how can i get a guy to like me? |
 Jul 30 2004, 10:38 AM
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i haven't had a boyfriend in almost a year now but everyone else has one. i feel so alone. how could i get a guy to like me that i would like back?
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Jul 30 2004, 10:44 AM
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 speak without words Group: Member Posts: 395 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,622 |
well uh. i don't think you can get a guy to like you. i don't think i'd want a guy to like me just cuz i got him to like me. just let it flow. it's not that great to be a relationship. be good friends with some guys and maybe it'll turn out to be something more. x]
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Jul 30 2004, 11:07 AM
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 hiya. Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,187 |
if you ask me thats not a great reason to want a boyfriend just because everyone has one . . and maybe thats why you feel so lonely i think you should concentrate on yourself and what you like to do then when you least expect it then someone will pop up . . . if you don`t know what you want how can you expect to be in a relationship. . my advice make new guyz friends you never know what will happen
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Jul 30 2004, 11:13 AM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
just chill and talk to guys and be yourself.
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Jul 30 2004, 11:29 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,638 |
i guess yall are right..
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Jul 30 2004, 11:48 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
just be u. if he doesnt like u for u, then he isnt worth it
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Jul 30 2004, 11:56 AM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
just be yourself. but being single isnt that bad. you have more free will
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Jul 30 2004, 12:13 PM
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 me now...me 4eva Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,710 |
i agree with evry1 else...juz b urself...and da rite guy will cum along sumtime
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Jul 30 2004, 01:46 PM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
first u have to find a guy that has the same intrest as you... not a random guy that looks hot.. then be ur self and dont... be shy... or prude... being prude is a turn off. trust me i kno
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Jul 30 2004, 02:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
werd, just stay the way you are and dont change yaself for him so he can like you for the true you
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Jul 30 2004, 03:12 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
flirt wit him
 hahhaa well i say be urself, be open, be who u are and dont be afraid of who u are, someone will appreciate u, trust me on that 
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Jul 30 2004, 07:49 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
Okay.... wth, I mean you want a boyfriend just because your friends do? Firstly, how old are you? And second, do you know what it's like to be hurt/played? Obviously, you have no clue about the latter.
If you want to snatch a guy just to be like your crew, then you may end up hurting him or even yourself. |
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Jul 30 2004, 08:45 PM
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 one.love Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,824 |
good things come to those who wait....
 if it's any concellation i totally know where you're coming from. but it's no use worrying about it. a great guy will come when you least expect it. |
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Jul 30 2004, 09:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
its so hard to get a guy to like u back. what i do is NOTHING, let love find u! it works for me. yep, i would talk to that person a lot and show feelings like caring and support. stuff that'll make the person think ur special. yepyep
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Jul 30 2004, 09:49 PM
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Hold him at gunpoint.
Then demand that he like you. There. Easy sh*t. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jul 30 2004, 10:13 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
you have to make urself attractive, something to get their attention, looks come first with most guys, then they see the beauty of ur personality ~_~
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Jul 30 2004, 10:25 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
yeah.. i agree with mostly everyone.. JUSS BE YOURSELF!!! dont try to buy new clothes, change your style, hang out with different people and dump your old friends, or be mean! there are tons of guys can appreciate the person that you are! ya juss havent met him yet!
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Jul 30 2004, 10:27 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
Haha, don't worry.. When you break up with your jerk boyfriend once you have one, you'll value being single.
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Jul 31 2004, 09:00 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
i dunt realy think dats possible. mayb tryin to b friends with boys , i do dat. nd somehow dey all start to like me. grr..
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Jul 31 2004, 09:01 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
u can'tmake a person like you, and don't get a boyfriend cuz everyone else has one, that's justt stupid. It's all about feel.... just go wit the flow
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Jul 31 2004, 10:57 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
 Haha, Jose.Ermm. Well, you can't exactly get them to like you.. just flirt and talk about things they like.. *shrugs* It'll happen sometime. |
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Aug 1 2004, 01:30 PM
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 usually sleep deprived..zzZZzz Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,378 |
act like yourself! if you pretend to be anything else just to get guys to like you and that gets you a boyfriend..it won't last long..you'll feel like he doesn't like you for who YOU are! you just have to be patient and be yourself, then you'll know the relationship actually has a chance of working out because it isn't based on fake personalities
hope i helped!
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Aug 1 2004, 01:55 PM
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 Dorkish_bum Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,946 |
single life is awesome. just live the single life happily and when the right time comes..the right one will come along with it.
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Aug 1 2004, 02:55 PM
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 s a r a h r o s e <3 Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,944 |
thats not really possible- when a guy likes you, he likes you for who you are, if you pretend to be something else he`ll like you for how you acted, you dont want that do you?? and hey, you had a boyfriend before lol, cherish being single- im cherishing :]
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Aug 1 2004, 03:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
yeah..just be yourself
im sure a guy will like you for who you are one day just be patient
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