cheating, ...how far is too far? |
 Jul 23 2004, 10:13 PM
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i was just wondering what guys think cheating is. like having sex or basically flirting?
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Jul 23 2004, 10:20 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
IMO, kissing another guy is the line, and woe to any gf of mine who goes beyond that...
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Jul 23 2004, 10:23 PM
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QUOTE(SSJ Kenshin @ Jul 23 2004, 8:20 PM) IMO, kissing another guy is the line, and woe to any gf of mine who goes beyond that... ^ what he said. I'd break up with her ASAP. Won't even listen to what she says. Toss her out with the rest of the garbage. Dirty chicks reek. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jul 23 2004, 11:48 PM
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 oh`em`gee Group: Member Posts: 21 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,423 |
Most of the time when my gf flirts, dances with other guys, etc, i dont really care. We have a lot of trust in eachother. As far as crossing the line...kissing.
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Jul 24 2004, 05:22 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
ok. in my eyes, cheating on my gf would be:
doing anything more than friendly with any other girl, unless if they're like really close to me, Example: relatives, close friends from way back when, etc. cause like, iono, girl's seem to tend to get a wee bit too jealous sometimes. that's just my point of view on it. altho i do see their point... but my gf doesn't have anything to worry about. i love her and i love only her. 
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Jul 24 2004, 12:10 PM
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distortion in its craziest. Group: Member Posts: 1,053 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,325 |
I would probably say when she kisses another guy. I guess flirting with another guy is OK.
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Jul 24 2004, 07:10 PM
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i <3 me Group: Member Posts: 315 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,888 |
anything above flirting. even flirting can go too far (usually you can tell when it's getting out of hand)
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Jul 24 2004, 10:25 PM
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 Cb's Emotional Writer Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,300 |
QUOTE(jo3 @ Jul 24 2004, 7:10 PM) anything above flirting. even flirting can go too far (usually you can tell when it's getting out of hand) I agree with you. |
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Aug 14 2004, 06:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 7,048 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,696 |
cheating is doing anything farther then friendly with another person.... DUH
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Aug 14 2004, 10:01 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
look but dont touch...even if u flirt, its crossing the line in my book...
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Aug 14 2004, 10:11 PM
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far is far enough!
no really! kapish! Kim Chee <-sp me fergot |
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Aug 14 2004, 10:17 PM
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kissing is far beyond the line d=
holding hands is beyond the line |
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Aug 14 2004, 10:29 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
hrm... when she starts to lie about the things and starts ditchin me for another guy, thats when its too far ;]
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Aug 14 2004, 10:34 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Cheating, I thought, would be like.. flirting and getting together with another person. That's how I see it.
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Aug 14 2004, 10:44 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
i would say touching of anything besides hugging... and if he kisses her... its basically over right there!
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Aug 14 2004, 10:51 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Looking >> Okay.
Hugging (If it's a close friend of theirs.) >> Okay. Hugging (If it's someone who's not as close.) >> Right by the edge of the line. Flirting >> Moderate. (Make sure it's not going anywhere.) Holding hands and Kissing >> GET THE EFF OUT BIATCH!!!!  That's how I see it. 
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Aug 15 2004, 01:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Cheating is when you kiss somebody besides your boyfriend/girlfriend.
That's my opinion. 
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Aug 15 2004, 01:37 PM
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Names Roy Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,503 |
lol i had an ex that used to kiss this guy hoping i wouldnt find out and then when i asked her about it she said kissing isnt cheating, so what is lol sleeping with them?! she didnt like that much... but then she told me she made out with him and that that didng result in cheating either.
i was like wtf? lol but she left me for him and now im very happy.. althought it was over a year we dated so it kinda hurt at first. |
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Aug 15 2004, 03:52 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
kissing i think.
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Aug 15 2004, 03:55 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
When penis enters vagina.
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Aug 15 2004, 05:09 PM
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lolx
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Aug 15 2004, 05:11 PM
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reaching 1st base is cool... but after that... oh oh.
