure korean blood continuing. . . if i ever married n had kids wit a non korean, i would be "breaking the chain" of pure blood koreanz.. O_o there are asian families that say its okai to date within the race buh my family do not want me to date any other asian nationalities either.. . for my family, dating whites and other asians would be juss as bad... its so stressful sometimes. many korean families may look down on other asian nationalities too... its a wierd circle. eben tho i dont look down on them, i can understand what my family thinks ebeN tho its juss realliee.. woA... some families are juss more traditional than others
 
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but to say that all asians are racist is juss generalizin too much. it may be the case for some buh definitely there are asians who are totally against it.
 
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QUOTE(jennyyy_xp @ Mar 31 2004, 7:35 PM)
Take Americans and Asians for once. Some Americans [NOTICE THAT I SAID SOME] don't take off their shoes in their house. Asians on the other hand take off their shoes. The food style is also different. But if you think about it, we can all get used to it. This is only what I think.

whoaa, explain that to me. i'm asian and i don't have to take off my shoes in the house. mellow.gif
 
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This is so not true. I am Korean. I have no problem with whites. This just ticks me off. Excuse me for ranting about this, but I know plenty of Koreans that have no problem with whites. Please don't say this if you don't know. FYI, ASIANS ARE NOT RACISTS. I admit, some are, but you can't just label them like they're all racists. That's like saying Whites are mean or something. And I know they're not. And you have to know that there are plenty of Koreans that hang out with whites. I don't know where you're from, but you're not being fair. PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU THINK BEFORE YOU SAY SOMETHING. There are plenty of Koreans, and not to mention Asians in this forum.



Also, ThePrincessofTKD, I've noticed a lot of you posts around here. They aren't very nice, at least to me. Why can't we take the internet seriously? And if you think about it, most of us do not go to your school. We won't know that your "racism" is a joke. I am also 13. I'm in 7th grade. You might think this is wierd coming from a girl younger than you, but think about the others around you. You aren't the only one in this forum.


I love you xjjajeengx!!

Now, back to the subject. There's no problem with it at all. The love is all that counts. Just.. My parents think that marrying/ going out with a guy the same race/ethnicity as me would help me on the long run. Just because the practices and the cultures are so different from each other. Take Americans and Asians for once. Some Americans [NOTICE THAT I SAID SOME] don't take off their shoes in their house. Asians on the other hand take off their shoes. The food style is also different. But if you think about it, we can all get used to it. This is only what I think.

okay, i guess your not a FoB? i would say it, because i know what im talking about. charlotte, NC, gets alot of FoB asians, and i talk to them alot, and most of they are racist against african-american and white. they are scared of african-american. i must of not said it clearly, sorry. but judging by your english ( maybe ) you lived in the US for a long time. ( 3years+? ) then your used to the diversity.

FoBs arnt. oh yeah, you see some african americans, in korea, you see some whites ther, but its not dominant like USA.

and all the plenty of korean people hanging out with the white people, know english. they're used to it.

and i DID think before i said this. and if we took a poll, most asians here dont really care about racism. why? because they are USED to it. in this forum, they speak english and they can communicate with whites. all the Fobs dont go here unfortunatly.
 
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aye nothing rong wit interacial its prty koo... kuz yah find out whats ur fortay in life... i use to b strickly dating same race... see.. im stupid... dunt make mistakes... c if i still went wit that whole same race shet i wouldnt meet my grl i b dating... i wouldnt b loving her... by today... c so interacial b a good thang dunt worry whad ppl say bout yall dey dunt matta.. jus u him/her biggrin.gif yall thank interacial rong well...iono..... w/e floats ur damn boat pinch.gif
 
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may i ask why are we just focusing on asians and americans? and saying asians are racist, that's just wrong. i'm asian and i'm not against any other race. and we take off our shoes in the house? ehhh what about slippers o.0
 
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may i ask why are we just focusing on asians and americans? and saying asians are racist, that's just wrong. i'm asian and i'm not against any other race. and we take off our shoes in the house? ehhh what about slippers o.0

okay. im gonna answer your question with an answer. how old areyou, and how many years have you lived in the USA?
 
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People these days seem to against interracial dating, especially between Asians and whites. Is there something wrong with dating someone with a different skin color or ancestry?

WHY IS IT ONLY ASIANS AND WHITE


WHAT ABOUT BLACK PEOPLE LIKE ME?!?!?! DO WE NOT MATTER ON THIS SITE?!?!?! cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif


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i know from experience that a lot of people are against interracial dating between asians and african americans as well, because i am dating an african american. people still stare at us funny, shake their heads, and even point at us. i remember one time, there was a filipino couple talking about us nearby, and i guess they didn't realize that I understood tagalog.

as i said previously, i think the meshing of two different backgrounds and cultures is a beautiful thing, and there is more to learn from each other.

it's a shame that there are still so many close minded people who disapprove of interacial relationships. unfortunately, even years from now, i don't think everyone is ever going to approve or be open to interacial relationships... these people are missing out.
 
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WHAT ABOUT BLACK PEOPLE LIKE ME?!?!?! DO WE NOT MATTER ON THIS SITE?!?!?!       

of course yoo matter. ish juss that marriage among whites and asians are more common than with black people. i do hab a couple of half black/half korean people at my church, they should talk about this.

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okay, i guess your not a FoB? i would say it, because i know what im talking about. charlotte, NC, gets alot of FoB asians, and i talk to them alot, and most of they are racist against african-american and white. they are scared of african-american. i must of not said it clearly, sorry. but judging by your english ( maybe ) you lived in the US for a long time. ( 3years+? ) then your used to the diversity.

