Is it important, Is sex important? |
| *Weird addiction* |
 Jul 24 2004, 10:23 AM
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Just wanna know if sex is important in a relationship....most of my break ups have always been about sex,my bfs wanna have sex buh i dont so they look for other reasons to leave me buh i know it's about sex!!
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Jul 24 2004, 10:29 AM
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Member  Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,713 |
Sex isn't important in a relationship. Guys are just like that! They like sex & things. Thats why it comes up to the question " Do they LIKE you, or do they just want you to have sex?". Ya know? I mean if you dont want it, you dont do it. If he makes you, thats called abuse. He's not the right guy for you, or you're just not ready yet.
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Jul 24 2004, 10:32 AM
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 Mz Nina Nikole Group: Member Posts: 1,343 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,273 |
i dont think it should be the most important thing in a relationship..all that trust honesty, faithfullness should come first.
Some guys r such horn dogs, if its about sex that your relationships is going downhill..its not even worth it. tell em to go jack off to some porno or something! |
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Jul 24 2004, 10:35 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
important? don't think of it as somehting you have to do for your boyfriend to keep it going. then he's got you trapped. it'll be like you always have to do it when he wants you to...
but anyway if you WANT to do it go ahead if your that involved and really love him and all |
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Jul 24 2004, 10:47 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,505 |
QUOTE i dont think it should be the most important thing in a relationship..all that trust honesty, faithfullness should come first. i agree. |
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Jul 24 2004, 12:30 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
actually, it's not.
all that matters is that there's fidelity and trust in your relationship. |
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Jul 24 2004, 12:53 PM
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Maybe they just stopped liking you.
Ever thought of that? - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jul 24 2004, 05:23 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
i dumped one of my ex's because she didnt put out...ended up regreting it and i realize i just wanted to be with her. sex isnt really important, its just something people in relationships do when they are ready and want to spice things up o_O
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Jul 24 2004, 05:45 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Sex is not important to me at all.
The most important thing in a relationship to me is.. that it's a trusting, honest relationship where you can tell each other anything. |
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Jul 24 2004, 06:01 PM
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 SeÑor Member Group: Member Posts: 311 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,709 |
Sex is like a lil bonus but it's not important... in fact... sex could bring more complications into your relationship so just be sure you're ready for it...
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Jul 24 2004, 06:03 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Is sex important... in the mating process, yes.. but to a relationship, I guess.. if you consider the consequences.
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Jul 24 2004, 06:38 PM
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QUOTE(sandra6645 @ Jul 24 2004, 8:23 AM) Just wanna know if sex is important in a relationship....most of my break ups have always been about sex,my bfs wanna have sex buh i dont so they look for other reasons to leave me buh i know it's about sex!! No, sex is never important in a relationship. You get my support for breaking up with boyfriends because they want sex. |
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Jul 24 2004, 06:49 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE(SupraS15 @ Jul 24 2004, 6:01 PM) in fact... sex could bring more complications into your relationship so just be sure you're ready for it... ^Exactly. I just don't think it's important for people of our average age on this board. You shouldn't be involved in those types of.. er.. activities. I'm old-fashioned when it comes to sex. I think you should only have sex when you're married. |
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Jul 24 2004, 07:00 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
sex isnt important....my bf asked me if i wanted to have sex, but i said no... and he took it allright, and we're still together. we've done everything else together though
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Jul 24 2004, 07:20 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,000 |
not at all, I'm the whole "not til your married" thing too but if that's all a guy wants out of you dump him and find someone who doesnt want just that and wants a real relationship .. tell the guy what you feel .
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Jul 24 2004, 07:25 PM
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aBABYmomma Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,380 |
QUOTE(mznina @ Jul 24 2004, 10:32 AM) i dont think it should be the most important thing in a relationship..all that trust honesty, faithfullness should come first. Some guys r such horn dogs, if its about sex that your relationships is going downhill..its not even worth it. tell em to go jack off to some porno or something! I agree... its not about the physical realtionship.. its about the emotional.. |
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Jul 24 2004, 09:01 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
i think of sex as a bonus.. its not needed.. but you can have it!
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Aug 24 2005, 12:58 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,256 |
QUOTE(mznina @ Jul 24 2004, 10:32 AM) i dont think it should be the most important thing in a relationship..all that trust honesty, faithfullness should come first. Some guys r such horn dogs, if its about sex that your relationships is going downhill..its not even worth it. tell em to go jack off to some porno or something!  But don't you think that... a long term relationship needs sex? not only sex... but sex may be one of the things? love, passion, communication, sex etc etc... = 100% you take anything out.... andare you really 100% satisfied? ... if passion was missing.... would you wish your relationship had more passion? I"m jus' sayin... sex ... like every part of a relationship is important.... How long can a kiss and hug relationship work out for? realistically? be honest with yourselves.... |
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Aug 24 2005, 01:06 AM
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 Call me Elsie Mae Group: Member Posts: 936 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,655 |
belh.. sex isn'y important.. io think if you can have a long time relationshiop without sex.. then deng i will admire that couople forever!! but a relationship doesn't need it!
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Aug 24 2005, 10:41 AM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
To some people it is, And your partners are asses if they arent patient enough for u to give up ur body for them and dump u.
For me, its kinda like the opposite, Ive dumped bitches because all they want is sex, I'm the type of guy who loves to cuddle, go on dates, make out for hours just holding my girl whether its on the couch, against a wall , on the bed or in the car lol. Sex is great, dont get me wrong, But the emotional part of relationships and social part is equally important. Sex shouldnt be important as people think it should be |
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Aug 24 2005, 08:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,207 |
YES DEFINITELY I LOVE SEX... AND HOW ELSE WOULD U MAKE BABYS?
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Aug 25 2005, 01:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
well if you want a baby then yeah but w/e
...when i got dumped..i didn't miss making out with him. i missed talking to him, and being in his prescence. thats when i was sure that sex is really unimportant. "you never know how much you have until you lost it"...and " you never know how much something means to you until you've lost it" ..its really rather true... |
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Aug 25 2005, 01:32 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
If a guy dumps you for sex, it really is good that you guys broke up because when you get into a relationship, you care and respect one another, not wait until you're eager enough to do "it". And I think having sex when you're still in school is very very stupid. We have the rest of our lives to be grown ups so don't hurry it up.
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Aug 25 2005, 10:07 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i don't think sex is really important.
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