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 Aug 19 2004, 10:25 PM
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 Crazyinlove08  Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,287  |
I have been dating this one guy for a while, like a couple of days bc he really wanted to go out wtih me and i sorta liked him.So I decided to try it out see if it would work and it is. We have things in commen but lately like mostly today he wont talk to me onliune or anything like when i try to he wont and he wont say bye to me or i lvoe you and he used to like yesterday some of my friends say I should dump him. But I dont want to bc I think This could work out for a while. So should I talk to him about it or just leave it be and break up with him?
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Aug 19 2004, 10:26 PM
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well, if you think it can work out, than try it. Otherwise, dump him
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Aug 19 2004, 10:39 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Go tlak to him. Sheesh. If it doesnt work out, dump him. Find a new guy. All will be fine after that.
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Aug 19 2004, 10:41 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
eh, just try it out to see if it'll work. but if its going no where, then probably it wouldn't work out and you should dump him.
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Aug 19 2004, 11:17 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
talk to him and ask whats up...
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Aug 20 2004, 12:22 AM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
if yooh dont want to get dumped then dump him.
but first talk to him before jumping into conclusion. |
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Aug 20 2004, 02:21 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Talk to him.
Confront him about the situation. He should tell you what's wrong. |
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Aug 20 2004, 04:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Aug 19 2004, 10:39 PM) Go tlak to him. Sheesh. If it doesnt work out, dump him. Find a new guy. All will be fine after that. I agree with this person... Just tell him your feelings and if thing don't work out the way you want it to, just move on. Don't settle for anything that doesn't feel right.. or you'll end up getting hurt more. |
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Aug 21 2004, 11:46 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,453 |
talk to him
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Aug 21 2004, 11:47 AM
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Communication is one of the most vital factors in a relationship. In my opinion, without communication, no relationship is possible.
Talk to him about it first, and if it doesn't work out the way you wanted it to, dump him. |
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Aug 24 2004, 04:23 PM
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 Mmm..Meat :D Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,086 |
I agree, if he can't talk to you, then there must be something goin on. You should talk to him and if he says nothings wrong, I bet a dollar that there is.
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Aug 26 2004, 09:24 PM
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 it's what i believe in. Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,523 |
i think you should talk him over because if you don`t and end up breaking up with him, he must`ve had a reason and you would`ve felt bad about not understanding first before doing an action
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Aug 26 2004, 09:31 PM
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Damn, couple of days and you're already having bumps in your relationship?
Whoa. That's f*cking fast. You must've asked him to buy you a crap load on your first and second date, huh? - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Aug 26 2004, 10:12 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Honestly, you're going too fast. You want him to say I love you already when it's just a couple of days? Does the world LOVE mean anything to each of you? Wait for it to grow, if you're impatient, find someone else.
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Aug 26 2004, 10:17 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,549 |
dumping your bf over a reason that he didn't talk to you for one day? maybe he was busy or was having a bad day? jumping to conclusions a bit too fast? don't dump him unless you have a really good reason to.
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Aug 27 2004, 10:36 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,126 |
Don't take the phrase "I love you" so lightly. Guys especially, aren't very comfortable saying it, especially if they don't really feel that way. So it could be that he just doesn't want to say it. Or maybe he was just not really focusing on what you were saying at the moment? Cuz you know guys are like that sometimes... you have to learn to be patient. Or else you'll get frustrated and you'll feel hurt.
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Aug 27 2004, 11:26 AM
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 Bubble Group: Member Posts: 341 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,405 |
QUOTE(H0NEYxK1SS @ Aug 27 2004, 10:36 AM) Don't take the phrase "I love you" so lightly. Guys especially, aren't very comfortable saying it, especially if they don't really feel that way. So it could be that he just doesn't want to say it. Or maybe he was just not really focusing on what you were saying at the moment? Cuz you know guys are like that sometimes... you have to learn to be patient. Or else you'll get frustrated and you'll feel hurt. I agree with this person. Talk to him and find out... but don't be upset just because he does't say i love you to you. Hope everything works out! |
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Aug 27 2004, 04:02 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i dont think u should break up if u didnt talk to him. just talk to him and see how he feels
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Aug 27 2004, 04:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
QUOTE(H0NEYxK1SS @ Aug 27 2004, 10:36 AM) Don't take the phrase "I love you" so lightly. Guys especially, aren't very comfortable saying it, especially if they don't really feel that way. So it could be that he just doesn't want to say it. Or maybe he was just not really focusing on what you were saying at the moment? Cuz you know guys are like that sometimes... you have to learn to be patient. Or else you'll get frustrated and you'll feel hurt. yeah i agree, personally i believe if the words i love you are abused or said too much the meaning isnt there anymore. if you really think the relationship is going to work out, talk to him he mightve been in a bad mood or something is going on, i mean probably at the moment he didnt want to talk or something |
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