saving sex for marriage.., what do you think? Options

[ELizabethx143]

I guess I was just curious.. how many of you plan on saving sex for marriage? Why.. why not? Or if you're not a virgin, do you regret giving it up so young? Or just.. what do you think about it? I plan on saving it for as long as I can.. religious reasons.. and my own goals. Just wanted to see what other girls think.

[*Weird addiction*]

ewww hell no...im gonna have sex b4 getting married,WAY before

i is no virg..

[mai_z]

I wouldn't specifically save it for marriage, but i wouldn't define it before or after i guess. It'd be when I find the right person, and I feel comfortable.

[CrimsonArchangel]

I'll save it.
Its the right thing to do.

[LiNHy POO]

im going to save myself... i was brought up to believe that you should be pure... and that's the best gift you could ever give your hubby.

[eversosweet]

i prolly will save it till marriage. or when da rite guy comes along

[Angel_Cece]

hell nah

[shawty_redd]

im gonna try to..think i will but i dunno

[swtpumkinpie]

i'm not a virgin and i regret giving my virginity to the person but i'm not regretting it with my bf.

[tootsie_kiddo]

i've never thought bout it but i dnt think i'll save it... virginity isnt really a big thing for me...

[Angel_Cece]

but im a virgin and i wont save anythng 4 marriage dun wanna b waitin 4 sum man that may not even fulfill my f'n needs ssry kinda speakin my heart out

[Fashionista225]

Yea, I'm savin it..there's too much out there to worry about. That's why I'm in CATS

[lilphoenix]

'k.

Most of the girls replying here are all virgins. (Note I said most.)

It's kinda weird...


Anyways, as for me...

I wouldn't specifically save it for marriage, but i wouldn't define it before or after i guess. It'd be when I find the right person, and I feel comfortable.

Same w/ me.

When the time comes, I'll kno. Along w/ the rite guy.

[*Fallen_Fairy*]

Yea, I'm savin it..there's too much out there to worry about. That's why I'm in CATS

cats? what is that

and yeak i'll probably save myself

[Re-Mixxed]

Well, thats what I'm doin. So..

[xoxlstephlxox]

I think I will def. save it for my honeymoon nite ... i think its the right thing to do ...

[booger butt]

I'm not a virgin. I really dont regret losing it either. Yes it was a big deal and still is, but I am still with him and love him dearly.

And I dont have a problem with the people who say they are but when the 12 or 13 year olds hit high school, things might change.

But keep pushing yourself till marriage, its a special bond...and when boys are teenagers...it usually has no meaning but to get into your pants and a reputation.

[freeflow]

i dont think anyone should save it cuz thats too long to wait ! ahha

[Devastation]

as for a boy, whatever happens, happens for a reason.

[ghjgfkgfk]

i think i have explaiend this like 54643x34 times on here but oh well.
you don't need marriage to prove someone that you love them. marriage doesnt mean anythign anymore. the feeling is still there and you don't need a fancy slip of paper to prove that.

[tinababy143]

i wanted to save myself for marriage..but i was raped when i was 15 and i chose to have sex with my current boyyfriend. But after a while I realized that that wasnt the person i wanted to be and thats not what i wanted to do..so we stopped having sex and now im waiting till marriage

[sammi rules you]

i don't really believe in saving sex for marriage. nothing will happen to me now, so..yeah. i'm planning on going for senior prom night.

[Eternally_Yours]

im still not sure yet. im mean i dont wanna lose my virginity to just some random guy you know...?

[sweetbabiix333]

i would definitely wait `till marriage ... =]*

[tallaznkate]

i'LL SAVE FOR MARRiAGE. i THiNK iT'S MORE MEANiNGFUL THAT WAY AND i'M SURE MY HUSBAND WiLL APPRECiATE iT.

[phatty]

hopefully i can save it till marriage~~

[LOLLiROT__DOLLiE...]

i've never thought bout it but i dnt think i'll save it... virginity isnt really a big thing for me... 

same here

[Gr33nT3agUrL]

To me i don think sex is that important to me (mayb to most pplz) so I'll definitely savin it foe marriage n I also hab a reason foe that to...

[miss_tragedy]

I'm not going to save it for marriage.

I honestly don't think I could wait that long.

Me and my current boyfriend of almost 1 year, have actually been talking about having sex. But, he wants me to go to the doctor and be put on the pill first, so I'm going on Monday. And, I love him, and he loves me. I won't regret any of it. (and hes a virgin too)

But, go you's that are waiting till marriage, seriously. I just couldn't do it, and I love my boyfriend now a lot, and we're ready. Its hard to explain.

