Is Dis Right?!, Do Good Friends Do This?.... Options

[AzNl2iCeB0i69]

Ok.. Here's My LiL Story..

1 Of my CLOSE homebois invited me to watch the village... and he asked if my ex could come.. i wuz all like.. ok thaz koo.. kuz i wanted to her too..
and finnaly i make there... she doesnt even say hi.. or show any signs i existed.. .....
then da movie starts to play.. there i am ..sitting right next to them.. but wid 1 chair between me n my ex.. THEN i see them.. holding each other.. flirting.. i see his arms around her waist.. her legs over his knees.. his hands over hers n her knee/leg...
..it felt like i was in hell for the rest of the movie.. i juz wanted to leave.. but i didnt want to make anything obviouse.. but ye.. that was 1 of the most painful nights fo my life..

you can say i still really care about her.. we broke up 2 months ago.. but i still miss her.. and still care a lot about her.. but obviously.. its clear... that she's moved on..and forget about me.. even though.. she siad..
"You will always be in my heart"...those were the exact words.. but she didnt even bother to say hi.. or bye.. and the worse part.. my hommie wuz all up on her.. cmon now.. he should know his boundaries wid his hommie's ex.. especially if they were really close..

..kinda funny he said.. there are 2 rules..
1: You should know the boundaries wid a hommies ex or gurl..
2: If you're gonna try n get or do anything wid a hommie's ex... u should ask da hommie first..

and ye.. he failed to do both ...HE DIDNT KNOW HIS BOUNDARIES AND NEVER ASKED ME ANYTHIN ABOUT GETTING WID HER.. and he also tripped over my other hommie when he wuz juzz talkin to his *SO-CALLED* soon to be girlfriend.. him and dat gurl was never close.. but me n my ex were very close.. we were together for 6months.. and 5days.. i still remember everything... how we got together.. how i asked her out..

..and i cant believe.. that happened.. right next to me... and right infront of me.. i couldnt take da pain.. but i had to.. good thing i had a hat to cover my face.. cuz i couldnt hold it in any longer..

and lastly... you can say dat i still love and care about her.. but its clear to me that i have to move on.. since she's forgoten about me... and doesnt care anymore...

[x hYpErRoSeY x]

aw im really sorry about what happened, about your homie asking you to bring your ex ova and her ignoring you and stuff :(
dont worri, things will get better. just try to forget her, shell alwayz b there ya i kno but you can let it go into the past and try even tho it hurts
[ya i kno im hopeless at this cheering up+helping stuff]

the harder you fall the higher you [[ bounce ]]

[laur3nw]

im sorry
that really sucks..good friends dont do that
maybe you should talk to him about it so he wont make the same mistake next time
cuz doing that to his close friend isnt right

[conster]

aww.... thats ok.... sometimes it takes 6months - 8 months to declare if ur right for each other or not =) dont worry, there are a lot of girls out there, and since shes moved on why should u still be like this? she can have fun and so can u! dont worry about it, time will heal ur scar and i know it can cuz ive been through it be happy ! chill wit ur other homies

[Foolish Heart]

Aww I'm really sorry.

The same thing happened to me with this one guy, he was two years older than me, I LOVED him with all my heart, and before, I had this friend that I treat as my sister, SHE WENT OUT WITH HIM!! I felt like shit, everytime they ask me to hangout with them, I just pretend I'm sleepy or sick or has something to do. It's the worst feeling ever.

But after two years of trying to move on, I finally realized that I can just let go and put it all behind. Sure it takes time, but you'll feel better.

I hope my advice worked!

-hEaRt </3

[Gypsy Eyes]

your friend sounds like a jacka*s!

[> [ a k i k o...]

aww I'm sorry to hear that. Friends/ hommies aren't suppose to do that. It's kinda "betrayal." especially when you guys are soo tight on the "rules." AND the fact that he even did that IN YOUR face. Maybe this is a lesson, something for you to learn, that even the closest people to you can cause you the most pain. And that maybe he's not really a good friend after all. As for your ex, try to get over her. I know it's hard cuz I was still thinking about my ex 3 months after we broke up. You think about all the things you do and the memories seems to be more vivid now that you are apart. You tend to remember all the good things...but just remember that there are other fishes in the sea. Hanging out with your GOOD, TRUSTED friends helps a lot.
hope that helps.

[whomps]

Aww, it's okay..

You should make it clear to him that you're not over your ex.. that's jacked up though..
Real friends don't do that.

[*CEP*]

Well, I don't think he was being a good friend there, but he obviously being a dude. I mean, who wouldn't take advantage of a perfectly good chance to mack it out with some girl?

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[*RiC3xBoy*]

no offense, but sounds like ur friend is pretty whacked

[inthemudhole]

Lol, Jose.

Well, your friend obviously isn't a terribly true friend of yours, now is he..?

Mleh. That.. er.. sucks. I'm sorry to hear, I don't know what to say.

[pbear]

Haha, Jose's probably right.

Although from what you said, it doesn't sound as if he's a good friend.
Have you talked to him about it?
Anyway, I'm sorry that happened to you.

[R|_|f|_|5]

Simple
-Ur friends a fu**off
-Ur ex isnt what you thought

[enticing.]

i'm so sorry that happened to you. it must have been so hard for you to see. but maybe knowing that your ex has moved on, it will help you as well. either way, you don't deserve what happened.

