would you go out with..., your best friends ex?... |
 Aug 20 2004, 03:23 AM
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 ...HaWyNgUrLiE...  Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,630  |
 im just curious because i think thats why this boy said no to me.... 
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Aug 20 2004, 03:24 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
haha well most guys would say no, but me...i dont like passing up any type of relationship or friendship...so me = yes
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Aug 20 2004, 03:33 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,599 |
depends on how they broke up. say my friend x breaks up with his girlfriend then yea ide go out with her. but say my friend x gets dumped by the girl, and he still likes her. then no i wouldnt.
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Aug 20 2004, 03:46 AM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
Not if she still had feelings or whatever for her. I'd ask first, of course.
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Aug 20 2004, 04:17 AM
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 Darlin dont u know? The water is poisoned Group: Member Posts: 554 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,668 |
it depends, if my friend is like cool with it. I mean if hes over it then yah, sure
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Aug 20 2004, 07:09 AM
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 FIFA World Cup Germany 2006! Group: Member Posts: 1,219 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,557 |
Of course.
 Lol, if she's available and she's hott, then she's mine. I don't care if she used to be with my best friend. lol.
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Aug 20 2004, 08:06 AM
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 Living in Shadows..yet able to see the light Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,830 |
i mean really no but i have done it before i know u have the freindship but if she is fine u cant let ythat go waste so yeah
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Aug 20 2004, 08:22 AM
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pinkrocsmhsocs Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,839 |
well he prob. was thinking for the best when he said no i kno this b cuz i went out wit a boy andafter he dumped me he went out with mah best friend the one u care bout soo much so i think lik i said i think he was think for the best when he saaid no
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Aug 20 2004, 08:41 AM
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 freedom Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,358 |
I would never do that even if my best friend said it was okay. They say they're cool with it but if you get into an arguement, she'll end up throwing it in your face that you did that to her. I've seen it happen before so I would never do that.
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Aug 20 2004, 02:19 PM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
Nonononono.
Uh, I'd never say yes. BF's before GF's!! Errr... Best Friends before Grlfriends. It hurts to see it. ~Catfish have 100,000 tastebuds~ |
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Aug 20 2004, 08:01 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
uh if u switch it then yes. my current bf is a good friend of my ex and my ex is going out with my best friend so if u switch it around, we get it right lol. me and my ex dont mind. we still friends.
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Aug 20 2004, 10:42 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
nahh... mostly likely no... but my best friend did.
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Aug 20 2004, 10:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 413 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,733 |
yeah but its a rule that if best friend slept with him, then u can't
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Aug 21 2004, 02:34 AM
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 Assistant Manager of Personal Group: Member Posts: 1,101 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,922 |
i'd think my best bud would be pretty pissed if i did; so the golden rule is relationships come and go; but friends will always be there.....so NO;p
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Aug 23 2004, 06:25 PM
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 ~ThE DeViL~ Group: Member Posts: 332 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,464 |
well..... it depends..... if they're oki with mi goin out wit their ex, den by all means, i'll date em', but if they're pissed at their ex, i guess i wouldn't cuz i wouldn't wanna ruin mi friendship ova sum1 who probably do da same to me
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Aug 23 2004, 07:33 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
My best friend would understand that I like people too. So yeah.
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Aug 23 2004, 07:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,001 |
as long as it's totally okay with my best friend.
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Aug 23 2004, 07:36 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 259 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,793 |
hell no.
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Aug 23 2004, 07:43 PM
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 t a c o s Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
don't do it. i hate it when girls treat guys like they're nothing and go for their friends and think it's okay.
there's a thing called guy code and if they don't say anything to that guy in the first place that's messed up. i think it's okay if so happens the guy cheats on you then yea go for his friend. that first guy didn't care about you in the first place. |
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Aug 23 2004, 08:02 PM
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 042304<3 Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,231 |
it depends on if my friend and her ex are okay with each other and like are friends, and if my friend is okay if i got out with her ex. soo it just depends on how things are.
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Aug 23 2004, 08:09 PM
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 aint the world lovely? Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,602 |
QUOTE it depends on if my friend and her ex are okay with each other and like are friends, and if my friend is okay if i got out with her ex. soo it just depends on how things are. yeah same here. if they have a crappy after-relationship kinna thing i wouldnt even consider it. my friends are always gonna be there for me but when it comes to guys...well you jus never know... |
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Aug 23 2004, 08:23 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
i think ima end up stuck in this same scenerio but she really hates him and stuff so it would be cool with her but idk the othe way around but yeah..
i think its cool... |
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Aug 23 2004, 08:24 PM
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 who again? Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,458 |
yes.