FoBs arnt. oh yeah, you see some african americans, in korea, you see some whites ther, but its not dominant like USA.

and all the plenty of korean people hanging out with the white people, know english. they're used to it.

and i DID think before i said this. and if we took a poll, most asians here dont really care about racism. why? because they are USED to it. in this forum, they speak english and they can communicate with whites. all the Fobs dont go here unfortunatly.


ish true that a lot ob fobs hab wierd relationz wit other races. i lived in america for a good time. buh my hearts still in korea, etc./ eben tho when i wasnt used to other races, i learned quickly about racism becuz ppl saw me as different. so when i went to skool first time in america, i was onlie used to these other races for only 1 year. shooo. its hard to judge whos a fob n twinkie on this site just on their views on racism. cuz its gonna be different for eberyone. no one can say if people care about racism or not cuz its all in the eye of the beholder. erk. i dunno if thish make any sense? sorrie if yoo guys cant understand.. >_<
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im very aware ob racism buh im not neccessarily total FOB FOB. so its hard to say that all asian americans are not aware ob racism. buh then im not total twinkie either. i dont want to label myself. but sometimes i feel people are making me make a title for myself.
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QUOTE(Idyll @ Feb 23 2004, 3:24 PM)
People these days seem to against interracial dating, especially between Asians and whites. Is there something wrong with dating someone with a different skin color or ancestry?

Honestly, I have nothing against interracial dating, nor should I.. Mainly considering I'm the child of a Filipino mother and an American/German father. I'm also dating a white boy. :) Neither of my parents care who I date, as long as they're respectful and all that jazz. Though, my dad seemed quite happy he was white.. Hmm.. Nah, JK. I was more worried that his parents wouldn't like me, because I'm part Asian.. and seeing how they're from the south and I'm a yankee, too.. (See, we all have misperceptions of others..) Luckily, they don't mind.. and frankly, it seems our generations (ehm.. i'm 16) are more tolerant of interracial dating.. (As well as homosexual relationships.. but that's a different subject.) It's just the older more tradtional generations are less tolerant.. they'll come around eventually.. I hope. Let's just put it this way.. In the distant distant future, we'll all be the same color. Just deal with it. I mean, it's going to happen one way or another.. so just give up trying to stop the inneviatble. The sooner, the better, in my opinion.

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QUOTE(Podomaht @ Mar 31 2004, 8:19 PM)
okay, i guess your not a FoB? i would say it, because i know what im talking about. charlotte, NC, gets alot of FoB asians, and i talk to them alot, and most of they are racist against african-american and white. they are scared of african-american. i must of not said it clearly, sorry. but judging by your english ( maybe ) you lived in the US for a long time. ( 3years+? ) then your used to the diversity.

FoBs arnt. oh yeah, you see some african americans, in korea, you see some whites ther, but its not dominant like USA.

and all the plenty of korean people hanging out with the white people, know english. they're used to it.

and i DID think before i said this. and if we took a poll, most asians here dont really care about racism. why? because they are USED to it. in this forum, they speak english and they can communicate with whites. all the Fobs dont go here unfortunatly.

I have lived in the U.S for 8 years. Even if there were FOBs, they should seriously adapt to the American lifestyle. Or at least not show that they're "racist," and the shoe thing, I'm speaking generally. Most Asians take their shoes off because that's usually what I've seen, since I've lived in an Asian community before I moved to a more Americanized community, and I know there are FOBs, but they aren't racist. I'm not saying there aren't Asians that are racist, but I'm sure myself and many others would rather not be labeled as "racist" just beacause they were Korean or Asian.
 
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my dad is in racism-_-;; so sad.. i wish he stops-_-;; he only likes korean and americans-_- but i wont say i disagree.... and im not say im racism...it's jus the ppls around him made him so mad-_-;;
 
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i def dont think theres nothing wrong!!! my bf is west indian and im asian...and his parents and mine dont care..
 
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interracial dating is so HOTT! wow, and now that i thought about it, i never dated anyone of my own race (brazilian). came close those though (portuguese). still. How did this happen to me? I dated every other race but my own. How ... how cruel!

and whats this about asians taking their shoes off? everyone does that dont they? i mean, when i get home... first thing my mom says is "take those friggen shoes off".
 
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also, even the FACT that I'm even dating or talking to boys would DRIVE MY PARENTS CRAZY! If they found out i was even dating a guy, my dad would kill me 

^^ me too!!! im not allowed ta have guy friends or friends that arent chinese, its insane, this one time my black guy friend knocked on my door n my parens jus flipped n thought he was my bf, n i have a 6pm curfew, theyre disgustingly racist, mostly against black ppl, one of my big bros best/close friends is black n hes really nice but my mother always b*tches bout him in chinese wen hes around, n wen he sleeps ova, my mother locks her door, my parents r f*ckin nuts mad.gif

u should b allowed ta date whoeva u wana date regardless or race, religion, gender, w/e

i date a pr guy laugh.gif , i wuv him sooooo much lol wub.gif

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I actually prefer inter-racial dating. i am white but i love asian guys lol. plus, mixed race kids are always soo cute!! 

^^ i noe biggrin.gif tha guy i date sed he had a dream bout wat our kid would look lyk lol, he sed that we had a baby grl n she was really cute laugh.gif
 
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I am all for it... I think asian girls are sexy... I'd date one if I had the chance
 
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Well, to me interracial dating is all good....because mixing is what us americans need to do....and stop the hating....i mean sometimes parents don't want their kids dating other races because of the whole tradition and heritage thing.....so it depends....but if a couple of two completely different sides want to be together they will be together no matter what happens....all it depends on when it comes to interracial dating it is basically deciding what you want in the world.
 

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