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post Jul 22 2004, 10:57 PM
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I like a 17 year old and he likes me. (14 by the way.) But he says the age difference is bad because its "like rape." Wtf? Is it bad to go out with a guy 3 years older than you?
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 11:00 PM
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ummm....i dont think so.....but it would be kinda strange, i mean a 14 year old goin out wit a 17 year old.... wink.gif
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 11:02 PM
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We go to the same HS and stuff..
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 11:02 PM
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ermmm...i dont think its toooo bad...i went out with an eighteen yr old when i was fourteen...but just be careful..dont let anything too naughty happen wink.gif
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 11:03 PM
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im 13... and im with my boyfriend who is 17 too!!! its not all that bad!! juss keep it innocent!! happy.gif
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 11:05 PM
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Thank you! I'm not the only one!
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 11:05 PM
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but, your still kinda young, so like when he graduates and goes to collage, you wont see him no more cause you still got like 2 or 3 more years of hs... wink.gif
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 11:06 PM
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Thats fine. I'm not looking for a life time relationship. Just a year or a while.
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 11:06 PM
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uhh...i dont mean ta b sexist but its jus gross if ur 17 n hes 14...

whoa i read it again, he lyks u but he sez its rape??? wtf is tha matta wit him? dont date him at all if he reacts lyk that...

its gona turn into sumthin if its a yr...u should only b datin ppl u c urself marryin...thas tha whole point of datin...u do noe that right...?
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 11:07 PM
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Lol. I'm 14. Hes 17.
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 11:08 PM
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QUOTE(cynthia_bell @ Jul 23 2004, 12:07 AM)
Lol. I'm 14. Hes 17.

ohhhhhh whoops then lyk excuse wat i sed...except bout tha datin thing wink.gif
 
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I dont think it's a bad thing. I'm 15 and my boyfriend's 19.
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 11:53 PM
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it`s not rape unless u hab sex with him, and even then he`s still technically underage
 
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post Jul 23 2004, 02:41 AM
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nothin wrong wit it. it's natural for girls to go for older guys. but play it safe aight?! ya dun wanna experience abortion at such an early age aye?! have fun and be safe!!

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post Jul 25 2004, 01:03 PM
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yeah im 14 too and my bf is 17. absolutely nothing wrong with it. the guy you like is too paranoid about that rule of "stageotry rape". tell him to chill.seriously. but if he's one of those guys who just wanna get in your pannies then SCREW THAT!
 
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post Jul 25 2004, 01:48 PM
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I'm 15... and my most recent ex was 19 (he still likes me though >.<)m and my current bf is 17... I see nothing wrong as long as ya keep things clean.
 
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post Jul 25 2004, 10:17 PM
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Where I live, people with a three-year age difference having sex, even if it's consentual (sp?) is considered statutory rape if the girl is a minor. Just dating, however is ok.
 
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post Jul 25 2004, 10:53 PM
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he seems to care too much about what peopel think. do you liek him of his looks? or his personality? age difference doesnt matter, its all on how well you guys get along and the maturity. like a 10 year old isnt really mature.. and a 15 year old would be too mature or seomthing.. dont you think? [my theory. it doesnt make sense laugh.gif ]
 
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post Jul 25 2004, 11:02 PM
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I don't see a problem in a 14yr. old dating a 17yr. old... It's only rape if you guys have sex or something (because you aren't 18 yet), but dating is fine.
 
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post Jul 26 2004, 03:13 AM
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no i realli dont think theres anything wrong with dating a guy 3 years older than u wen ur 14. i noe a bunch of gurlz who go out with guys like 5 years older so yea...
 
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hmm.. id say age doesnt matter... im going out with a person 4 years older then me.. the thing is, while a lot of people are against me for being in that type of relationship; id say this: "age doesnt matter... its experience and maturity. while our world bases a lot of things by age; there are still the few, that see through that and disobey that perspective depending on their situation.. they find relationships with a person that cant be broken by space from eachother.. or be effected negitively by an issue involved with time." .. so yea... just be sure you stay out of serious trouble.
 
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post Jul 26 2004, 07:51 AM
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naww.... 14.. 17.. if u 2 truly like each other it doesnt matter... im 15 and im likin a 23.. but god knows if itz really gonna work out.... but i mean.. if ur maturity got up to his level.. itd be fine..... =]

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post Jul 26 2004, 09:36 PM
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its no biggy, just keep it innocent
 
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no...my ex wuz 20 and i wuz 15...no big deal,maybe therres another reason!!
 
