when is it the rite time to break up? |
 Aug 5 2004, 06:55 PM
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 hot punk chick rox  Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,395  |
well im with this guy who i really like but he went to the u.s. this summer...(its canada here) and it feels so distant.. well he's gonna come back when school starts though... and i was thinking one day that if i broke up with him now i'd be soo sadddddd....... but its soo hard since he's not gonna be around for another month...
so in general if nothing bad happens in the relationship should it stay forever.... or when is it time for break up (lets say theres no fights and stuff but its a lil blah) advice ppl....shout em out *piggie* |
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Aug 5 2004, 07:02 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
omg. well he's coming back, isnt he? you should wait if you really love him
 but yea, i dont think there is neccessarily a right time to break up with anyone... unless it involoves like cheating and stuff. but with a normal healthy relationnship, there should be no breaking up 
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Aug 5 2004, 07:12 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Just hang in there.
If you love him, he'll come as soon as you think! 
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| *CEP* |
Aug 5 2004, 07:19 PM
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So you're breaking up with him because he went on Vacation?
Wow. That must suck for the guy. < Friend > So how are you and your girlfriend? < Him > We broke up. < Friend > Why? < Him > I went to the US for a couple of months. ^ Not cool. Atleast wait for him to cheat on you or something... - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Aug 5 2004, 07:25 PM
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^^chinkiee has a point
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Aug 5 2004, 07:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,749 |
if nothing goes rong..then dont break up..i dont see wats so confoosing
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Aug 5 2004, 07:55 PM
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hot punk chick rox Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,395 |
i understand but it seems like he's not even around except for the lil times he goes on msn....
*piggie* |
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Aug 5 2004, 09:05 PM
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well, he is on vacation
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Aug 5 2004, 09:16 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
he'scoming back, and you still like him right? i say wait till he comes back, and if your relationship has really died down to the extent that it can't be defibrulated, and brought back to life, THEN break up wit him
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Aug 5 2004, 09:17 PM
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 original member. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,825 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,460 |
well, it depends.
are you happy with him? if your considering to break up with him, then I guess not. Well, if he's coming back, I say wait. Lets see what happenes when he gets bak and then you can tell him everything thats going on in your mind...it's only a couple months, don't worry. and it is vacation, give the kid a break |
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Aug 5 2004, 09:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,803 |
it doesn't sound like you care enough to wait for him if you are wondering like this...if you are just getting bored though thats different. if you break up with him now, you will just be sad. i advise you to wait until he gets back. Stick it out. It will be worth it.
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Aug 5 2004, 09:31 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
i think the right time to break up is when you have a knife to his neck...
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Aug 5 2004, 09:50 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i think it depends.. if u think its the right time to break up.. but u really love him.. then u can give it a try.. if not then break up lol
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Aug 5 2004, 10:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
wow, it sounds like youre looking forward to breaking up, he hasnt done anything wrong, just on a vacation so i really dont think thats a good enough reason to end the relationship
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Aug 5 2004, 10:47 PM
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hot punk chick rox Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,395 |
aiiii....i dont wanna break up but it seems blah now... but i guess i can wait till he gets back...
the thing is ...will he change?????? *piggie* |
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| *CEP* |
Aug 5 2004, 10:50 PM
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QUOTE(whiteandyellowsnow @ Aug 5 2004, 8:47 PM) aiiii....i dont wanna break up but it seems blah now... but i guess i can wait till he gets back... the thing is ...will he change?????? *piggie* Rofl. WTF? Why don't you just wait and find out? Goddamn. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Aug 5 2004, 11:15 PM
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 aznskylinel2 Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,649 |
chinkee is right..wait for him and see what happens
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Aug 5 2004, 11:35 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
my friend broke up with his girlfriend the other day because she was getting more attached to him.... idiot.
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Aug 6 2004, 03:31 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
there is no right time to break up .. if you feel that the timing isn't good right now then take a break .. but if you feel that you'd rather get through the time together and work it out even with distance than you can do that too ..
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Aug 6 2004, 11:49 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
There really is no right time to break up. It usually is when there's no trust, communication, love, etc. Wait for him to come back, and see how your relationship is then.
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Aug 6 2004, 11:52 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,847 |
stick it out if you still care for him
 weird thing is a couple of summers ago my bf when to vacation in canada for two months (i'm in texas, usa) but we stayed together. my best friend simplified breakups for me last week "only when you're not in love with him any more or he's in love with someone else" |
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Aug 6 2004, 12:06 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
HAHAHAHAHA, Jose!!
Yeah. I do agree with Jose. Just wait until he comes back! That was pretty much COMMON sense. |
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Aug 6 2004, 12:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
Do not break up with him on a whim!
Wait until you have reason to. |
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Aug 7 2004, 04:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,286 |
QUOTE Do not break up with him on a whim! Wait until you have reason to. ^^ i agree wat r u planning to do dump him and get back together when ya see him in school? that's really stupid....don't dump him for no reason...mayb ur jus bored as hell (like i am) and u need to go out and hav sum fun...there is no need for drama when it comes to summer...chill w/ ur friends or sumthing...jus get out and hav sum fun! |
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Sep 3 2004, 10:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(NvieDi3ai3yGrL @ Aug 6 2004, 3:31 AM) there is no right time to break up .. if you feel that the timing isn't good right now then take a break .. but if you feel that you'd rather get through the time together and work it out even with distance than you can do that too .. Took the words right out of my mouth. Just break up when you don't think it's going to work out. |
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Sep 3 2004, 11:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 149 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,593 |
thats the shitty part, there is no right or wrong time to break up. its just...a moment. breakups are hard either way
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Sep 5 2004, 08:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,549 |
it's only like..a month right? don't worry about it.
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Sep 7 2004, 04:41 PM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
i think that the time to break up would be when your heart feelsl like it.. like if you think that you should then do it.. if the relationship isnt really goin anywhere and if there is really no point of the relationship then do something about it.. it mite be better for both of you to just like talk it out or like break it off so that it doesnt drag.. for no reason..
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Sep 7 2004, 05:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,384 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,337 |
QUOTE(Levy2k6 @ Aug 5 2004, 11:35 PM) my friend broke up with his girlfriend the other day because she was getting more attached to him.... idiot. psh. the world is full of idiots eh? |
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Sep 7 2004, 08:25 PM
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 smiling hurts Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,630 |
QUOTE(CEP @ Aug 5 2004, 7:19 PM) So you're breaking up with him because he went on Vacation? Wow. That must suck for the guy. < Friend > So how are you and your girlfriend? < Him > We broke up. < Friend > Why? < Him > I went to the US for a couple of months. ^ Not cool. Atleast wait for him to cheat on you or something... - Chinkieeyedpnoi ROFL he makes it sound like there is a garuentee that he will cheat ... rofl funniest posts . ever. |
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Sep 7 2004, 08:29 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
.......HAHAHAHAHA.
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Sep 7 2004, 09:11 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
there is nevera right time to break up.
QUOTE Do not break up with him on a whim! Wait until you have reason to. i agree. wait until youhave a real reason. |
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