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Aug 15 2004, 05:11 PM
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how bout when tongue entering ur mouth
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Aug 15 2004, 05:14 PM
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Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
i think that's acceptable in a way... it happens sometimes.
Edit: it's not cheating if she doesn't know... This post has been edited by Levy2k6: Aug 15 2004, 05:15 PM |
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Aug 15 2004, 08:37 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
QUOTE(Levy2k6 @ Aug 15 2004, 5:14 PM) i think that's acceptable in a way... it happens sometimes. Edit: it's not cheating if she doesn't know... thats sad. its not cheatin if she doesnt know. but...ya... i kinda did that though. kept it on the down low. |
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Aug 15 2004, 08:51 PM
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i think if the person does anything that has something to do with tounching each other or flirting is beyond the line already
 and isnt cheating far enough already? 
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Aug 18 2004, 05:45 PM
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lost in ur WoRLd Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,208 |
i don't think flirting is cheatin...but sex is cheating....
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Sep 12 2004, 03:06 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
u can talk n u can hug..n u can flirt..since the guy i like flirts wit girls alot..but its part of y i like him...but if they hold hands then ima kick the BI@tch who's touching MAH man!
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Sep 12 2004, 01:04 PM
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Getting kissed by another is cheating and ne thing beyond that.
But, flirting is bad enough to make me dissapointed in my baby.... Hmm.... lol |
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Sep 12 2004, 01:11 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,192 |
look but don't touch is what i consider not cheating.. any hand holding, pecks on the cheek, "incidental" touching is out of the question
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Sep 13 2004, 11:43 PM
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Flirting passes it for me...well atleast in this relationship. In the others I've had...it didn't matter much. But, when your in love...holy moly...I care sooo much about who he talks to and who he's looking at. But I know that mah babii wouldn't cheat on me...we're juss cool like that.
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Sep 13 2004, 11:52 PM
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i agree w/everyone else... kissing. my friend actually said he personally thinks as long as your not emotionally involed, your not cheating... altho i think that came from the time of hitler...
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Aug 14 2005, 09:59 AM
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NyteRyder Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,348 |
Would it be considered cheating if someone else kissed you? Not you kissing them? W/O your consent?
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Aug 14 2005, 02:34 PM
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QUOTE(NyteRyder @ Aug 14 2005, 10:59 AM) Would it be considered cheating if someone else kissed you? Not you kissing them? W/O your consent?  Probably would depend on how you reacted. |
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Aug 14 2005, 02:52 PM
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your decesion of how far it goes it up to you and your own thoughts...some people have sex with random people while married. And think it isn't cheating... it's just sex...so it depends on the person really...
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Aug 14 2005, 07:18 PM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I think FLIRTING is crossing the line...yah im very strict
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Aug 17 2005, 02:21 AM
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A little flirting is okay, but not kissing
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Aug 17 2005, 09:06 AM
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It's kissing for me. Or excessive physical contact with a girl (unless it's his best friend or something)
And to a post before: how the hell is it not cheating if the other person doesn't know? So if I murder someone, it's not really a murder because nobody knows? |
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Aug 17 2005, 09:06 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 893 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,217 |
It's kissing for me. Or excessive physical contact with a girl (unless it's his best friend or something)
And to a post before: how the hell is it not cheating if the other person doesn't know? So if I murder someone, it's not really a murder because nobody knows? |
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Aug 17 2005, 09:10 AM
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I think cheating would be actually going out with them, and having a girlfriend/boyfriend already
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Aug 17 2005, 09:18 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,881 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,134 |
cheating is uhmm; when the guy/girl your going out with now is going out with some other guy/girl
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Aug 17 2005, 11:05 AM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Cheating is kissing and anything after that. rooooooooar
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Aug 17 2005, 02:10 PM
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i define cheating as kissing another guy. it just shows that the girl doesnt know what she wants and probably isnt worth your time.
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Aug 17 2005, 02:19 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
I think cheating is a lot of flirting and anything after than that; kissing, excessive touching, etc.