[strwbrryluv8]

awww.... this is so sad...
good friends wuldnt do that...
try talkin to ur "hommie" about it... see what he says...
or try talkin to ur ex... u culd tell her that u still hav feelings for her

[xjjajeengx]

f**k him. where does he live? I'll go get a frikken ugly how to rape his @$$ and then i'll get her to videotape it and send it to your ex so they will never do that to each other again, and i'll make shure to kick him, sending his flying @$$ to mercury where he can burn for all i care. what a bastard. dont even talk to that foo. he needs to get a frikken life and he needs to get his priorites straight.

[SarahxJoy]

*Sigh* I can kinda' relate. It really does suck when you possibly love someone after splitting from them and being invisible in their eyes while they're with one of your friends. I think you should confront your friend and ask him about those two rules. That is wrong. For him to invite your ex, and be on her like that, and then not even ask you about getting with her. Confront him. And your ex too, if you feel the need.

[x AZN D0RKii x]

aww that sucks .. but you just gotta try to move on . and your friend doesn`t seem like a really good *friend* to me .

[*CEP*]

f**k him. where does he live? I'll go get a frikken ugly how to rape his @$$ and then i'll get her to videotape it and send it to your ex so they will never do that to each other again, and i'll make shure to kick him, sending his flying @$$ to mercury where he can burn for all i care. what a bastard. dont even talk to that foo. he needs to get a frikken life and he needs to get his priorites straight.

Calm Down.
Leave the "hows" alone.
Breath.. in... and outt...woosahh

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[xjjajeengx]

Calm Down.
Leave the "hows" alone.
Breath.. in... and outt...woosahh

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

what happened to drinking sake, jose?

anyways! yea sory for the whole angerness there. it pisses me off everytime someone has to go through that. its like... you dont deserve to go through that. thass like... yea

[HuGs_fOr_yOu]

awww im sorrie..no1 deserves to be hurt like that..here's a flower cheer up

[kyuubi319]

man, i would kick the little arse's ass. [hehe, i made a foonie]
id get down to some SERIOUS b*tch slappin
but its okay dude, feel better hun

[AzNl2iCeB0i69]

..woa .. deng .. thx guyz.. thx fo da support and ideas ..

but ye.. reading on some of your ideas made me think .. and .. i confronted him n ye.. straightened thingz up.. he didnt know i still had feelings for her .. n ye.. got over all these confusion n stuff.. so we're aight now .. i guess.. we're still hommies.. but somethin kinda changed to me .. but ye..

..in da other hand.. me n my ex.. imma juzz try n forget her .. kinda found out that she really forgot bout meh. . and she's gotz her friend's not liking me 2 .. so ye.. all gewd ..

so newayz.. thx to every1 who shared they're thoughts n ideas.. wuz really helpfull!
...xept that "hows" idea.. kinda scary.. haha but thx guyz!

Thank You-

[*CEP*]

what happened to drinking sake, jose?

Sake? What sake? *hic*
I did not have any relations with that sake bottle.
*passes out*

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[cutey2kc]

man im sorry to hear that..i don't think that's what friends do at all..they're not even supposed to be doin that! specially w/ ur ex..u should talk this over w/ him..tell him how you feel..communication's the key..so when u do talk it over w/ him..he'll stop wht he's doin that bothers u so much..tell him how u felt when he did all that to ur ex..hope this helped! good luck!!

[f00LisH_h3aRt63]

omg i seriously know how you feel. my ex is together with my former best friend right now. seeing them or knowing that they're together hurts me soo much. i seriously thought she was my best friend. but i guess a guy is much more than our friendship. im still not over it and because of this i have trust issues now.

im sorry that this situation has happened to you and you had to see it being done right in front of you.

jackie

[lookitskim]

then he's not really your friend... that is the most scandalous thing a person could ever do..

[*Weird addiction*]

aww....im soooo sorry buh i advice u to move on with your life....

[xsweetdreams12x]

Obviously, your "homie" is a hyppocritical jerk. He talks all about "boundaries" and all, and then has them cuddling right in front of your face.

To your topic-question, "Do good friends do this?!"; no because he doesn't seem like a good friend to me, in the first place.

I'm sorry you had to put up with that, but if I were you, I'd IM this guy and tell him why did he do that if you guys are supposed to be friends and all.

[slurp]

aw, it musta been really a night for you, since she moved on you should try too and you should front your boy and see whats good, well anyhow feel better and hope things work out for you

[xxTiNEExx]

shoot....i would reconsider how close myy "friend" rewally is to me....thats messed up

[swt_4s_k4ndie]

Omg.. I'm soooo sorry.. That happened to me too except my best friend planned all the "me and him going out", "me finding out that he never liked me and used me to get to her", and "she and him making out the day after i got dumped" What kind of F*CKIN` friend does that?! Anyway, I got over it because there's better stuff to do then cry over some Bi0ch and a m0f0. Just relax.. Its all gonna be cool

[SH0RTAYE]

he`s not a real friend x[

[whywasisostupid]

your good friend is wacked.... my friends friend did that to my friend. and it ended up to a war and now they dont talk no more.....

[LiL_RiZZLe]

yo hommie don't seem none like a hommi if he did that....yea me and my homegirl set boundaries like that 2 and when me and my bf broke up she was all ovr him! me n him dated for a while....but yea i really get wat ya mean...all i can tell ya iz that u'll find sumone for urself...and at sum point, she'll c it waz her loss,not urz....as for ur hommie, he a real jackass and if he the one that made those bounderies up then he should b listening to his own rules cuz wat he doin ain't right....i h8 peoplz like that cuz they hav no common sense....i'm not gonna tell ya to not b friends w/ him no more...cuz u guyz real close...

p.s
if they were macking at the moviez ya shoulda thrown popcorn at them....lol