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post Aug 15 2004, 09:47 PM
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i'm sorry if i'm rude but, i just want to know.

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post Aug 15 2004, 09:49 PM
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for me it really depends.. i would feel a bit nervous if i didnt know if the guy felt the same way for me or not. but if i knew he liked me, then i'd go right ahead and do it. no big deal.. if i get rejected, oh well. theres more guys out there ;D
 
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post Aug 15 2004, 09:49 PM
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for me its hard cuz im too scared to but o weoz i dont hafta worri about that at dis point
 
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post Aug 15 2004, 09:54 PM
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I personally have never asked anyone out.
I'm sure it's HARD, though..
That's prolly why I always chicken out. :P
 
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post Aug 15 2004, 09:58 PM
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its sorta hard cuz i tried.. and never did it.. she wasnt the right girl anyways.
 
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post Aug 15 2004, 09:59 PM
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Hard?
 
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post Aug 15 2004, 10:01 PM
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easy most of the time because im a guy and i accept the fact i have to do the asking _dry.gif sometimes its hard ...><; ph34r.gif
 
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post Aug 15 2004, 10:02 PM
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its not all that hard. it even easier if yooh kno the other person likes yooh too
 
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post Aug 15 2004, 10:53 PM
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HECKA HARD lol even if that person likes me back =P ill hint them i like them too and wait for them to make the first move whistling.gif hehehe
 
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post Aug 15 2004, 10:54 PM
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I wouldn't ask a guy out.

I'm old fashioned...
I think it's more romantic for the guy to ask the girl.
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 11:36 AM
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I'd love it if a guy asked me out (as it is now).

But being so open and unworried of what other people think about me, I'd ask a guy out if I liked him. It depends on how you'd feel about it, and it depends on if you can handle rejection (if it comes to that).
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 11:40 AM
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well, it depends i guess. but for me, its really hard, but i've never asked anyone out yet.
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 01:14 PM
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ah... hecka hard for me... cause even if they yes or no i hate how everyone cares and just yells out "OMG DUDE YOU ASKED OUT __________????"... i hate that, lol..
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 01:17 PM
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Not hard if the other person likes you back.
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 01:54 PM
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errr easy i guess happy.gif well really depends
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 02:14 PM
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hard i guess huh.gif
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 04:11 PM
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i pick so-so, not really that hard, but i dun wanna make an idiot of myself
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 05:55 PM
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depends... but when i asked guys out.... it was kinda so so..
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 06:16 PM
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hard. just plain hard. _dry.gif
 
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post Sep 12 2004, 03:12 AM
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its hecka hard cuz well...im kinda insecure n i guesse everyone is more or less. soo for all the guys out ther can u jus be A MAN n ask out the ladies?? biggrin.gif _smile.gif ..it wud make us soo happi _smile.gif
 
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post Sep 12 2004, 09:49 PM
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QUOTE(th5418 @ Aug 16 2004, 10:17 AM)
Not hard if the other person likes you back.

i agree with you 1000%.... too bad you're not here anymore too see this stubborn.gif .... come back!!
 
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hard. it always is. i can't say i have myself...i almost did. but yeah he got to it first haha. happy.gif but yeah its always hard i think, maybe slightly easier if you're sure they like you back but still.
 
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post Sep 13 2004, 02:38 AM
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I've never asked out a guy... so I wouldn't know... but if you're really shy like I am, it would be really hard to ask out a guy... but i'll never know because i'm with the man i'm going to marry... _smile.gif
 
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post Sep 18 2004, 09:32 PM
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it depends..lols =] buh i've never asked neone out..so ehh..buh some guys asked me out before..::not meaning to sound b*tchy or nething:: lols 'n they sorta had it pretty easily =] lols
 
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post Sep 18 2004, 09:37 PM
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It's HELL to even tell him/them I like him/them.
So I don't ask guys out; I'd die.
 
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post Sep 18 2004, 11:08 PM
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i only asked a gurl out once and she was like i don't know..i think thats no lol but don't be scared to ask a girl out i mean this girl i asked out we still chill as friends nd stuff that dat.
 
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post Sep 18 2004, 11:50 PM
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QUOTE(Thradrien_Blake @ Aug 15 2004, 10:54 PM)
I wouldn't ask a guy out.

I'm old fashioned...
I think it's more romantic for the guy to ask the girl.

exaclty my words =]
 
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post Sep 19 2004, 07:06 PM
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i dont ask them out, they ask me out.
 
