I need help about this guy, what to do |
 Jul 14 2004, 06:40 PM
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Ok for some time now i have liked this guy, and we have been friends for about 2 years and i really like him more then a friend and everyone says that he likes me more than a friend too..right so everyone says whats the problem, well see whenever we hang out and stuff we always are joking around never taking each other serioulsy. but i want him to know how i really feel. I have tried before but he just said; haha you forgot to say just kidding. So how can i get him to take me seriously?
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Jul 14 2004, 06:42 PM
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Tell him how you feel, but when he says, "You forgot to say just kidding," tell him you're not.
Good luck. 
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Jul 14 2004, 07:02 PM
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maybe you can tell him you wanna have a serious talk and then you can tell him how you feel..just be sure youre not smiling so much when you say it cuz then he'll think youre joking with him...i think hes just in denial right now cuz he doesnt want your friendship to change or something
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Jul 14 2004, 07:43 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,863 |
k thanks guys it helps
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Jul 14 2004, 07:46 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
tell him again and go i wasnt kidding.. lol
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Jul 14 2004, 08:40 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
say you want to try being more than just friends, and tell him how u feel. If hes ur friend and he somewat likes u more than a friend,things should work out......
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Jul 14 2004, 08:41 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
When you take relationship too seriously, it ceases to be funny.
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Jul 15 2004, 12:21 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Jul 14 2004, 8:41 PM) When you take relationship too seriously, it ceases to be funny. ^^ that`s true. don`t lose the laughter between you two. i mean...to make him know you`re serious...KISS HIM! 
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Jul 15 2004, 12:37 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,726 |
Let him know u have something very serious to say and that ur not joking first.And then say what u have to say. good luck
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Jul 15 2004, 12:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,412 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,012 |
aw if he is not seriously about the relationship you want, then just forget it! i mean, if you guys DO get into a relationship, dont you think he wont take it seriously?
talk it with him. =] |
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Jul 17 2004, 09:13 AM
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 DefJam Gangsta Inc Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 |
Greetings!!
pull his ear and tell him ya not joking!!  den he will realise ya serious. after which, ya tell him how ya feel. tat's da only way ya gotta get his attention. for a moment, ya already caught him off-guard. ya take it from there aight?! CHEERS CB!! |
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Jul 17 2004, 01:45 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
talk to him 1 on 1 and tell him that you're serious
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Jul 18 2004, 05:41 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
QUOTE(x3_kelly @ Jul 17 2004, 1:45 PM) talk to him 1 on 1 and tell him that you're serious yup i agree.. look him in the eyeee! |
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Jul 18 2004, 11:32 PM
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juss tell him to sit down n listen n that u really wanna talk to him...
yeahh... that might be hard... but... we all havta overcome are fears... n juss tell him how u really feel... n that... ur NOT KIDDING... |
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Jul 20 2004, 12:37 AM
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tell him you need to tell him something important. ask him if he really likes you as more than a friend, seriously. if he laughs then tell him how you feel and if he just laughs again maybe he was just lying.
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Jul 20 2004, 02:42 AM
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 Visible_TrUst Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,030 |
like everyone else is saying let him know it serious and that you have to let him know how you feel...and if it doesnt work it then it doesnt have to be the end of the friendship because in situations like this that is what is feared the most...
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Aug 18 2004, 05:35 PM
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lost in ur WoRLd Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,208 |
ok well mayb he's jus really scared of taking things seriously...tell him that ur serious...if he still duzn't get it then mayb he's not the right person for u....
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Aug 19 2004, 12:26 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 194 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,822 |
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Aug 19 2004, 12:29 AM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
I think I'm going to train myself to type by smashing my forehead on the keyboard since I'm typing the next sentence WAY too much. Ask him out, if he declines move on.
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Aug 19 2004, 08:47 AM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
Tell him how you feel 'nd tell him that you aren't joking. ..'nd maybe wehn he sed "You forgot to say just kidding" its cuz' hes prolly scared..to fall in "love" .. XP
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