Confused, Liking two people and cant choosing |
 Aug 4 2004, 06:47 PM
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I hava boyfriend n i llike him alot, but den again i like my ex boyfriend 2, im not shure but i dink muh ex likes me bac, i wanna be with him, but i dont wanna hurt my boyfriend, and another thing is that my ex is going out with my bestfriend, she knew i still liked him but she stil went out with him neways, Well, my ex knows i like him and my best friend knows i like him too, there ok with it, well now my best friend and my ex broke up, so should i go for him or stay?..n watever i do, imma either hurt myself or my boyfwend.
  
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Aug 4 2004, 07:00 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
i dont think you should go back with your ex. whats the reason why you two broke up in the first place? dont you think it would happen again? you should just stick with ur current boyfriend.
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| *Azarel* |
Aug 4 2004, 07:16 PM
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People like you are too immature to be in relationships anyways.
"lyk omg i luv mai boifwend but im in luv wit my ex 2!!" Do the world a favor and get over it. kthxbai. |
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Aug 4 2004, 07:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,803 |
That was kinda harsh Azarel... hehe... But yeah you should definitley rethink being in a relationship if you are even considering dumping your boyfriend for your ex who is going out with you BEST FRIEND. I mean even if you COULD have this guy, you'd be willing to scarifice your friend? what the hell?
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Aug 4 2004, 09:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
Well, let's think about this for a second, okay?
Isn't there a reason this guy is your ex? Yeah. And plus, it's going to be hard to look your best friend in the eye if you do take her guy back. 
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Aug 4 2004, 10:45 PM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
eenie...meeenie...miney...moh...
haha okay not funnie, but oyu shouold stay with your bf. its not good to keep on going back to your ex, you DID break up for a reason yes??? |
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Aug 4 2004, 10:51 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
Okay, if you lost feelings for your boyfriend, by all means BREAK UP WITH HIM. I know it sounds hard, but don't drag it on! Think about how he'll feel when he finds out that you didn't like him half the time you were with him.
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Aug 4 2004, 11:54 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
seriously though there are too many topics about liking more than 1 person, people should have learned by now lol... in this world your always gonna have feelings for someone else, just make sure ur with the one u like the most or not be with them at all. PICK WHO U LIKE TO BE WITH AND LOSE THE OTHER!
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Aug 5 2004, 12:12 AM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
awww... i kno how you feel, dear. I was like that once too, but i realized that i didnt like them both (my ex-ex bf and some random guy) so, i ended up being single!
 i think you either like one and is just confused, or you dotn like both. just spend time thinking about hard situations like "if he died, would i like the other?" i ono osme thing like that. have fun,  *corrupting nudge* <-- dont ask |
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Aug 5 2004, 12:23 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
uhm, i think you should stick with your current bf if you're happy with him. Besides, your ex is going out with your best friend already... it's not cool to steal him away from her (plus, you have a bf already!).
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Aug 5 2004, 01:22 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 108 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,764 |
well..let's c...first of all..how are things with ur boyfriend right now?..well..since u like ur ex so much..i think it's NOT doing very well..hmm..newaiz..if u broke up w/ ur ex..i mean..come on..don't you think wht made u break up w/ him..will happen all over again?.."bruises on the heart are permanent"..i mean..u hav a boyfriend now..u should pay more attention to him..than u ex..becuz ur ex is not ur boyfriend!!..i think u should be loyal to ur boyfriend now..plus that's what a relationship will be..or else u'll just make someone sad..and u wouldn want that..and..ur best friend....for her..i dont even think she's a best friend at all..i mean..if she was .. she'd actually not go out w/ ur ex!! becuz COME ON..he's ur ex forsake! .. i think u should talk things over w/ ur best friend too about the ex stuff..and hav a good conversation about tht..and .. for ur ex...i say..stop liking him..u should pay more attention to the boyfriend u hav now..becuz it's ur boyfriend!! lolz..just hope this helped! good luck!!
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| *Weird addiction* |
Aug 5 2004, 09:23 AM
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Aug 5 2004, 1:16 AM) People like you are too immature to be in relationships anyways. "lyk omg i luv mai boifwend but im in luv wit my ex 2!!" Do the world a favor and get over it. kthxbai. haha...well said!!!  ....haha!!!
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Aug 5 2004, 10:04 AM
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 ㅋㅋㅋ Group: Member Posts: 924 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,283 |
breaking up w/ your boyfriend over your ex...bad idea. what if your ex rejects you? and then when u wanna go back to your previous boyfriend, he rejects also? you'll be left with nothing. so, just stick with what you have...
