my summer is damned Options

[hybrid]

My summer is damned.

First of all, my cousin, who I'm not very fond of, is getting at my nerves.
Second of all, I just had an arguement with my friend. Which has connections
with my cousin.

I hate summer. Believe me I love the break; but things always happen over the summer.

2 summers ago: 2 people broke off a friendship with me and 3 other people
last summer: my friend and my cousin had a fight and I was invovled.
this summer: I'm having a hard time because my friend is like practically yelling at me and my cousin, who I'm not very fond of, is at her side.

So, I need advice. Hey, I already tried apologizing, but all my friend said was like:

i dont need your apology when its not sincere being you dont even know point im trying to make out .. being that you dont even know what picture im talking about .. soo, so much for that.

See? So, what should I do? Yeah, I'm having a rad time alright.. can't wait until I go somewhere and get my troubles away. (Should I shut everyone out of my life now..?)

[*Fallen_Fairy*]

I would let things be, I'm not saying let things end on a bad note but if they don't want to put forth the effort then neither should you.

[x hYpErRoSeY x]

your cuz cant be mad that long anyway rite? sry she is acting all like that- mayb you should just give it time, i mean you already tried apologizing thats the best, and she should forgive you but since shes not- i say give a little space in between

[inthemudhole]

Eep.
I'm sorry to hear.

Hm. Maybe give them some space for a while and let it work itself out.

[whomps]

Awww it's okay Kim.. Things like that happen in the summer.. I'm sorry it had to happen to you =[ I hope things work out.. Just try to talk it out and stuff.. It'll all be fine, Kim..

[someflipguy]

The best thing I learned to get out of the drama situation...is leave it be! I mean go out and find some new people to hang with. It may take a while but, the whispers and chatters will slowly disappear.

For an example, after I broke up with my ex people were talking to so bad about me. I was wondering how they were getting all this information. Then I realized that my ex was spreading rumors. At the time I hung out with alot of people I met through her. I exciled myself from them and I still got glares in the mall but, they knew to respect me because I didn't say anything. I met new people and I started to get my social life back.

[s0emotionalx3]

i agree with you about the summer part. lots of things just happen and you can't always have your friends there to be by ur side..

anyways about ur friend and ur cousin, if thats what they say after youve apologized, then you should talk to them and ask them what ARENT you getting n if theyre NOT goign to tell you, how are you suppose to get the point? If they cant even accept that you're trying to understand, then just stop talking to ur friend.

[xjjajeengx]

AWWWW KIMM!! want me to go beat that cousin of yours up for you? im in a crappy mood enough to beat up anything in my way

anyays, yea... if she cant accept your apology, forget her! man. you dont deserve all that crap from her. Tell her straight out, "You know, i really was sincere about my apology, and it seems like YOU DONT GET MY POINT EITHER, so dont be all blaming me when its not completely my fault you baboon!! " just kidding dont be so harsh... but yea. If she starts acting up, you tell me right away and i'll scare the living daylights outta her moohahahah violence is the key my dear friend jkjk

[azianlady]

its ok...my summer is dammed too...i have to do WOrK...as in TEXTBOOKS..everyday along with practicing my instrumetns..it sucks..i can' only ang out on saturdays..its ok ... juss let it work itself out..you apologized and you did your part..now it's time for them to do their..did that make sense?< later
jane*

[pbear]

Aww, I'm sorry to hear that.
I say back off and let time work for awhile.
Maybe your friend'll come around.

[Mireh]

[cough]mobs r us[/cough]
[cough]van jumping time[/cough]

[sammi rules you]

Aww Kim. If she can't get that you're a good friend and you apologized, you can't do anything more. Don't worry, we're all here for you.

[hybrid]

Heh. Thanks guys. She actually made up with me about a few days after that. She said she was over it.. no sorry though or anything; but I'm fine with it. At least, we're friends again!