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 Oct 16 2009, 03:54 AM
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Eternal Syn  Group: Member Posts: 398 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,000  |
If you saw your significant other matching with a friend that is of the opposite sex how would you react if you found out that it was intentional.
It happened to me and it bugs the living sht out of me. Maybe because I view matching more as a couples only thing; not matching all the time, but occasionally. I've yet to see friends of the opposite sex match before unless they liked each other. Am I trippin' or do I have a legitimate case of worry? |
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Oct 16 2009, 08:06 AM
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QUOTE(Ekay @ Oct 16 2009, 04:54 AM)  Maybe because I view matching more as a couples only thing; not matching all the time, but occasionally. Hm. I think you're thinking of sex, actually. |
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Oct 16 2009, 09:27 AM
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Eternal Syn Group: Member Posts: 398 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,000 |
No, what I say is actually quite literal.
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Oct 16 2009, 10:10 AM
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I'm sure you're not the only one that feels like this.
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Oct 16 2009, 10:20 AM
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are you telling me that if i match clothes with the girl i like we will be dating?
now think about your situation. |
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Oct 16 2009, 12:21 PM
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Eternal Syn Group: Member Posts: 398 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,000 |
No, but isn't that generally the pattern? What would be your reason for matching with a girl if you didn't like her excluding something like school events or costume parties, since it is near Halloween.
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Oct 16 2009, 06:37 PM
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 /人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
You're paranoid as f*ck. I doubt that your girlfriend is cheating on you because she happened to wear similar clothes as a friend at some point in her life.
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Oct 16 2009, 06:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 5,880 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,382 |
QUOTE(Ekay @ Oct 16 2009, 12:21 PM) No, but isn't that generally the pattern? What would be your reason for matching with a girl if you didn't like her excluding something like school events or costume parties, since it is near Halloween. seriously. paranoid. i wouldnt worry about. and its disturbing that you would ask an online forum before him. dont sound paranoid or sound like your trying to make him feel guilty but just ask him! tell him it doesnt make you comfortable. but just like us he will prob say or think. what the crap. i just wore matching clothes whats the big deal. and how do you know it isnt just a coincidence? |
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Oct 16 2009, 07:21 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
QUOTE(Ekay @ Oct 16 2009, 12:21 PM) No, but isn't that generally the pattern? What would be your reason for matching with a girl if you didn't like her excluding something like school events or costume parties, since it is near Halloween. lol I couldn't figure out that your OP was about matching clothes. I was like matching what? Chemistry? Personality? Matching clothing would be the last thing I'd think of when it comes to being interested in someone. Besides if a guy is wearing the same thing as me he's probably cross dressing. And that's not attractive to me.
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Oct 16 2009, 07:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
Awh, don't worry.
I think you're qt. |
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Oct 16 2009, 07:24 PM
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 Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
Dude, don't be that boyfriend. That boyfriend who get's pissed at a girl for having a guy friend. A guy friend she probably knew before she even started dating your ass. That boyfriend is annyoing as f*ck.
QUOTE(karmakiller @ Oct 16 2009, 07:21 PM) lol I couldn't figure out that your OP was about matching clothes. I was like matching what? Chemistry? Personality? Matching clothing would be the last thing I'd think of when it comes to being interested in someone. Besides if a guy is wearing the same thing as me he's probably cross dressing. And that's not attractive to me. lol I thought he meant like matching in project partners at school or something. |
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Oct 16 2009, 08:08 PM
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/人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
QUOTE(karmakiller @ Oct 16 2009, 07:21 PM) cross dressing not attractive orly? 
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Oct 16 2009, 09:52 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
Nice tights Cj ;)
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Oct 16 2009, 10:09 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 5,880 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,382 |
that looks like the vest i have.
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Oct 16 2009, 10:13 PM
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Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
Don't judge me CJ
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Oct 17 2009, 02:25 AM
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Eternal Syn Group: Member Posts: 398 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,000 |
@jcp I'm a guy. Yes, I did let her know that it bugged me, but I was just wondering what people generally thought about it. It wasn't coincidence, they did plan it. @Iwontrapeyou: I'm not trying to be the boyfriend who doesn't allow his girlfriend to have guy friends. That's the last thing I'd want to do; I view that as unfair especially if I can have friends that are girls while she can't have friends that are guys? Ridiculous.
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