Hah, my friend thinks that looking at porn can also be cheating... |
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Aug 18 2005, 02:54 AM
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GD. <3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,222 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,566 |
pshh. even THINKING about a girl in a more than friendly way is cheating. *grawr* i'm extremely needy, insecure, and possesive. the bf's just gonna have to bare w. me. lol.
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Aug 31 2005, 10:50 PM
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 hello. Group: Member Posts: 79 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,620 |
my partner has to be faithful 100%, so any little thing would count as cheating.
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Aug 31 2005, 10:51 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
sexualy comments & any physical behavior.
flirting is okay. we all have hormones and sometimes they go out on their own and we have no control. |
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Aug 31 2005, 11:02 PM
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QUOTE(hiphop junkie @ Aug 31 2005, 11:51 PM) sexual comments & any physical behavior. that, and hugs are all right, just as long as the girl really needs one. anything beyond a helping hug is  .
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Sep 2 2005, 12:33 AM
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 Heh, I'm so cool =] Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 221,660 |
QUOTE(tainted_angel @ Aug 14 2004, 10:51 PM) Looking >> Okay. Hugging (If it's a close friend of theirs.) >> Okay. Hugging (If it's someone who's not as close.) >> Right by the edge of the line. Flirting >> Moderate. (Make sure it's not going anywhere.) Holding hands and Kissing >> GET THE EFF OUT BIATCH!!!! That's how I see it. ^I totally agree with that. But also, any sexual comments is way outta line as well. |
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Sep 2 2005, 12:42 AM
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 M.a. x. Group: Member Posts: 1,913 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,641 |
I think cheating is being physically unfaithful to your partner. Just looking at a TV screen and saying "Wow, Pamela Anderson is HOT" is not cheating. That is seeing beauty and appreciating it. But if there is a girl in your office and you seduce her for weeks and then kiss her passionately in the break room, that is cheating. You are using time and affection and emotions that SHOULD be lavished on your partner, and instead spending them on someone else.
Cheating is NOT only about sex. It is about intimacy
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Sep 3 2005, 08:42 AM
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 WarPath Leader. Group: Member Posts: 668 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,721 |
QUOTE(distortedMIND @ Jul 24 2004, 7:10 PM) I would probably say when she kisses another guy. I guess flirting with another guy is OK. LoL how did you meet?got your crushy ?lol, with flirts and with all those,a relation be2ween two person starts , so if it happens once,next time it will be more easy,and so on,you can say bubye to your "TRUST" and all those. So IMO NO,flirting is not O.K >.< PS:beein jelous,means 2 things, you care/love or you're too obsessed,and obsession is really a problem. (doesnt matter if you are woman or male) |
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Sep 3 2005, 10:16 AM
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flirting isn't cheating to me. i mean yeah i get jealous when he does that, but it's not cheating. anything the boy definitely doesn't want the girl to know about what he did with another girl is cheating. whether it be holding hands or sex. (and i guess flirting in some people's cases...)
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Sep 3 2005, 08:14 PM
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 la la la Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 224,139 |
QUOTE(Jordan Inc. @ Aug 14 2004, 11:17 PM) kissing is far beyond the line d= holding hands is beyond the line I completely agree w/ you!! |
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Sep 3 2005, 09:30 PM
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I think cheating isn't about WHAT you do, but HOW you do it...What the meaning behind it is...You could make out with someone on a dare and really not mean anything behind it, but you could hold someone's hand and mean everything with it...
Of course, you never really know how they feel, so I say holding hands. |
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Sep 3 2005, 11:37 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(tainted_angel @ Aug 15 2004, 10:51 AM) Looking >> Okay. Hugging (If it's a close friend of theirs.) >> Okay. Hugging (If it's someone who's not as close.) >> Right by the edge of the line. Flirting >> Moderate. (Make sure it's not going anywhere.) Holding hands and Kissing >> GET THE EFF OUT BIATCH!!!! Perfect. Wait, i thought guys don't like their girls flirting with other guys even if it's not going anywhere
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