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post Jul 27 2004, 08:02 AM
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the fact that it's 3 years apart isn't a big deal... but since u both are young then it does seem like a big difference. Like if it was a 20 yr old and a 23 yr old, no one would even pay that any attention. It's not considered "rape" until he turns 18... which isn't too far away.

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now THAT's statuatory rape.... if there was sex involved. wink.gif
 
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now THAT's statuatory rape.... if there was sex involved. wink.gif

there wuz no sex involved!! buh we loved eachother...5yrs is nth!!
 
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post Jul 27 2004, 12:16 PM
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its not rape unless the significant other is 4 years or older

well the law in my state says 4 years is the limit .. huh.gif
 
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post Jul 27 2004, 12:17 PM
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I don't think age matters all that much. If it bothers you and him, then maybe you should talk about it. If not, then what does it matter? You shouldn't be worried about of what other people think. Although there are times when too old is way too old. But I don't think so in your case. happy.gif
 
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post Jul 27 2004, 12:38 PM
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I dont think 17 and 14 is bad...but if he was like 21 and 14 thats a different story...yikes!
 
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err i think its fine. "rape?" gosh. is he like thinking of sex already..
 
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post Jul 30 2004, 10:31 PM
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i dont think it matters as long as both of you are feeling it, namean? cool.gif
 
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post Jul 31 2004, 04:00 AM
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When I was still with my ex, I was 14 and he was 17. It's no big deal.
 
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post Jul 31 2004, 04:01 AM
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post Jul 31 2004, 04:02 AM
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Yes, It doesn't matter.. Although.. I think it'd be kinda weird if it was like.. 12 year old girl with 80 year old guy.. >_<
 
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^ We have a word for that:
Pedophile.
 
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post Jul 31 2004, 04:08 AM
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post Jul 31 2004, 04:08 AM
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QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Jul 31 2004, 5:08 AM)
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It's not paedophile =]
 
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My first boyfriend was the exact same age diff. He's 17 and im 14. happy.gif
 
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OH BUT IT CAN BE. Paedophile. Doesn't it look so much cooler that way?


http://hyperdictionary.com/search.aspx?define=paedophile
 
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no, i dun think age would matter if it was even 10 years, my parents have a 9 year age difference
 
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post Jul 31 2004, 08:51 AM
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mmm depends on the state law i think.. in VA if ur over 18 its considered illegal to go wit ne one under that age
 
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uhhhh....if theres love then go for it happy.gif
 
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Well, it's not rape YET.
Wait one more year. _smile.gif

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post Jul 31 2004, 11:59 AM
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it dun matter i noe ppo that goes out wid older guys..mai friend is going out wid a 21 yr old nd shes 15
 
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post Jul 31 2004, 02:03 PM
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it is not bad
unless you are having sex with him
then it is rape
 
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if you're both truly happie.. i dun think that age makes a difference.

[I]..i hope you open your eyes soon, before you realize i won't be there much longer..[/I]
 
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if you're both truly happie.. i dun think that age makes a difference. happy.gif

]..i hope you open your eyes soon, before you realize i won't be there much longer..
 
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its not tht bad. its just like a freshmen going out with a junior. I think its fine but just make sure he isnt in it for sex..
 
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QUOTE(xxxlilazngrlxxx @ Jul 23 2004, 12:53 AM)
it`s not rape unless u hab sex with him, and even then he`s still technically underage

its not rape unless u liked it


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its not ilegal untill he is 128 but who cares
 
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QUOTE(cynthia_bell @ Jul 22 2004, 8:57 PM)
I like a 17 year old and he likes me. (14 by the way.) But he says the age difference is bad because its "like rape." Wtf? Is it bad to go out with a guy 3 years older than you?

I think he means like if he turns 18 in a few months and you're still 14, you are basically like jailbait. If y'all "do it" and you all of a sudden become pregnant he can be in trouble in the eyes of the law.
 
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yeahh... there's nuin wrong wit it. happy.gif
 
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dude, im 13 my boyfriends 16 and its alll good. but i hate that age limit crap. i mean, geez.
 
