hard decision!, Should I wait... |
 Jul 22 2004, 09:42 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan"  Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368  |
I have been talking to this girl for a while now and we are getting along so well and we like each others company. I told her that I like her and she sayed the same. The only thing holding me back is this other girl!
I don't what I should do! The other girl went into the Air Force and I was going to wait for her to come back! I have known this girl for many many years and like a month before she left she expressed her feelings for me and I was in total shock because when I hung out with her she never shed a single clue that she was feeling me. Now she called me from boot camp and lately I have been looking inside myself and seeing if I do liker her. And, taking sometime to think about it, I saw that I do actually have more feelings than I thought. She told me when she gets back from Boot Camp that she is going to be stationed here in South Carolina. What should I do? Suggestions? |
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Jul 22 2004, 10:12 AM
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 i adore you Group: Member Posts: 186 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,691 |
interesting...i've never been in this kind of situation before...but if it were me with two guys...i'd say fudge it all and screw the relationships. hehe, dont listen to me. sorry i'm of no help.
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Jul 22 2004, 10:17 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,074 |
Considering that the Navy girl never gave you any clue that she liked you before she left, maybe she just started feeling you cuz she was scared of being alone... or just needed someone.. or cuz there wasn't going to be many opportunities where she was goin. Long distance relationships usually don't work out.... and even though she's gonna be station in SC she might be moved somewhere else just as quickly. I definantly say go with the other girl... u like her, she likes u.. duh
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Jul 22 2004, 10:18 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,074 |
oops i mean, the Air Force girl... eh same thing
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Jul 22 2004, 11:44 AM
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I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Its not that we didn't like each other before but, the first time we talked things just fell apart because of our friends so things never did work out! But, I think I am willing to give her a chance...but, I am still torn between the both of them because what should I do with the other girl that is here. We hang out and stuff what should I say..."I just wanna be friends" after I told her that I liked her...wouldnt that be just ackward.
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Jul 22 2004, 11:51 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,074 |
once u pass the friendship barrier, there's no going back to "how it was." I'm just speaking from personal experience, though. Actually, i think girls can go back to being just friends better than guys. well, good luck.
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Jul 22 2004, 12:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Who do you like better??
Problem solved. 
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Jul 22 2004, 01:14 PM
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I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Its not that simple...
I dont know who I like better...thats the hard part.... |
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Jul 23 2004, 05:52 AM
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 DefJam Gangsta Inc Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 |
Greetings!!
go for da kill brotha. i mean dun kill her literally. just wait and see how things goes. if both girl really likes ya, imma sure they are willing to wait abit more longer for ya. if both decided to dump ya instead, at least take into consideration tat 2 GIRLS were at ya call or shld i say bidding?!  CHEERS CB!! |
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