he's mad at me, I know he is Options

[pikimoo]

Okay, well.. I've been friends with this guy for.. 6 years maybe? Let's call him guy A. I'm really mean and violent towards him sometimes and I don't know why, but I do consider him one of my B-E-S-T friends. He said I was his best friend too. So.. we usually hang out a lot during the school year and such, as best friends do. Well, this summer I went out of state to visit my father and talked to him online as much as I could. But I was also talking to one of my other best guy friends(guy B (guy A and guy B are also friends with eachother))

Guy B and I happen to like eachother and we are dating now.

But a few weeks ago I was talking to the guy A and he said he likes me(though I don't see why he would). I told him I had a boyfriend.. but I didn't tell him who. We haven't talked since then and I think he blocked me off of AIM.

If ANY of this makes sense.. could ya help? And should I feel so bad? Because I do

They're both my friends and I wouldn't dream of emotionally hurting either one of them. But I only had those extra feelings for one..

[xox Qt LuVZ xox]

Um... I dunno... he sounds kind of mad... than again he's probably hurt too. But I think you and your bf should tell him together, and soon, 'cause if you wait to long he's probably going to get really mad. And explain to him how you like him as a best friend, but you just don't have the same feelings he does.

Er sorry... I'm not good at the advice thing... and yet I still give it

[tootsie_kiddo]

guy A is probably just embarassed cuz it takes a lot of courage to tell sumone dat u lyk her but he kinda got turned down.... but he shud b find soon. i mean, he cant keep on hiding from u all the time rite?!

[mouse_3k]

hes just being selfish...give it some time

[anger_is_my_frie...]

tell him about the other guy, and even though if he gets mad, he should realize that he's your friend and that friends support eachother. he'll get over it eventually.

[xnastyninjagrlx]

It seem to me that GUY A probably already knows ur going out with GUY B?? But yah..you should tell GUY A wut's going on cuz my friend is in that situation now. She just started dating this guy that her friend likes also and her friend is pissed off at her for not telling her the truth. So yah..juss be honest

[midnitexrose]

maybe u shouldve told him be4.

[MeanBastard]

WHy the hell don't you guys tell us the names? It's not like we know you. ANYWAYS, Guy AAA is hurt and wants to kill Guy BBB

[pikimoo]

^I wouldn't be surprised if any of my friends were members..

Some people just like to 'check up on me'

And I think Guy B told Guy A that we were dating. But I don't think that's why he is mad..

[scandalous_chic]

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[s0emotionalx3]

Well even if Guy B DID tell Guy A, you should tell him yourself too. He's going to be hurt, thats for sure and it's not your fault and there's nothing you can do about it. Just tell him anyways and he'll get over it, don't worry. He's not going to do anything stupid like kick Guy B's ass or something. If he did, you'll know he was never even worth thinking about.

[SarahxJoy]

Guy A sounds like he was either embarassed, upset, or hurt. Or, it could be all of the above. I'm not sure of what you can do, but maybe you should try talking to him when you see him around school (when it starts). And tell him that you still want to be friends. Or call him. Or something. Lol.

'Hope it all works out.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

if you have known this dude for 6 years ish and u are his best friend, wouldnt u happen to have his number or email as well? call him up,ask wuts up....

u shouldn't feel bad that u happen to like someone and he had the guts to ask u out b4 guy A did.

well in my opinion if GUY A was really your best friend and he really liked you, he would atleast be kind enough to try to be cool with it and pretend its ok or fess up that he is incomfortable with it... but to block u cuz u your going out with someone....thats kinda immature

[inthemudhole]

if you have known this dude for 6 years ish and u are his best friend, wouldnt u happen to have his number or email as well? call him up,ask wuts up....

Good idea.

He's probably just hurt.. =-/
Maybe give him a bit of space.. and then call him up.
Hope I helped..

[literemix24]

I think you 'nd guy b should juss tell guy a about it..he should be able to get over it sometime..i mean you can't make someone like you..XP

[sweetdreamsx3]

But a few weeks ago I was talking to the guy A and he said he likes me(though I don't see why he would). I told him I had a boyfriend.. but I didn't tell him who. We haven't talked since then and I think he blocked me off of AIM.

If ANY of this makes sense.. could ya help? And should I feel so bad? Because I do

No, you shouldn't feel bad because how were you suppose to know he likes you? And just tell him that you don't have any extra feelings for guy A because you only see him as a friend. The truth always hurts, but it's better than a lie. And yes, you should tell guy A that you're dating guy B.

[Counting]

Well, Guy A should understand that life does always go in your favor, you know? Guy B obviously already got you and Guy A should continue to just be friends, even if he's emotionally hurt..