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post Sep 19 2004, 10:45 PM
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I'm super shy when it comes to things like asking someone out (and the times i've done it the guy(s) kept coming up short sad.gif)

so i dont ask anyone anymore and just chill with my friends and show up tp parties/dances etc alone. cool.gif it's better that way
 
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post Sep 20 2004, 05:06 PM
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i don't really know cuz i wait for the guy to ask me out
 
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post Sep 20 2004, 07:06 PM
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..I can't do it...I have one of my people do it for me. lol
 
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post Sep 20 2004, 10:20 PM
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QUOTE(anime_foureva @ Sep 20 2004, 4:06 PM)
..I can't do it...I have one of my people do it for me. lol

thats bad.. you get the courage... it make guys like you better.. trust me
 
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post Sep 20 2004, 10:44 PM
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well, it's not really hard at all... just ask the person. if u get rejected, it's all and done with, and in my case, i've never lost a friend doing that. i've done it like...3 times...since i've learned to be more open about things. if ppl start 2 talk that ur going out with someone and so and so, ignore them. u luv da person u asked out, so wat does it matter what it'll do to ur social status?
 
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post Sep 21 2004, 01:56 AM
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it would be a miracle if i asked a guy out or even told him face to face that i lyked him yawn.gif sigh soo sleepy its almost 3 am in the morning here in jersey and skool is 2morrow im going to hit the sack and get sum shut eye
 
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post Sep 21 2004, 02:03 AM
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Never asked a guy out... and yeah, it's hard... cause I'm shy... sad.gif
 
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post Sep 21 2004, 09:30 AM
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for my monkey ash...its like...buku hard...its probly the hardest thing i could do...omigosh hard!!!!lols...im like tha friggen shyest person you kno.....when i find out someone i like knows i like em....i go thru full lengths to avoid them....=X grr i hate my shyness....
 
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post Sep 21 2004, 10:06 AM
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Its been really hard lately ever since my past relationship but sometimes I get the courage to do it, but sometimes I am a little biatch and chickenout...
 
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post Sep 21 2004, 04:07 PM
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its easy... only if your sure its like the right girl then its easy..but if its not GOOD LUCK!!
 
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post Sep 21 2004, 08:40 PM
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i dont even like telling them(which ive never done...my so called "friends" tell them) and ive only asked a guy out 1nce and i got rejected.but is all good!
 
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post Sep 21 2004, 10:28 PM
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for me its hard! cause i'm a girl and i don't think i should be doing that, but for someone example: my bf, its pretty easy for him, it just happens. depends on how shy the person is.
 
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post Sep 22 2004, 05:57 PM
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Haha...asking people out IS hard. If you said it's easy...i'm impressed. ^^ It depends on who you are, if you date often...i guess it's not hard...but if you date once in a blue moon....it's probably hard like heck. But...it's different for everyone.
 
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post Sep 22 2004, 06:56 PM
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never asked a guy out. dont intend on doing so. unless hes like a friend and its to a dance. then thatd b okay.
 
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post Sep 22 2004, 08:03 PM
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When I like someone...I make sure they know that I like them, and if they don't like me...I'll prolly like them even more because it's not something I can accept [knowing that they don't like me back], so I make sure that sometime in the future we're a thing. I dun ask guys out because it's just something I think the guys should be doing. But the day, I like a guy that much I will gladly ask him out...I mean I'm not shy, it's really exciting.
 
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post Sep 22 2004, 11:10 PM
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well, i never did, so its hard to me, but if you did, then it should be easier than the first
 
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post Sep 22 2004, 11:15 PM
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QUOTE(tooeffingcrazy @ Sep 22 2004, 11:10 PM)
well, i never did, so its hard to me, but if you did, then it should be easier than the first

Sorta what i said...but shorter. =) Give things a chance....but don't get a reputation as a person who dates everyone.
 
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post Sep 27 2004, 10:23 AM
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i'v never asked anyone out cuz it's to hard ermm.gif
 
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post Sep 27 2004, 04:25 PM
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for my monkey ash...its like...buku hard...its probly the hardest thing i could do...omigosh hard!!!!lols...im like tha friggen shyest person you kno.....when i find out someone i like knows i like em....i go thru full lengths to avoid them....=X grr i hate my shyness....


im too shy also..... we all hate our shyness
 
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