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 Jul 28 2004, 07:48 PM
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 dizzy me up.  Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139  |
not sure if deres a topic on this already but...
would u keep on holding on or let go if you reallly loved someone but then you're assuming they like someone else cuz its obvious. i mean really, loved. like taking all their mistakes and all and still see a imperfect person perfectly. |
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Jul 28 2004, 07:57 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
well. i hear this works, after you give up/stop liking them, they start to like you.
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Jul 28 2004, 08:51 PM
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dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
hhahaha i noe wut u mean dat happened b4.
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Jul 28 2004, 10:08 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
hmm.. i wouldnt like hold on like its an obsession or something too serious.. but i wont forget it tho lol
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Jul 28 2004, 11:29 PM
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 Pimp Status Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,200 |
You know after you break up with someone the choice to hold on always lingers in ones mind... At least it lingers in the peoples who really loved that person. I, for one, still love my ex who broke up with me in december. Alot of people tell me to move on, and others have told me to hold on... It all depends on how you feel... I am ok with holding on not because I have to, but because I still feel something deep within... moving on and holding on are options, and neither one of them is wrong to follow... You do what your heart tells you, and by doing so, you've made the right decision
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Jul 29 2004, 02:43 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 132 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,101 |
u can always love that person, doesn't matter if they are with another person u kno.
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Jul 29 2004, 02:52 PM
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 i <3 u Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 750 |
that situation is EXACTLY like mine. i've been with my boyfriend for a year and 7 months but a week ago he told me how he really felt and said that he wanted to try something new. that really hurt me. he's never "actually" been with a viet girl and wanted to try that out...and i REALLY REALLY love him. we've been on and off but i know he loves me too. i just don't want to get hurt anymore. i want to keep holding on and hoping he'll come back to me but what will i do then? i can't trust him but i love him no matter what. some told me to move on, some tell me to still hold on...but i just don't know what i should do in my heart. i hear some things about him saying why he wants to stay with me (because he needs a prom date) and that just pisses me off....so i'm not sure. *sigh* so depressed.
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Jul 29 2004, 03:17 PM
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id would probably try to let go.....even if its really hard to let go...
-Courtney |
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Jul 29 2004, 03:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
the longer u hold, the deeper the depression. if u let go, there are still chances for u
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Jul 29 2004, 07:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
It's probably not very healthy to continue to hold on when he obviously likes someone else. but then again, it's hard to forget someone you really love... If I was in your situation, I guess I would keep him in mind, but wouldn't let the thoughts of him stop me from exploring other options and testing out the other fish in the sea... so basically, yea i'll always keep those fond thoughts of him in mind... but if i see a better opportunity, I would probably not pass it up just to wait for him, especially since he's moved on... (if he can date/like other girls, why can't i?) ya know?
hope that helps. take care~ |
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Jul 29 2004, 07:58 PM
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 Jeff The Crazy Jew Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,689 |
I like the title of this thread...Its the name of the album by "Postal Service"...what greate techno
 sorry random 
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