Asking out, ways to ask? Options

[rushx]

hMm.. just a curious thot.. so i sit here thinking, w/ a gurl in mind that i would like to ask to be my gf. but how to present it to her.. this is where experiences for u guys comes in (guy or gurl doesn't matter) just wondering wat the different ways are to do it versus just blurting it out then saying "ok." come on now.. that's not memorable is it? so i ask of u, wat ways have worked?

[Grand_master_1]

ok im bad wid relantionship but om gonna try n help lol
u could try n say sumthin swt 2 her first n ask her 2 b ur gf
or
u could say sumthin like
"i really like u n want 2 b ur bf.....so.....do u want 2 b 2gether wid me?"
or
meet up sumwhere wif her n like give her flower(s) den ask her
sry not much help but i tried my best

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

well theres always the most obvious way..."will u be my girlfriend" which is "blah"

or u can try this...

You - hey "name" i was wondering are you busy on "day/time" , Girl- "no.." , You- would you want to go "action/place"

If she works...drop by and ask her if she wants to grab lunch or w/e on her break together, and after that tell her u really like her and would like the idea of u two going out sometime.

the main thing is that u find something to get her alone with u and then telling her how u feel.

If you could give us some more detail on the situation and u/her .... like anything that could help us come up with better help oO;

[inthemudhole]

well theres always the most obvious way..."will u be my girlfriend" which is "blah"

Yeah, that is kinda blah.. same with "will you go out with me?" Kinda.. euch.

Hrmm. Think of something to do that would interest her, and then talk about going to that.. and then just casually ask her if she would like to go there with you. =-]

[rushx]

"would u like to be my gf?" seems so.. *blah so 1st grader-ish. come on, gotta have more class than that

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

like i said just ask her to go somewhere with u and then things with flow after that.......

[mouse_3k]

here is a major secret imma let u guys in on. ok get ready for this, its real easy. just say this:


"will you go out with me?"

[scandalous_chic]

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[xnastyninjagrlx]

lol.. guys guys.. it's not like i haven't had a gf b4. haha. but this gurl is special, more so than any other. and we've talked alot and stuff and we both have already established that we like each other, but we haven't done anything past that. i guess just waitin for the right moment. and i just don't wanna come out w/ it. that's y i asked if there a more unique way to do it. "would u like to be my gf?" seems so.. *blah so 1st grader-ish. i'm wat.. 18? come on, gotta have more class than that

Hmm from a girl, if I liked a guy and he likes me back I would want him to ask me a better way too..

Take her out on a nice dinner, just the two of you, it doesn't have to be expensive..let the waiter in on what you are going to do..when he gives you the check have him or youself write "will you be my girlfriend?"

[sweetdreamsx3]

My boyfriend just asked me straight out.

[shawty_redd]

my last boyfriend said "will you let me steal you away?" *sigh* memories..memories....

[Angelos]

lol i just ask truthfull but in a classy/stylish pimpin way of course

[F1R3B4T]

ok im bad wid relantionship but om gonna try n help lol
u could try n say sumthin swt 2 her first n ask her 2 b ur gf
or
u could say sumthin like
"i really like u n want 2 b ur bf.....so.....do u want 2 b 2gether wid me?"
or
meet up sumwhere wif her n like give her flower(s) den ask her
sry not much help but i tried my best

lol thats kinda too straight on if u kno wat i mean...

[silver-rain]

eh, my ex asked me out by saying, "do you want to see a movie afterthe spanish final?" so um, just ask her to the movies or something. or ask when she's free and if you'd like to do something on that day with her.

[Grand_master_1]

lol thats kinda too straight on if u kno wat i mean...

i dont actually
but mayb u wanna share sum of ur experience wif us bout u n *ahem*...