</3 Liz

[eli5e]

im planning on waiting.. but if that perfect guy rolls around, maybe.

[xsweetdreams12x]

I'm not setting a specific time I want to have sex.

Whenever I find the right person, and it can be when I'm married, or not.

[elmogurly]

ME. i will. i've said this before and i'll say it again. i feel that i should be a virgin till i get married, so i know that i saved myself for my husband. i will know that i saved something for someone i vowed to love FOREVER. that's just my thoughts.

[moonies]

QUOTE
im going to save myself... i was brought up to believe that you should be pure... and that's the best gift you could ever give your hubby.

i've been brought up that way too, so that's why i plan to stay a virgin until marriage or when i find the one person i know i can spend the rest of my life with

[LatinaLady]

i dont belive in regrets/ everything happens for a reason.
but for people who are saving them i think its so beautiful they are.

[XHiddenbeautyX]

ima save it for marriage, some ppl may think its ok not to, but i feel that its the right thing to do

[pinkrocsmysocs]

i think thAt is the best thing n e one could do b cuz then ppl wouldnt have baby (lik mah friend ) at 15

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[MeanBastard]

Shrug, prob will. But whatever happens happens.

[mouse_3k]

im tryin to save it cause its something special only my husband deserves

[JessJR1022]

I always planned to wait until marriage and stuff.... and then with my current boyfriend.... it did't reallly happen, can't say if was ready or not, but it happened.... and I got lucky and won't ever regret who it was with, cuz we are gonna be together forever and that's not some girly fantasty... 2 years!!!

[captivatedheart]

i'm saving myself til marriage.. i don't want to risk anything.

[HuGs_fOr_yOu]

im going to save myself... i was brought up to believe that you should be pure... and that's the best gift you could ever give your hubby.

what she sed

[dani41790]

well umm i plan on saving myself for marriage because i dont wanna end up losing it to a guy that i mite break up with. id rather lose it to tha guy i love and that im gonna spend the rest of my life with.

[[2]realisticx]

I am going to save myself for marriage. Most of my friends don't really care if they save it or not, but i mean what's the point of having sex before..?

[mizzinno]

QUOTE
im going to save myself... i was brought up to believe that you should be pure... and that's the best gift you could ever give your hubby.

i've been brought up that way too, so that's why i plan to stay a virgin until marriage or when i find the one person i know i can spend the rest of my life with

me too.
i've been taught that the reason you wear a white dress at ur wedding is because it means pure(quoted). save it till marriage, or until the person you know you're going to/or want to be with the rest of your life comes along.

x3

[carmi96]

im catholic so it s no sex b4 marriage 4 me, even tho guys say im missin out lol

[xox Qt LuVZ xox]

Yup, I'm going to save it. Besides, you never know if the guy might be using you, ya know? And what if the condom breaks and the guy avoids you or something? Eh, besides if you save it for the right person, it'll be really special.

[dreamerOi]

yea or if im in love with him like a lot then yea

[bballchick1]

i'm saving for marriage

[unfortunatekiwi]

i don't really plan on waiting until i'm married...but who knows...*shrug*

i'm only 12. what do i know? (still...i'm not going to be some huge slut either...i'll probably wait until i'm in my last few years of highschool at least. maybe i'll wait until college. i guess it depends when the right guy comes along, you know?)

[islandkiss]

I'm planning on having sex when I'm married.

[MusicalAngel]

Virgin til marriage for me! And i have no problem with it. Sure its tempting at times, but it shows that i have self control and that makes it more special.

[slurp]

i think virginity is probably the most precious thing and i thought about saving it till marriage but if the right person comes itd be tempting eh?

[1--GIRL]

I would like to save it till marrige but if I can't then oh well

[CRaZyInLuV1301]

i'LL SAVE FOR MARRiAGE. i THiNK iT'S MORE MEANiNGFUL THAT WAY AND i'M SURE MY HUSBAND WiLL APPRECiATE iT.

i agree!

[lovemexnot]

i'LL SAVE FOR MARRiAGE. i THiNK iT'S MORE MEANiNGFUL THAT WAY AND i'M SURE MY HUSBAND WiLL APPRECiATE iT.

yeah, i wouldnt say it better

[SarahxJoy]

I can't really imagine myself saving sex for marriage. But I'm only fourteen, and I'll let it all play out. Although, I'll definitely use abstinence for as long as I can, for my own purposes and personal goals. *Nod, nod.*

[silver-rain]

well, i'm gonna probably save sex for marriage, if i ever get married.

