wow...this is kind of akward...but, i wanna know |
 Jul 27 2004, 09:42 PM
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 i`m tOo secksie fOr mai shirt  Group: Member Posts: 129 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,650  |
my biological father left when i was born...so...yea...that happens to a lot of people i know...
but today...after i went to see anchorman *awesome*, i came home...and my moms like...your father called...i kind of went speechless he said that he wanted to talk to me when i`m ready....but i dont know when i will be ready and when i am ready...what am i gonna say... this is all kind of hittin me fast...so...any advice would be nice ((psst. . .i wasnt sure which forum this should be in...so correct me if im wrong please)) |
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Jul 27 2004, 09:44 PM
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 ÖÐÎÄÈí¼þ Group: Member Posts: 2,072 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,655 |
Do you have any feelings towards him at all? Say it to him. He's the one who wants to talk to you so I assume he has something to say. Maybe you can just listen to what he has to say and then say what you think.
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Jul 27 2004, 09:59 PM
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 hi, my name is brianna! =] Group: Official Member Posts: 5,764 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,114 |
Wow..
Srry, my mind is sort of blank right now, I'll edit this later. xD |
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Jul 27 2004, 10:03 PM
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 JeSsIcA rAyE Group: Member Posts: 782 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,977 |
do you know why he left???........ that should factor in and also possible he is older and more mature now........ though situation
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Jul 27 2004, 10:03 PM
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 banned Group: Member Posts: 1,589 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,768 |
............................................. (pls dont mind me)
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Jul 27 2004, 10:05 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE(Luster Soldier @ Jul 27 2004, 9:44 PM) Do you have any feelings towards him at all? Say it to him. He's the one who wants to talk to you so I assume he has something to say. Maybe you can just listen to what he has to say and then say what you think. ^I agree. Ermm. If you think you're ready.. then you probably are.. 
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Jul 27 2004, 10:10 PM
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 Your love is a razorblade kiss ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,794 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,959 |
sry... my head is kinda white rite now. i'll drop by later
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Jul 27 2004, 10:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,749 |
Juss tell him wat u think/feel..don't be scared..and just like..say everything straight out
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Jul 27 2004, 10:21 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
What are you feeling?
Ar eyou angry with him? Or excited? Anyway, he's the one who wants to talk. Let him talk and listen. Reply with whatever comes out of your heart. I suggest let the conversation come naturally rather than memorizing lines or anything |
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Jul 27 2004, 11:03 PM
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 t a c o s Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
usually you want to let cookies sit out for a good 10 minutes before eating them. cool down time
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Jul 27 2004, 11:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,412 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,012 |
talk to him
tell him about your feelings. maybe he feels really bad right now about leaving you... |
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Jul 27 2004, 11:27 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
well he is ur father afteralll... jus talk to him like a friend and get to kno him
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Jul 27 2004, 11:49 PM
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i`m tOo secksie fOr mai shirt Group: Member Posts: 129 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,650 |
thanks...all of you!
ya`ve been a great help =] |
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Jul 28 2004, 12:24 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
i have absolutely no idea.
 i guess just be yourself and stuff. of course, you dont have to talk to him if you dont want to. i would suggest talking to him on the phone before you meet him in person. that way itll be at least a little less awkward. |
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Jul 28 2004, 12:27 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 7,048 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,696 |
wow.... that must be a hard thing to go through.... well talk it out with him when ur ready.... and ask y he left u when ur ready.... remember.... only when ur ready..... i really wouldnt know how to treat this situation because ive never been in a spot like that before
and mods plz move this into the relationships forum |
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Jul 28 2004, 12:29 AM
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 t3h koolest guy in cB Group: Member Posts: 2,194 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 513 |
i just dont know. it has to be hard, and i sure enough cant say i know how you feel. all i can say is when you do talk to him ,tell him how you feel without him, and if you would rather have him with u. thats all i can think of. srry
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Jul 28 2004, 01:16 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
wow..i would be speechless too..just talk to him and see what he says first i guess..youre really lucky that your dad is calling and wanting to talk to you cuz other peoples parents who leave them usually never hear from them
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Jul 28 2004, 01:47 AM
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 --ALL EYEZ ON MEEH-- Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,473 |
Just say what comes from da heart.. Don't speak befoa u talk.. Yea do it wit Aloha (be real) and Just talk like ur talkin tooh ur mom or a friend..
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Jul 28 2004, 02:04 AM
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Ask him, " What's up? " and how's his life going.
 Have fun while you guys talk. It's good to actually like what you're doing rather than just forcing small talk.- Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jul 28 2004, 02:07 AM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
idk what i'd say or feel about that. dont think about what u want to ask him or talk to him about cuz it puts more pressure. like honeygurl said just say what comes from the heart or what comes to u. good luck.
Moved to Relationships  jackie
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Jul 28 2004, 02:09 AM
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i'd ask him why he left, and tell him how you feel about it.
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Jul 28 2004, 10:30 AM
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My name is Jason, not imafreakinazn D: Group: Member Posts: 2,008 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,432 |
QUOTE Juss tell him wat u think/feel..don't be scared..and just like..say everything straight out that's wut i'd do. juss the simple stuff. don't try anything fancy, and juss be yourself ^^ |
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Jul 28 2004, 11:18 AM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
if you DO want to see him, then do it... if you talk to him, just tell him how you feel, but definately hear him out, and see what he has to say
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Jul 28 2004, 02:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Uhh...
 I'm sorry, but this is what I think. Tell him how you feel, and the questions you have for him. If you feel it won't come naturally if you talk to him, then you're not ready. Don't plan the conversation out, either. It won't help. When you feel you're ready and you want to talk to him, then go for it. Good luck.
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Jul 28 2004, 03:34 PM
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 Roses are red so r my cheeks! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,115 |
everyone has already said what I was gunna say, just like, listen to what he has to say, then liketell him what you think about it, yah its never happened to me, so idk, I hope I helped :)
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