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oh well yeah i was in the same situation u r...im 17 and i was goin out with a 14 y/o for about 1 month and...well...i think we had our differences in wut love meant...no i wasnt try to get laid or nething..she wasnt mature enough u know...so yeah ...that;s prolly y we broke up. so yeah....uhm..from now on...girls my age ..nothing else happy.gif happy.gif

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[FONT=Arial][SIZE=1][COLOR=red]hey! oh dont worry..... im like that too... i dont date guys my age.... my most recent ex... hes 18 and im 14. the one before him was 17. the guy i lost it to was 21. (which was totally stupid of me) the guy im interested in now whos interested in me is 19 gonna be 20 soon. but age is nothing but a number unless you make something of it. just keep your head up. dont let people tell you other wise. all the rest are just jealous. dont worry!
 
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No, it's not bad.
It might be a bit awkward, but it's not bad.
 
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i think its like... weerd blink.gif maybe because im not into the whole "3 years apart" sorta deal. i mean, for me, the limit is two years, but whatevers. Its all good as long as its you kno, s3x free.
 
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yanno wht..age doesn really matter..onlee if u get serious and hav sex w/ him..but just to be safe..don't hehe..newaiz..it's perfectly fine to go out w/ a guy 3 years older than u..i mean a guy 3 years older than me liked me..and it's OK..ur not doin nething serious..and besides..the onlee thing that matters is that you like each other..and just don't do nething that's not safe..and u'll be ok :-D good luck!
 
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I thought in most places it was, like, 4 or more age difference if both aren't over 18 is considered statutory if you have sex, but there isn't any laws against dating someone older than you(there might be religious ones somewhere though)...
 
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Wow there is alot of girls here who are going out with older guys. . . gives less hope for the younger guys But I never know I might even be dating a younger girl when I am that age .. who knows ermm.gif
 
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no, steals aaliyah's quote : "age aint nothin but a number".... (rip aaliyah!)

but yeah! i dont think theres any age limit...
 
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QUOTE(frzn_lilyv @ Aug 7 2004, 8:17 AM)
no, steals aaliyah's quote : "age aint nothin but a number".... (rip aaliyah!)

but yeah! i dont think theres any age limit...

R.I.P Aaliyah...
But, unfortunately frzn_lilyv, there is most definetely an age limit if one of you are under 18, but as long as ya'll aren't having sex and trying to get married and sh*t, there's no problem(legally, it's wether or not you feel it's right that matters the most in the end)
 
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actually it isn't any thing at all. it's legal if youare within three years of each other. I'm 15 and my bf is about to turn 19... SOme people are just mature enough to handle these relationships...Sounds like all he cares about is sex though if that's why he won't go out with you.

The only problem with these relationships is that you HAVE to make it clear at the begining that you can both work with the differences that your ages force on you...driving...skool....work...
 
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i don't think it really a big deal....but keep it on the DL (down low)
 
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If he doesn't want to go out with you, you can't force him to. Except the fact he doesn't think it's right.

Since you're 14 and he's 17, it isn't illegal or anything of the sort. Maybe it feels awkward for him since you're younger than him.... ermm.gif
 
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Im 15 and Im dating a 17 year old..when we met I was 14 and he was 17 and we have been together for a while and are completley happy... but........ before him I dated a guy who was 16 and I was 14 and age was ALWAYS ALWAYS a big problem he would make comments and stuff and it honestly made me feel like I was never good enough...When we ended I was crushed and my self esteem was pretty much shot to say the least..
 
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If you two really CARE about each other, then it's okay =D Just make sure he's a good guy who won't TRY to pressure you into having intercourse or anything. If you two do date, just remember that if he wants you to do something you don't want to, then don't do it and leave him if he continues to pressure you.

Plus, age is just a number. But it's tough to find an older guy who doesn't want to get into your pants, no offense to any guys dating younger girls. wink.gif
 
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Age isn't really a problem as long as you guys can communicate...just keep it innocent, if nothing happens then that's not RAPE
My friend who's 20 got with a 15 year old girl..and they're doing fine
 
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i date people my own age but if they are uber hot or i really like em..2-3 years off is uh doable i think...
 
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it's only bad when you have sex... that's what my law and justice instructor taught us. but when i was 14, i dated someone who was 17... he's now 20 and i'm 17 haha. and when i was 15 i dated someone who was 19. he's now 21. but it's nothing to me. as long as he makes you happy and you make him happy and no worries on the age difference everytime you go out... then all is fine and well. wink.gif
 
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It's not rape yet because he's not 18 yet...but my bf is like 20 and I'm 16...then yeah that'll be like rape if we have sex.. ermm.gif
 
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like everyone said before its cool if you guys really care about each other. Just watch out and be careful.
 