[xxdaydreamer143]

well, i want to find the right person and everything and i do plan to save myself for marriage ...even my parents dont expect me to save myself for marriage ...lol but anyways yea i do plan to save myself

[fallenang3l211]

i've already had sex. i think in todays society, premarital sex is inevitable. i do wish that id waited longer though

[justchillen]

i really wish i could say wait untill marriage.. but things happen..life goes on

[*FreeStickers*]

I wasn't saving for marriage. Just for the right person. I dont regret it at all.

[x0143637x0]

iM jus waiting for that someone. if that means until marriage then i'd save it until then. but anything could change from now till marriage.

[*tyedyefroggy*]

I keep on saying that Im saving for marriage....but thats a LONG time away...so Im not for sure anymore...

[dreamerOi]

yea or at least love the guy or like him enough to think he might be the dude you marry cause yea you want it to be important right? cause yea i do the 2nd 3rd or whatever is whatever i guess hahaaa

[rOckThISshYt]

i'm not a virgin. i was 11 when i gave it up and i haven't had sex since then. i regret it more than you can imagine. nothing bad happened or anything, but it was something i should have saved for someone i love. and i don't necissarily mean marrage. but someone important to me.

[lilJdawg]

I wouldn't specifically save it for marriage, but i wouldn't define it before or after i guess. It'd be when I find the right person, and I feel comfortable.

yeah, i agree

[angel-roh]

yeah im planning to save sex for marriage. it's better than being pregnants with so many boyfriends haha. i almost lost my virginity this year but good thing i hold it whew for me

[xLil SweetnezZx]

i'm saving myself. I think I'd be uncomfortable knowing that theres a chance I cud be pregnant and I may not be stable yet-ya know-dun with college n university n hab a good job n my own house n stuff.

i'm not a virgin. i was 11 when i gave it up and i haven't had sex since then. i regret it more than you can imagine. nothing bad happened or anything, but it was something i should have saved for someone i love. and i don't necissarily mean marrage. but someone important to me.

11...wow. I'm 12 n I can't imagine not being a virgin

[DoOdOox3]

ladies
think...
jessica simpson did that dung and shez def way prettier than most of uss
so pleasee
im doin that dung guys respect u more when u dont go around and take ur clothes off

X

[nlgrl]

i think its crazy. just ONE guy? i think u need like. experiance

[cornflakes]

Haha...dumb topic. People are brainwashed to thinking sex is bad.

[cornflakes]

i'm saving myself. I think I'd be uncomfortable knowing that theres a chance I cud be pregnant and I may not be stable yet-ya know-dun with college n university n hab a good job n my own house n stuff.


11...wow. I'm 12 n I can't imagine not being a virgin

CONDOMS

[bigpoppaproppy]

my gf is saving it for marraige. I'm serious enough about her that it doesn't matter nad that's fine with me.

[lilxroxy]

i`m only 14.......so i guess it will only happen wen the right guy comes along....haha*

[thesecretmodel]

I didn't save it for marriage. Just wait till when you feel it's the right moment for you to lose it. And what's ironic is that I lost it to someone who was not my boyfriend but my best guy friend, and we're still good friends today even though I live 800 miles away from him... But I have no regrets about it.

[NgocQuyen]

lols..wow chu guys have some interesting opinions...anywho...i think it really depends....cuz like..if i happen to fall in love at this age,which i dont plan to, but things happen , maybe...just maybe.....i might not wait tyll marriage.....but im catholic and its gonna take alot to do that and me not feel guilty so i best be in love with that do0de ....but other then that....i really plan on waiting tyll im married guys..

x33 QuyEnNiEe // babehh x q

[lilxroxy]

as long as it is good, it`s good ;]

[Glamourouz]

sex isn't an important factor for me right now, but at this point, whatever happens, happens, but I've never planned to remain a virgin until marriage, so I'm gonna be a virgin until whatever happens....

[shortiiex]

i would have sex b4 marriag eb/c i don't want ot get pregnet at a young age and have my parents kick me ou to fthe house and also you bf will leave u

[HelloSunshine]

im going to save myself... i was brought up to believe that you should be pure... and that's the best gift you could ever give your hubby.

i agree

[WhiteLotus*]

I am going to try to save it for marriage. Let's see if I can stay virgin throughout college.