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Aug 5 2004, 01:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
lol haha i kinda have the same problem i too dont know what to do lol
OMG LOOK AT THE NUMMBER OF POST I HAVE 666 .:tony:. |
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Aug 5 2004, 01:08 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
Stay with your boyfriend. Your ex is with someone else and you're not even sure if he still likes you. You guys broke up, keep it in the past.
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Aug 5 2004, 02:59 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
actually... i disagree lols how did u and ur ex break up tho?? neutral break ups can usually be mended and they get bak together i have a lot of friends that broke up and they got bak after a year lols i think u should break up wit ur current bf cuz u like another guy.. its unfair.. or at least tell him or something
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Aug 5 2004, 04:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
If you still like your ex, then why did you hook up with your boyfriend? If the only reason was because you needed somebody, like a rebound, that's a big mistake.
Break up with your boyfriend, and stay single for a while. Not being in a relationship for more than a couple days, isn't gonna be hell, if you're worried. Then, when your ex-ex (I dunno how to put it) is out of a relationship, and you really think that you like him this time then ask him out. |
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Aug 6 2004, 01:03 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
OMG. this is happening to me to. holy crap.
my exboyfriend still luvs me even after we broke up and i stil kinda like him. and my boyfriend loves me too and hes like my bestest friend. just stay in contact with both and see what you think later. sorry if im no help <3 |
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Aug 6 2004, 01:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
you should find out who you really have feelings for and dont take any risk, if you break up with your current boyfriend you might regret it, whatever youre going to do you cant go back so think it over and make your decisons wisely
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Aug 6 2004, 07:38 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE I hava boyfriend n i llike him alot, but den again i like my ex boyfriend 2, im not shure but i dink muh ex likes me bac, i wanna be with him, but i dont wanna hurt my boyfriend, and another thing is that my ex is going out with my bestfriend, she knew i still liked him but she stil went out with him neways, its so0o hard to get over him..n watever i do, imma either hurt myself or my boyfwend. Did he broke up w/ u or u broke up with him? if u broke up with him then think about wht he did tht made u break up with him. Try to get closer to ur bf and forget about ur ex. Thin about how ur friend & ur bf would feel when u still have a liking in ur ex..it would hurt them.. I mean since u like you EX better, ill use him as a example.. (pretend u and him were going out after tht whole situation u explained to us) How would u feel if ur ex still liked his ex and wanted to go back with her? yah it would hurt NE thin right?! well imagine wht ur current bf will feel.. QUOTE People like you are too immature to be in relationships anyways. "lyk omg i luv mai boifwend but im in luv wit my ex 2!!" ^ as harsh as it is, i agree |
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Aug 6 2004, 07:53 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
okay want i know about love triangles from watching re-runs of Dawson's Creek is pick a damn man and stick to him. going back and forth ruins progress. anyways, ur still young so dont worry about it.
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Aug 6 2004, 07:56 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
so you like both of them. if you go with one, everyone will be happy. if you go with the other, that you ar enot even sure likes you back, you will be hurting 2 people. hm tough choice.
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Aug 6 2004, 08:04 PM
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 Dreaming of You... Group: Member Posts: 508 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,205 |
 the situation you describe was quite vague thou.... like who were u with longer? who really understands you more? but man, if you broke up with him, go ahead and take him back if you really feel that way. that just kinda sucks thou for your b/f though...  rejection sucks...hope it gets clear to you thou!
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Aug 7 2004, 04:06 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,286 |
i don't think u need to start any drama... ur best friend is w/ ur ex and ur w/ this new bf and i think u need to give him a chance...if u take a chance at telling ur ex u like him and he says he duzn't like ya bak then ur talking about sum serious catfights w/ ur best friend...she's probably gonna b pissed at u....and u might b giving up a great guy who u might hav nevr given him a chance cuz all ur ever thinking about is ur ex! but if ur willing to take that chance...mayb things will play out differently, but i think that whether or not ur ex likes u or not, don't u think that someone will b hurt in the end??
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Aug 8 2004, 08:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,544 |
well mayb u should break up w/ ur bf...it's not right if ur into sumone else...especially ur ex....jus b single for a while then make a move on ur ex if u still like him
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Aug 8 2004, 08:55 PM
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 mrs. carrabba Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,786 |
i think you need to be single for awhile and re-evaluate your situation. either way you're going to hurt some people, do them all a favor and kick it solo for awhile. you need to mature a bit (i mean that in the nicest way)
*danielle |
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