me n mai bff lyke the same guy |
| *lolita kitty* |
 Jul 15 2004, 12:01 AM
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me n mai bff lyke the same guy.. its really hard because we cant get over him and he wont say yes to either of us. i hate competing with her because shes mai bff, but i reeeeally like this guy. omg i cant get over him but everytime i think of him, the second thing that comes to mind is HER and i feel sooo sad. its ike, ill never even have a chance with him, unless she stops liking him (not a good possibility)
 
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Jul 15 2004, 12:06 AM
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 pixel hybrid  Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
I prefer friends over relationships. There are a billion more guys out there.. and you and your bestfriend are risking your friendship over this? Whatever floats your boat.
Moved to Relationships |
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Jul 15 2004, 12:09 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah.
What Kim said.. friends over relationships! |
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Jul 15 2004, 12:22 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 172 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,277 |
QUOTE I prefer friends over relationships. There are a billion more guys out there.. and you and your bestfriend are risking your friendship over this? Whatever floats your boat. yea what she said. You shouldn't ruin your friendship over some guy. |
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| *lolita kitty* |
Jul 15 2004, 12:23 AM
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i believe yoo guys, but what do i actually do?
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Jul 15 2004, 12:19 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
wait a minute....YOU TWO ARE FIGHTING OVER A GUY THAT DOESN`T EVEN LIKE YOU TWO??! NOT EVEN AS FRIENDS?! WTF?!
 why do you still like him then!? it`s not like he`s going to like you or your friend JUST OUT OF THE BLUE. i mean...is this guy even WORTH IT? how can it be soOooOooo hard to get over him?! aren`t there even MORE hotter guys out there?! go to california! there are A LOT of HOT people there!! unless you already live in california...  ANYWAYS...no DUH you pick your friends over relationships...but if your friend doesn`t feel the same way...omg...what kind of best friend is she!? |
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Jul 15 2004, 12:30 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,726 |
Since u both like him u should just move on and try to find some1 else ur friend doesnt like.If you both find someone new then u won't be hurting your friend and she wont be hurting u.As 4 the dude,u'll get over him.there are a lotta guys out there just like him u just gotta look.Da best of luck
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Jul 15 2004, 03:32 PM
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pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
QUOTE(BlOnDiEcHiCk @ Jul 15 2004, 1:23 AM) i believe yoo guys, but what do i actually do? If you think your friendship is worth over a guy, you guys can fight over him. But if you're willing to give up the guy because of your friendship, you can go look for some other guy. You can talk about it. "Hey, wanna talk about you know, him?" "er, sure?" "Listen, I don't think our friendship is worth over one guy." And go on from that... 
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Jul 15 2004, 05:12 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
QUOTE(lilangelgurlpnai @ Jul 15 2004, 3:32 PM) If you think your friendship is worth over a guy, you guys can fight over him. But if you're willing to give up the guy because of your friendship, you can go look for some other guy. You can talk about it. "Hey, wanna talk about you know, him?" "er, sure?" "Listen, I don't think our friendship is worth over one guy." And go on from that... yup i agree. friendship lasts longer dey a relationship |
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Jul 15 2004, 08:37 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Jul 15 2004, 1:19 PM) wait a minute....YOU TWO ARE FIGHTING OVER A GUY THAT DOESN`T EVEN LIKE YOU TWO??! NOT EVEN AS FRIENDS?! WTF?! EXACTLY!!! isnt there a bff rule that ur not supposed ta lyk tha same guy??? i say that u both should drop him...bfs come n go but best friends r foreva |
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Jul 15 2004, 08:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Friendships last longer. Stick with her, but you can always still think about him!!
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Jul 15 2004, 08:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
does the guy have any feelings towards either one of you?
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Jul 16 2004, 03:45 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
a guy shouldn't ruin your friendship.
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Jul 16 2004, 05:06 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
i had the same problem. me and my friend liked the same guy but she liked him before i did. when she told me she liked him i was like "eww!!" but then later on i was more like hes not bad. i didn't tell her that i liked him cause i didn't want her to feel like there was competition or something. anyways they went out and i was so hurt but then they broke up (secret high five) and now he likes me..but ya. just wait. they'll brake up. thats what i did. i was so tempted to mess up there relationship but i didn't and now its my turn with him
 
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Jul 17 2004, 07:54 AM
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 DefJam Gangsta Inc Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 |
GREETINGS!!
frens are better. but for me, havin comfort in GOD is nirvana. ya think abt it aight?! CHEERS CB!! |
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Jul 20 2004, 01:17 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,638 |
frends always come first..
ur best frend should b thinking the same ding too..
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Jul 20 2004, 01:28 PM
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 original member. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,825 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,460 |
screw the guy. The relationship with your bff is more important than some kid. And if he won't give you the time of the day, what makes you think he'll go out with you?
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Jul 20 2004, 01:53 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i had this situation twice wit my 9 year long best friend lol we didnt let him get in our way but we still went for the guy while keepin our friendship lols
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Jul 20 2004, 06:12 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Remember that it is better to give than recieve...
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Jul 20 2004, 08:26 PM
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 i`m in love & always will be Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,769 |
^ agreed. if i were you i would try to move on because well this might be just for me but friends come before guys anyday
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Jul 20 2004, 10:34 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
the safest thing is for both of you to move off of this guy & find someone else .. no matter what if one of you were to choose to try to get him and succeed someone is going to hurt & it won't have a very happy end result .. it's your choice what's more important to you .. the guy or your bff ..
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