[spUnkyfOtOgrafr]

im gonna save it for marriage. because, it would just seem so much better doin it the first time with the person you love, and will spend your life with, because in high school, there are one night flings and stuff and you wont kno if your love for each other is real and stuff and ppl would just end up gettin hurt

[paristexas]

I am waiting until I get married. Definately. It's the right thing to do, and plus who wants to be with a girl that's been with another guy? That just seems....eeeh. not my thing. I want to give everything I have to my husband on our wedding night.

[ghjgfkgfk]

i think virginity is probably the most precious thing and i thought about saving it till marriage but if the right person comes itd be tempting eh?

its a reproductive organ, not a f*cking flower

[pbear]

i'm planning on saving it, but if the right time comes before, who knows?

[tresa1992]

I'll save it.
Its the right thing to do.

Same..

[to-devastate]

I would save myself till after marriage. I'd wait for the right guy and then I'll do it.

[mz anita xP]

most girls would change their mind when they reach to hs. yeah, many say they'll wait to marriage, but when you;re in the moment getting so close with your bf, i dont think most girls could control doing it. mayb they could for a while, but sooner or later i think you'll jus normally lose it.

[karinarhcp]

im saving myself for marraige.....sure those sexual feelings would be nice now im nineteen.....i think for he most part im proud of sayin im nineteen and a virgin because most girls put out...wayy too soon.....its more of controlling yourself...ive seen a lot of heartache.....because taht guy they.......had sex with leaves....
its not about that piece of paper that makes the sex .....its that.......one guy you marry.is the only one hats gonna..........get freaky with you....and only he would know your delicate spots....versus a crap load of other guys knowwin your P**sy spots......its more respect to myself than anything else.....i know a guy cant get that from me...because im worth more than...some few moments..ofpleasure...

plus its a real emotional involving........thing..........peole that have ssex once before marriage have the tendency to have sex..again and again........with different people..to where it ends up meaning...not something important..some people get luck and stay with there girl or guy......i guess youcould say those are blessed.....because at way things are with guys and girls now..people just want an easy.....''get laid''

[xBaBiEGrLx]

i'm saving it for marriage..

[murderwaltz]

I'm saving myself for marriage. I made a vow to God about it. I know I can keep it. Besides, in my religion - Catholic - it says you have to be a virgin at the altar. But not a lot of people believe in it. It's up to the person.

[*krnxswat*]

i'LL SAVE FOR MARRiAGE. i THiNK iT'S MORE MEANiNGFUL THAT WAY AND i'M SURE MY HUSBAND WiLL APPRECiATE iT.

But I don't think he'll appreciate you typing in all caps.

[souldreamers]

most girls would change their mind when they reach to hs. yeah, many say they'll wait to marriage, but when you;re in the moment getting so close with your bf, i dont think most girls could control doing it. mayb they could for a while, but sooner or later i think you'll jus normally lose it.

haha yea.. exactly. And if not during your high school years. Then maybe in college. But kudos to those who can wait!

[imadorkabledxd]

waiting. yea..i think it's more meaningful..like a special gift for that person ur gona be with for the rest of ur life...i hope i dont get divorced..id be pissed hahah

[*stephinika*]

But I don't think he'll appreciate you typing in all caps.

haha good point.

but yeah i'm not sure about saving it for marriage, but i agree on saving it until you're sure you're ready, as well as your partner and make sure that you're ready for the consequences and are safe about it. and don't do it just for the sake of doing it, but out of love for one another. before or after marriage.

[BillyShakespeare]

I've always been raised that waiting for marriage is the right thing to do. I would listen to my older friends talk about loosing their virginity to some guy, and think how they could do that. Keep in mind that was when I was 12 and hadn't had a boyfriend.

Now that I'm 16, and in a serious relationship, I find it harder to hold on. I must admit, I put myself in predicaments where it's hard not to loose it. There have been opportunites to have sex, but we haven't taken that step.

I still really do want to wait for marriage, for fear of things that could happen if I don't, but I realize it might not be possilbe. My will power isn't strong enough,and I find myself in moment where I want to give it to my boyfriend.

So yea, I want to wait for marriage, but no, I don't think I will.

[LisaM2007]

Nah marriage isnt like it used to be....its not as important as long as ur ready and u love the person then its perfectly ok!

[brownbyea]

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[fathomlessdame]

mm well i will most likely wait til i'm married or until i am out of school and have a decent job

[Jinny]

I'm saving it.