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Aug 23 2004, 08:35 PM
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 Dreaming of You... Group: Member Posts: 508 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,205 |
yeah i agree, feelings are important.... if you do, your relationship is going to get messier...
 your best friend would prolly get mad at you (or not...but higher chances is that they are)... and you'll lose a best friend.  over a guy (or a girl)? thats kinda pathetic... cuz who knows you better? besides, theres more "fish in the sea"... go find the right nemo!  oh yeah, so honestly, i wouldnt.
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Aug 23 2004, 09:18 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
noo way... ;x well my best friend is a boy so dat wunt really happen
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Aug 23 2004, 10:03 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
no wouldnt. its just wrong. if i do its just gonna mess up our friendship. unless she approves
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Aug 23 2004, 10:39 PM
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 anti-friendly Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,973 |
i would, whos stopping me? my frienD? psh.
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Aug 23 2004, 10:42 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
uh, it depends on how things ended between them, how things are between us, and if my friend is fine with it. but if i like this guy too much, then yeah, but i don't know if a guy is worth losing a friend over.
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Aug 24 2004, 12:53 AM
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 KUNG FU/JEDI MASTER Group: Member Posts: 354 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,433 |
I luv that Song "my friends over you" by NFG
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Aug 24 2004, 02:21 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,449 |
im like mouse_3k im going out with my ex's best friend. but me & my ex are getting close like best friend kine close. and my best friend went out with him but they broke up. but yeah...i don't find anything wrong with it. i would just check with my friend then do it.
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Aug 24 2004, 07:11 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
I would get approval from my bestfriend first...
But, good thing my bestfriend goes out with girls that I don't like, they are totally not my type... |
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Aug 24 2004, 03:37 PM
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 Mmm..Meat :D Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,086 |
I would say yes because if they broke up, they probably wouldn't still have "love" feelings for each other and if you really like the person, go for it :]
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Aug 25 2004, 06:59 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
Depends on why my best friend broke up with him. If she broke up with him because he was a jerk, then obviously I won't wanna date a jerk. Uhh things like that. It just depends...
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Aug 25 2004, 11:27 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Depends on the situation.
If it was an awful break-up, then probably not. If it was a smooth break-up, then maybe. |
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Aug 25 2004, 01:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,918 |
It really just depends on the situation.
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Aug 25 2004, 02:54 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
no because its the unwritten rule you just dont. but it's up to you. your opinion.
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Aug 26 2004, 02:23 AM
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 it's what i believe in. Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,523 |
well it depends... if my bestfriend told me it was okay then yeah... but if they ended their relationship in a bad note then nevermind
 .... all up to my best friend
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Aug 31 2004, 10:38 PM
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 ...jUs CaLL mE tEe... Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,234 |
well if it were me....i would first make sure that my best friend doesn't have feelings for him still. and then i'd ask her if it would be ok if we went out! and see what she sayz!
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Aug 31 2004, 10:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Depends if she still likes him or if I like him..
QUOTE i would, whos stopping me? my frienD? psh. I'm sorry, but I'm surprised you even have friends. Or "friends". |
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Sep 5 2004, 12:30 AM
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 justchillen Group: Member Posts: 50 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,145 |
i def. would never date my very best friends ex-boyfriend.. im not that desparet
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Sep 5 2004, 12:36 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
sure but I would have to talk to my friend FIRST!
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Sep 5 2004, 12:48 AM
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 aiko Nakamura at your service Group: Member Posts: 1,518 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,144 |
no cause id feel weird like i dno hard to explain but no
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Sep 5 2004, 01:55 AM
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Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
i wouldnt. i dont kno why but i think that im just getting her leftover or something. i just think its weird.
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Sep 5 2004, 04:44 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
umm no cuz yea thats wrong
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Sep 5 2004, 01:48 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,745 |
I say its ok I mean if your friend says it is cuz u never know if he/she is over him or not
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Sep 7 2004, 11:11 PM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
it depends on if my best friend would care... like if its ok.. but i would prefer not to..
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Sep 8 2004, 01:16 PM
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nope.
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Sep 8 2004, 02:02 PM
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 You be my sun & I'll moon you Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,527 |
Well. I really wouldn't...I mean, if there are strong feelings involved, I'd try and talk about it with my best friend. Just make sure that you don't end up hurting your friend. I had a friend go out with one of my ex's without having me know. And she promised that she wouldn't do such a thing... and it hurt me.
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Sep 8 2004, 09:55 PM
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absolutly.... NOT.
If my best friend broke up with his girl right now, even though shes so incredibly hott, I couldn't imagine even looking at her. Its like.. uh ..UUUh dont touch me. flabber blabber aah, 6 steps away from me woman! I just can't. Just can't! Don't ask, dont tell, cause I dont know. |
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