[rushx]

my last boyfriend said "will you let me steal you away?" *sigh* memories..memories....

lol, nice.. hahaha

Take her out on a nice dinner, just the two of you, it doesn't have to be expensive..let the waiter in on what you are going to do..when he gives you the check have him or youself write "will you be my girlfriend?"

i like the restaurant idea. hmm.. i could use it and modify it a lil..

anymore ideas would be nice

[enticing.]

my boyfriend sang me a song about us being together.
very sweet.

[MeanBastard]

That resturant idea looks bad. In fact, dont do it.

[FilipinoFaShow]

well...the first thing i would ask is if she already has a boyfriend
and then...you go from there asking her out
well....that's just me

[swt_4s_k4ndie]

here is a major secret imma let u guys in on. ok get ready for this, its real easy. just say this:


"will you go out with me?" 

^yup thats easy and it works! most popular way too


this one is also good:
"just wondering.. if i asked you out, will you go out with me?"
if she said yes then ask her out foreals. and if its a no then.. you won't feel horribly rejected because you didn't really ask her out

[LittleLulu]

^yup thats easy and it works! most popular way too


this one is also good:
"just wondering.. if i asked you out, will you go out with me?"
if she said yes then ask her out foreals. and if its a no then.. you won't feel horribly rejected because you didn't really ask her out

haha LOL...its wud be soo funny if sm1 said that...
it way sound weird..but when a guy asks me out.. i always say"give me one good reason to say yes.."..no matter how much i like the guy * if i dont like him i wont ask cuz i don wanna make him think i didn't go out wit him cuz he didn't have a good reason LOL...ok i jus realized this has nthn to do wit the topic

[ichiban]

here is a major secret imma let u guys in on. ok get ready for this, its real easy. just say this:


"will you go out with me?"


Yeah that works out pretty well x]

[jihae526]

get her a bouquet of red roses with one white rose, and ask if you can be special to her. cuz the red roses are her past boyfriends or something like that and you are the white one. hahaa i'm such a romantice. queen of corny

[pbear]

Cute. ^
Corny, yes, but still cute.

Try the classic: "Wanna go out with me?"
It never fails to get the message across.

[nyctophiliac]

here is a major secret imma let u guys in on. ok get ready for this, its real easy. just say this:


"will you go out with me?"

lol yeah stick with her idea^^

[hiddenkoncept]

there's always the 'i like you, you like me' thing that everyone assumes is a relationship where you don't have to say anything...

and then you could always be a man and actually say, "wanna go out with me?" or "wanna go to the movies with me?" or... "wanna be my girl?"

[l_baybeexgrl_l]

take her out.. go have lots of fun.. then.. tell her how u feel at the end of the night.. blahbalhbalhba.. yes.. all the mushy stuff should all spill out

[PinkTrash]

yeah, theres always that line "do you wanna hang out one night" :) something like that?
I have a probably of responding.. i mean when you are gonna say yes.
for example..

Boyy: Do you wanna go out with me?
Girl: Yes.

It sounds abit wierd to me.. like I dont know whether to say yes, sure, fine :P jalskksjaf

[venturesome69]

Just tell them you like them then just bam bring in the big question "Will you go out with me some time?"

[travnewmatic]

i asked my current girlfriend out online. her friends advised her to dcline if i did that, but accept if i asked her over the phone or in person. they prophesized that it would cause problems later on, but really, it doesnt matter. you could compare it to getting a car started. you can use the ignition or hotwire the thing. asking a girl out by saying to her face, in all your vulnerability and cautiousness, "would you go out with me" takes some balls. i know i certianly dont have them. at least to that extent. thats why i asked her online. it had a lot to do with that was how i was communicating with her at that instant and how i was feeling at that time, but i dont think i could have asked her in person. maybe over the phone. the point is, it really makes no difference. whatever gets the relationship rolling. once you jump that hurdle, its (theoretically smoothe sailing from there). but for what to say?
a) would you go out with me?
b) (my retarded way) wanna be a couple?
choice b worked because it fit in with the conversation. just do whatever gets the point across and doesnt sound too cliche. make sure it fits.