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and it's only rape if she says No and he doesn't stop.
 
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There nothin wrong with it. u both r still young. so good luck!! biggrin.gif
 
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post Aug 13 2004, 09:10 PM
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i dont think it matters just as long as yall keep it in the pants
no lawsuits, no pissed off people :D

--or if yall do decide to take that plunge, buy some protection
 
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post Aug 14 2004, 01:17 AM
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theres nuttin wroung wit it...and if you do hab sex just dont tell ne wun...lol...i was 14 and had a 19 yr old bf.....hes 20 now...and im turning 16 this yr...we were really good together..lol...i had strg feelins fo him....prolly woulda werkd out a lil longer if i didnt secretly love my ex gf...lol...thank bob i got bak wit her..hehe..thers ony 11 month and 2 day diff between us heh...nOT that IT MAtTaHz..
 
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post Aug 14 2004, 01:35 AM
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eh my friend is 16 and shes going out wit a 19 and she says its fine. (=
 
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post Aug 14 2004, 02:56 AM
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dont do anything naughty keeping it clean is the real thing...
 
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post Aug 14 2004, 04:02 AM
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Nothing bad with that. No one ever said it was bad. Again, love is not determined by age, race, or skin color. You can be 18yrs old and love some one at the age of 50. If your heart chooses to love that person, then so be it. Age is not a factor.
 
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post Aug 18 2004, 10:53 PM
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age aint nothin but a numba gurl ma bf is 17 and im 14...if he loves u he wont care about da age diff..
 
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post Aug 19 2004, 12:11 AM
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post Aug 19 2004, 09:02 AM
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i dun think that 3 years is too big of a diff.. lols I mean its only 3 years as long as you keep things nice 'nd clean XP
 
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post Aug 19 2004, 09:10 AM
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wat?! look, it doesn't matter about how old u are, as long as u love/like each other... rolleyes.gif
 
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post Aug 19 2004, 03:02 PM
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yeah i heard it was a statuatory rape...it sux and reallie hate it too.... well u know im dating a guy who is 3 years older than me... i love him, they cant change that. but u know ... we never had sex so yeah heehee juss sleep next to each other with our clothes on only.
 
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yeah, well if you guys like each other, then i think that'd be fine to go out but yeah keep it clean for now. _smile.gif and make sure his intentions are good!
 
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post Aug 19 2004, 05:43 PM
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WEll..once he turns 18..he's gonna be an adult..and u're only gonna be 15..so yah..I think 3 years is a lil bit old..but eh..if you like the guy, it doesn't matter rite?
 
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post Aug 19 2004, 05:48 PM
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ahh i have a frirend how is dtaing someone that is forty and she is only 19 i mean thats wrong we cant stand it when she brings him along when we hang cause we all look at him and damn he could be our dad
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 02:14 PM
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i had the same problem cept i think i liked him more than he like me but in the end he said i was too young for him (hes 17 and im 15) but i think that destoryed our relationship cuz after that we stopped talkin...im still a lil bitter stubborn.gif
 
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post Aug 20 2004, 08:45 PM
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i think its fine..i would go out with someone 3 years older than me ;-)
 
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post Aug 21 2004, 02:57 AM
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like they say..."age aint nuttin but a number" ...i go for guyz younger than me too..but juss keep...um clean k?heheh
 
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post Aug 21 2004, 10:02 AM
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ok, i don't think it is that bad, because i went out with a 16 year old and i am 13. remember that when he turns 18 you are going to still be 14 (or maybe 15) and THEN it's rape. Which could put him in jail or probation or something and that would suck. If he likes you, he likes you, but you also have to put yourself in his shoes. Would you want to go to jail or get in REALLY big trouble for a girl who doesn't want a life long relationship..just a year or so? I know i wouldn't. Just my opinion. If you guys aren't planning to have sex, then you are in good shape. Except for the fact that when he turns 18, he might WANT to have sex and if he can't have it with you he might turn to other girls and cheat. Anyways, best if luck. Have a good one. happy.gif

EDIT: I just remembered...in Connecticut there is a two year rule that doesn't let you go out with people who are two years older than you (if you are under 18). WOULDN'T THAT SUCK!??
 
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i DONT THiNK iTS A BiG DEAL UNLESS YOU HAVE SEX WiT HiM.
 
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post Aug 21 2004, 11:49 AM
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i dont think it is. im 12 & ive had 16-18 yr olds like me. as long as u lik them,i think its alright
 
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